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 The Little Book of Bleeps: Ponder these for awhile.
   Your daily dose of mind expanding, thought provoking BLEEPOLOGY!
   from the ground-breaking and award-winning feature film, What
   the Bleep do We Know!? www.whatthebleep.com
   2004 ISBN 0-9761074-0-6
   The Little Book of Bleeps: Ponder these for awhile.
   Your daily dose of mind expanding, thought provoking BLEEPOLOGY!
   from the ground-breaking and award-winning feature film, What
   the Bleep do We Know!? www.whatthebleep.com
   2004 ISBN 0-9761074-0-6 
 What the Bleep do We Know!? Science and spirituality come
   together in this mind-bending trip down the rabbit hole. This
   DVD is a deftly woven, entertaining and enlightening tapestry
   of live action drama, interviews, and visionary animation. Academy
   Award winner Marlee Matlin plays Amanda, an unhappy, self-loathing
   professional photographer. By "chance" she meets nine-year old
   Reggie (Robert Bailey, Jr.) who asks her "Just how far down
   the rabbit hole of mysteriousness do you want to go?" Thus
   begins her Alice-in-Wonderland-like confrontation with the depths
   of her soul and the quirks of her psyche. Interlaced with her
   unfolding dissolution, transformation and rebirth are ongoing
   interviews with 14 top scientists and mystics. They relate our
   current understanding of the nature of the universe and our place
   in it, including what and how we human beings are wired. www.whatthebleep.com
   Twentieth Century Fox Home Entertainment, 2004
   What the Bleep do We Know!? Science and spirituality come
   together in this mind-bending trip down the rabbit hole. This
   DVD is a deftly woven, entertaining and enlightening tapestry
   of live action drama, interviews, and visionary animation. Academy
   Award winner Marlee Matlin plays Amanda, an unhappy, self-loathing
   professional photographer. By "chance" she meets nine-year old
   Reggie (Robert Bailey, Jr.) who asks her "Just how far down
   the rabbit hole of mysteriousness do you want to go?" Thus
   begins her Alice-in-Wonderland-like confrontation with the depths
   of her soul and the quirks of her psyche. Interlaced with her
   unfolding dissolution, transformation and rebirth are ongoing
   interviews with 14 top scientists and mystics. They relate our
   current understanding of the nature of the universe and our place
   in it, including what and how we human beings are wired. www.whatthebleep.com
   Twentieth Century Fox Home Entertainment, 2004 Abu-Sahlief, Sami A. Aldeeb, Muslins in
   the West: Caught Between Rights and Duties: Redefining
   the separation of church and state. This work is dedicated to
   problems brought about by the presence of Muslims. Even though the
   precise data for these problems differs slighly in other
   countries, these problems are everywhere practically identical in
   Western countries where currently between fifteen and twenty
   million Muslims live. After a description of the Muslim view of
   minorities, this work presents Muslim demands to see to what
   extend these demands can be taken in account: the
   recognition, freedom of religion and workshop, school, family
   laws, forbidden foods and cemeteries. If the Muslim community
   continues at its present growth rate without adapting a more
   tolerant system of values, this community will represent a serious
   risk to the future of the democratic and legal system of Western
   countries, and will be able to endanger their territorial
   sovereignty, as in former Yugoslavia. This work is written on a
   critical topic in this period of extreme global tensions. It is
   exceedingly beneficial for the Muslim community as well as the
   West. Both paradigms must learn to coexist if we are to survive.
   To analyze problems is the first step in their solution.
   Shangri-La Publications, 2002, ISBN 0-9714683-3-8 Buy
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   Abu-Sahlief, Sami A. Aldeeb, Muslins in
   the West: Caught Between Rights and Duties: Redefining
   the separation of church and state. This work is dedicated to
   problems brought about by the presence of Muslims. Even though the
   precise data for these problems differs slighly in other
   countries, these problems are everywhere practically identical in
   Western countries where currently between fifteen and twenty
   million Muslims live. After a description of the Muslim view of
   minorities, this work presents Muslim demands to see to what
   extend these demands can be taken in account: the
   recognition, freedom of religion and workshop, school, family
   laws, forbidden foods and cemeteries. If the Muslim community
   continues at its present growth rate without adapting a more
   tolerant system of values, this community will represent a serious
   risk to the future of the democratic and legal system of Western
   countries, and will be able to endanger their territorial
   sovereignty, as in former Yugoslavia. This work is written on a
   critical topic in this period of extreme global tensions. It is
   exceedingly beneficial for the Muslim community as well as the
   West. Both paradigms must learn to coexist if we are to survive.
   To analyze problems is the first step in their solution.
   Shangri-La Publications, 2002, ISBN 0-9714683-3-8 Buy
   This Book! Andrews, Ted, Animal-Speak: The
   spiritual & magical powers of creatures great
   & small. The animal world has much to teach us. Some
   animals are experts at survival and adaptation,some never get
   cancer, some embody strength and courage, while others exude
   playfulness. Animals remind us of the potential we can unfold, but
   before we can learn from them, we must first be able to speak with
   them. Now, for perhaps the first time ever, myth and fact are
   combined in a manner that will teach you how to speak and
   understand the language of the animals in your life. This book
   helps you meet and work with animals as totems and spirits - by
   learning the language of their behaviors within the physical
   world. It provides techniques for reading signs and omens in
   nature so you can open to higher perceptions and even prophecy. It
   reveals the hidden, mythical, and realistic roles of 45 animals,
   60 birds, 8 insects and 6 reptiles. Animals will become a part of
   you, revealing to you the majesty and divine in all life. They
   will restore your childlike wonder of the world and strengthen
   your belief in magic, dreams and possibilities. Llewellyn
   Publications, 1999 ISBN  0-87542-028-1 Buy
   This Book!
    Andrews, Ted, Animal-Speak: The
   spiritual & magical powers of creatures great
   & small. The animal world has much to teach us. Some
   animals are experts at survival and adaptation,some never get
   cancer, some embody strength and courage, while others exude
   playfulness. Animals remind us of the potential we can unfold, but
   before we can learn from them, we must first be able to speak with
   them. Now, for perhaps the first time ever, myth and fact are
   combined in a manner that will teach you how to speak and
   understand the language of the animals in your life. This book
   helps you meet and work with animals as totems and spirits - by
   learning the language of their behaviors within the physical
   world. It provides techniques for reading signs and omens in
   nature so you can open to higher perceptions and even prophecy. It
   reveals the hidden, mythical, and realistic roles of 45 animals,
   60 birds, 8 insects and 6 reptiles. Animals will become a part of
   you, revealing to you the majesty and divine in all life. They
   will restore your childlike wonder of the world and strengthen
   your belief in magic, dreams and possibilities. Llewellyn
   Publications, 1999 ISBN  0-87542-028-1 Buy
   This Book! Andrews, Ted, Animal-Wise: The
   spirit language and signs of nature. The sheer beauty and
   power of wild animals fill us with wonder. Our heart jumps. Our
   breath catches. Our pulse races. We feel the touch of God within
   nature and upon our soul. But what is often missing is the
   understanding. One of Nature's greatest gifts is her endless
   willingness to teach us about our possibilities and ourselves.
   With this book, you will understand the wonders and beauty of
   animals more intimately. You will understand their hidden
   language. You will begin to realize that every creature mirrors
   the magnificence of your own soul. You will recognize animals as
   messengers of the Divine. The early shamans, priests, and
   priestesses were scientists as well as mystics. They studied the
   plants and animals, earning their characteristics and qualities.
   They also honored the sprit expressed in and through them. When we
   realize that our learning and guidance comes from sources other
   than human, our world is no longer the same. It becomes filled
   with new possibilities. In the world around us is a myriad of
   wonders. Through the animals kingdoms - through the multitude of
   wonders found within Nature - we experience renewal. Every sojourn
   into Nature, every animal encounter, offers an epiphany for the
   heart and soul. And if only for a little while, let us open our
   heart to it and see what glories unfold! Dragonhawk Publishing,
   1999, ISBN 1-888767-34-0 Buy
   This Book!
    Andrews, Ted, Animal-Wise: The
   spirit language and signs of nature. The sheer beauty and
   power of wild animals fill us with wonder. Our heart jumps. Our
   breath catches. Our pulse races. We feel the touch of God within
   nature and upon our soul. But what is often missing is the
   understanding. One of Nature's greatest gifts is her endless
   willingness to teach us about our possibilities and ourselves.
   With this book, you will understand the wonders and beauty of
   animals more intimately. You will understand their hidden
   language. You will begin to realize that every creature mirrors
   the magnificence of your own soul. You will recognize animals as
   messengers of the Divine. The early shamans, priests, and
   priestesses were scientists as well as mystics. They studied the
   plants and animals, earning their characteristics and qualities.
   They also honored the sprit expressed in and through them. When we
   realize that our learning and guidance comes from sources other
   than human, our world is no longer the same. It becomes filled
   with new possibilities. In the world around us is a myriad of
   wonders. Through the animals kingdoms - through the multitude of
   wonders found within Nature - we experience renewal. Every sojourn
   into Nature, every animal encounter, offers an epiphany for the
   heart and soul. And if only for a little while, let us open our
   heart to it and see what glories unfold! Dragonhawk Publishing,
   1999, ISBN 1-888767-34-0 Buy
   This Book! Asma, Stephen T.. Why I am a
   Buddhist: No-nonsense Buddhism with Red Meat and Whiskey.
   In this book, a philosophy professor and author decodes the often
   confusing and contradictory impressions that crowd together under
   the umbrella of "Buddhism" to show the beneficial wisdom that
   Buddhism offers for the challenges of modern life. Beginning with
   the story of his early attempts at achieving mystical experiences
   with natural and controlled substances as a disaffected teen, he
   traces his exploration of Buddhism and mindfulness, a way to
   discipline our minds that helps us chart realistic goals and stay
   on course. Buddhism attempts to give us a second nature, one that
   writes over the old genetic and psychological code, but it never
   asks us to pretend that the old code doesn't exist. Unlike some
   other religions, Buddhism doesn't imagine humans in some
   unrealistic angelic form. Nor does it cast us as weak and fallen
   souls, incapable of any improvement save those delivered by an
   almighty deity. Learning to apply Buddhism is like learning to
   play an instrument. It takes a while to get the fundamentals -
   scales, chords, and fingering technique. Then it takes daily
   practice to learn melodies and progressions. Prolonged failure and
   frustration are inevitable, but very slowly one begins to hear
   real music. We don';t have to become virtuosos on our instruments
   or Buddhist sages to appreciate and employ the art form in our
   lives, but we can't achieve anything without effort. Hampton
   Roads, www.hrpub.com, 2010
   ISBN 978-1-57174-617-7
   Asma, Stephen T.. Why I am a
   Buddhist: No-nonsense Buddhism with Red Meat and Whiskey.
