Topless Waitresses

At least once a month I get a desperate letter or email from some guy who wants to date a stripper or a topless waitress! He has always bought a “system” or a video or a CD or a book that promises to teach him how by a hustler posing as a “Dating Expert” or a Master of Seduction.”

These pathetic guys are so lonely and so socially inept that they go to topless bars hoping that somehow, some way they will be able to meet and talk with, and then date one of the dancers The poor bastards don't realize that the women are working there because they can't cut it any place else, or they have such low self-esteem that they believe they can't work any place else. Topless women are losers, big time losers. The customers in a strip bar or a topless place are NOT what those “girls” want. They want, and are strongly attracted to, LOSERS like themselves, liars: drunks, dopers, gangsters, dealers, hustlers, used car salesmen. Compare the impossibility of getting a date with a topless dancer when you ar e not a cocaine dealer with the damned near impossible task of a date with an ordinary woman in an ordinary bar!

Since 1998 we have had 32 different young women work for us as Titanium Babes. Guys come to The Right Attitude workshops and want to know about how to go about picking up a young woman in a bar or club. The most common reaction from the Tbabe(s) is SHOCK and then a LAUGH! They all say: “I'm not in a bar or club to get picked up! I'm there to have fun and get drunk for free and dance.”

In March of 2002 we hired a 32 year old and a 28 year old who worked with us in addition to Savann 20 and Victoria 22. The 32 year old laughed the loudest! Women find it hard to believe guys actually think bars and clubs are for finding "someone."

This was/is all explained in How to Date Young Women and yet most guys are like I was. We watch the MILLER LITE ads on TV and think, "Go to a bar. Be cool and babes go home with you." Or we read Maxim and get the message. My lesson cost me about $20k in 1982/83 dollars! You can read about it for $3.95 in one of the DINGED copies by clicking here See USED BOOKS on the page somewhere.

©2007 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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