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She's Looking at My Crotch!
Q: Actually a comment. Another good thing
your books are doing is increasing my awareness of
stuff I never noticed before. I was in the local
video store last Monday night and for the first
time I realized the clerk, a woman of about 30,
glancing at my crouch. She did it twice
quickly.
This is from a 50 year old who is just getting
his find-meet-talk-date-mate legs under him. It's
all new, exciting and a bit disorienting because as
he has told me many times, "I've been doing
everything all wrong for years and years!"
A: My comment and suggestion on how to
capitalize on CROTCH GAZING. Go back to the store
and have something to talk about such as, "Quentin
Tarantino the director of Pulp Fiction, used to
work in a place like this. How do you like working
here?"
Talk about the videos you like. NOT SEX! Bid her
a fond farewell and as you're parting, say, "See
you Thursday. She'll smile and say "Okay," or
she'll say, "I don't work Thursday." You say, "So
when do you work? She'll tell you. Nod, smile and
leave. DO NOT say that you'll see her on that day.
Just leave. Then, show up and rent another movie.
She'll tell you something about herself if you go
FIRST and tell her something about yourself as
explained in How To Date Young Women and Body
Language Secrets.
Re-read the chapters Meet Her, Talk With Her,
Court Her. At the appropriate moment, introduce
yourself and shake hands with her as described in
Body Language Secrets. When she asks, "So, what do
you do?" Say, "I am a consultant, help small
businesses get computers hooked up." At the same
time hand her your ICSBC from your SHIRT POCKET. Do
not fumble around with your wallet!
Don't talk to her for more than a few minutes.
You're a busy, important man with places to go and
people to see. Compliment her ONCE during the
conversation about her accessories, jewelry or
attire. Pay attention and be aggressive with your
eyes to find something you genuinely like, "That's
a very attractive ring! An heirloom?" The
compliment must be genuine. If you can't find
anything to be genuine about, don't say
anything.
Say good bye using her name, "Nice meeting you,
Debbie. See ya."
ESSENCE OF INITIAL CONVERSATIONS. A young woman
cannot find you attractive until she realizes you
are first of all safe. After realizing that you are
safe, she doesn't want to talk further if you are
not interesting. She cannot realize that you are
attractive until you have talked with her about
interesting subjects (she finds them interesting)
for a few minutes.
STEEL BALLS PRINCIPLE: The woman must find that
you are: safe, interesting, attractive, in that
order.
©2008 R. Don
Steele
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Don Steele
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
Revised,
How
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
recently, Body
Language
Secrets.
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