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14 Kinds Of Kisses That Will Make Her Horny.
… Well, Hopefully!
Ok, these kisses are what women have told me, so
pay attention.
Women love to kiss and hug, so part of
satisfying her and being a good lover is to know
how to be a good kisser. And believe it or not,
long sessions of kissing, lasting at least twenty
minutes, can actually have some women come to an
orgasm. Kissing for her is very sensuous for
them.
But, nearly all men think that kissing means she
wants sex. It doesn’t! There’s a time for
just kissing, and, a time for kissing and sex.
Don’t mix the two up. Most women like to just
kiss and kiss and kiss, so don’t spoil it for
her by grabbing her breasts. She will let you know,
or you both will know just by the look in each
other’s eyes when it’s time. Until then,
hands off! Give her your trust so she knows that
the both of you can kiss without the sex being
involved. She may have had bad experiences with
guys in the past who went too fast, too soon.
Also, on those first dates, don’t French
kiss her, opening the mouth and/or sticking your
tongue in her mouth, unless she initiates it, since
this is more sexual.
Men dive right into it. Show her that you are
different by starting with simple kisses only. The
following are tips to make you more appealing and
to get her hormones going before you lend her your
lips:
1. Always have fresh breath. Floss and brush
your teeth at least twice a day. Brush your tongue
because that’s the main area you want to keep
clean. Use A LOT of breath mints. Nothing can spoil
the mood faster than bad breath!
2. Use a flavored lipgloss if you have chapped
lips. Better yet, use it even if you don’t
have chapped lips. She’ll love the taste.
Don’t use some bad-tasting Vaseline or
anything she may not like. Now if you don’t
like her lipstick, don’t be afraid to tell her
so. Maybe she has a flavored brand you may
enjoy.
3. Have a clean-shaven face. Most, not all,
women prefer this. They like to kiss a face
that’s baby soft. Some women like stubble, but
most don’t.
4. Don’t forget to wear one of the
women’s favorite colognes. It’s much
better when you smell great for her while you are
kissing her.
Now you are ready for some kissing and gentle
biting that she probably very rarely receives from
a man. Just remember, just like making love to her,
you have to be slow and passionate. That is one of
the things most (NOT ALL) women think makes a man a
good lover.
1. Shy Kiss: This is the kind of kiss you
should start off with, whether it’s a first
date or not. Start off by giving her that look. You
know, the kind of look a person gives when they
want to kiss you. Look kind of sexy towards her,
looking at her lips and deep into her eyes. Give
her a devilish, child-like smile. Move your face
towards hers slowly, still looking at her lips and
eyes. Look for any reaction from her while doing
this. Does she want you to kiss her or is it a
definite no? Move in closer until you are about two
inches from her lips. Now stop for a brief moment
and look into her eyes, and then at her lips. Then
give her a light kiss on her lips. Move away a
couple of inches, no more, and see how she reacts
to this? Of course this is the best on those first
dates.
2. Passionate Kiss: Start
off slowly by giving her small, little kisses at
the corner of the mouth, and then switching to the
other side of the corner, going back and forth, all
the while moving closer to the center of her lips.
Move slowly and passionately until you are at the
center of her lips. Then run your fingertip across
her lips and then pucker up and lay one on her,
holding her face with both of your hands on the
last kiss. The kiss on the center of her lips
should last at least thirty seconds. Use your lips
to tug on hers and slightly bite on her lips at the
same time.
Two other variations to this is to hold the back
of the head with just one hand, while using your
other hand to hold her cheek. The second variation
is to hold her head with both hands so you can
massage and scratch her head gently, and to gently
pull on her hair, while kissing her. Women love
this last variation. Massaging, slow scratching,
and especially gently pulling her hair as you are
kissing her is something women don’t get from
men. Also, rub your cheek up against hers a few
times, while still holding her other cheek or the
back of her head. This is a must! Try it!
3. Static Kiss: Without touching one
another, stand face to face on a rug, and start
rubbing your feet across the carpet. Then lean
forward and kiss her. I read one lame book on this
subject that stated you should do it in the dark,
because that way you can see the spark. You
can’t see it because of the position your face
is in. Pass on that not-thought-out idea.
4. Open-Mouth Kiss: This is a combination
of French kissing and opening both of your mouths,
pressing them together, and then closing them and
puckering at the same time. It’s sort of like
closing your mouth around an ice-cream cone and
then puckering your lips as you are completing the
sucking of the ice cream. But, let her initiate it
first, because she may not want to go that far.
5. Combination Bite & Kiss: Bite
her neck, jawbone and ears, while kissing at the
same time. Use your teeth to gently pinch her skin,
breathing softly on her skin and ears at the same
time, especially her ears. Biting can be very
sensuous for her, so make sure you do a lot of
this.
