The Men stuff® library lists pertinent audio cassettes for men. Also see Books and Videos tapes.
Barry, Alyce, Practically Shameless: How
Shadow Work helped me find my voice, my path and my inner gold.
This book is an uplifting and compassionate guide to transforming
your life through Shadow Work. Using the author's own journey towards
healing and contentment, including a riveting first-person account of
Shadow Work processes, this life-affirming narrative demonstrates how
to honor your life, understand and befriend your resistance, and
effect the lasting change you desire. Practically Shameless Press,
www.PracticallyShameless.com,
2008, Audio CD format (Five hours 32 minutes) ISBN
978-0-9798326-2-8 
Also available in paperback ISBN 978-0-9798326-1-6
Barry, Cliff & Mary Ellen Blandford, Shadow
Work Basics Audio Cassette Tape. If you have heard of "the
shadow" and wondered what it was, this tape will help. Even if you're
an old hand with shadows, this tape should still offer you new
insights, from two master facilitators who have been working with
people's shadows for more than a decade. On the tape, Shadow Work
founders Cliff Barry and Mary Ellen Blandford address, in simple
language: 1) What is a shadow? 2) How we can see what's in shadow for
us? 3) How we project our shadow onto the people around us? 4)The
four archetypal energies, Magician, Sovereign, Lover and Warrior. And
5) The purpose of each archetype, the masculine and feminine parts of
each archetype, the way it goes into shadow, and what kind of a tool
will bring it back out of shadow. Included with the 90-minute
cassette is a printed map of The Shadow Work Four-Quarter
Facilitation Model. The cassette costs $4.00 plus $3.95 for
shipping and handling. You can order by visiting: http://www.shadowwork.com/tape.html
or call 970.203.0400 (toll-free 888.406.0703)
Barry, Cliff & Mary Ellen Blandford, The
Tombstone Process CD: A New Way to Transform Core Issues. This is
a guided visualization which can help you work through and let go of
difficult issues or painful patterns in your life, like chronic
psychological habits or problems in the body. The Tombstone Process
is particularly good for dealing with issues of love, family and
relationship. The CD has really powerful music. It costs $19.95 plus
$3.95 shipping and handling. You can order by visiting: http://www.shadowwork.com/tape.html
or call 970.203.0400 (toll-free 888.406.0703)
Bly, Robert & Marion Woodman, Facing the Shadow in Men &
Women. There is a mystery around the word "shadow". Do women have
a shadow or only men? Do ordinary people have a shadow or only
politicians? We throw out parts of ourselves in childhood, or put
them in a bag; it is precisely those abandoned parts that become the
shadow, which can then act destructively and independently of our
will. On the other hand, if these parts can be reclaimed, much of our
vitality and passion returns. In this lively and funny presentation,
Robert By and Marion Woodman, using stories, poems, music and
discussion, challenge us to face the shadow in all areas of our
lives, from politics to parenting. Oral Tradition Archives, PO Box
51155, Pacific Grove, CA 939950 $29.95 + S&H
Bly, Robert, Iron John: A book about
men. 2 Volume Set. 1991, ISBN 679-40289-6
Brandenburg, Mark, 10
Secrets of Effective Fathering
Cathy & Marcy , Nobody Else Like Me: Songs that Celebrate the Diversity of Children is the second in 'Cathy & Marcy's Help Yourself" series of children's songs. This album celebrates the diversity of children from different cultures, languages and different physical abilities at the same time as showing how special each individual child is. From acoustic fold guitar, lively socca band, rock and toll, rap, hammered dulcimer and African percussion. This album is an inspiration to children, parents and teachers in sharing our diversity with each other.
Clay, Gordon, Healing the Father Wound®
& I Wish I Knew Now What I Knew Then, each a 2
Volume set, ME-40, ME-7, 1991, Sounds True
Collins,
Susie & Otto, Spiritual Partnerships: How to create
more trust, passion and intimacy in your relationships. In this
three-audio cassette series on relationships, you'll
learn: (1) How to create more safety and trust in your
relationship. (2) How creating Spiritual Partnerships instead of
"just relationships" helps you to grow. (3) How to love
someone the way he/she wants to be loved. (4) How power and
vulnerability issues affect your relationships. (5) How to
connect with your partner and create more passion than you thought
possible. (6) How to speak your truth to your partner and break
old patterns. (7) How to apply powerful action strategies for
creating outstanding relationships to your life. Bonus tape "7
Spiritual Keys to Manifesting Abundance" also included inside.
passion@bright.net or
www.collinspartners.com
The "Relationship Toolkit" includes the above plus two booklets
Love and Relationship Success
Secrets and 101 Relationship
Quotes Worth a Million Dollars!
