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Introduce Yourself - Part III
This is continued from the last two weeks. Check
out the archives for this to make sense.
INTRODUCTION QUESTION: Do you think she sees an
introduction as an obvious sign of interest and
feels pressured by it, or thinks "I've got
him."
Answer: She sees you talking to her before you
introduce yourself as friendly AND as a sign of
your interest! She sees you introducing yourself
and shaking her hand as something a Gentleman who
is interested in her does. That's different! She
does not feel pressured by a Man and a Gentleman
being interested in her. It makes her pants wet in
the right way.
After you have introduced yourself, to keep her
interested and excited, you must have The Right
Attitude, the mandatory Right Attitude. Re-read
that sequence until it's burned into your brain's
memory cells.
AFTER INTRODUCTION QUESTION: One of your Eleven
Commandments of Courtship is to not be slick and
smooth. How do you tell the difference between
being confident and being slick and
smooth?
Answer: Confident people are relaxed and not in
a hurry. When a confident man is talking with a
woman, he does not flirt with her for quite awhile.
When he does, it is very light, gentlemanly
flirting. He only compliments her once! He does not
try to make her laugh all the time. He does not try
to impress her with how attractive and desirable he
is. He is not dressed in the latest, hip fashions.
He is dressed for success with young women. Every
now and then, he lets his genuine excitement show
briefly. This is redundant, but essential. The
essence of being confident vs slick is to radiate
The Right Attitude.
©2007 R. Don
Steele
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Don Steele
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
Revised,
How
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
recently, Body
Language
Secrets.
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