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Tom Blake is an expert on dating after 50. He has
appeared twice on the "Today Show" and has written more than
500 columns on dating and relationships. His "Single Again"
column appears in The Orange County Register in
southern California, is read worldwide and is often featured
on msn.com. He is a
professional speaker. He spoke at the national AARP
convention in San Diego in 2002, and will speak at the AARP
convention in Chicago this September. His book, Middle
Aged and Dating Again, is a humorous account of his
first year of dating after his third divorce. His new book,
Finding
Love After 50: How to begin, where to go, what to
do, is hot off the press. To ask a question or receive
Tom's free weekly column on middle-age dating and
relationships by e-mail, click on www.findingloveafter50.com
See Archives 2009, 2008,
2007, 2006,
2005, 2004,
and 2003.
Adjusting to the shock
of becoming single
Advising a loved
one
Alzheimers.
Follow up about dating
Anatomy of a
scam
Anatomy of a scam:
The downside of Internet dating
Another reason for
not having sex with a man too soon
Are men 55-plus afraid
of commitment?
Arriving in
Italy
Ashamed of Internet
dating?
Be careful at
singles events
Being a freemale
not so bad (in England)
Big, noisy family
Can I guarantee
love?
Can single women
find love on a cruise
Children,
grandchildren (and great grandchildren)
Conflicted:
Choosing between her man and her grandchildren
Dating around but not
sleeping around
Dating a widower:
Should Barb pull the plug?
Dating from a
man's point of view
Dating new singles can
be unpredictable
Dating while
raising a great grandchild
Does she care about
him?
Don't be fooled by
fantasy love
Don't sweat the small
stuff
Dreaming My
Dreams
The elephant in
the room
Email etiquette:
Behind the doctor's mask
Empathy and finding
love
Enjoying the domestic
side of life--briefly
15 years of
girlie stuff
Finding love when
one has a medical condition
First-date
etiquette; talkin' too much
The 14 G's of dating and living
while growing older
Friends-with-benefits
and widower dating
The futility of
loving an image
Getting out and
about
A gut-wrenching love
Importance of communication among couples
He's broke; I'm
not
How a widow of one
year found love
How important is
finding love in your life?
How new widower will
spend New Year's Eve
Importance of
healing before dating
Internet
dating
Internet
dishonesty, advice and being sized up as a steak
dinner
Internet
Love
Intimacy: Two
women, two opposite problems
Is romance possible
in Texas?
It's time to heal a
myth?
It's unanimous:
Judie should not lie about where she lives
Later-in-life
marriage? Take time to think it through
Loneliness
clouds judgment
Long distance
relationships can work
Louise found love in
Texas
Love after 50 and
beyond (far beyond)
Love on the
North Shore
Man 54 marries for first
time
Man's divorce anger
will fade in time
Marriage at mid-life
and beyond?
Marriage no longer
a slam-dunk decision
Married but feeling
like a renter: Another "dating a widower"
disaster
Married to an
abuser. Should the ex-wife come to the new wife's
rescue?
Mean man
mistreats a sweet lady
Men respond to
the age lying issue
Message for single
women: Don't overlook the blue-collar guy
Musings from the male
point of view
Never Married No
More
A new way to meet
singles
Older men get hurt
too
Older women
dating younger men: go for it
Old flames
reunite
On being quoted in the
newsletter
Open mouth,
insert foot
Partially-married
people joining dating pool?
Responses to man
musings
A romance 30 years
in the making
The "Rubber
Band" theory in relationships-- Is it real?
The rush-to-decision
generation
Seeking romance
with Richard the lion-hearted
Sex Too
Soon.
Should Judie lie
about not owning her own home?
Should multiple
marriages matter in a mate?
Should women lie about
their age?
Single man in
Texas
The six red flags
of loving an image
64 years of a man's
love
Some people are more
careful about picking out drapes.
Soon-to-be-married
teacher needs to protect her assets
Starting
Over
Stepping Around
Widowers
Sundance Film
Festival
Tennis playing widow rediscovers
sex
There are always
excuses
Tough talk for a
tough situation
Two widowers - two
women - two problems
2,000 miles between
them
A wasted month in
the life of a cougar
What happens in Vegas
doesn't stay in Vegas
What is Shirley to
do?
When cheating
isn't cheating - or is it?
Where single
women meet men
Where to go to meet
men?
Where to meet men
without baggage
Why Boomer
Dating is Difficult
Wife torn by husband's
Alzheimer's and her loneliness
Woman Korean War
Veteran finds love on the Internet
Women beware: con
man is out of prison
Women protect your
money
Women reveal their
secrets on where to meet men
© 2011, Tom Blake
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