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Musts for Better Sex
Good sex is much more about attitude than
technique. Sometimes the only adjustment needed is
a few exercises that improve the act of making
love. Although the practices below can be done
alone, they are best practiced while making love
with your partner.
Touch and be Touched
The body is one big erogenous zone. Don't focus
your touching exclusively on the genitals, breasts,
or buttocks. Let your hands explore the more
neglected areas for a greater impact on lovemaking.
the feet, for instance, are highly sensitive to
touch. To see how powerful this rule can be, the
next time you make love, agree to go 30 minutes
without touching the sexual areas of the body.
Encourage Your Partner
To prevent worrying, "I'm taking too long" or
"This won't work," partners should cheer each other
on by using positive statements such as, "I'm
enjoying this, take as long as you want."
Be in the Moment
While making love, put ALL thoughts out of your
head. Instead, focus on the sensations of your five
senses. When you catch your mind drifting, bring it
back.
Never Compare Lovers
You've learned your skills from your past, but
your partner doesn't need to hear about your
schooling. Concentrate on mastering your techniques
with your current partner.
© 2007 ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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Guide to Romance' and 'Desirable Men: How to Find
Them' has appeared on several hundred radio and
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Mars/Women are from Venus, ABC News, NBC News, CBS
News, The Berman & Berman Show, FOX News. She
has been featured in most major newspaper in the
United States and worldwide as well as regularly
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Ladies' Home Journal ('Can this Marriage be
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