Deida, David, The Nuts & Bolts of
Spiritual Intimacy Part I, II, III Talks David recorded live in
Telluride, Co, August, 1999. 888.man-woman or www.deida.com
or info@cyberplexus.com
Deida, David, Questions & Answers at Breitenbush Vol.
1. 888.man-woman or www.deida.com
or info@cyberplexus.com
Directions for Dads. An interactive
CD ROM that will help you become the best father that you
can be. Come along for a journey where you will encounter helpful
advice and exercises for dealing with the most important issues
facing fathers today. Navigate through these sections: Where are
you now? Good man good father. Developing healthy relationships.
Raising healthy, compassionate, responsible children. 2003. Free
while supplies last. Contact the National Fatherhood Initiative,
301.948.0599 or info@fatherhood.org
or visit www.fatherhood.org
Estes, Clarissa Pinkola & Michael Meade, Ovarios Y Cojones:
Labyrinths of Memory and Danger within Women and Men. A 6-tape
set of a February 21, 1993 event at the Palace of Fine Arts Theatre
in San Francisco. One of the best times for women and men. Sounds
True Recordings, 735 Walnut St, Boulder, CO 80302 303.449.6229
Estes, Clarissa Pinkola, The Boy Who Married an Eagle, Myths &
Stories About Male Individuation. Jungian analyst and writer
draws from a wealth of traditional myths and stories to weave this
best-selling audio tape about the process of becoming a man. With
tales drawn from world folklore, including Zuni, Greek, Hopi and
Assyrian cultures, this tape will intrigue listeners with its mixture
of seamless storytelling and cutting-edge psychology. Topics include
deciphering pain, sexual and spiritual appetites, the sacred
animal-man, much more. 1991 Sounds True Recordings, 735 Walnut St,
Boulder, CO 80302 303.449.6229
Estes, Clarissa Pinkola, How to Love A Woman: On intimacy and the
erotic life of women. This is for everyone who thirsts to love
and be loved by a woman. She shares a treasury of knowledge about
what women really need from a relationship, including many stories
which show the hidden dimensions of relationship from a woman's
viewpoint. 1993 Sounds True Recordings, 735 Walnut St, Boulder, CO
80302 303.449.6229
A Father's Love. Heartfelt somgs
celebrating the bond between father and child. Includes songs by Dave
Matthews, Michael McDonald, Loudon Wainwright III, Buddy Jewell,
Solomon Burke, Will Downing, Carlos Ponce, Jon Secada, Phil Collins,
Kirk Whalum, Smokey Robinson, Richard Marx and a reading by James
Earl Jones. A portion of the proceeds from this album will
benefit the Golden Dads Project and the National Fatherhood
Initiative. The NFI is the nation's leading fatherhood
organization whose mission is to improve the well-being of children
by increasing the proportion who grow up with involved, responsible
and committed fathers. The Golden Dads project is an annual event
that honors everyday fathers across the USA who set a positive
example by demonstrating these values. Hum Records, 2005, 8128451072
Fossum, Merle, Catching Fire: Men in Recovery Coming to Terms with
Their Lives. My all-time favorite book for every man has been
retitled "Men in Recovery: Finding Our Direction! For me, it has more
to do with being a man and surviving in this culture rather than
being in recovery from something. The tape is an easy intro into the
book and provides numerous connections for any man to see he's not
the only one. It is an illuminating resource examines the special
problems men face in coming to terms with their lives. Detailing the
blocks - aggressiveness, self-hate, fear of intimacy and
vulnerability- that keep men "asleep", it describes the responses
necessary for men to "awaken to life" in all its dimensions. Hazelden
Foundation, 1989
Gottman, John M and Julie Schwartz Gottman, 10
Lessons to Transform Your Marriage from America's love lab
experts. They share their startegies for strengthening your
relationship. By the authors of The Sever Principles for Making
Marriage Work. Random House
Halpern, Steven & Royal Phillips,
The Father Connection: Bonding with your child.
