Respect
for Marriage Act
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the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA) designed specifically for
heterosexuals, keeping members of any of the other sexual
orientations (all 23 of them) from receiving most of the
thousand-plus benefits, many financial, many federal. Since
this is America, after-all, we prefer laws and benefits that
serve those who wish to marry the legal benefits as well.
Here we respond to DOMA with RFMA. Sign
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Introduces the Respect for Marriage Act which would repeal
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Sen.
Dianne Feinstein On Respect For Marriage Act
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Obama
Endorses Feinstein's Bill To Repeal The Defense Of Marriage
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CSPAN
Gay Marriage Debate (DOMA): Brian Moulton (HRC) v Maggie
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Defense of Marriage Act
(DOMA)
How DOMA Affects Military
Families
About the Respect for Marriage
Act
Protections and
Responsibilities of Marriage
Obama Mulls Weighing In On Gay
Marriage Case
Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA)
DOMA unfairly denies married same-sex couples the 1,138+
federal protections and responsibilities that the government
provides to other married people, dividing Americans into
first-class and second-class citizens, with first-class and
second-class marriages.
Unlike all other married couples, same-sex married
couples are denied such important protections as Social
Security survivor benefits, immigration rights, family and
medical leave, and the ability to pool resources as a family
without unfair taxation.
Find out more about how DOMA harms same-sex couples and
their families:
How DOMA Affects Military Families
Gay and lesbian service members risk their lives to protect
ours while their families are denied the critical
protections of marriage because of DOMA.
DOMA prevents the federal government from respecting the
legal marriages of same-sex couples and forces the military
to treat married gay and lesbian service members and
veterans and their families differently than it treats all
other service members and their families.
Find out more about how DOMA harms same-sex couples and
their families:
About
the Respect for Marriage Act
The so-called Defense of Marriage Act, enacted in 1996,
mandates unequal treatment of legally married same-sex
couples, selectively depriving them of the 1,138+
protections and responsibilities
that marriage triggers at the federal level. DOMA
stigmatizes people by dividing married Americans into two
classes. Unlike different-sex married couples, same-sex
married couples are denied such important protections as
Social Security survivor benefits, immigration rights,
family and medical leave, and the ability to pool resources
as a family without unfair taxation.
Overturning federal marriage discrimination is a key part
of Freedom to Marrys three-track Roadmap
to Victory, which
also includes winning marriage in more states and growing
and diversifying the majority for marriage.
The Respect
for Marriage Act was introduced on March 16, 2011
in the Senate by Senator Dianne Feinstein (D-CA) and in the
House by Representative Jerrold Nadler (D-NY). The bill
would repeal DOMA, and return the federal government to its
longstanding practice of honoring marriage without a
gay exception.
House
Co-Sponsors of the Respect for Marriage Act
Senate
Co-Sponsors of the Respect for Marriage Act
Take Action:
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an open letter to President Obama
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your member of Congress
The first ever congressional
hearing on the Respect for Marriage Act
was held on July 20, 2011 before the Senate Judiciary
Committee. Witnesses who delivered testimony at the hearing
included Freedom to Marrys President Evan Wolfson and
Ron Wallen, a widower from California who spoke eloquently
about how hes likely to lose the home he shared with
Tom, his recently deceased partner of 58 years. DOMA
prevents Ron from collecting the Social Security survivor
benefits accrued by Tom even though they were married in
2008.
Watch Evan Wolfsons testimony
5:48
Scan down to video
12:50
Rachel Maddow
Read
Evan's written testimony
Freedom to Marry set three goals for our work with the
White House:
1.To persuade the Obama Administration to apply
heightened scrutiny to sexual orientation discrimination,
and to stop defend DOMA in court, because it is
unconstitutional.
2.To encourage the President to endorse the Respect
for Marriage Act.
3.To help the President complete his journey and join
the majority of Americans in supporting the freedom to
marry.
Through public encouragement, grassroots advocacy, and
lobbying, we have already succeeded in the first two
objectives.
In a statement by White House Press Secretary Jay Carney,
President Obama endorsed the Respect for Marriage Act on
July 19, 2011. The Obama Administration instructed the
Department of Justice to stop defending DOMA in court in
February 2011 and called for heightened scrutiny a
presumption that sexual orientation discrimination is
unconstitutional, rather than okay -- in federal
lawsuits.
On our third objective, Freedom to Marry is working hard
to encourage President Obama to complete his journey and
join the majority of Americans in favor of the freedom to
marry. In March 2011, Freedom to Marry launched its
Say,
I Do
campaign with an Open Letter signed by civil rights leaders,
tech entrepreneurs, pro athletes, and Hollywood celebrities.