   In this book, a philosophy professor and author decodes the often
   confusing and contradictory impressions that crowd together under
   the umbrella of "Buddhism" to show the beneficial wisdom that
   Buddhism offers for the challenges of modern life. Beginning with
   the story of his early attempts at achieving mystical experiences
   with natural and controlled substances as a disaffected teen, he
   traces his exploration of Buddhism and mindfulness, a way to
   discipline our minds that helps us chart realistic goals and stay
   on course. Buddhism attempts to give us a second nature, one that
   writes over the old genetic and psychological code, but it never
   asks us to pretend that the old code doesn't exist. Unlike some
   other religions, Buddhism doesn't imagine humans in some
   unrealistic angelic form. Nor does it cast us as weak and fallen
   souls, incapable of any improvement save those delivered by an
   almighty deity. Learning to apply Buddhism is like learning to
   play an instrument. It takes a while to get the fundamentals -
   scales, chords, and fingering technique. Then it takes daily
   practice to learn melodies and progressions. Prolonged failure and
   frustration are inevitable, but very slowly one begins to hear
   real music. We don';t have to become virtuosos on our instruments
   or Buddhist sages to appreciate and employ the art form in our
   lives, but we can't achieve anything without effort. Hampton
   Roads, www.hrpub.com, 2010
   ISBN 978-1-57174-617-7 
 Balswick, Jack, Men at the
   Crossroads: Beyond traditional roles & modern
   options. I want to be a man but somebody stole the script.
   These are confusing times for men. The traditional male has been
   attacked as a chauvinist brute. Yet less traditional men are often
   dismissed as passive, soft, wimpish. So-called New Age sages have
   entered the vacuum and counseled men to recover the kind, warrior,
   magician and lover in each of them. Is this good and acceptable
   advice for Christian men?  In this vastly helpful book,
   the author takes account of the bind contemporary Christian men
   find themselves in. He assess the "men's movement". Boldly
   speaking from deep and sure faith, he points to a radical
   alternative beyond the traditional brute and the dewy-eyed New Age
   mystic - a maleness based on the fatherhood of God and the true
   masculinity modeled in Christ. This book is a critical but
   entirely practical book, a lifeline for generations of Christian
   men searching for new directions in these perplexing days.
   InterVaristy Press, 1992 ISBN 0-8308-1385-3 Buy
   This Book!
   Balswick, Jack, Men at the
   Crossroads: Beyond traditional roles & modern
   options. I want to be a man but somebody stole the script.
   These are confusing times for men. The traditional male has been
   attacked as a chauvinist brute. Yet less traditional men are often
   dismissed as passive, soft, wimpish. So-called New Age sages have
   entered the vacuum and counseled men to recover the kind, warrior,
   magician and lover in each of them. Is this good and acceptable
   advice for Christian men?  In this vastly helpful book,
   the author takes account of the bind contemporary Christian men
   find themselves in. He assess the "men's movement". Boldly
   speaking from deep and sure faith, he points to a radical
   alternative beyond the traditional brute and the dewy-eyed New Age
   mystic - a maleness based on the fatherhood of God and the true
   masculinity modeled in Christ. This book is a critical but
   entirely practical book, a lifeline for generations of Christian
   men searching for new directions in these perplexing days.
   InterVaristy Press, 1992 ISBN 0-8308-1385-3 Buy
   This Book! Becker, Carol, Becoming
   Colleagues: Women and men serving together in faith. Few
   mixed gender work teams in faith-based organizations are as
   successful as they could be - and the reasons for success or
   faliure are always evident. Women often grapple with people whose
   practices and theological understandings do not welcome their
   leadership, and both men and women fall into counterproductive
   power struggles and traps of miscommunication. In these
   circumstances, even highly effective teams until now have found it
   hard to explain the magic formula behind their success. In the
   first book to address this issue, the author gives specific
   guidance for implementing change in the religious workplace, based
   on her extensive study of twenth-three different teams of men and
   women from congregations, denominations, and faith-based nonprofit
   organizations. She uses stories from successful teams to outline
   nine criteria required for effective mixed-gender working
   relations and tells how to use these criteria to create and
   sustain an effective team. In practice, successful teams integrate
   elements of all nine criteria in order to build successful mixed
   gender work experiences. The stories from the teams in this book
   bring these criteria to life and demonstrate a common theme that
   is intangible: the great joy that men and women of faith
   experience when they are working together effectively.
   Jossey-Bass, www.josseybass.com
   ISBN 0-7879-4709-1 Buy
   This Book!
   Becker, Carol, Becoming
   Colleagues: Women and men serving together in faith. Few
   mixed gender work teams in faith-based organizations are as
   successful as they could be - and the reasons for success or
   faliure are always evident. Women often grapple with people whose
   practices and theological understandings do not welcome their
   leadership, and both men and women fall into counterproductive
   power struggles and traps of miscommunication. In these
   circumstances, even highly effective teams until now have found it
   hard to explain the magic formula behind their success. In the
   first book to address this issue, the author gives specific
   guidance for implementing change in the religious workplace, based
   on her extensive study of twenth-three different teams of men and
   women from congregations, denominations, and faith-based nonprofit
   organizations. She uses stories from successful teams to outline
   nine criteria required for effective mixed-gender working
   relations and tells how to use these criteria to create and
   sustain an effective team. In practice, successful teams integrate
   elements of all nine criteria in order to build successful mixed
   gender work experiences. The stories from the teams in this book
   bring these criteria to life and demonstrate a common theme that
   is intangible: the great joy that men and women of faith
   experience when they are working together effectively.
   Jossey-Bass, www.josseybass.com
   ISBN 0-7879-4709-1 Buy
   This Book! Bly, Robert, The Night Abraham Called to the
   Stars. The author's new collection of poetry is made of
   forty-eight poems writtern in the intricate form called the
   ghazal, which is the central poetic form in Islam. The
   influence of Hafez and Rumi is clear, and yet the poems descend
   into the wealth of Western history, referring at times to Monet,
   Giordano, Bruno, Emerson, St. Francis, Newton, and Chekhov, as
   well as to events in the author's own life. The leaping between
   joy and "ruin" produces a poetry which makes him, as Kenneth
   Rexroth noted, "one of the leaders in a poetic revival which has
   returned American literature to the world community." Perennial,
   www.harpercollins.com,
   2002, ISBN 0-06-093444-1 Buy
   This Book!
    Bly, Robert, The Night Abraham Called to the
   Stars. The author's new collection of poetry is made of
   forty-eight poems writtern in the intricate form called the
   ghazal, which is the central poetic form in Islam. The
   influence of Hafez and Rumi is clear, and yet the poems descend
   into the wealth of Western history, referring at times to Monet,
   Giordano, Bruno, Emerson, St. Francis, Newton, and Chekhov, as
   well as to events in the author's own life. The leaping between
   joy and "ruin" produces a poetry which makes him, as Kenneth
   Rexroth noted, "one of the leaders in a poetic revival which has
   returned American literature to the world community." Perennial,
   www.harpercollins.com,
   2002, ISBN 0-06-093444-1 Buy
   This Book! Boyd, Stephen, The Men We Long to
   Be:  Beyond lonely warriors and desperate lovers,
   Stephen B. Boyd. The author unflinchingly plumbs the
   destructiveness of cultural masculinity for men themselves as well
   as for everyone and everything else. His grasp of the spiritually
   transformative process leading toward what we men long to be in
   extraordinarily insightful and practical. He writes with
   self-revelatory candor, theological acumen, and a passion for
   healing and justice. He has given us a charter of hope that can
   "fatten our souls" - James B. Nelson. Pilgrim Press 1997
   ISBN 0-8298-1201-6 Buy
   This Book!
    Boyd, Stephen, The Men We Long to
   Be:  Beyond lonely warriors and desperate lovers,
   Stephen B. Boyd. The author unflinchingly plumbs the
   destructiveness of cultural masculinity for men themselves as well
   as for everyone and everything else. His grasp of the spiritually
   transformative process leading toward what we men long to be in
   extraordinarily insightful and practical. He writes with
   self-revelatory candor, theological acumen, and a passion for
   healing and justice. He has given us a charter of hope that can
   "fatten our souls" - James B. Nelson. Pilgrim Press 1997
   ISBN 0-8298-1201-6 Buy
   This Book! Boyd, Stephan, Merle Longwood & Mark Muesse, editors,
   Redeeming Men: Religion and Masculinities. Contributions to
   this groundbreaking book include historians, biblical specialists,
   theologians, ethicists, and scholars of comparative religions.
   They examine, from a wide variety of perspectives, the
   relationship between religious tradition and manhood. The broad
   range of topics considered - dynamics of power in shaping
   masculine identity, the role religion plays in shaping masculine
   identity, the experience of myth, ritual, spiritual discipline and
   community - suggest enormous practical application in the daily
   lives of all men. Westminster John Knox Press, 1996
   Boyd, Stephan, Merle Longwood & Mark Muesse, editors,
   Redeeming Men: Religion and Masculinities. Contributions to
   this groundbreaking book include historians, biblical specialists,
   theologians, ethicists, and scholars of comparative religions.
   They examine, from a wide variety of perspectives, the
   relationship between religious tradition and manhood. The broad
   range of topics considered - dynamics of power in shaping
   masculine identity, the role religion plays in shaping masculine
   identity, the experience of myth, ritual, spiritual discipline and
   community - suggest enormous practical application in the daily
   lives of all men. Westminster John Knox Press, 1996 Braden, Gregg, The Isaiah
   Effect: Decoding the lost science of prayer and prophecy.
   In this groundbreaking new book, the author turns to the Isaiah
   Scroll, perhaps the most important of the Dead Sea Scrolls
   discovered in 1946, to offer insight into a powerful form of
   ancient prayer. He combines research in quantum physics with the
   works of the prophet Isaiah and the ancient Essenes. He
   demonstrates how prophecies of global catastrophe and suffering
   may only represent future possibililities, rather than forecast
   impending doom, and that we have the power to influence those
   possibilities. In addition to describing multiple futures, the
   Isaiah texts take us one step further, clearly describing the
   science of how we choose our futures. Tracing key words of
   Isaiah's text back to their original language, we discover how he
   taught a mode of prayer that was lost to the West during Biblical
   editing in the fourth century. The author offers detailed accounts
   of how elements of this mode of prayer have been applied in a
   variety of situations, ranging from healing life-threatening
   conditions to entire villages using collective prayer to prevail
   during the 1998 fires in sourthern Peru. In each instance, the
   correlation between the offering of the prayer and a shift of the
   events in question was beyond coincidence - the prayers had
   measurable effects!  As modern science continues to
   validate a relationship between our outer and inner worlds, it
   becomes more likely that a forgotten bridge links the world of our
   prayers with that of our experience. Each time we engage
   ourselves, our loved ones, and our communities with Isaiah's
   life-affirming message of hope, we secure nothing less than our
   future and the future of the only home we know. Harmony Books.
   www.randomhouse.com 2000
   ISBN 0-609-60534-8 Buy
   This Book!