International Childbirth Educator, Royal guides you through a
step-by-step exercise and imagery program that is specifically
designed to help fathers-to-be "tune in" to the experience of being a
father. These guided visualizations are short enough so that you can
fit them into your schedule easily, and meaningful enough so that you
will want to repeat the experience many time. Sound Rx,
415.453.9800
Hightower brings his special talent for
working with men to the problems of anger and rage, providing them
with the tools for getting their lives back on track. Must listening
for men with anger problems. 713.436.9898
Hillman, James, & Robert By, Wild
Men. This is an exploration of the male soul and its mysteries.
Recorded live at a five-day workshop deep in the Minnesota woods,
where men gathered to drum, chant, sing, dance, make masks, tell
stories - and help them each rediscover the fierce wild man within.
1990, Sounds True Recordings, 735 Walnut St, Boulder, CO 80302
303.449.6229
Hopcke, Robert, Men's Dreams, Men's
Healing: a psychotherapist explores a new view of
masculinity through Jungian dreamwork. 2 Volume Set. Shambhala
Publications, 1990
Ishtara, Total Ejaculation Control: A step-by-step
sexercise Training. Learn timeless sexual secrets that will
enhance your health and self-confidence. A fun and easy 5-step daily
program to loosen up, energize and arouse your body: It includes
increase arousal, strengthening your erection, controlling
ejaculation, prolonging love making, building sexual stamina,
heightening pleasure, keeping your prostate healthy, and experiencing
multiple orgasms. This can transform your sexual life into an amazing
ecstatic adventure. Ishtara Seminars, 454 Las Gallinas Ave #142, San
Rafael, CA 94903 1995
Johnston, John L. "Jack", Male Multiple Orgasm, Step-by-step:
Fully Revised Third Edition. This breakthrough seminar teaches
you how to separate orgasm from the physical limitations of
ejaculation, without using any "squeeze technique" or other holding
back. Instead you learn how to bring on and express incredible
orgasms as often as you want, even without erection. This powerful
information offers you a dramatic expansion of your erotic life!
Intended for individuals 18 years or older. Jack Johnston Seminars
800.349.9866 e.mail: jack@multiples.com
or www.multiples.com, 1996
Kamm, Bob, Real Fatherhood: The path of
lyrical parenting. In 1979, Bob Kamm gained custody of his
four-year-old son, Ben. By the end of 1981, he faced the unavoidable
fact that pursuing a career as a performing artist was incompatible
with single-fatherhood. He barely touched his guitar for twenty
years. During that time, he devoted himself to being the real and
present dad his son deserved. Much of his experience during those
first years of single-parenthood is chronicled in the book, Real
Fatherhood. As he began work on this book, his passion for music
returned full force and he knew it was time to give life to the songs
he had created to chronicle and celebrate his experience of
fatherhood. This CD is the result of that determination. www.kammtown.com
or kammtown@cs.com. Available
from www.1stbooks.com.
2002 ISBN: 09300 00672 Buy
This CD!
"Global Discussion on Multiple Orgasm for Men and Their Partners" at
www.multiples.com hosted by
John L. "Jack" Johnston, M.A.. It has over 400 files of information,
articles, and annotated index with links to full transcripts of three
years of "coaching/discussion" chats, an indexed Knowledge Base Forum
for continuing tips, stories, testimonials, and Q&A. By request,
I host periodic free coaching/discussion chats, including chats on
"MMO" for disabled men. My work is endorsed by author Barbara
Keesling PhD, Mitch Tepper MPH PhD host of www.sexualhealth.org
- a site for sexuality and the disabled, Sib Burton, Vermont State
Chairman of the American Parkinsons Disease Association, and others.
Jack Johnston Seminars 800.349.9866 e.mail: jack@multiples.com
Lee, John, The Flying Boy: Healing the wounded man. Why
men run from relationships? HCI Audio Books, Health
Communications, 1989 ISBN 1-55874-041-4
Leonard, Linda Schierse, The Wounded
Woman: Healing the father-daughter relationship. From her
book, originally published in 1982, something every father of a
daughter should listen to and read. An excellent understand of what
fathers do. While directed at daughters, it gives you a clear picture
of what you do and you can change things for the better from there.
