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Honey, Darling, Sweetie Pie
Nothing is more endearing than the first time your
partner calls you by a pet name.
One thing is sure—it signifies that your
partner is comfortable with you. When you
hear the name, it makes you feel special because it
sets you apart from the others in his or her life.
It’s amazing what a little phrase of fondness
can do.
Anyone can call you by your first name, but only
a special person can make up his or her own name
for you. Even friends and family can’t use pet
names on you. Sure, they can call you something
other than your name, but it’s not the same as
when your partner says it. What’s in a
Name?
Some pet names are easier to use than others.
The easiest terms are the ones that sound more like
compliments. The following table has a few pet name
ideas to help you get started:
Categories of Pet Names
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Sweets
Cupcake
Sweet
cakes
Sugar
Honey
Cookie
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Other
Foods
Pumpkin
Sweet pea
Sugar plum
Peach
Hot Tamale
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Pedestal
Princess
Prince
Angel
Knight
Goddess
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Basic
Sweetheart
Handsome
Beautiful
Baby
Darling
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Pet Names Can Be Awkward
Using pet names is a difficult thing for some
people. For some, it almost feels like they are
making a commitment by using anything other than
their partner’s first name. For others, they
just feel too reserved to use an affectionate term.
If this describes you, don’t feel like you are
the only one, because others are uncomfortable with
this form of intimacy as well. For some, using a
pet name flows easily, and for others, it takes a
little practice.
It’s always easier to practice over the
phone if you are the slightest bit uncomfortable.
All you have to do is answer the phone, and when
you hear your partner’s voice, without
hesitation, say, “Hi there, handsome/
beautiful!” Then take a deep breath and know
that the next time will be easier. You can bet your
partner, on the other end, will be smiling from ear
to ear. She’ll feel so special just because
you called her something special. It works every
time; test it out for yourself.
© 2007 ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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Nancy Fagan is
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Guide to Romance' and 'Desirable Men: How to Find
Them' has appeared on several hundred radio and
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