She's No Longer Interested?
There's a girl that I've been interested in and
we do the whole flirting thing all the time and
some of it gets a little physical. I finally worked
up the courage to ask her out and when I did she
said that she liked me when she first met me but
she doesn't anymore. Should I take this at face
value or is there more to it? Was she just trying
to let me down gently?
Thanks for your time.
No, she was challenging you to be the strong,
masculine guy her image had of you when you first
met. By taking all this time to try to see if
something would happen, you've told her that you
aren't this guy, but that you're a coward.
Important lesson alert: ALWAYS close for digits,
dates or sex right away. If you wait, you lose that
power and have to rebuild it which is far tougher.
Remember the phrase "DO IT NOW!" ONLY use that
phrase to tell yourself to get moving - and always,
always get moving when you use it! Here's what you
do. Tell her you don't give a rip if she's
attracted to you now or not. Tell her she will be
when she gets to know you.
Then say, "Now, clear up Friday night. I'm going
to pick you up at 8 sharp so be ready. Oh, and by
the way - don't call me an hour before and claim
that something just 'came up'. Be ready." Mike,
because you've let this go on so long looking for
your courage, she's going to test you on this.
Believe me. It's not that she wants to be a jerk,
but that she's simply compelled to do these things
because she's a woman - and because you've let all
your power go. DON'T YOU EVER DO THAT AGAIN!!