Shambhala, 1990
Lerner, Harriet, On Anger: Where your anger comes from and
how to transform it. On this probing session, the distinguished
psychologist offers a provocative new view on how anger shapes women,
and how they can reclaim this emotion as a vital, life-changing
force. Our culture encourages and even rewards aggressive, angry men.
Yet when a woman shows anger, she is shunned and devalued. Here, she
traces the roots of this paradox, and shows how women can use anger
as a constructive, natural emotion. Includes many real-life examples,
advice and techniques from her work with women of all ages.
ISBN 1-56455-328-0 1995, Sounds True Recordings, 735 Walnut St,
Boulder, CO 80302 303.449.6229
Millman, Dan, The Peaceful Warrior's Path to
Everyday Enlightenment: 12 gateways to your spiritual
growth. In this audio and video series, the author connects the
heart of spiritual teachings with the practical realities of daily
life. He prodvides down-to-earth perspectives on everyday issues like
money, sex, relationships ... unraveling the mysteries of body, mind
and emotions to make the spiritual ascent simple and attainable.
Favoring practical outcomes over abstract philosophy, he provides
sound adbvice so that, entered one by one, each of the 12 Gateways
frees your attention to see Spirit everywhere, everyday, in everyone
and everything - leading you to a realistic practice of everyday
enlightenment. Here is an opportunity to gain deep insight into the
meaning of life. Whether you're looking to find your true
life-calling or a great sense of awareness, this will help illuminate
your journey toward a richer, more meaningful life. Nightingale
Conant, www.nightingale.com
O'Neill, Jessie, The Golden
Ghetto: The psychology of affluence. It is a
peculiarly American notion that money will guarantee happiness, bring
us personal fulfillment, strengthen our relationships, give us
smarter, better adjusted children - in short, make all our dreams
come true. Here the author, granddaughter of Charles Erwin Wilson,
one-time president of General Motors, provides a penetrating look at
why attaining wealth proves to be a hollow achievement for many. She
has based her professional practice on understanding and treating the
problems of those who have amassed great wealth, and her book is both
a description of their lives and an analysis of and prescription for
the problems they've had to face. While the author's main focus is on
the very rich, the lessons to be learned from their lives have a far
broader application. This book is in fact inhabited by millions of
Americans, rich and poor alike, who embrace and endlessly pursue the
fantasy that more is better, while allowing all that is truly
worthwhile - loving relationships, the selfless giving of oneself,
and spiritual growth - to fall by the wayside. This books shows us
how to right our own relationship with money, and offers insightful
suggestions for repairing the psychological and cultural damage our
misguided beliefs about money, power and happiness have caused.
Hazelden 1.800.328.0098 www.hazelden.com
1997 (Audio-Cassette,
CD)
O'Neill, Jessie, Speaks on
Affluenza: The myth of the American dream, author of
The Golden Ghetto: The psychology of affluence.
"Affluenza" is a dysfunctional relationship with money/wealth, or the
pursuit of it. Globally it is back up in the flow of money resulting
in a polarization of the classes, and a loss of economic and
emotional balance. Also on CD. Hazelden 1.800.328.0098 www.hazelden.com
(Audio-CD) (Book)
1997
Pike, Bill, Molested Boys: Wounded Men.
Recovery from Sexual Abuse. This tape was put together as a
community service by a therapist from San Francisco. It contains very
helpful information that would be of service to any man who was or
thinks he might have been molested growing up. Whether by a relative,
a coach, a minister, older neighborhood children, or parents. The
damage needs to be healed and this tape can be one point on that
journey. Bill Pike, 134 Duboce #2, San Francisco, CA 94103
415.552.4270
Sheehy, Gail, Passages: Predictable crises
of adult life. 1981, Success Motivation Cassettes, Waco, TX
Siegel, Bernie, Getting Ready: Preparing for surgery,
chemotherapy, and other treatments. On this uplifting
audiocassette, you'll hear a series of visualization exercises to
help you mentally prepare for medical procedures such as surgery and
chemotherapy. The author explains how your desire and intention
affect the physical world, and how these visualizations can help you
alter your perceptions and heal. The first exercise will help you
prepare yourself for the challenges you will confront. Three related
exercises specifically prepare you for chemotherapy, radiation and
surgery. He guides you so that these medical treatments may become
gifts to you, not poisons. He helps you use these exercises to
prepare your body and soul for an effective treatment that heals you
and is free of side effects. With the right attitude, you can make
your day of surgery one of rebirth! Hay House Audio, 1999.
