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My First and Last One Night Stand
Q. I took off a full year from the
single’s scene to get myself together after a
break up with a man I was deeply in love with. To
jumpstart the process, I went to a club last week
and met a wonderful man. We really connected and I
ended up going home with him that night. Now I
regret that decision because he hasn't called
me.
A. Regardless of how strong of a
'connection' you have with someone new, it's ALWAYS
a mistake to sleep together the first night you
meet. Surveys have shown that men who believe there
is potential for a long-term relationship with a
woman will avoid having sex with her too soon. On
the other hand, men who push for sex up front,
don’t usually value the woman for more than
what she offers sexually. Unfortunately, you've
learned a painful lesson. In this case, regardless
of how genuine his interest may have seemed, his
real intentions weren't!
Weeding out the 'relationship-potential”
men from those who aren't is a difficult part of
dating. For this very reason, it’s best to
delay sexual intimacy until a relationship
develops, despite the level of sexual chemistry two
people feel for each other. Playing it safe may be
a conservative approach, but the best one for your
heart and
© 2009 ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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Nancy Fagan is
the best-selling author of 'The Complete Idiot's
Guide to Romance' and 'Desirable Men: How to Find
Them' has appeared on several hundred radio and
television shows including Ricki Lake, Men are from
Mars/Women are from Venus, ABC News, NBC News, CBS
News, The Berman & Berman Show, FOX News. She
has been featured in most major newspaper in the
United States and worldwide as well as regularly
mentioned in the nation's top magazines such as
Ladies' Home Journal ('Can this Marriage be
Saved?'), Cosmopolitan, Glamour, Men's Health,
Bride's, Seventeen, Women's Day, Family Circle,
Women's Own, BBW, Complete Women and dozens of
others. To read more, visit www.ExpertDatingAdvice.com
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