   Braden, Gregg, The Isaiah
   Effect: Decoding the lost science of prayer and prophecy.
   In this groundbreaking new book, the author turns to the Isaiah
   Scroll, perhaps the most important of the Dead Sea Scrolls
   discovered in 1946, to offer insight into a powerful form of
   ancient prayer. He combines research in quantum physics with the
   works of the prophet Isaiah and the ancient Essenes. He
   demonstrates how prophecies of global catastrophe and suffering
   may only represent future possibililities, rather than forecast
   impending doom, and that we have the power to influence those
   possibilities. In addition to describing multiple futures, the
   Isaiah texts take us one step further, clearly describing the
   science of how we choose our futures. Tracing key words of
   Isaiah's text back to their original language, we discover how he
   taught a mode of prayer that was lost to the West during Biblical
   editing in the fourth century. The author offers detailed accounts
   of how elements of this mode of prayer have been applied in a
   variety of situations, ranging from healing life-threatening
   conditions to entire villages using collective prayer to prevail
   during the 1998 fires in sourthern Peru. In each instance, the
   correlation between the offering of the prayer and a shift of the
   events in question was beyond coincidence - the prayers had
   measurable effects!  As modern science continues to
   validate a relationship between our outer and inner worlds, it
   becomes more likely that a forgotten bridge links the world of our
   prayers with that of our experience. Each time we engage
   ourselves, our loved ones, and our communities with Isaiah's
   life-affirming message of hope, we secure nothing less than our
   future and the future of the only home we know. Harmony Books.
   www.randomhouse.com 2000
   ISBN 0-609-60534-8 Buy
   This Book! Braden, Gregg, Walking Between the Worlds: The science of
   compassion, Radio, 1997
   Braden, Gregg, Walking Between the Worlds: The science of
   compassion, Radio, 1997 Camphausen, Rufus C., The
   Yoni:  Sacred symbol of female creative power. The
   term Yoni heralds from a culture and religion in which women have
   long been regarded and honored as the embodiment of divine energy
   and where the female genitals are seen as a sacred symbol of the
   Great Goddess. Ever since our prehistoric ancestors began to
   practice religion and art, humanity has envisioned and
   symbolically expressed the cosmic forces of creation, life, and
   death in representations of human genitalia. Fertility cults
   centered on phallic worship are well documented, but older and
   even more pervasive are the cults of the Goddess and her vulva.
   Yoni worship has been a part of the spiritual heritage in every
   part of the globe and may in fact be the most ancient religion of
   humanity. This book traces this primal motif from its first
   surviving occurrence almost 30,000 years ago in Europe to its
   remnants and budding renaissance in contemporary language, art and
   literature. From the naturally occurring Yoni rock formations used
   as sacred places by indigenous Americans to the Indian temple of
   the menstruating Goddess, from the exhibitionist sheela-na-gig
   carvings of early Celtic churches to the ritual striptease found
   in Japan, this book reveals Yoni imagery and veneration that spans
   many cultures and times. (Also see The
   Phallus.) Inner Traditions, 1996
   Camphausen, Rufus C., The
   Yoni:  Sacred symbol of female creative power. The
   term Yoni heralds from a culture and religion in which women have
   long been regarded and honored as the embodiment of divine energy
   and where the female genitals are seen as a sacred symbol of the
   Great Goddess. Ever since our prehistoric ancestors began to
   practice religion and art, humanity has envisioned and
   symbolically expressed the cosmic forces of creation, life, and
   death in representations of human genitalia. Fertility cults
   centered on phallic worship are well documented, but older and
   even more pervasive are the cults of the Goddess and her vulva.
   Yoni worship has been a part of the spiritual heritage in every
   part of the globe and may in fact be the most ancient religion of
   humanity. This book traces this primal motif from its first
   surviving occurrence almost 30,000 years ago in Europe to its
   remnants and budding renaissance in contemporary language, art and
   literature. From the naturally occurring Yoni rock formations used
   as sacred places by indigenous Americans to the Indian temple of
   the menstruating Goddess, from the exhibitionist sheela-na-gig
   carvings of early Celtic churches to the ritual striptease found
   in Japan, this book reveals Yoni imagery and veneration that spans
   many cultures and times. (Also see The
   Phallus.) Inner Traditions, 1996 Carlson, Richard, Don't Sweat the Small Stuff...and it's all
   small stuff: simple ways to keep the little things from taking
   over your life, Hyperion, 1997
   Carlson, Richard, Don't Sweat the Small Stuff...and it's all
   small stuff: simple ways to keep the little things from taking
   over your life, Hyperion, 1997 Casey, Karen, It's Up to You: A practice to change your life by
   changing your mind. This small book will change everything if
   you let it. Nothing could be simpler or more profound. Begin the
   morning with a simple "paying attention" meditation. Take just a
   few minutes. During the day, remember what you're paying attention
   to, when the thought occurs, no rules. In the evening, just before
   bed, take a few more minutes to assess how the day went. This
   practice is all about focusing on solutions not problems, letting
   go of preconceived notions, acting instead of reacting, giving up
   judgments and trying to be in control. As we quiet our minds, we
   begin to discern our mind's own truth. This book offers 12
   principles for changing your life by changing your thinking, with
   seven days' worth of morning and evening meditations for each.
   Conari Press, www.redwheelweiser.com,
   ISBN 978-1-57324-314-8
   Casey, Karen, It's Up to You: A practice to change your life by
   changing your mind. This small book will change everything if
   you let it. Nothing could be simpler or more profound. Begin the
   morning with a simple "paying attention" meditation. Take just a
   few minutes. During the day, remember what you're paying attention
   to, when the thought occurs, no rules. In the evening, just before
   bed, take a few more minutes to assess how the day went. This
   practice is all about focusing on solutions not problems, letting
   go of preconceived notions, acting instead of reacting, giving up
   judgments and trying to be in control. As we quiet our minds, we
   begin to discern our mind's own truth. This book offers 12
   principles for changing your life by changing your thinking, with
   seven days' worth of morning and evening meditations for each.
   Conari Press, www.redwheelweiser.com,
   ISBN 978-1-57324-314-8 
 Chase, Frank Jr., False Roads to Manhood:
   What women need to know, what men need to understand. The
   author guides men on an extraordinary journey through their souls.
   With surgical precision, he examines the souls of men, not only to
   help them understand themselves, but informs women about
   understanding today's "Adam in Christ." This powerful book of
   healing has already begun to touch the souls of men and women.
   It's time for men across the world to "break free" from the
   traditions of men. FC Publishing, 2005, www.fcpublishing.com,
   ISBN 0-9755217-8-0
   Chase, Frank Jr., False Roads to Manhood:
   What women need to know, what men need to understand. The
   author guides men on an extraordinary journey through their souls.
   With surgical precision, he examines the souls of men, not only to
   help them understand themselves, but informs women about
   understanding today's "Adam in Christ." This powerful book of
   healing has already begun to touch the souls of men and women.
   It's time for men across the world to "break free" from the
   traditions of men. FC Publishing, 2005, www.fcpublishing.com,
   ISBN 0-9755217-8-0 
 Chinen, Allan, Beyond the Hero:  Classic stories of
   men in search of soul, Tarcher, 1993
   Chinen, Allan, Beyond the Hero:  Classic stories of
   men in search of soul, Tarcher, 1993 Chiperzak, Jy, And So It
   Began: Chronic illness, soul loss: an initiation into
   the realm of spirit. This book is a psycho/spiritual novel
   about a man's successful and fulfilling journey, first succumbing
   to, then transcending a debilitating illness, Chronic Fatigue
   Syndrome. Rob, a man of his time trapped in the busyness of his
   life; farmer, Executive Director of a conservation society, Trees
   For The Future, with wife and family, is consumed, wasted, by
   Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Becoming a disparate soul disconnected
   shell, Rob was dying from the inside out. From the pit of pain,
   confusion and despair Rob becomes embedded in the otherworld of
   the mythic, of the shaman. It is a realm of enchantment and magico
   where Nature speaks and time and space become one. Rob becomes
   Bran, Celtic for "Raven". Follow Rob as his old paradigm of the
   rational collapses into the enchanted realm of the sacred, of
   spirits, power animals and his shamanic teacher in human form,
   "the child of the mound born dead." Break through with him
   into a new understanding and experiencing of healing and
   empowerment. www.Andsoitbegan.com
   or jy@andsoitbegan.com.
   Trafford Publishing, www.trafford.com/robots/00-0029.html
   or sales@trafford.com or
   888.232.4444 2000, ISBN 1552123650 Buy
   This Book!
   Chiperzak, Jy, And So It
   Began: Chronic illness, soul loss: an initiation into
   the realm of spirit. This book is a psycho/spiritual novel
   about a man's successful and fulfilling journey, first succumbing
   to, then transcending a debilitating illness, Chronic Fatigue
   Syndrome. Rob, a man of his time trapped in the busyness of his
   life; farmer, Executive Director of a conservation society, Trees
   For The Future, with wife and family, is consumed, wasted, by
   Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. Becoming a disparate soul disconnected
   shell, Rob was dying from the inside out. From the pit of pain,
   confusion and despair Rob becomes embedded in the otherworld of
   the mythic, of the shaman. It is a realm of enchantment and magico
   where Nature speaks and time and space become one. Rob becomes
   Bran, Celtic for "Raven". Follow Rob as his old paradigm of the
   rational collapses into the enchanted realm of the sacred, of
   spirits, power animals and his shamanic teacher in human form,
   "the child of the mound born dead." Break through with him
   into a new understanding and experiencing of healing and
   empowerment. www.Andsoitbegan.com
   or jy@andsoitbegan.com.