800.654.5126 or www.hayhouse.com.
To find our more about the psychoacoustically refined music of the
Arcangelos Chamber Ensemble, call 888.657.2678 or www.appliedmusic.com
or arcangelos@appliedmusic.com
Siegel, Bernie, Healing Relationships: Your relationship to
life and creation. Who is the most important person in your
life? Is it you? Well, it ought to be and the
author tells us on this heartfelt audiocassette. The most important
force that you have available to you to change all your relationships
is love. Here he leads you through a series of meditations, helping
you to speak your truth and share forgiveness with those surrounding
you - even your so-called enemies, and to see yourself as a blank
canvas from which you can create a work of art. The author concludes
with several moving stories about relationships, which will help you
empathize with those who are dealing with life challenges. Hay House
Audio, 1999. 800.654.5126 or www.hayhouse.com.
To find our more about the psychoacoustically refined music of the
Arcangelos Chamber Ensemble, call 888.657.2678 or www.appliedmusic.com
or arcangelos@appliedmusic.com
Sniechowski, James, Fathering the Boy Within, Guided Healing
Meditations for Men. This tape is for about about men - and the
boys that live within them. It is one of the guided-meditation tapes
in a series, Reclaiming The Self. The purpose of this tape is to
assist men in identifying their own inner boy and their relationship
with him. This tape is in praise of men and all that is male. 1989
James Sniechowski, 12021 Wilshire Blvd #692, Los Angeles, CA
90025
Some, Malidoma and Sobonfu, We Have No Word for Sex: An Indigenous
View of Intimacy. In this live presentation, we're taken into the
Dagara village and given their tribal view of intimacy, relationships
and marriage. For a subject as overworked as sex, here are some
fascinating and important lessons from the heart that are fresh and
relevant as they are ancient. Topics include the sacred meaning of
pleasure, preparing a ritual space for intimacy, the connection
between sex and spirituality, clearing a relationship of unspoken
hurt and resentment and how the Dagara balance their inner masculine
and feminine selves through gender-specific ritual. Oral Traditions,
800.779.1116 1994 or www.malidoma.com
or sobonfu@aol.com
Some, Malidoma, Robert Moore, John Lee, Robert Bly, Who Welcomes
the Newborn to this World? African and Western Perspectives. What
barriers to intimacy do men face while they are growing up? In this
remarkable recording well known teachers offer their perspectives on
the American experience while Malidoma Some contrasts the process of
birth, growth and initiation in his native African Dagara tribe. Ally
Press Center, 800.729.3002 www.malidoma.com
or sobonfu@aol.com
Sonkin, Daniel & Michael Durphy Learning to Live Without
Violence, A Worktape for Men. Domestic violence has many facets
within an intimate relationship and many effects on both men and
women. If you choose to prevent or end your violence, these tapes
provide you with tools and exercises that you can use on your own or
with counseling help. We do know people can and do change their
violent behavior. If you are considering such a change, we encourage
you to take the first step today. The path may not be easy, but in
these tapes you will find techniques that have helped people learn to
live without violence. 2 volumes. 1992 Volcano Press,
800.879.9636
Steele, David, Conscious Dating for
Relationship Success: How to find the love of your life,
AND the life that you love. Finally! Real-world,
practical, effective, comprehensive, do-able advice and information
for singles. A must-hear BEFORE you commit to
marriage! This audio (CD) program will help you: Decipher
dating in today's confusing world; Avoid the deadly dating traps;
Learn the secrets of finding your perfect partner: and Make a plan to
get what you really want in your life and relationships.
RCN Press, www.ConsciousDating.org,
ISBN 0-9755005-6-2
(See Book.)
