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Neck Touching Lauguage
This is from a 38 year old who is just starting out
learning to 'hear' what women are saying without
words.
Question: After reading your super Body
Language Secrets, I have become extremely aware of
women's signals.
The woman I was talking with on Saturday night
was touching and fingering the top buttons on her
blouse, up by the neck. Does this have the same
meaning as touching the necklace, or is it a type
of symbolic undressing?
Steele Sez: It always depends on the
cluster of gestures surrounding the signal. I'm
glad to hear you are becoming aware of what women
are "saying" without words, but you are making the
mistake everyone does when first mastering this
information, and that includes yours truly when I
began. The mistake is that you zero in on one
signal or gesture and focus on it. Remember, one
signal means nothing. Even two signals cannot be
relied on. You must look for clusters of three or
more signals. When she sends you three signals of
interst in a row, means she's interested.
Back to a woman fiddling with the top buttons on
her blouse. That usually is a sign that you are
coming on too strong or you may be too close
physically. When you notice any sort of neck
touching, immediately back off. Diplomatically
change the subject of conversation and move
slightly back, physically. For some reason she was
signaling you she needs reassurance of your motives
and sincere interest.
You must master the concept of looking for
clusters. Learn to notice one, then search for
similar signals that follow the one you
noticed.
FINE POINT: When she's undecided, she sends
mixed nonverbal signals even though she's smiling.
This means you are probably doing okay. So, keep it
lightweight and superficial while sending
nonverbal, positive signals of interest to her.
Then, as I preach, just LET IT HAPPEN.
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Don Steele
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
Revised,
How
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
recently, Body
Language
Secrets.
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