   Trafford Publishing, www.trafford.com/robots/00-0029.html
   or sales@trafford.com or
   888.232.4444 2000, ISBN 1552123650 Buy
   This Book! Chodron, Pema, When
   Things Fall Apart:  Heart advice for difficult
   times. There is a fundamental happiness right within our
   reach, yet we usually miss it - ironically, while caught up in
   attempts to escape pain and suffering. The author's radical and
   compassionate advice for what to do when things fall apart in our
   lives goes against the grain of our usual habits and expectations
   and confronts us with traditional Buddhist wisdom. There is only
   one approach to suffering that is of lasting benefit, the author
   teaches, and that approach involves moving towards painful
   situations to the best of our ability with friendliness and
   curiosity, relaxing into the essential groundlessness of our
   entire situation. It is there, in the midst of chaos, that we can
   discover the truth and love that are indestructible. Shambhala
   1997
    Chodron, Pema, When
   Things Fall Apart:  Heart advice for difficult
   times. There is a fundamental happiness right within our
   reach, yet we usually miss it - ironically, while caught up in
   attempts to escape pain and suffering. The author's radical and
   compassionate advice for what to do when things fall apart in our
   lives goes against the grain of our usual habits and expectations
   and confronts us with traditional Buddhist wisdom. There is only
   one approach to suffering that is of lasting benefit, the author
   teaches, and that approach involves moving towards painful
   situations to the best of our ability with friendliness and
   curiosity, relaxing into the essential groundlessness of our
   entire situation. It is there, in the midst of chaos, that we can
   discover the truth and love that are indestructible. Shambhala
   1997 Coit, Lee,
   Listening:  How to increase awareness of your inner
   guide. It has been years since Listening was first
   published. Since the beginning, this book has been a vehicle to
   share a wonderful discovery - the author's inner voice. This
   discovery has helped him and many others find inner peace,
   happiness and contentment. With the clarity given to him through
   inner guidance, he began to see the overall pattern, not only in
   his life, but in the lives of many of the people who came into his
   awareness. His search has now covered nearly a 20-year span, and
   he has come full circle. He has been to the mountaintop. This book
   will help you release self-limiting concepts and increase your
   awareness of Truth. However, the journey is an individual one, and
   each soul must undertake and complete it alone. This is a
   marvelous aid. Hay House, 1996
     Coit, Lee,
   Listening:  How to increase awareness of your inner
   guide. It has been years since Listening was first
   published. Since the beginning, this book has been a vehicle to
   share a wonderful discovery - the author's inner voice. This
   discovery has helped him and many others find inner peace,
   happiness and contentment. With the clarity given to him through
   inner guidance, he began to see the overall pattern, not only in
   his life, but in the lives of many of the people who came into his
   awareness. His search has now covered nearly a 20-year span, and
   he has come full circle. He has been to the mountaintop. This book
   will help you release self-limiting concepts and increase your
   awareness of Truth. However, the journey is an individual one, and
   each soul must undertake and complete it alone. This is a
   marvelous aid. Hay House, 1996 Cousineau, Phil, The Art of
   Pilgrimage: The seeker's guide to making travel sacred.
   With the roads to our chosen destinations more crowded than ever
   and travel bookstore shelves groaning under the weight of
   guidebooks that cover everything from ballparks to celebrity
   homes, we are forced to look longer and harder and yet see less
   and less. Instead of more gimmicks, gadgets and packages, we need
   to reimagine the way we travel. This book is for the traveler who
   longs for something more than diversion and escape, for those
   searching for a path with heart. For millennia, pilgrimage - a
   transformative journey to a sacred center - has summoned the
   soulful traveler. And every journey can be sacred, soulful and
   transformative, if it is undertaken with a desire for spiritual
   risk and renewal. Whether you are traveling to Mecca or Memphis,
   Stonehenge or a sports hall of fame, the journey becomes
   meaningful - a pilgrimage - when the traveler's heart and
   imagination are open to experiencing the sacred. Conari Press 1998
   Buy
   This Book!
    Cousineau, Phil, The Art of
   Pilgrimage: The seeker's guide to making travel sacred.
   With the roads to our chosen destinations more crowded than ever
   and travel bookstore shelves groaning under the weight of
   guidebooks that cover everything from ballparks to celebrity
   homes, we are forced to look longer and harder and yet see less
   and less. Instead of more gimmicks, gadgets and packages, we need
   to reimagine the way we travel. This book is for the traveler who
   longs for something more than diversion and escape, for those
   searching for a path with heart. For millennia, pilgrimage - a
   transformative journey to a sacred center - has summoned the
   soulful traveler. And every journey can be sacred, soulful and
   transformative, if it is undertaken with a desire for spiritual
   risk and renewal. Whether you are traveling to Mecca or Memphis,
   Stonehenge or a sports hall of fame, the journey becomes
   meaningful - a pilgrimage - when the traveler's heart and
   imagination are open to experiencing the sacred. Conari Press 1998
   Buy
   This Book! Crohn, Joel, Howard Markman, Susan Blumberg,
   Janice Levine, Fighting for Your Jewish
   Marriage: Preserving a lasting promise.As the divorce
   rates of both Jewish and interfaith couples continue to escalate,
   "shalom bayit" (peace in the home) is definitely in danger. In
   addition to the challenges every modern couple faces, millions of
   Jewish and interfaith couples are struggling with unique issues
   that profoundly influence their intimate relationships. Differing
   views of Jewish identity, conflicts about religious practice, and
   cultural clashes between partners from different backgrounds all
   impact Jewish intimacy. This dynamic guide identifies these
   special issues and gives Jewish and interfaith couples practical
   tools they need to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and
   enhance and preserve their marriages. Jossey-Base www.josseybass.com
   2000 ISBN 0-7879-4362-2 Buy
   This Book!
   Crohn, Joel, Howard Markman, Susan Blumberg,
   Janice Levine, Fighting for Your Jewish
   Marriage: Preserving a lasting promise.As the divorce
   rates of both Jewish and interfaith couples continue to escalate,
   "shalom bayit" (peace in the home) is definitely in danger. In
   addition to the challenges every modern couple faces, millions of
   Jewish and interfaith couples are struggling with unique issues
   that profoundly influence their intimate relationships. Differing
   views of Jewish identity, conflicts about religious practice, and
   cultural clashes between partners from different backgrounds all
   impact Jewish intimacy. This dynamic guide identifies these
   special issues and gives Jewish and interfaith couples practical
   tools they need to improve communication, resolve conflicts, and
   enhance and preserve their marriages. Jossey-Base www.josseybass.com
   2000 ISBN 0-7879-4362-2 Buy
   This Book! Danielou, Alain, The Phallus: Sacred
   symbol of male creative power. Worship of the phallus as a
   symbol of creative energy has been central to virtually every
   world culture, and strong traditions of phallic art exist
   throughout India, Egypt, Greece and Northern Europe. Yet we in the
   West, hampered by modern taboos, have been unable to see this most
   fundamental of symbols for what it is - the image of the creator
   in mankind. The author, the foremost authority on the art and
   spirituality of India and the classical world, here unveils the
   religious impulse underlying art that at first seems purely
   erotic. This book surveys a wide range of art, myth and cultural
   customs, examining phallic amulets of Neolithic man, standing
   stones of Europe, the mukha lingam of India, the obelisks of Rome
   and Egypt, and other representations of male fertility. He shows
   the primal role played by ithyphallic gods in such diverse
   mythologies as those of the Celts (Cernunnos, the Horned God),
   Greeks (Pan, Hermes, Priapus), and Hindus (Ardhanarishvara, the
   androgyne). He also explores the cults of Shiva and Dionysus in
   their role of bringing men into communion with the creative forces
   of life. It is in this capacity - as a manifestation of the
   creator, a source of bliss and transcendence - that the phallus
   has its most powerful rule in human symbolism. And, he argues, if
   we are to maintain our link to the divine, it must assume this
   symbolic role again. (See also The Yoni.)
   Inner Traditions, 1995 Buy
   This Book!
   Danielou, Alain, The Phallus: Sacred
   symbol of male creative power. Worship of the phallus as a
   symbol of creative energy has been central to virtually every
   world culture, and strong traditions of phallic art exist
   throughout India, Egypt, Greece and Northern Europe. Yet we in the
   West, hampered by modern taboos, have been unable to see this most
   fundamental of symbols for what it is - the image of the creator
   in mankind. The author, the foremost authority on the art and
   spirituality of India and the classical world, here unveils the
   religious impulse underlying art that at first seems purely
   erotic. This book surveys a wide range of art, myth and cultural
   customs, examining phallic amulets of Neolithic man, standing
   stones of Europe, the mukha lingam of India, the obelisks of Rome
   and Egypt, and other representations of male fertility. He shows
   the primal role played by ithyphallic gods in such diverse
   mythologies as those of the Celts (Cernunnos, the Horned God),
   Greeks (Pan, Hermes, Priapus), and Hindus (Ardhanarishvara, the
   androgyne). He also explores the cults of Shiva and Dionysus in
   their role of bringing men into communion with the creative forces
   of life. It is in this capacity - as a manifestation of the
   creator, a source of bliss and transcendence - that the phallus
   has its most powerful rule in human symbolism. And, he argues, if
   we are to maintain our link to the divine, it must assume this
   symbolic role again. (See also The Yoni.)
   Inner Traditions, 1995 Buy
   This Book! Deida, David,  Blue Truth:  A
   spiritual guide to life & death and love & sex.
   Be the first man in your men's group to get an advance reading
   copy of this book! Not on the shelves and available only from the
   publisher, this is a powerful, heart opening book. Profound,
   challenging, an poetically beautiful, this book is page after page
   of deep, naked truths, an unexpected teaching of enormous value
   and passion. This is one of the clearest, most original and useful
   guides to authentic spiritual practice. No one interested in real
   spiritual growth can afford to be unaware of this work. Plexus
   www.deida.com 888.626.9662
   1999, ISBN 1-889762-14-8 Buy
   This Book
    Deida, David,  Blue Truth:  A
   spiritual guide to life & death and love & sex.
   Be the first man in your men's group to get an advance reading
   copy of this book! Not on the shelves and available only from the
   publisher, this is a powerful, heart opening book. Profound,
   challenging, an poetically beautiful, this book is page after page
   of deep, naked truths, an unexpected teaching of enormous value
   and passion. This is one of the clearest, most original and useful
   guides to authentic spiritual practice. No one interested in real
   spiritual growth can afford to be unaware of this work. Plexus
   www.deida.com 888.626.9662
   1999, ISBN 1-889762-14-8 Buy
   This Book Deida, David, The Red
   Realm:  Adventures in sexual spirituality. This book
   is the deepest, most alive, insightful book on the wonders and
   subtleties of sexuality as a spiritual path. It inspires us to the
   knowing of total openness to who we are as the lover, and
   beloved...until we disappear into love. Plexus www.deida.com
   888.626.9662, 1999
    Deida, David, The Red
   Realm:  Adventures in sexual spirituality. This book
   is the deepest, most alive, insightful book on the wonders and
   subtleties of sexuality as a spiritual path. It inspires us to the
   knowing of total openness to who we are as the lover, and
   beloved...until we disappear into love. Plexus www.deida.com
   888.626.9662, 1999 Deida, David, The Way of the Superior Man: A mans guide
   to mastering the challenges of women, work and sexual desire,.
