The #1 Way To Get The Passion and Excitement
Back In Your Relationship...
The other day we asked the women who subscribe to
this newsletter a really important question...
"What specifically could your man do to get you
'in the mood' for love and romance more often?"
And boy, did we get the responses!
What came out of the survey wasn't
surprising--but it was.
It's surprising that it's so simple to do but
not many people seem to be doing it to keep their
relationship passionate and alive.
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What's the #1 thing that women say they want
from their men that would get them "in the mood"
It's what we call "Passion Play All Day."
(By the way, this strategy is NOT just for men
to do for women but involves both people in the
"Passion Play All Day" goes something like
Doing little things throughout the day to show
your partner that you care and that he or she is
important to you.
It's not just about leading up to what happens
in the bedroom...
The health of your relationship could depend on
doing these little things and not stopping.
Yes, passion play-- all day IS that important.
Here are some ideas from what we do in our own
lives to keep our relationship juicy, as well as a
few suggestions from our survey...
1. A note, a text, a phone call, a few
affectionate words about what you would like to do
to each other when you get together
You may say that keeping in touch throughout the
day is too time-consuming and that you're too
We say that this is one relationship you can't
afford to ignore. Just ask anyone who's going
through a separation or divorce.
So take just a moment right now and touch base
with your loved one.
2. Use kind words
Using kind words can go a long way to creating
more connection and passion in a relationship.
You might say that sometimes you're tired or
stressed and you just don't feel like being kind.
If that's the case, then let your partner know
and go get yourself together. Then come back and
connect with your loved one.
If you want some words and phrases to say that
will help each of you stay open when you have tough
things to say to each other (and you're afraid they
might not come out as kind or loving)...
3. An unexpected, soft kiss on the back of the
The women in our survey told us they loved this
kind of kiss but we've found that men react just as
much to this kind of kiss as women do.
The trick is that it's unexpected.
Now of course you have to "read" your partner
and if he or she is deeply engrossed in a project
and you know that this kind of distraction is not
appreciated, don't do it then.
Do it as you pass in the hall or in the
The point is to show affection with no agenda in
mind except to convey that he or she is important
to you and you love being that close.
4. Spend time together and make eye contact
Spending time alone together is often the first
thing to go when your life becomes stressed and
But if you want to keep your relationship alive
and growing--this is "must."
Even if it's 15 minutes of sharing what happened
during your day and making eye contact while you
talk and listen to your partner...
Take that 15 minutes and make the most of it.
Take a walk around the block--just the two of
Hold hands and look at each other while you do
It doesn't take long--not as long as it takes to
go on Facebook, watch a tv program or check the
scores of your favorite teams.
These are just a few ideas for doing "Passion
Play All Day" and if you have more you'd like to
tell us about, be sure to write to us!
Yes, your relationship is that important. Be
sure to treat it like it is.
& Otto Collins
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