Irritable Male Syndrome   Man Therapy: Training Health Practitioners For the Future When I began medical school in 1965 I had a vague notion that I wanted to become a healer and a subconscious desire to help men. It soon became clear that the medical education at U.C. San Francisco was more limited than I had hoped and I transferred to U.C. Berkeley where I eventually received a master’s degree in social work. During my three years in graduate school, I not only broadened by knowledge of the psychological, interpersonal, social, cultural, and spiritual aspects of health, I also better understood my interest in men’s health. I was five years old when my father took an overdose of sleeping pills because, as I would learn later, he had become increasingly depressed because he couldn’t make a living doing what he loved to support his family. He was committed to the state mental hospital in Camarillo, north of our home in Los Angeles. It is the same hospital where the 1948 movie, The Snake Pit starring Olivia de Havilland, was filmed. I still remember the terror I felt going every Sunday with my uncle to visit my father in the mental hospital beginning in 1949. I watched as his depression worsened and his mental health declined. I grew up wondering what happened to my father, whether it would happen to me and what I could do to help other men and their families. I graduated from U.C. Berkeley in 1968 and started MenAlive in 1969 following the birth of our first son. I became a psychotherapist and soon specialized in working with men and their families. After practicing for 34 years, I returned to graduate school and earned a PhD in International Health in 2008, at age 65 (we joked that my “retirement” party was also my coming-out party as a doctor.) My dissertation study, published with the title, Male vs. Female Depression: How Men Act Out and Women Act In, answered many of the questions I had been wrestling with since childhood and expanded my focus on gender-specific health care. The Emerging Field of Gender-Specific Medicine and Health Care Marianne J. Legato, MD, is an internationally renowned academic, physician, author and lecturer. She pioneered the new field of gender-specific medicine. She is a Professor Emerita of Clinical Medicine at Columbia University College of Physicians & Surgeons and an Adjunct Professor of Medicine at Johns Hopkins Medical School. Dr. Legato also the founder and director of the Foundation for Gender-Specific Medicine, which she created in 2006. In her 2002 book, Eve’s Rib: The New Science of Gender-Specific Medicine and How It Can Save Our Life, she says,   “Eve’s Rib is not just about women’s health, but about the health of both sexes and the new science of gender-specific medicine. Until now, we’ve acted as though men and women are essentially identical except for the differences in reproductive function. In fact, information we’ve been gathering over the past ten years tells us that this is anything but true, and that everywhere we look, the two sexes are startlingly and unexpectedly different not only in their normal function but in the ways they experience illness.” Although Dr. Legato’s first book focused more on women’s health, her subsequent books expanded her focus to men. Why Men Never Remember and Women Never Forget was published in 2008 and explored the ways men and women are different and how those differences impact our relationships. She acknowledges the ways in which discussing sex and gender differences can be misunderstood. “I have taken a number of risks in writing this book,” says Dr. Legato, “and I wish to acknowledge them right at the outset. For instance, there is a tremendous risk in categorizing certain behaviors as ‘male’ or ‘female,’ as I do throughout the book. There is a cautionary skit in Free to Be You and Me in which two babies (played to great effect by Marlo Thomas and Mel Brooks) argue about whether they’re boys or girls. Boys can keep secrets, and they’re not afraid of mice, so the Mel Brooks baby, who can’t and is, must definitely be a girl—right? The debate continues until the nurse comes to change their diapers, which settles the matter once and for all.” Legato obviously was willing to take the risks. She concluded in the book’s introduction, “Whatever speculation I have engaged in over the course of the pages that follow is in the service of a larger concept: the ideas that, whatever our differences, there is much that men and women can learn from one another.” Dr. Legato is not the only clinician and researcher to take the risk to tackle sex and gender issues. There are many, including David C. Page, MD. Dr. Page is professor of biology at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology (MIT) and director of the Whitehead Institute, where he has a laboratory devoted to the study of the Y-chromosome. “It has been said that our genomes are 99.9% identical from one person to the next,” says Dr. Page. “It turns out that this assertion is correct as long as the two individuals being compared are both men. It’s also correct if the two individuals being compared are both women. However, if you compare the genome of a man with the genome of a woman, you’ll find that they are only 98.5% identical. In other words, the genetic difference between a man and a woman are 15 times greater than the genetic difference between two men or between two women.” Dr. Page, like Dr. Legato, demonstrates that even small differences can be important. “There are 10 trillion cells in human body and