   The author takes the reader on a powerful journey into the heart
   of the contemporary masculine experience. With uncommon honesty
   and unparalleled insight into the deepest desires of the masculine
   heart, he explores the most challenging and important issues in
   mens lives. Covering everything from work and career, to
   dealing with sex, women, and love, to finding purpose in an
   increasingly superficial and mechanical world, he reveals how a
   man can live a life of fulfillment without compromise by relaxing
   into the truth of his very being, discovering the deepest vision
   and giving his gifts without holding anything back. What emerges
   is a wholly revolutionary look at what it means to be a man in
   todays world, as well as an astonishingly practical
   guidebook to living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity
   and freedom. Plexus www.deida.com
   1997 Buy
   This Book!
   (See The Men's Challenge
   Deck:  Practicing the Way of the Superior Man)
   Deida, David, The Way of the Superior Man: A mans guide
   to mastering the challenges of women, work and sexual desire,.
   The author takes the reader on a powerful journey into the heart
   of the contemporary masculine experience. With uncommon honesty
   and unparalleled insight into the deepest desires of the masculine
   heart, he explores the most challenging and important issues in
   mens lives. Covering everything from work and career, to
   dealing with sex, women, and love, to finding purpose in an
   increasingly superficial and mechanical world, he reveals how a
   man can live a life of fulfillment without compromise by relaxing
   into the truth of his very being, discovering the deepest vision
   and giving his gifts without holding anything back. What emerges
   is a wholly revolutionary look at what it means to be a man in
   todays world, as well as an astonishingly practical
   guidebook to living a masculine life of integrity, authenticity
   and freedom. Plexus www.deida.com
   1997 Buy
   This Book!
   (See The Men's Challenge
   Deck:  Practicing the Way of the Superior Man) DeRohan, Ceanne, Indigo:  The
   search for true understanding and balance. This is the latest
   is a series of eight books channeled by the author. It is
   suggested that they be read in order, starting with Right Use
   of Will:  Healing and evolving the emotional body.
   Getting ready for the sequels involves moving along with the
   material in the original book enough to know if this information
   is right for you. These books let you know your Original Cause by
   helping you access belief systems lost in the subconscious long
   ago, yet influencing your life every day. Each paragraph could be
   a full day's study. Four Winds Publications. 1999
   ISBN 1-56170-608-6 Buy
   This Book
    DeRohan, Ceanne, Indigo:  The
   search for true understanding and balance. This is the latest
   is a series of eight books channeled by the author. It is
   suggested that they be read in order, starting with Right Use
   of Will:  Healing and evolving the emotional body.
   Getting ready for the sequels involves moving along with the
   material in the original book enough to know if this information
   is right for you. These books let you know your Original Cause by
   helping you access belief systems lost in the subconscious long
   ago, yet influencing your life every day. Each paragraph could be
   a full day's study. Four Winds Publications. 1999
   ISBN 1-56170-608-6 Buy
   This Book Dewr, Dagonet, Sacred Paths for Modern
   Men: A wake up call from your 12 archetypes. Roar,
   rule, laugh, create, destroy, love. And lay claim to your true
   masculine nature and spiritual heritage. According to the author,
   a writer and activist in the men's spirituality movement: "We
   have forgotten how to cry, to scream, to hunt, to love, to honor,
   to taech, to initiate." Hip, funny and firecte, this guide
   explores twelve powerful male archetypes and their relevance for
   men today. Divine Child, Lover, Warrior, Trickster, Green Man,
   Guide, Craftsman, Magician, Destroyer, King/Elder, Healer and
   Sacrificed One. Stories of charactesr from mythology, fantasy, and
   pop culture illustrate different expressions of masculine energy.
   Rituals and magickal workings offer a visceral, hands-on way to
   connect with archetypal energies and honor male rites of passage
   such as coming of age, seeking a partner in love, of becoming a
   father. Llewellyn Worldwide, www.llewellyn.com,
   2007, ISBN 978-0-7387-1252-9
   Dewr, Dagonet, Sacred Paths for Modern
   Men: A wake up call from your 12 archetypes. Roar,
   rule, laugh, create, destroy, love. And lay claim to your true
   masculine nature and spiritual heritage. According to the author,
   a writer and activist in the men's spirituality movement: "We
   have forgotten how to cry, to scream, to hunt, to love, to honor,
   to taech, to initiate." Hip, funny and firecte, this guide
   explores twelve powerful male archetypes and their relevance for
   men today. Divine Child, Lover, Warrior, Trickster, Green Man,
   Guide, Craftsman, Magician, Destroyer, King/Elder, Healer and
   Sacrificed One. Stories of charactesr from mythology, fantasy, and
   pop culture illustrate different expressions of masculine energy.
   Rituals and magickal workings offer a visceral, hands-on way to
   connect with archetypal energies and honor male rites of passage
   such as coming of age, seeking a partner in love, of becoming a
   father. Llewellyn Worldwide, www.llewellyn.com,
   2007, ISBN 978-0-7387-1252-9 
 Ditties, James, In Driven By Hope, Men
   & Meaning, Dittes invites men to embrace and celebrate
   their spiritual - and decidedly masculine - way in the world. He
   dares to suggest that the notable features of masculinity so often
   treated as unbearable faults - restlessness, drivenness,
   unsettledness, endless "on duty" time, may indeed be part of manly
   vocation rooted inescapably in biology. Westminister John Knox
   Press, 1996
   Ditties, James, In Driven By Hope, Men
   & Meaning, Dittes invites men to embrace and celebrate
   their spiritual - and decidedly masculine - way in the world. He
   dares to suggest that the notable features of masculinity so often
   treated as unbearable faults - restlessness, drivenness,
   unsettledness, endless "on duty" time, may indeed be part of manly
   vocation rooted inescapably in biology. Westminister John Knox
   Press, 1996 Douglas-Klotz, Neil, Prayers of the
   Cosmos: Meditations of the Aramaic words of Jesus. For
   those of us who want to peel away centuries of dualistic
   patriarchal forms and recover the life-affirming beauty of our
   Christian roots, nothing could be more welcome than this exquisite
   little volume. There is no reason to stop at one single phrasing
   of what Jesus intended his words to mean; they are so rich and
   resonant that they deserve to be spoken, tasted, rolled around in
   the mouth, body and spirit, savored and appreciated for their
   subtle flavors and rich spiritual nourishment. Harper San
   Francisco, 1994 www.harpercollins.com
   ISBN 0-06-061995-3 Buy
   This Book
   Douglas-Klotz, Neil, Prayers of the
   Cosmos: Meditations of the Aramaic words of Jesus. For
   those of us who want to peel away centuries of dualistic
   patriarchal forms and recover the life-affirming beauty of our
   Christian roots, nothing could be more welcome than this exquisite
   little volume. There is no reason to stop at one single phrasing
   of what Jesus intended his words to mean; they are so rich and
   resonant that they deserve to be spoken, tasted, rolled around in
   the mouth, body and spirit, savored and appreciated for their
   subtle flavors and rich spiritual nourishment. Harper San
   Francisco, 1994 www.harpercollins.com
   ISBN 0-06-061995-3 Buy
   This Book Dreamer, Oriah Mountain, The
   Invitation. One night, after an unsatisfying evening at a
   party, the author wrote the start of this book. By the light of
   her streetlight, she began, "It doesn't interest me what you do
   for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to
   dream of meeting your heart's longing...I want to know if you have
   touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by
   life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of
   further pain..." (which we understand came from a David Wyate poem
   he did at a workshop on writing that Oriah attended.) Her profound
   invitation became the framework for this wise and inspiring book.
   Chater by chapter, the author uses passages from her "Invitation"
   to welcome readers into a life that is more soul fulfilling and
   passionate, and has far greater truth and integrity. In a sense,
   she invites readers to get a life instead of buying into a
   lifestyle. Each chapter ends with a guided meditation specific to
   the theme of the chapter, such as "The Joy" and "The Failure."
   Despite her suspiciously New Age-sounding name, she is a highly
   grounded, practical, and honest writer. This fresh and beautifully
   packaged book is destined for great acclaim in the realm of
   spiritual inspiration. HarperCollins, 1999 ISBN 0062515745
   Buy
   this book!
   Dreamer, Oriah Mountain, The
   Invitation. One night, after an unsatisfying evening at a
   party, the author wrote the start of this book. By the light of
   her streetlight, she began, "It doesn't interest me what you do
   for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to
   dream of meeting your heart's longing...I want to know if you have
   touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by
   life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of
   further pain..." (which we understand came from a David Wyate poem
   he did at a workshop on writing that Oriah attended.) Her profound
   invitation became the framework for this wise and inspiring book.
   Chater by chapter, the author uses passages from her "Invitation"
   to welcome readers into a life that is more soul fulfilling and
   passionate, and has far greater truth and integrity. In a sense,
   she invites readers to get a life instead of buying into a
   lifestyle. Each chapter ends with a guided meditation specific to
   the theme of the chapter, such as "The Joy" and "The Failure."
   Despite her suspiciously New Age-sounding name, she is a highly
   grounded, practical, and honest writer. This fresh and beautifully
   packaged book is destined for great acclaim in the realm of
   spiritual inspiration. HarperCollins, 1999 ISBN 0062515745
   Buy
   this book! Dyer, Wayne, Manifest
   Your Destiny: The Nine Spiritual Principles for Getting Everything
   you Want, Wayne Dyer. In international bestsellers from
   Your Sacred Self to the classic Your Erroneous
   Zones, inspirational leader and author Wayne Dyer established
   new ideas that changed people's lives. In Manifest Your
   Destiny, he explores his most astonishing subject yet: the
   power of attracting one's needs and desires into one's life. His
   most exciting and accessible work, a remarkable guidebook that
   shows us how to obtain what we truly desire. HarperCollins
   www.harpercollins.com
   1998 Buy
   This Book!
    Dyer, Wayne, Manifest
   Your Destiny: The Nine Spiritual Principles for Getting Everything
   you Want, Wayne Dyer. In international bestsellers from
   Your Sacred Self to the classic Your Erroneous
   Zones, inspirational leader and author Wayne Dyer established
   new ideas that changed people's lives. In Manifest Your
   Destiny, he explores his most astonishing subject yet: the
   power of attracting one's needs and desires into one's life. His
   most exciting and accessible work, a remarkable guidebook that
   shows us how to obtain what we truly desire. HarperCollins
   www.harpercollins.com
   1998 Buy
   This Book! Eldredge, John, Wild at
   Heart: Discovering the secret of a man's soul. The author
   believes what really is in the heart of men has been badly missed.
