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                   Mail Order Bride Law
                  Brands U.S. Men Abusers 
                  
                  
                    
                  
                  The Violence Against Women
                  Act (VAWA), www.americanchronicle.com/articles/viewArticle.asp?articleID=4620
                   
                  signed by President Bush on January 5th, contains
                  an almost unnoticed attachment. Subtitle D, also
                  known as the International Marriage Broker
                  Regulation Act of 2005 (IMBA), will become law when
                  VAWA is enacted. The IMBA is an ostensibly noble
                  measure with a surprising and ominous
                  twist.
                  
                  The scant attention
                  directed toward the IMBA has been positive.
                  heraldnet.com/stories/05/12/19/100loc_b1bride001.cfm
                   
                  A headline in Washington State's The Daily Herald
                  announced, "Mail-order brides gain protection" with
                  the subtitle "The mother of a murdered immigrant
                  hopes that pending federal legislation will keep
                  foreign brides from abuse, neglect and
                  slavery." 
                  
                  The "murdered immigrant"
                  refers to heraldnet.com/stories/05/12/22/100edi_editorial001.cfm
                   
                  Anastasia King, a 'mail-order bride' from the
                  former Soviet Union. In 2000, King was murdered by
                  her husband in Washington State where the case
                  created a sensation largely because the husband had
                  violently assaulted a previous mail-order bride.
                  Thus, the IMBA was introduced to Congress by
                  Washington State Rep. Rick Larsen and Sen. Maria
                  Cantwell who championed the measure for
                  years. 
                  
                  Some parts sound
                  reasonable. For example, U.S. consulates will
                  provide 'mail-order' brides with brochures that
                  explain their legal rights.  
                  
                  Other parts sound
                  draconian. For example, the IMBA requires American
                  men who wish to correspond with foreign women
                  through private for-profit matchmaking agencies to
                  first provide those businesses with their police
                  records and other personal information to be turned
                  over to the women.  
                  
                  Corresponding with a
                  foreigner is legal. Marrying a foreigner is legal.
                  Immigrating spouses and their husbands go through
                  rigorous and lengthy screening before visas are
                  issued. Mail-order brides in the U.S. are protected
                  by laws against violence. 
                  
                  Now American men who
                  wishes to pursue a legal activity must release
                  their government files to a foreign business and
                  foreign individuals for their personal
                  benefit. 
                  
                  (Note: the Act's language
                  is gender-neutral but its clear purpose is to
                  protect foreign women from predatory American men.
                  Application to 'male-order' husbands would be
                  incidental as such 'brides' are relatively
                  rare.) 
                  
                  The disclosure requirement
                  is detailed under the provision entitled
                  "Obligations of International Marriage Broker With
                  Respect to Mandatory Collection of
                  Information." 
                  
                  An international broker
                  cannot provide contact or general information on a
                  foreign woman to an American man unless that broker
                  first collects and discloses to the woman the
                  following information about the man: 
                  
                  --every state of residence
                  since the age of 18; 
                  
                  --current or previous
                  marriages as well as how and when they
                  terminated; 
                  
                  --information on children
                  under 18; 
                  
                  --any arrest or conviction
                  related to controlled substances, alcohol or
                  prostitution, making no distinction on arrests not
                  leading to conviction; 
                  
                  --any court orders,
                  including temporary restraining orders which are
                  notoriously easy to procure; 
                  
                  --any arrest or conviction
                  for crimes ranging from "homicide" to "child
                  neglect"; 
                  
                  --any arrest or conviction
                  for "similar activity in violation of Federal,
                  State or local criminal law" without specifying
                  what "similar" means. 
                  
                  U.S. law will provide
                  foreign women with extensive government information
                  on American suitors which is not similarly offered
                  to American women. 
                  
                  Nor should it
                  be. 
                  
                  Contacting a woman for
                  romantic purposes -- internationally or
                  domestically -- is not a crime. Those who do so are
                  not apriori criminals who must prove themselves
                  innocent before being allowed an email
                  exchange. 
                  
                  How many American men will
                  be impacted by the IMBA? heraldnet.com/stories/05/12/19/100loc_b1bride001.cfm
                   
                  According to Rep. Larsen, between 8,000 and 12,000
                  American men find foreign wives through for-profit
                  brokers each year. Presumably, a considerably
                  higher number attempt but fail to find a wife who
                  successfully emigrates. 
                  
                  Next to no statistics are
                  available on how many 'mail-order' marriages are
                  happy. www.cbsnews.com/stories/2003/07/05/politics/main561828.shtml
                   
                  A report on "the problem" by CBS accurately states,
                  "No firm statistics exist on the extent of abuse
                  suffered by mail-order brides, or even the numbers
                  of such women." 
                  
                  The few media accounts
                  that provided background for the IMBA referred to
                  two 'mail-order brides' who were murdered:
                  Anastasia King in 2000, and Susanna Blackwell in
                  1995. The murders are deplorable. 
                  
                  But no solid foundation of
                  data underlies Sen. Cantwell's claim of "a growing
                  epidemic of domestic abuse among couples who meet
                  through a broker." There is no reason to believe
                  that violence against mail-order brides is higher
                  than against women in general. No evidence supports
                  the criminalization of every American man who looks
                  overseas for a wife. 
                  
                  And, yet, such men are
                  easy targets. Men who seek wives abroad often
                  explicitly state that women here are not worth
                  marrying because they are too independent, ruined
                  by feminism, or 'fill in the pejorative blank.' If
                  some of those ideal wives subsequently say
                  "goodbye" at the first glimpse of a green card, I
                  can't muster much sympathy. 
                  
                  What I do sympathize with,
                  however, are the privacy rights of people who are
                  considered guilty until proven innocent. This is
                  especially true when a government violates the
                  privacy of its own citizens to benefit foreign
                  individuals. 
                  
                  What view of the American
                  man does the IMBA broadcast to the
                  world? 
                  
                  American men are so
                  predatory and violent that the U.S. government must
                  protect foreign women by providing police checks
                  before allowing the men to say "hello." The "Ugly
                  American" has become an article of federal law,
                  supported by Congress. 
                  
                  ©2006, Wendy
                  McElroy 
                  
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                  Wendy
                  McElroy is the editor of ifeminists.com
                   
                  and a research fellow for The Independent Institute
                  in Oakland, Calif. She is the author and editor of
                  many books and articles, including her latest book,
                  Liberty for Women: Freedom and Feminism in the
                  21st Century. She lives with her husband in
                  Canada. wendy@ifeminists.net
                  Also, see her daily blog at www.zetetics.com/mac
                    
                  
                    
                  
                   
                  
                  
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