The Open Letter calls on President Obama to publicly support
marriage, and nearly 120,000 Americans have signed on.
Click here for more information on Freedom
to Marrys Federal Program.
Other Resources
Respect
for Marriage Act Factsheet
Chris Geidner, Senior Political Writer for Metro
Weekly,
has written a series of articles tracing the history,
circumstances, and politics that lead to the passage of
DOMA.
Domestic
Disturbance
Marriage
Wars
Double
Defeat
Source: www.freedomtomarry.org/pages/respect-for-marriage-act
Protections and
Responsibilities of Marriage
There are over 1,100 protections and responsibilities
conferred on married couples by the federal government
including access to health care, parenting and immigration
rights, social security, veterans and survivor benefits, and
transfer of propertyand that doesn't include several
hundred state and local laws, protections conferred by
employers, or the intangible security, dignity, respect, and
meaning that comes with marriage. Excluding committed
same-sex couples from marriage means shutting out families
from the safety and security created by these protections
and responsibilities.
Taken as a whole, marriage law reveals a social consensus
about how to treat two people who voluntarily pledge to care
for each other and their children at life's extremes.
Marriage laws enable (or require) couples to fulfill the
most common wedding vows:
In sickness and in health. Marriage automatically
enables spouses to visit each other in the hospital; to make
each others' emergency medical decisions; to share a family
health plan; and to take medical leave to care for a sick
spouse or child.
For richer and for poorer. Marriage means that
governments, banks, credit card companies, and other
financial institutions will consider both spouses's incomes,
assets, or debts in such matters as taxes, credit, loans,
inheritance, divorce settlements, and eligibility for public
housing, Medicaid, or Social Security benefits.
When a child joins the family. Marriage
automatically enables the spouses to be joint parents,
covering such situations as making school or medical
decisions, applying for passports, passing on inheritances,
or being eligible for visitation rights and child support
obligations if the parents separate.
When death parts the pair. Marriage law enables a
survivor to continue to care for (or be cared for by) the
dead partner in such situations as making funeral
arrangements, inscribing an epitaph, inheriting a lease,
filing wrongful death claims, taking bereavement leave, and
passing on property.
Lists of protections and responsibilities marriage
provides
Discrimination:
Protections Denied to Same-Sex Couples and Their Kids
Some of the ways in which government's denying the freedom
to marry punishes couples and families by depriving them of
critical tangible as well as intangible protections and
responsibilities in virtually every area of life.
Source: From Why Marriage Matters: America,
Equality, and Gay People's Right to Marry
Defense
of Marriage Act: An Update to Prior Report
The GAO counts 1,138 federal statutory provisions in the
United States Code which provide protections and
responsibilities to married couples.
Source: General Accounting Office,
Washington, D.C., January 2004
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reasons for marriage equality in New York State
A list of all the 1,324 New York state statutes and
regulations that confer a right or duty on married
individuals in New York State most of which cannot be
obtained by any other way but through marriage.
Source: Empire State Pride Agenda, June
2007
Marriage
Inequality in the State of Maryland
More than 425 provisions in the Maryland Code disparately
treat or unambiguously discriminate against same-sex
couples, who are unable to marry.
Source: Equality Maryland, February
2006
Source: www.freedomtomarry.org/pages/protections-and-responsibilities-of-marriage
Obama Mulls
Weighing In On Gay Marriage Case
The Obama administration is quietly considering urging the
Supreme Court to overturn California's ban on gay marriage,
a step that would mark a political victory for advocates of
same-sex unions and a deepening commitment by President
Barack Obama to rights for gay couples.
Obama raised expectations among opponents of the
Proposition 8 ban when he declared in last month's inaugural
address that gays and lesbians must be "treated like anyone
else under the law." The administration has until Feb. 28 to
intervene in the case by filing a "friend of the court"
brief.
The Proposition 8 ballot initiative was approved by
California voters in 2008 and overturned a state Supreme
Court decision allowing gay marriage. Twenty-nine other
states have constitutional amendments banning gay marriage,
while nine states and Washington, D.C., recognize same-sex
marriage.
An administration brief alone is unlikely to sway the
Justices but the federal government's opinion does carry
weight with the court.
A final decision on whether to file a brief has not been
made, a senior administration official said. Solicitor
General Donald Verrilli is consulting with the White House
on the matter, said the official, speaking only on condition
of anonymity because the official was not authorized to
address the private deliberations publicly.