Sun, John-Michael, Code Red. On April 5th,
2003, at the beginning of the Iraq war, an extraordinary event took
place that changed me. Whether you believe my story or not, it
doesn't change the truth; if everyone in this country could feel war,
the nightmare of it, vicariously through the eyes, heart and mind of
a child, peace would prevail. Code Red is my desperate plea for the
thousands of innocent children, who have died, to the ones who have
been ruined for life, to the ones who still have a chance to survive,
and maybe someday live a normal lilfe. Listen to Code Red with
an open heart, an open mind from beginning to end. Be willing to
imagine bigger than you ever have. Journey to the deepest darkest
scariest place in the world, the heart and mind of a child in the
middle of a war. I promise, you will come away changed. It will make
you cry and break your heart, yet, hopefully, inspire and motivate
you to do more, for even in the middle of the "shock and awe"
bombing, even in the horror of what's going on now, there is grace, a
grace meant for you and me, for the whole world watching, a grace
that is sent to awaken us from our deep sleep of denial. Consider all
of it a gift from the voices from the grave and those still living.
Listen, live, and learn. Share the gift and expand its sphere of
influence. Change the world. Peace. Visit www.voicesfromthegrave.org
or buddhablessturtleisland@yahoo.com
Vandross, Luther, Dance with My Father.
Released as an album and a song 6/10/03, it tells a story of growing
up with a father. It's a sweet love song from a son to his departed
father. It makes you want to check in before he checks out, if he
hasn't already. The CD includes other cuts with Foxy Brown,
Busta Rhymes, Queen Latifah, Steve Wonder and Beyonce Knowles.
www.luthervandross.com
EMI, 2003, 2876-51885-2 Buy
this CD!
von Koss, Doug & Friends, Night
Work. A collection of songs and chants that represent a
journey into night work for men. A haunting, healing, and whole
experience that brings forth the beauty of men, not experienced in
choral perfection, coming together in song. Self-produced. Doug@dougvonkoss.com
or www.dougvonkoss.com
von Koss, Doug, How Sweet the Sound
(w/booklet) "For those who know Doug or those who don't, this
CD and booklet shows a master at work, taking ordinary untrained
mens' and womens' voices, with care and inspiration, turning them
into a single woven voice, rising prayer-like and powerful." - Bill
Benham, poet. "Doug von Koss is a great Earthshaman who is helping us
begin singing a post trival Earth Community into
existence." Robert Moore, co-author of King,
Warrior, Magician and Lover. "Doug's music creates a most
exquisite trance. (After listening) you shouldn't operate heavy
machinery in this state." Larry Lease, MFC therapist.
"Doug, I love your CD. It is just like being at one of your evenings
with all the joy and beauty that you inspire in the
singers." Dan Zola, mythologist, producer Great
Night of Rumi. Get a copy, invite friends over, and join Doug and
The Noah Project for an evening of joy. Self-produced, 2004,
Doug@dougvonkoss.com or
www.dougvonkoss.com
What the Bleep do We Know!? Science and spirituality come together
in this mind-bending trip down the rabbit hole. This DVD is
a deftly woven, entertaining and enlightening tapestry of live action
drama, interviews, and visionary animation. Academy Award winner
Marlee Matlin plays Amanda, an unhappy, self-loathing professional
photographer. By "chance" she meets nine-year old Reggie (Robert
Bailey, Jr.) who asks her "Just how far down the rabbit hole of
mysteriousness do you want to go?" Thus begins her
Alice-in-Wonderland-like confrontation with the depths of her soul
and the quirks of her psyche. Interlaced with her unfolding
dissolution, transformation and rebirth are ongoing interviews with
14 top scientists and mystics. They relate our current understanding
of the nature of the universe and our place in it, including what and
how we human beings are wired. www.whatthebleep.com
Twentieth Century Fox Home Entertainment, 2004
Woodman, Marion, Leaving My Father's
House: A journey to conscious femininity. 2 Volume set.
Shambhala Lion Editions, 1992
Yumm,
MMO Male Multiple Orgasm, Step-by-step. Finally for men,
Multiple orgasms. Without ejaculating, without "holding back", even
without erection. In this seminar, the author suggests ways you my
combine stimulating certain multi-orgasmic hot spots in the lower
genital area with new patterns of breathing, a special physical
position and new ways of using your voice to help bring on and
express incredible, intense orgasms as often as you want. Yumm,
PO Box 3587 Dept 111, Ashland, OR 97520
Tapes of the First, Second and Third International Symposium on Circumcision, 1989. Master Duplicators, 11042 Bettes Pl, Garden Grove, CA 92640.
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