   "When all is said and done, I think most men believe God put them
   on the earth to be a good boy," he writes. "The problem with men,
   we are told, is that they don't know how to keep their promises,
   be spiritual leaders, talk to their wives, or raise their
   children. But if they will try really hard, they can reach the
   lofty summit of becoming...a nice guy. That's what we hold up as
   models of Christian maturity: "Really Nice Guys." Now, in all
   your boyhood drams growing up, did you ever dream of becoming a
   nice guy? Ladies, was the Prince of your dreams
   dashing...or merely nice? The author believes that
   this dedication to niceness is the reason there are so many tired
   and lonely women, so many fatherless children, and so few men
   around. We writes, "We've taken away the dreams of a man's heart
   and told him to play the man. As C.S. Lewis said, 'We castrate the
   gelding and bid him be fruitful.'" Deep in his heart, every man
   longs for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to
   rescue. That is how he bears the image of God; that is what God
   made him to be. www.sacredromance.com,
   Thomas Nelson Publishers, www.thomasnelson.com,
   2001, ISBN 0-7852-6883-9
   Eldredge, John, Wild at
   Heart: Discovering the secret of a man's soul. The author
   believes what really is in the heart of men has been badly missed.
   "When all is said and done, I think most men believe God put them
   on the earth to be a good boy," he writes. "The problem with men,
   we are told, is that they don't know how to keep their promises,
   be spiritual leaders, talk to their wives, or raise their
   children. But if they will try really hard, they can reach the
   lofty summit of becoming...a nice guy. That's what we hold up as
   models of Christian maturity: "Really Nice Guys." Now, in all
   your boyhood drams growing up, did you ever dream of becoming a
   nice guy? Ladies, was the Prince of your dreams
   dashing...or merely nice? The author believes that
   this dedication to niceness is the reason there are so many tired
   and lonely women, so many fatherless children, and so few men
   around. We writes, "We've taken away the dreams of a man's heart
   and told him to play the man. As C.S. Lewis said, 'We castrate the
   gelding and bid him be fruitful.'" Deep in his heart, every man
   longs for a battle to fight, an adventure to live, and a beauty to
   rescue. That is how he bears the image of God; that is what God
   made him to be. www.sacredromance.com,
   Thomas Nelson Publishers, www.thomasnelson.com,
   2001, ISBN 0-7852-6883-9 
 France, Peter, Hermits: the insights of
   solitude. I had just paid for a book and, from across the
   bookstore, atleast 20 feet away, this book jumped out at me. After
   all, starting my third year traveling full-time around the country
   in a men's bookmobile, I can relate. For any man who has been
   challenged when he wanted some space, check this one out. The
   author, who spends much of his time living in an heremitic manner
   on the Greek island Patmos, explores the history of hermits and
   uncovers the truths they found in their solitude. As an antidote
   to disillusionment with the modern world and as a guide to
   rediscovering our true selves, Hermits will not fail to
   provide reassuring enlightenment for men and hopefully some women
   will see the benefits of this kind of solitude for themselves. St
   Martin's Press, 1996 ISBN 0-312-15546-8 Buy
   This Book!
   France, Peter, Hermits: the insights of
   solitude. I had just paid for a book and, from across the
   bookstore, atleast 20 feet away, this book jumped out at me. After
   all, starting my third year traveling full-time around the country
   in a men's bookmobile, I can relate. For any man who has been
   challenged when he wanted some space, check this one out. The
   author, who spends much of his time living in an heremitic manner
   on the Greek island Patmos, explores the history of hermits and
   uncovers the truths they found in their solitude. As an antidote
   to disillusionment with the modern world and as a guide to
   rediscovering our true selves, Hermits will not fail to
   provide reassuring enlightenment for men and hopefully some women
   will see the benefits of this kind of solitude for themselves. St
   Martin's Press, 1996 ISBN 0-312-15546-8 Buy
   This Book! Gerber, Richard, Vibrational Medicine for
   the 21st Century: The complete guide to energy healing and
   spiritual transformation. Acupuncture, homeopathy,
   aromatherapy, magnetic healing. Most people recognize these terms
   as part of a New Age vocabulary. More and more, alternative
   approaches to achieving wellness are becoming part of the American
   consciousness. But what many don't know is that these
   non-traditional practices - so new on our horizon - have been
   around for thousands of years. In this book, the author
   synthesizes the best of non-western ancient healing wisdom with
   the latest discoveries in science to produce an entirely new
   approach to diagnosing and treating illness. Based on the belief
   that the human body is more than a biological mechanism,
   vibrational medicine assumes it to be a complex system of pulsing
   energies that need turning and balancing. Illness is thought to be
   caused not only by germs, chemical toxins and physical trauma, but
   also by dysfunctional emotions and energy patterns. Rather than
   relying solely on drugs and scalpels to treat illness, the
   vibrational medicine approach employs the use of different forms
   of energy - such as light, color, sound, scent and
   electromagnetism - to bring about healing changes in the body,
   mind and spirit. This is the most comprehensive, user-friendly
   guide on the market for readers who seek to undersatnd and apply
   new age techniques to treat age old health problems. William
   Morrow, www.harpercollins.com
   2000 ISBN 0-688-16403-X Buy
   This Book!
    Gerber, Richard, Vibrational Medicine for
   the 21st Century: The complete guide to energy healing and
   spiritual transformation. Acupuncture, homeopathy,
   aromatherapy, magnetic healing. Most people recognize these terms
   as part of a New Age vocabulary. More and more, alternative
   approaches to achieving wellness are becoming part of the American
   consciousness. But what many don't know is that these
   non-traditional practices - so new on our horizon - have been
   around for thousands of years. In this book, the author
   synthesizes the best of non-western ancient healing wisdom with
   the latest discoveries in science to produce an entirely new
   approach to diagnosing and treating illness. Based on the belief
   that the human body is more than a biological mechanism,
   vibrational medicine assumes it to be a complex system of pulsing
   energies that need turning and balancing. Illness is thought to be
   caused not only by germs, chemical toxins and physical trauma, but
   also by dysfunctional emotions and energy patterns. Rather than
   relying solely on drugs and scalpels to treat illness, the
   vibrational medicine approach employs the use of different forms
   of energy - such as light, color, sound, scent and
   electromagnetism - to bring about healing changes in the body,
   mind and spirit. This is the most comprehensive, user-friendly
   guide on the market for readers who seek to undersatnd and apply
   new age techniques to treat age old health problems. William
   Morrow, www.harpercollins.com
   2000 ISBN 0-688-16403-X Buy
   This Book! Glaser, Chris, Word is Out:  The bible reclaimed for
   lesbians & gay men. Lesbians and gays know all too well
   the experience of having to leave families, friends, hometowns,
   and even their faith traditions to be blessed as they are.
   Nevertheless, many still struggle to maintain an authentic faith
   that also affirms and recognizes their right to joyously celebrate
   their biblical heritage. The author fearlessly liberates the Bible
   from those who would hold it hostage to an antigay agenda. In this
   inspiring collection of 365 daily meditations, the Bible's good
   news "comes out" to meet all of us with love, justice, meaning and
   hope. Harper, 1994 ISBN 0-06-063134-1 Buy
   This Book!
   Glaser, Chris, Word is Out:  The bible reclaimed for
   lesbians & gay men. Lesbians and gays know all too well
   the experience of having to leave families, friends, hometowns,
   and even their faith traditions to be blessed as they are.
   Nevertheless, many still struggle to maintain an authentic faith
   that also affirms and recognizes their right to joyously celebrate
   their biblical heritage. The author fearlessly liberates the Bible
   from those who would hold it hostage to an antigay agenda. In this
   inspiring collection of 365 daily meditations, the Bible's good
   news "comes out" to meet all of us with love, justice, meaning and
   hope. Harper, 1994 ISBN 0-06-063134-1 Buy
   This Book! Groose, Frederick G., The Eight Masks of
   Men:  A practical guide in spiritual growth for men of
   the Christian faith. This is the first book to combine
   historical, theological and sociological perspectives with a
   practical approach for personal growth. It encourages men to come
   out from behind their masks of solitude and loneliness and reach
   out for help and community. Men who feel out of touch with their
   spiritual sides, retreat and spiritual direction leaders, pastoral
   counselors, chaplains, marriage and family counselors, and members
   of the clergy will find inspiration and insight they need to guide
   themselves and one another to a season of union with God. Haworth
   Pastoral Press, 1998 ISBN 0-7890-0416-X Buy
   This Book!
    Groose, Frederick G., The Eight Masks of
   Men:  A practical guide in spiritual growth for men of
   the Christian faith. This is the first book to combine
   historical, theological and sociological perspectives with a
   practical approach for personal growth. It encourages men to come
   out from behind their masks of solitude and loneliness and reach
   out for help and community. Men who feel out of touch with their
   spiritual sides, retreat and spiritual direction leaders, pastoral
   counselors, chaplains, marriage and family counselors, and members
   of the clergy will find inspiration and insight they need to guide
   themselves and one another to a season of union with God. Haworth
   Pastoral Press, 1998 ISBN 0-7890-0416-X Buy
   This Book! Guest, Matt, The Face of Power.This book
   is about the male struggle for energetic and emotional maturity,
   joy and power, and achieves this by delving deeply into the many
   aspects of relationships, sexuality, health, out-of-body
   experiences, lucid dreaming and others. The book is essentially a
   metaphysical work with a slant towards modern shamanism, though it
   purposefully avoids talking directly about shamanism in order to
   remind all people that the energy behind self-fulfillment is not
   isolated to any particular religion, philosophy, or belief
   structure. Real self-fulfillment is a personal matter and involves
   a very real and emotional relationship with the source of life. It
   is an intense and ultra-personal tale about the dormant passion in
   all of us to rise above fear and venture at will into the Unknown
   - to see beyond this dream. The scope of this work is compelling
   and unprecedented. It is the awareness of a new generation of men
   and women of power. Self-published. www.thefaceofpower.com,
   2001, ISBN 1-4010-2539-0 Buy
   This Book!
