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November
Romantic Vacations
If you have entered into what could be a serious
relationship, then at some point in time the two of
you should escape into a private romantic vacation.
A retreat for just the two of you. When your
relationship begins to fuse into a single life
force and your entire world suddenly begins to
revolve around each other, things can sometimes
start to get routine or dull. The excitement might
be starting to fade, although the love is just as
strong as it ever was, and life is getting back to
its boring old self. This is especially true once
you move in together. You get up, go to work, go to
the gym, do errands, clean the house and go to bed.
You cuddle up and watch the same television shows
together, make plans with the same friends on the
weekends and go to the same restaurants for dinner
out. There is absolutely nothing wrong with
becoming comfortable with your lover. Life can't
always be a daytime soap opera. But opting to take
a romantic vacation together can turn out to be an
indelible time together you will never forget.
There are many types of vacations you and your
lover can take. Choosing the one that is right for
you makes all the difference. Many people say that
a vacation with your loved one is actually one of
the more stressful times you can have where you
relationship is concerned. This is actually very
true; but it doesn't have to be. If you pick the
wrong type of vacation, you could potentially be at
each other's throats and ready to kill by the end
of the week.
There are two main types of vacations a couple
can take: A romantic vacation or a sight-seeing
vacation. But what is the difference? The two
categories I have chosen are very generalized but
there is a major difference. With a romantic
vacation the two of you will get plenty of
relaxation, rejuvenation, pampering, lounging and
easy time to spend together. On a sight seeing
adventure you and your lover will be on the
go-go-go. You won't stay in one place for too long,
you will be constantly planning the next place to
go and the next sight to see and you will be busy
navigating and trying to communicate with the
locals if you are in a different country. You might
have a wonderful time, but the stress is going to
build and build.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with a
wonderful sight-seeing tour with your lover,
especially if traveling is your passion. But if you
are looking specifically for a romantic vacation,
then you might want to rethink the European tour. A
vacation for two in Europe, for example, might
sound wonderful and even romantic. The problem is
that you are going to want to see as many sights
and countries as you can in your short time. The
majority of your time will be spent on the road or
train, in banks exchanging currency, looking at
maps and trying to find somewhere to eat and even
find a bathroom. Pretty soon you will find yourself
quarreling about which place to go next and because
you spend so much time side by side together, you
might get a tad bit annoyed with each other. This
is normal, but not very romantic.
If you want to escape into a romance filled and
lascivious vacation, then what you want is to go to
one place for the weekend or for the whole week. A
resort will have the best effect. Whether it is a
resort in the snowy Alpine peaks or a resort on the
sandy white beaches of the Carribbean, love and
romance will be the number one priority. There will
be nothing to worry about. Drinks are brought to
your lounge chair and meals are paid for. You can
take turns deciding what to do for the day, but for
the most part you both know you are going to get
plenty of lounging, napping and love making into
the day. There is nothing to cause you any great
stress and the two of you should be all smiles for
the entire vacation. A romantic vacation is a
peaceful vacation.
You should also take into consideration a few
tips to make your amorous vacation just perfect.
First, leave your work at home. Don't try and use
your cell phone to make business calls and leave
your briefcase and laptop where it belongs: at the
office. If you get caught thinking about business,
your lover might be less than thrilled; he or she
might even be downright insulted. Also, make sure
everyone in your office knows not to call you,
don't even give them the name of your resort.
Second, try not to worry about what is going on
back home. Let your worries and anxieties slip away
into oblivion. You are on vacation, try and realize
this. Some people have a difficult time letting
themselves wind down. Third, make a decent effort
to be loving to your partner. You are not the only
one on vacation, you partner also deserves this
break. Make unexpected and loving gestures in the
name of love and romance. Buy your sweetheart
something to remember the vacation with, give him
or a her a back rub on the beach, buy a bunch of
flowers from a vendor on the street or think of a
special way to say, “I love you”. If you
give a little, you will get a lot in return. It
will make your vacation the most romantic getaway
you have ever had
©2010, The Advice
Diva
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as you were a year ago. - Bernard Berenson
Diva Rebecca
has a long and exciting history of when it comes to
love, dating and relationships. Friends and
associates would come to her for advice and
naturally she became the Advice Diva. Having a
socialite status in the big city she decided to put
her expertise down in writing. The Diva does not
claim to be an expert or have certifications in
this area. She explores her own thoughts and
feelings and uses her own opinions formed through
her own experiences. The
company Advice Through Experience was founded and
she wrote four successful e-books published on the
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Getting Him
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The Divine
Secrets of the Dating Game,
What Women
Really Want and
For Women
Only: How to be Fabulous!
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host to an online advice column. The column is
completely free and a fun tool for everyone. She
puts some of the posts online in an anonymous form.
The success of her online advice column has led to
the creation of monthly articles for a variety of
printed and online magazines. For questions and
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