every one of them is sex specific,” says Dr. Page. “So, all your cells know on a molecular level whether they are XX or XY. It is true that a great deal of the research going on today which seeks to understand the causes and treatments for disease is failing to account for this most fundamental difference between men and women. The study of disease is flawed.” In looking ahead to the future of gender-specific healthcare, Dr. Paige is hopeful. “Here’s what I think. We need to build a better tool kit for researchers that is XX and XY informed rather than our current gender-neutral stance. We need a tool kit that recognizes the fundamental difference on a cellular, organ, system, and person level between XY and XX. I believe that if we do this, we will arrive at a fundamentally new paradigm for understanding and treating human disease.” The Moonshot Mission for Mankind and Humanity Our Moonshot Mission for Mankind and Humanity launched in November 2021 when I invited seven colleagues who lead programs focused on men’s health to join me and work together to improve men’s health. The mission was inspired by the research of two colleagues, Randolph Nesse, MD and Daniel Kruger, PhD examined premature deaths among men in 20 countries. They found that in every country, men died sooner and lived sicker than women and their shortened health and life-span harmed the men and their families. Based on their research Drs. Nesse and Kruger concluded with four powerful statements: “Being male is now the single largest demographic factor for early death.” “Over 375,000 lives would be saved in a single year in the U.S. alone if men’s risk of dying was as low as women’s.” “If you could make male mortality rates the same as female rates, you would do more good than curing cancer.” Drawing on my own clinical experience and research over the last fifty-plus years, I wrote, Long Live Men! The Moonshot Mission to Heal Men, Close the Lifespan Gap, and Offer Hope to Humanity. In it I detail the reasons why I think improving men’s health is not only good for men, but also good for the well-being of women and children. In order to achieve our Moonshot Mission, I believe we will need to train 1,000,000 more practitioners who are skilled in treating men’s mental, emotional, and relational health. Here are some of the courses that I would hope would be included in such a training. How to Be A Good Man In Today’s World. The World We Live In: Chaos, Collapse or Transformation. Why Men Live Sicker and Die Sooner Than Women and How We Can All Live Fully Healthy Lives. Keeping Your Balance in a World Turned Upside Down. Tipping the Scale Towards Partnership and Away From Domination. Man Therapy: A New Gender-Specific Approach For Healing Men’s Mental, Emotional, and Relational Problems. Breaking Free From the Man Box of Restricted Beliefs About Being Male. Accepting the Gift of Maleness in a World Confused About Sex and Gender. Why Men Are the Weaker Sex and How Our Strength Comes From Accepting Our Vulnerabilities. Testosterone: The Holy Grail of Manhood For Better or Worse. Accepting the Biological Differences Between Males and Females Can Liberate and Empower Us All. Loneliness: The Male Malady That is Killing Millions Every Day and How to Heal. Joining a Men’s Group: The First Step For Reconnecting With Our Manhood. Healing Our Anger Towards Women and Recognizing Our Fear of the Feminine. Embracing the 5 Stages of Love and Why Too Many Men Get Lost at Stage 3. Recognizing Our Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs) and Addressing Old Wounds. Healing Our Inner Trauma as We Heal The Environmental Trauma We Have Created. Understanding and Healing the Father Wound and Becoming the Father and Man We Were Meant to Be. Warriors Without War: Finding the Path of Courageous Action For Good. Accepting the Increasing Pain and Suffering of Many as We Continue to Do Our Part to Heal Ourselves and Others. Embracing Our Unique Mission in Life at This Time in Our Evolutionary History. If you would like more information about upcoming trainings for practitioners working in the field of men’s health, drop me an email to Jed@MenAlive.com and put “Man Therapy” in the subject line. ©2023 Jed Diamond See Books, Issues + Suicide *    *    * Wealth can't buy health, but health can buy wealth. - Henry David Thoreau   Jed Diamond is the internationally best-selling author of seven books including Male Menopause, now translated into 17 foreign languages and his latest book, The Irritable Male Syndrome: Managing. The 4 Key Causes of Depression and Aggression. For over 38 years he has been a leader in the field of men's health. He is a member of the International Scientific Board of the World Congress on Men’s Health and has been on the Board of Advisors of the Men’s Health Network since its founding in 1992. His work has been featured in major newspapers throughout the United States including the New York Times, Boston Globe, Wall Street Journal, The Los Angeles Times, and USA Today. He has been featured on more than 1,000 radio and T.V. programs including The View with Barbara Walters, Good Morning America, Inside Edition, CBS, NBC, and Fox News, To Tell the Truth, Extra, Leeza, Geraldo, and Joan Rivers. He also did a nationally televised special on Male Menopause for PBS. He looks forward to your feedback. E-Mail. You can visit his website at www.menalive.com Contact Us | Disclaimer | Privacy Statement Menstuff® Directory Menstuff® is a registered trademark of Gordon Clay ©1996-2023, Gordon Clay