There are few, if any, accidents. Freud

Question: A woman bumps into me “accidentally” in the bookstore or the grocery store. I know that means she’s interested because of Body Language Secrets! Help!

Answer: What do you say, right? What to do, right? When she has indicated interest by touching, wait a few moments then make certain your body language is open and relaxed. Make certain there is at least four feet between the two of you so that she does not feel threatened.

Smile, nod and say, “Finding anything interesting?”

She will reply to your question with “No!” (Screw off) or “Nah,” or “Not yet.” (Maybe) or she’ll say, “Yes,” (yes). From there it is up to you to have something to talk about.

In a bookstore, something about the books you like that you think women may like. A good self revealing statement followed by a question is best. “I came in here to look for a book on John Wayne and I ended up reading this geeky stuff?

I’m a programmer, can’t help it. What were you looking for?” As explained in all my books, reveal yourself first, and then ask a question.

It is important to have some safe, general self revealing lines and general questions for her memorized. That way, the next time she “accidentally” bumps you, you’re ready.

As all readers of How to Date Young Women know, Vince Lombardi and I do not believe in “luck.”

Everyone please send your “self-revealing lines” [] and I’ll share them in a future newsletter.

I guarantee you that unless you’re as suave as Cary Grant, as handsome as Tom Selleck, or as manly as Paul Newman, don’t attempt humor or a flirty remark.

STEEL BALLS PRINCIPLE: Start out easy, you can always come on hard. is.

©2007 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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