While the Justice Department would formally make the
filing, the president himself is almost certain to make the
ultimate decision on whether to file.
"I have to make sure that I'm not interjecting myself too
much into this process, particularly when we're not a party
to the case," Obama said Wednesday in interview with San
Francisco's KGO-TV.
He said his personal view is that gay couples should have
the same rights as straight couples and said his
administration would do whatever it could to promote that
principle.
Obama has a complicated history on gay marriage. As a
presidential candidate in 2008, he opposed the California
ban but didn't endorse gay marriage. As he ran for
re-election last year, he announced his personal support for
same-sex marriage but said marriage was an issue that should
be decided by the states, not the federal government.
To some, Obama's broad call for gay rights during his
Jan. 21 inaugural address was a signal that he now sees a
federal role in defining marriage.
"Our journey is not complete until our gay brothers and
sisters are treated like anyone else under the law," Obama
said during his remarks on the steps of the U.S. Capitol.
"For if we are truly created equal, than surely the love we
commit to one another must be equal as well."
But administration officials said Obama a former
constitutional law professor was not foreshadowing
any legal action in his remarks and was simply restating his
personal belief in the right of gays and lesbians to
marry.
Seeking to capitalize on growing public support for gay
marriage, advocates are calling on the administration to
file a broad brief not only asking the court to declare
California's ban unconstitutional but also urging the
Justices to make all state bans illegal.
"If they do make that argument and the court accepts it,
the ramifications could be very sweeping," said Richard
Socarides, an attorney and advocate.
The administration could also file a narrower brief that
would ask the court to issue a decision applying only to
California. Or it could decide not to weigh in on the case
at all.
The Supreme Court, which will take up the case on March
26, has several options for its eventual ruling. Among
them:
- The justices could uphold the state ban on gay
marriage and say citizens of a state have the right to
make that call.
- The court could endorse an appeals court ruling that
would make same-sex marriage legal in California but
apply only to that state.
- The court could issue a broader ruling that would
apply to California and seven other states: Delaware,
Hawaii, Illinois, Nevada, New Jersey, Oregon and Rhode
Island. In those states, gay couples can join in civil
unions that have all the benefits of marriage but cannot
be married.
- The broadest ruling would be one that says the
Constitution forbids states from banning same-sex
unions.
For weeks, supporters and opponents of Proposition 8 have
been lobbying the administration to side with them.
Last month, Theodore Olson and David Boies, lawyers
arguing for gay marriage, met with Verrilli and other
government lawyers to urge the administration to file a
brief in the case. A few days later, Charles Cooper, the
lawyer defending Proposition 8, met with the solicitor
general to ask the government to stay out of the case. Those
kinds of meetings are typical in a high court case when the
government is not a party and is not asked by the court to
make its views known.
Boies and Chad Griffin, president of the advocacy group
Human Rights Campaign, also had a meeting at the White House
on the case.
Ahead of next week's deadline, nearly two dozen states
have filed briefs with the Supreme Court asking the Justices
to uphold the California measure.
"There's a critical mass of states that have spoken out
and believe states should continue to have the right to
define marriage as between one man and one woman," said Jim
Campbell, legal counsel for the Alliance Defending Freedom,
which represents supporters of Proposition 8.
Public opinion has shifted in support of gay marriage in
recent years. In May 2008, Gallup found that 56 percent of
Americans felt same-sex marriages should not be recognized
by the law as valid. By November 2012, some 53 percent felt
they should be legally recognized.
Obama has overwhelming political support among those who
support same-sex marriage. Exit polls from the November
election showed that 49 percent of voters believed their
states should legally recognize gay marriage. More than 70
percent of those voters backed Obama over Republican nominee
Mitt Romney.
One day after the court hears the California case, the
justices will hear arguments on another gay marriage case,
this one involving provisions of the federal Defense of
Marriage Act, known as DOMA. The act defines marriage as
between a man and a woman for the purpose of deciding who
can receive a range of federal benefits.
The Obama administration abandoned its defense of the law
in 2011 but continues to enforce it. Because DOMA is a
federal law and the government is a party to the case, the
administration does not have to state its opposition through
a friend of the court brief.
Source: www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/20/obama-gay-marriage_n_2728680.html?utm_hp_ref=politics&icid=maing-grid10%7Chtmlws-main-nb%7Cdl1%7Csec3_lnk3%26pLid%3D273090
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Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is
threads, hundreds of tiny threads, which sew people together
through the years. - Simone Signoret
For the religious right to believe this should only be
granted to heterosexuals is one of the biggest forms of
bigotry. - Gordon Clay
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