Strippers and Topless Waitress?

I get this question about twice a month from guys who have bought books and videos on the www by snake oil salesmen posing as “NLP professionals” and “dating gurus.” The “authors” guaranteed that the guy could use hypnotism or “NLP anchors” and immediately seduce topless dancers and strippers!

These poor guys email me after they are out hundreds of dollars and are utterly humiliated about having been duped by scumbag “seduction experts.” They want to know if such a thing is possible after being publicly rejected and embarrassed by the “dancer” they used these “guaranteed, sure-fire seduction secrets” on.

The poor bastards don't realize the women are working there because they can't cut it any place else, or they have such low self-esteem that they believe they can't work any place else.

Topless women are losers, big time losers. The poor schmuck who goes to a topless bar is not the kind of man these women want. Either they are lesbians who hate men or they have such low self-esteem they are only strongly attracted to LOSERS like themselves, liars: drunks, dopers, gangsters, dealers, hustlers, used car salesmen.

Reality: there are no quick fixes to being inexperienced with women! Desirable women want men who know what they are doing and men who are successful with women!

©2007 R. Don Steele

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Don Steele has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and engineering companies as well as many political campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976. Beyond writing, other passions include a deep, abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii, consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date Young Women:  For men over 35 - Revised, How to Date Young Women:  For men over 35, Volume II, and most recently, Body Language Secrets. Check out steelballsAUDIO.COM and or E-Mail.

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