6. Tease Her Kiss: Start by using the tip
of your index finger and slightly run it across her
lips and cheeks. Then put your face a couple of
inches from hers and just stare into her eyes,
gazing around her hair and face for about 10
seconds. Talk with your eyes. Then slightly kiss
her on the lips. Repeat the step. This time give
her two small kisses. Then grab her face, cup it in
your hands and lay a big one on her for about 30
seconds, without moving your lips. Just remain
motionless.
7. Eye Kiss: Give her a kiss on her eye,
and then slowly kiss the other. This will give her
a warm feeling. Yet another kiss men don’t do.
So she will love this also.
8. Eskimo Kiss: Kiss like an Eskimo by
kissing with a lot of small pecks all over her
face, at the same time rubbing your nose up against
hers, going side to side and up and down.
9. Ear Kiss: Kiss and slightly nibble her
ears, breathing on them slightly at the same time.
Use your tongue to trace around her ear. Suck on
her ear lobes, because she especially loves that!
Tell her that you love her ears. Make sure your
breath hits her ear as you are saying this. As for
the tongue in her ear...well, since most women
don’t like it, it’s best to stay away
from doing that one.
10. Body Kiss: This is where you use a
combination of biting, kissing and licking all the
way down her body to her toes. Have her just lay
there, naked, with her eyes closed.
11. Swoon Kiss: Tilt her head slightly to
the side and cradle her face in one of your hands,
while you hold the back of her head with the
other.
12. The Rocking Kiss: As both you and
your partner’s lips are still touching, rock
your heads from side to side, letting your noses
rub against each other. You rock your head to the
left, as she rocks hers to the right, going from
side to side.
13: Upside-down Kiss: This is a
totally different kind of kiss because it confuses
our brain. Our brain isn’t use to the position
our heads are in when kissing. Try it, and you will
see what I mean. It’s something totally new,
and something she may not have experienced
before.
14: French Kiss: According to some
women, many of their past dates/boyfriends
didn’t know how to properly French kiss. Never
mind the kissing. French kissing is not supposed to
be sloppy, done fast or putting your whole tongue
in her mouth. It should give that person a feeling
of ecstasy and excitement.
Women, over men love to French kiss, so be
prepared to do it properly.
- Start off by giving her all the other kinds
of kisses just discussed before doing the French
kiss. Don’t jump right into it. Move slowly
to it.
- Gently slide your tongue across her upper
lip. She should take the hint and open her
mouth. Now gently slide just the tip of your
tongue into her mouth. Just the tip of your
tongue should pass beyond her teeth, and
that’s it! She should meet you halfway.
From there you will begin this kiss.
- Use your tongue to explore her mouth, as she
does the same to you. Move your tongue along her
teeth, wrestle with her tongue, twist yours
around hers and gently suck on her tongue.
- Don’t let it be just about French
kissing. Add a variety of different kinds of
kisses also. To give more pleasure, suck on a
mouthful of candy mints before you start kissing
her. Give her that taste to enhance the kissing.
Mmmm, a candy flavored mouth! But, make sure she
doesn’t mind the taste of mint, or any
candy you will be using. Know this
beforehand.
- And finally, a lot of women have commented
on how guys tend to think that this kind of
kissing means she is ready for sex. So, he
starts to grope her and tries to undress her.
You should never, never do this. This is where
the communication breaks down. She wants to kiss
for a while and he wants to...well, you know.
Keep in mind that many women love to kiss and
hug, and that’s it. She may not even want
to go that far.
Don’t be afraid to talk a little while
kissing her. Tell her how good she tastes and how
good she feels in your arms. If she thinks you are
funny, by all means joke around with her at the
same time. But don’t joke too much! Brush her
hair with your fingers, trace her ear with your
fingertips and run them lightly across her cheeks
every once in a while. Cup her face in your hands
while you are kissing her. Caress the back of her
neck and stroke her arms and hands.
Touch her, touch her and touch her some more.
This can never be said enough! A kiss doesn’t
have to be perfect. It’s all on how you look
into her eyes and how you use your hands. Read
Passionate Kiss again.
Remember, kissing a woman the right way makes
you a good lover in her eyes, so do it right!
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Perry
Rose is a syndicated freelance writer for singles
on sex, dating and relationships. He is also the
author of, All About Men: Another Damn Book For
Women About Men. & Women and Sex And
Dating, For The Single Man published by
Intimacy Books. From first getting dates from
complete strangers, to finding that right person to
be with, Intimacy Books has interviewed single men
and women on what they like and want from one
another. The findings were published in Women,
Sex and Dating, for the Single Man. Their site
is bettersexbetterdating.com
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