   Guest, Matt, The Face of Power.This book
   is about the male struggle for energetic and emotional maturity,
   joy and power, and achieves this by delving deeply into the many
   aspects of relationships, sexuality, health, out-of-body
   experiences, lucid dreaming and others. The book is essentially a
   metaphysical work with a slant towards modern shamanism, though it
   purposefully avoids talking directly about shamanism in order to
   remind all people that the energy behind self-fulfillment is not
   isolated to any particular religion, philosophy, or belief
   structure. Real self-fulfillment is a personal matter and involves
   a very real and emotional relationship with the source of life. It
   is an intense and ultra-personal tale about the dormant passion in
   all of us to rise above fear and venture at will into the Unknown
   - to see beyond this dream. The scope of this work is compelling
   and unprecedented. It is the awareness of a new generation of men
   and women of power. Self-published. www.thefaceofpower.com,
   2001, ISBN 1-4010-2539-0 Buy
   This Book! Halevi, Yossi Klein, At the Entrance to the
   Garden of Eden: A Jew's search for God with Christians
   and Muslims in the Holy Land. The author is one of those rare
   men whose pursuit of spiritual clarity seems almost myth-life. He
   takes an unprecedented and extraordinary spiritual journey to
   discover, as a religious Israeli Jew, a common spiritual language
   with his Christian and Muslim neighbors in the Holy Land. While
   religion has fueled the violent conflict plaguing the Middle East,
   he wondered whether it could be a source of unity as well. To find
   the answer, he began a two-year exploratoin of the devotional life
   of Christianity and Islam. He followed their holiday cycles,
   befriended Christian monastics and Islamic mystics, and joined
   them in prayer in monasteries and mosques - searching for wisdom
   and holiness in places that are usually off limits to outsiders
   from other faiths. In this gripping work, he candidly reveals how
   he fought to resolve his own fears and anger as a Jew to relate to
   Christians and Muslims as fellow spiritual seekers. He chronicles
   the difficulty of overcoming multiple obstacles - theological,
   political, historical, and psychological - that separate believers
   of the three monotheistic faiths. And he introduces a dynamic
   range of fascinating individuals attempting to reconcile the
   dichotomous heart of this sacred place - a struggle central to
   Israel, but which resonates for us all. Written in lustrous prose,
   he takes his search for God into the heart of the Middle Eastern
   conflict. He insists on a spirituality that isn't escapist but
   instead confronts the wounds of history. The result is a book
   startling in its originality and boldness, embracing and
   transcending the categories of politics and faith. William Morrow,
   www.harpercollins.com
   2001 ISBN 0688169082 Buy
   This Book!
   Halevi, Yossi Klein, At the Entrance to the
   Garden of Eden: A Jew's search for God with Christians
   and Muslims in the Holy Land. The author is one of those rare
   men whose pursuit of spiritual clarity seems almost myth-life. He
   takes an unprecedented and extraordinary spiritual journey to
   discover, as a religious Israeli Jew, a common spiritual language
   with his Christian and Muslim neighbors in the Holy Land. While
   religion has fueled the violent conflict plaguing the Middle East,
   he wondered whether it could be a source of unity as well. To find
   the answer, he began a two-year exploratoin of the devotional life
   of Christianity and Islam. He followed their holiday cycles,
   befriended Christian monastics and Islamic mystics, and joined
   them in prayer in monasteries and mosques - searching for wisdom
   and holiness in places that are usually off limits to outsiders
   from other faiths. In this gripping work, he candidly reveals how
   he fought to resolve his own fears and anger as a Jew to relate to
   Christians and Muslims as fellow spiritual seekers. He chronicles
   the difficulty of overcoming multiple obstacles - theological,
   political, historical, and psychological - that separate believers
   of the three monotheistic faiths. And he introduces a dynamic
   range of fascinating individuals attempting to reconcile the
   dichotomous heart of this sacred place - a struggle central to
   Israel, but which resonates for us all. Written in lustrous prose,
   he takes his search for God into the heart of the Middle Eastern
   conflict. He insists on a spirituality that isn't escapist but
   instead confronts the wounds of history. The result is a book
   startling in its originality and boldness, embracing and
   transcending the categories of politics and faith. William Morrow,
   www.harpercollins.com
   2001 ISBN 0688169082 Buy
   This Book! Hanh, Tich Nhat, Be Still and
   Know:  Reflections from living Buddha, living
   Christ. In his acclaimed national bestseller, Living
   Buddha, Living Christ, the author, a renowned thinker and
   scholar, explored the deep spiritual connections between
   Christianity and Buddhism. This book uses selections from his
   groundbreaking work to create a handbook of meditations and
   reflections that reawaken our understanding of both religions -
   and enrich our daily lives through personal contemplation. It is
   an inspiration to all who embrace its universal message of peace -
   a profound and moving work that illuminates the world's greatest
   traditions of spiritual thought, written by a man who is
   considered by many to be a "living Buddha." Riverhead Books,
   1996
   Hanh, Tich Nhat, Be Still and
   Know:  Reflections from living Buddha, living
   Christ. In his acclaimed national bestseller, Living
   Buddha, Living Christ, the author, a renowned thinker and
   scholar, explored the deep spiritual connections between
   Christianity and Buddhism. This book uses selections from his
   groundbreaking work to create a handbook of meditations and
   reflections that reawaken our understanding of both religions -
   and enrich our daily lives through personal contemplation. It is
   an inspiration to all who embrace its universal message of peace -
   a profound and moving work that illuminates the world's greatest
   traditions of spiritual thought, written by a man who is
   considered by many to be a "living Buddha." Riverhead Books,
   1996 Hanh, Tich Nhat, Hermitage Among the
   Clouds: A historical novel of fourteenth century
   Vietnam. Set at the beginning of the fourteenth century, this
   tells the story of Princess Amazing Jewel, daughter of Tran Nhan
   Tong, the king of Dai Viet, present-day Vietnam. He abdicated the
   throne at the height of his illustrious career to become a
   Buddhist monk and later to establish the Bamboo Forest School of
   Zen at his hermitage, Sleeping Clouds. This beautifully written
   story expresses the suffering caused by war and conflict, the
   transformative potential of a commitment to practicing peace and
   building reconciliation, and the simple beauty of a spiritual
   life. The author gives us a window into Vietnam's past and, at the
   same time, offers compelling insights about contemporary Southeast
   Asia and the world. Parallax Press, 1993,
   ISBN  0-938077-56-2 Buy
   This Book
   Hanh, Tich Nhat, Hermitage Among the
   Clouds: A historical novel of fourteenth century
   Vietnam. Set at the beginning of the fourteenth century, this
   tells the story of Princess Amazing Jewel, daughter of Tran Nhan
   Tong, the king of Dai Viet, present-day Vietnam. He abdicated the
   throne at the height of his illustrious career to become a
   Buddhist monk and later to establish the Bamboo Forest School of
   Zen at his hermitage, Sleeping Clouds. This beautifully written
   story expresses the suffering caused by war and conflict, the
   transformative potential of a commitment to practicing peace and
   building reconciliation, and the simple beauty of a spiritual
   life. The author gives us a window into Vietnam's past and, at the
   same time, offers compelling insights about contemporary Southeast
   Asia and the world. Parallax Press, 1993,
   ISBN  0-938077-56-2 Buy
   This Book Hardenbrook, Weldon, Missing from
   Action:  A powerful historical response to the crisis
   among American Men. The author examines the decline of the
   American male's role and tells how men might seek to regain their
   place as leaders in the home, church and society. He concludes
   that men must commit themselves to restoring stability and peace
   to the suffering homes of the land. Conciliar Press, 1996
    Hardenbrook, Weldon, Missing from
   Action:  A powerful historical response to the crisis
   among American Men. The author examines the decline of the
   American male's role and tells how men might seek to regain their
   place as leaders in the home, church and society. He concludes
   that men must commit themselves to restoring stability and peace
   to the suffering homes of the land. Conciliar Press, 1996 Harris, Bud, The Fire and the
   Rose: The wedding of spirituality and sexuality. Our
   encounters with love, spirituality and sexuality play a major role
   in shaping who we are. These powerful aspects of our lives are
   woven into the pattern that forms our potential for wholeness.
   Through growing consciousness, sexuality and spirituality can
   support our efforts to live more passionately and do understand
   love in all of its forms. In this stimulating and inspiring book,
   a Jungian analyst challenges us to reconsider our views of
   spirituality and sexuality as opposites and bring them into
   harmony and creativity. Together, we can heal some of our
   culture's great wounds of the soul. Chiron Publications, 2007,
   ISBN 978-1-888602-42-5
    Harris, Bud, The Fire and the
   Rose: The wedding of spirituality and sexuality. Our
   encounters with love, spirituality and sexuality play a major role
   in shaping who we are. These powerful aspects of our lives are
   woven into the pattern that forms our potential for wholeness.
   Through growing consciousness, sexuality and spirituality can
   support our efforts to live more passionately and do understand
   love in all of its forms. In this stimulating and inspiring book,
   a Jungian analyst challenges us to reconsider our views of
   spirituality and sexuality as opposites and bring them into
   harmony and creativity. Together, we can heal some of our
   culture's great wounds of the soul. Chiron Publications, 2007,
   ISBN 978-1-888602-42-5 
 , Hartsuiker, Dolf,
   Sadhus: India's Mystic Holy Men. Incredible! Spiritual
   adventurers, philosophical monks, or religious transvestites, the
   Indian Sadhus are worshipped by the Hindus as representatives of
   the gods. Liberated from earthly concerns and living beyond the
   limits of space and time, these mystics form a vital and unbroken
   link between the birth of yoga millennia ago and its present day
   expression. Theirs is a world of ancient magical rituals,
   religious symbols and ascetic practices, ranging from meditation
   and yoga exercises to penance and austerities - sometimes taken to
   the extremes of prolonged self-imposed silence, bodily
   mortification, or even ritual suicide. The life path of the Sadhus
   may also call for celibacy, poverty and solitude, as well as
   profound involvement with the mundane world as healers and
   teachers or magicians and sorcerers. It is a path of knowledge and
   devotion, concerned with renunciation and realization, sexual
   energy and spiritual power, divine intoxication and mystical
   union. More than 100 spectacular color photographs of Sadhus from
   many sects accompany an evocative text that traces their
   historical and mythological roots and illumines their different
   beliefs and behaviors. They travel throughout India, often nude -
   no one covers their children's eyes. Some break a nerve in the
   penis so they are incapable of erection and lift heavy weights or
   chains attached to the penis. There's Narayana Das who has
   renounced food and taken no more than two glasses of milk a day
   for over forty years. Or Parashurama Das, who wears a gigantic
   rope, has been standing for eleven years and is a non-speaker and
   fruit-eater. Or Vasanta Giri who has kept his arm straight above
   his head for over twelve years. Or there's circumambulating
   "like-a-stick", one stretches out on the ground, please a stone in
   front of oneself, stands up, makes a few paces to the stone,
   stretches out again, etc. This is the "fast" method, usually
   performed by lay pilgrims. Sadhus usually stand up and stretch out
   108 times on one spot, simultaneously performing puja and reciting
   mantras. This way takes two years to go around one particular
   four-foot square sacred site. And, there's more. A remarkable
   example of men, spirituality, and the depth of commitment. (Also
   see the fantastic video, Kings
   with Straw Mats!) Inner Traditions, 1993,
   ISBN 0-89281-454-3. Buy
   This Book!
