Women See your Hair First

The number one Steel Balls Principle is: First you have to look like someone she wants totalk with.

Women look out at the world and see it far differently than we men do. They can assess your desirability at 50 feet in less than 2 seconds. This is from the Appendix of Body Language Secrets.

Women’s renown intuition arises from the way biology and evolution “wired” female brains. The connection between the left half and the right half of the female brain is much larger in women than it is in men.

Evolution wired female brains differently. That causes them to have a different world-view as well as different perceptions of everyday reality, courtship and romantic relationships.

Okay! Now, the first detail they notice after getting an overall instant impression of you is your HAIR. This is directly from How to Date Young Women:

Don’t comb your hair in an elaborate way to “disguise” your bald spot or receding hair line. That has the same impact on her as wearing white patent leather shoes, lime green leisure suit, open shirt, five gold chains, a gold nugget watch and a diamond pinky ring Instant Revulsion.

If you want her to have the same physiological response, wear a toupee.

Hair transplants, hair weaving and other “new” methods to make your hair thicker only make your wallet thinner. Forget it. You need your money for much more important matters, like taking her to Palm Springs.

Any young woman you talk with does not expect you to have a full head of hair. She wants you to be real, to be a man. Boys have hair, men do sometimes. She wants a man, not a boy. Hair, or the lack of it, does not make the man, his clothes do.

For those of us getting thin on top, short hair is mandatory. It gives the appearance of more. Short means, short all over. Not short with forty long hairs combed back in the middle or other futile attempt to pretend your hair is not down the shower drain.

For those with plenty of hair, shorter hair is still the best. It makes you look younger. The length depends on the shape of your face and neck.

Colored hair on you, contrary to the ads, looks as phony to her as bleached or blue hair does to you. The slightest bit of artificiality prevents verbal intercourse leading to the other kind. She thinks, “If he dyes his hair, he probably needs a penile implant.”

Joanna takes all the guys in the workshop to her personal salon where she and Mike, the owner, develop the most MANLY hair style/cut for each individual. This happens on Saturday morning during her three-day workshop.

If you doubt any of this information, ask any woman you are good friends with.

©2008 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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