Intellectual Discussions

Paul Sez: I’m still trying to intuitively understand female psychology and behavior.

Steele Sez: Intuitive? No! That’s her job. Better to understand it rationally and logically and precisely. Here’s the gist.

Women are different because they have a different agenda. Their agenda requires getting pregnant by a man who has strength, courage, power and lust. That ensures their best chance to live forever, as in getting their DNA into the future carried by a child who has an excellent chance to survive.

Whereas, males try to get as many women pregnant as possible, hoping that one of their offspring will survive in the future carrying their DNA, so that they will live forever.

Paul Sez: But the fact that women no longer need male protection, finances, and get more empathy from other women has always puzzled me, in that why do they now need men anyway. Many are choosing to be single mothers, but John Gray and Badalamenti both have changed my thinking in that they would argue women still need men’s rationale focus to help ground them, support them, and (using Nancy Friday’s The Power of Beauty) nurture them, something they see men because of their logical focus doing better than their women friends.

Steele Sez: Gray and Badalamenti are, uh shall we say, uh, in the Alan Alda Camp of Nice Guys. They are just spewing feminist propaganda and media nonsense. Skip it! Focus on the tried and true: 65 million year old fundamentals. Women need and love men. Men need and love women. Ain’t that wonderful. If you want to have a caring, sharing, loving relationship across time, be a Man and you will! It really is that simple.

©2007 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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