Women See your Hair First
The number one Steel Balls Principle is: First you
have to look like someone she wants totalk
Women look out at the world and see it far
differently than we men do. They can assess your
desirability at 50 feet in less than 2 seconds.
This is from the Appendix of Body Language
Womens renown intuition arises from the
way biology and evolution wired female
brains. The connection between the left half and
the right half of the female brain is much larger
in women than it is in men.
Evolution wired female brains differently. That
causes them to have a different world-view as well
as different perceptions of everyday reality,
courtship and romantic relationships.
Okay! Now, the first detail they notice after
getting an overall instant impression of you is
your HAIR. This is directly from How to Date Young
Dont comb your hair in an elaborate way to
disguise your bald spot or receding
hair line. That has the same impact on her as
wearing white patent leather shoes, lime green
leisure suit, open shirt, five gold chains, a gold
nugget watch and a diamond pinky ring Instant
If you want her to have the same physiological
response, wear a toupee.
Hair transplants, hair weaving and other
new methods to make your hair thicker
only make your wallet thinner. Forget it. You need
your money for much more important matters, like
taking her to Palm Springs.
Any young woman you talk with does not expect
you to have a full head of hair. She wants you to
be real, to be a man. Boys have hair, men do
sometimes. She wants a man, not a boy. Hair, or the
lack of it, does not make the man, his clothes
For those of us getting thin on top, short hair
is mandatory. It gives the appearance of more.
Short means, short all over. Not short with forty
long hairs combed back in the middle or other
futile attempt to pretend your hair is not down the
For those with plenty of hair, shorter hair is
still the best. It makes you look younger. The
length depends on the shape of your face and
Colored hair on you, contrary to the ads, looks
as phony to her as bleached or blue hair does to
you. The slightest bit of artificiality prevents
verbal intercourse leading to the other kind. She
thinks, If he dyes his hair, he probably
needs a penile implant.
Joanna takes all the guys in the workshop to her
personal salon where she and Mike, the owner,
develop the most MANLY hair style/cut for each
individual. This happens on Saturday morning during
her three-day workshop.
If you doubt any of this information, ask any
woman you are good friends with.
©2008 R. Don
Other Relationship Issues,
has worked for more than 20 aerospace, defense and
engineering companies as well as many political
campaigns both in LA and in Hawaii. He became a
Marriage, Family and Child Counselor in 1976.
Beyond writing, other passions include a deep,
abiding hatred for hypocrites, bureaucrats, poverty
pimps and nearly all politicians; a lifelong
devotion to anthropology, philosophy; astronomy and
cosmology plus a long-term love affair with Hawaii,
consummated in 1996. He and Joanna Bardot Lopez
live in Whittier CA, with their number one dog
Wolfie, number two dog, Tootsie, Peaches The
Rabbit, Puppy Cat, Princess Cat, Snookums Cat and
Bebe Cat. Don is the author of Date
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