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Turn a Woman on with Fantasies
Sexual fantasies are an intriguing subject...and
not only men have them. The truth is, women have
them too, but they are limited to three general
types. Women can be just as sexual as a man if he
learns what fantasy buttons to push.
In order to rouse a woman’s fantasies, it
takes a little work. First of all, when you set out
to stimulate your partner, you need to narrow your
focus down to the three specific types of
fantasies: 1. Women with women, 2. Women in
Control, and 3. Sexually insatiable.
Too often, when using fantasies, men include the
things that turn themselves on rather than what
arouses a woman. Unfortunately, this is the
quickest way to turn a woman off. Women have
specific requirements in their fantasies,
primarily, a slow building pace before and after
the sex act. As a matter of fact, the non-sexual
touching is equally arousing to a woman. When using
fantasies with your partner, pay close attention to
the core elements in each of the types listed below
and include those details during fantasy talk.
Fantasy one: Women with Women. This fantasy is
alluring to women because its primary activities
consists of two aspects of sex that women crave:
oral satisfaction and tenderness. The key to this
fantasy is slow seduction. It begins with caressing
and holding, builds to passionate, mutual orgasms,
and finishes the way it began-tenderly.
Fantasy Two: Women in Control. The central theme
in this fantasy is a woman who has the power to
maker her partner cum. This is the woman who plays
the controlling seductress whether it’s
through the role of dominatrix, exhibitionist, or
any number of controlling women roles that turn a
man on. Her arousal comes from watching a man lose
his control to her.
Fantasy Three: Sexually Insatiable. Unlike the
other two types of fantasies, this one is more
“manly” because the focus is on the sex
act. Common themes in these fantasies are: engaging
in forbidden love, oral sex, multiple orgasms,
orgies, public sex, and anything involving sexually
adventurous actions.
The easiest way to begin is to start out slowly.
You might, for instance, bring up the topic of
sexual fantasies. All you need to say is,
“Which of the following three would turn you
on more? At that time, mention the fantasies above.
The mere act of talking about it will arouse
her.
So, if you want to turn your partner on through
sexual fantasies, all you have to do is start
talking about the subject. It may be a slow
process, but it’s guaranteed to create an
insatiable woman!
© 2008, ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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