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Chatty Cathy Has Radar And Intuition
Q: Why should the man never call just to
chat? The way I see it, when you chat, you get to
know her better then you feel more comfortable.
A: My dictate is only for the courtship
and the first few weeks after the sexual
relationship has begun. After you have spent the
weekend together at Lake Tahoe and things are
proceeding smoothly, you can call her now and then
just to talk.
In general, my phone technique for every male on
the planet: Get on, conduct business and get off
before she finds out everything about you! A man is
a mystery. A man is busy. A man has a life. A man
does not chat on the phone.
WARNING! When man is courting a women, he must
remain in charge, aloof and slightly indifferent.
If he “just chats,” he’s no
different than all other Nice Guys. Further, and
this is the most important reason for keeping phone
conversations short and to the point, women
automatically manipulate and test and resist via
phone. It’s known as being cute, coy and
flirty. She gets a thrill out of it.
FINAL WARNING: Women’s brains are
physically different and they are wired differently
than male brains. This enables women’s renown
and amazing intuition. That means you are in deep
kim chee when you are on the phone with her! It
gives her a 10 to 1 advantage over you with your
linear, logical, rational wired brain. You hear the
words she says. She hears how you say the words,
how long you pause, how fast or slow you talk, how
quickly/slowly you answer her probing question,
“So what did you do last night?" In other
words she has all the POWER on the phone.
But the strongest reason not to chat with her is
to prevent her from saying to herself,
“I’ve got him. He WANTS me! I’m a
real Cosmo Girl. I can attract a Man.” Then
she no longer has to risk going out with a
POWERFUL, dangerous, mysterious Man. (Yes, I
believe that repetition is the key to
learning!)
If possible, do NOT call her. If you must, keep
it all business, short and to the point. For
example, changing the time for the lunch date or
making final arrangements as to where you will meet
her. Be pleasant, civil, ADULT, manly.
©2008 R. Don
Steele
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Don Steele
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
Young Women: For men over 35 -
Revised,
How
to Date Young Women: For men over 35,
Volume II, and most
recently, Body
Language
Secrets.
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