   , Hartsuiker, Dolf,
   Sadhus: India's Mystic Holy Men. Incredible! Spiritual
   adventurers, philosophical monks, or religious transvestites, the
   Indian Sadhus are worshipped by the Hindus as representatives of
   the gods. Liberated from earthly concerns and living beyond the
   limits of space and time, these mystics form a vital and unbroken
   link between the birth of yoga millennia ago and its present day
   expression. Theirs is a world of ancient magical rituals,
   religious symbols and ascetic practices, ranging from meditation
   and yoga exercises to penance and austerities - sometimes taken to
   the extremes of prolonged self-imposed silence, bodily
   mortification, or even ritual suicide. The life path of the Sadhus
   may also call for celibacy, poverty and solitude, as well as
   profound involvement with the mundane world as healers and
   teachers or magicians and sorcerers. It is a path of knowledge and
   devotion, concerned with renunciation and realization, sexual
   energy and spiritual power, divine intoxication and mystical
   union. More than 100 spectacular color photographs of Sadhus from
   many sects accompany an evocative text that traces their
   historical and mythological roots and illumines their different
   beliefs and behaviors. They travel throughout India, often nude -
   no one covers their children's eyes. Some break a nerve in the
   penis so they are incapable of erection and lift heavy weights or
   chains attached to the penis. There's Narayana Das who has
   renounced food and taken no more than two glasses of milk a day
   for over forty years. Or Parashurama Das, who wears a gigantic
   rope, has been standing for eleven years and is a non-speaker and
   fruit-eater. Or Vasanta Giri who has kept his arm straight above
   his head for over twelve years. Or there's circumambulating
   "like-a-stick", one stretches out on the ground, please a stone in
   front of oneself, stands up, makes a few paces to the stone,
   stretches out again, etc. This is the "fast" method, usually
   performed by lay pilgrims. Sadhus usually stand up and stretch out
   108 times on one spot, simultaneously performing puja and reciting
   mantras. This way takes two years to go around one particular
   four-foot square sacred site. And, there's more. A remarkable
   example of men, spirituality, and the depth of commitment. (Also
   see the fantastic video, Kings
   with Straw Mats!) Inner Traditions, 1993,
   ISBN 0-89281-454-3. Buy
   This Book! Hershiser, Orel, Between the
   Lines: Nine principles to live by. One of the most
   respected and successul athletes ever to grace a major-league
   pitcher's mound, the author had an approach to the game that put
   him in a class by himself. Now that he's retired, he is shaing in
   this book something that has a lot more to do with living than it
   ever had to do with playing baseball. Chatting casually - yet
   revealing his innermost thoughts about the things that matter most
   - he tells you of his "nine principles to live
   by."  Regardless of who you are, where you are, or what
   you do, you'll find them helpful. From a man who was twice cut
   from his high school baseball team and yet rose to the pinnacle of
   success, this book is both an entertaining read and full of good
   things to inspire and encourage you. WarnerBooks, www.twbookmark.com
   2001 ISBN 0-446-52850-1 Buy
   this book!
   Hershiser, Orel, Between the
   Lines: Nine principles to live by. One of the most
   respected and successul athletes ever to grace a major-league
   pitcher's mound, the author had an approach to the game that put
   him in a class by himself. Now that he's retired, he is shaing in
   this book something that has a lot more to do with living than it
   ever had to do with playing baseball. Chatting casually - yet
   revealing his innermost thoughts about the things that matter most
   - he tells you of his "nine principles to live
   by."  Regardless of who you are, where you are, or what
   you do, you'll find them helpful. From a man who was twice cut
   from his high school baseball team and yet rose to the pinnacle of
   success, this book is both an entertaining read and full of good
   things to inspire and encourage you. WarnerBooks, www.twbookmark.com
   2001 ISBN 0-446-52850-1 Buy
   this book! Higgs, Liz Curtis Bad Girls of the
   Bible: And what we can learn from them. Lessons in good
   living from the Bible's bad news belles. The author
   says: "For ten years I studied bunches of biblical role
   models and finally realized what we had in common: Zip. Sarah
   was so faithful. Esther was so courageous. Mary was so innocent. I
   was so none-of-the-above. Then I happened upon Jezebel, and
   something inside me clicked. I identified with her pushy
   personality, I understood her need for control, I empathized with
   her angry outbursts, and I began to wonder...Could those Bad Girls
   from the past teach us how to be Good Girls in the present? I'm
   here to tell you - yes!  Whether they were Bad to the
   Bone, Bad for a Moment, or Bad for a Season but Not Forever, these
   infamous sisters show us how not to handle the challenges of life.
   We first meet them in a contemporary, fictional story (Delilah
   becomes a hairdresser named Lila from Dallas!), followed by a
   zippy, verse-by-verse review. Of course, I've included plenty of
   fun, 'Lizzie style' commentary to keep readers smiling, and each
   chapter includes four life-changing lessons well worth
   remembering. This book is for all women - from Former Bad Girls
   who need to be reminded we're truly forgiven to Veteran Good Girls
   who long to understand those still searching for answsers. This is
   the place, sisters. Grab a veil and dive in!" WaterBrook Press,
   1999. ISBN 1-57856-125-6 Buy
   this book!
   Higgs, Liz Curtis Bad Girls of the
   Bible: And what we can learn from them. Lessons in good
   living from the Bible's bad news belles. The author
   says: "For ten years I studied bunches of biblical role
   models and finally realized what we had in common: Zip. Sarah
   was so faithful. Esther was so courageous. Mary was so innocent. I
   was so none-of-the-above. Then I happened upon Jezebel, and
   something inside me clicked. I identified with her pushy
   personality, I understood her need for control, I empathized with
   her angry outbursts, and I began to wonder...Could those Bad Girls
   from the past teach us how to be Good Girls in the present? I'm
   here to tell you - yes!  Whether they were Bad to the
   Bone, Bad for a Moment, or Bad for a Season but Not Forever, these
   infamous sisters show us how not to handle the challenges of life.
   We first meet them in a contemporary, fictional story (Delilah
   becomes a hairdresser named Lila from Dallas!), followed by a
   zippy, verse-by-verse review. Of course, I've included plenty of
   fun, 'Lizzie style' commentary to keep readers smiling, and each
   chapter includes four life-changing lessons well worth
   remembering. This book is for all women - from Former Bad Girls
   who need to be reminded we're truly forgiven to Veteran Good Girls
   who long to understand those still searching for answsers. This is
   the place, sisters. Grab a veil and dive in!" WaterBrook Press,
   1999. ISBN 1-57856-125-6 Buy
   this book! Hillman, James, The Thought of the Heart & the Soul of the
   World, Spring
   Publications, 1997
   Hillman, James, The Thought of the Heart & the Soul of the
   World, Spring
   Publications, 1997 Huerta, Christian de la, Coming Out
   Spiritually:  The next step. This book offers a
   fresh outlook on gay spirituality and how to assert it, and
   thereby gives queer readers a foundation from which to begin
   building a spiritual life. The author, founder of Q-Spirit,
   synthesizes the ten spiritual roles or archetypes queer people
   have often assumed and continue to enact today:  creator
   of beauty, consciousness scout, mediator, shaman and healer, among
   others. Drawing on these models while acting as a guide to the
   queer community, he shows how to look deeper inside; to reach
   higher than ever before; to step forth more fully into the
   reader's rightful selves. He introduces readers to many of the
   world's religions, including Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism,
   Judaism, Sufism and Taoism, and investigates the teachings of
   these traditions and their attitudes toward homosexuality. This is
   a practical, beautiful, and important book, one that alternately
   challenges, advises, and supports the queer community as it
   spiritually awakens. Jeremy P Tarcher www.penguinputnam.com
   1999 ISBN 0-87477-966-9 Buy
   This Book
    Huerta, Christian de la, Coming Out
   Spiritually:  The next step. This book offers a
   fresh outlook on gay spirituality and how to assert it, and
   thereby gives queer readers a foundation from which to begin
   building a spiritual life. The author, founder of Q-Spirit,
   synthesizes the ten spiritual roles or archetypes queer people
   have often assumed and continue to enact today:  creator
   of beauty, consciousness scout, mediator, shaman and healer, among
   others. Drawing on these models while acting as a guide to the
   queer community, he shows how to look deeper inside; to reach
   higher than ever before; to step forth more fully into the
   reader's rightful selves. He introduces readers to many of the
   world's religions, including Buddhism, Christianity, Hinduism,
   Judaism, Sufism and Taoism, and investigates the teachings of
   these traditions and their attitudes toward homosexuality. This is
   a practical, beautiful, and important book, one that alternately
   challenges, advises, and supports the queer community as it
   spiritually awakens. Jeremy P Tarcher www.penguinputnam.com
   1999 ISBN 0-87477-966-9 Buy
   This Book Hultkrantz, Ake, Soul and Native
   Americans. This book is a thorough and beautifully
   differentiated report showing how much more the native peoples of
   the Americans understood about what we call "soul", "psyche" and
   "anima" than our own American psychologists. Especially valuable
   is the evidence for the various kinds of soul, including the death
   soul, and how they're recognized and experienced. Each student of
   souls and of troubled souls, has a sophisticated tool for
   grappling with the ambiguity, the evasiveness, and the vitality of
   the very stuff of life that humans share with other creatures.
   Spring Publications www.neca.com/~spring
   1997 Buy
   This Book!
    Hultkrantz, Ake, Soul and Native
   Americans. This book is a thorough and beautifully
   differentiated report showing how much more the native peoples of
   the Americans understood about what we call "soul", "psyche" and
   "anima" than our own American psychologists. Especially valuable
   is the evidence for the various kinds of soul, including the death
   soul, and how they're recognized and experienced. Each student of
   souls and of troubled souls, has a sophisticated tool for
   grappling with the ambiguity, the evasiveness, and the vitality of
   the very stuff of life that humans share with other creatures.
   Spring Publications www.neca.com/~spring
   1997 Buy
   This Book! James, David, What are They Saying about
   Masculine Spirituality? Masculine spirituality is rapidly
   emerging as a new direction for men on the "God-path". Birthed out
   of the Men's Movement, it takes seriously the ways that God and
   men are revealed to each other through theology, scripture,
   behavioral sciences, anthropology, history and the countless
   shared stories of men who gather together to discover authentic
   masculinity. Masculine spirituality asks the questions, "How can a
   man live a vibrant spiritual life, embracing all of his capacities
   for connection with God and yet, not diminish the life that women
   are discovering on their own path?" Paulist Press, 1996
    James, David, What are They Saying about
   Masculine Spirituality? Masculine spirituality is rapidly
   emerging as a new direction for men on the "God-path". Birthed out
   of the Men's Movement, it takes seriously the ways that God and
   men are revealed to each other through theology, scripture,
   behavioral sciences, anthropology, history and the countless
   shared stories of men who gather together to discover authentic
   masculinity. Masculine spirituality asks the questions, "How can a
   man live a vibrant spiritual life, embracing all of his capacities
   for connection with God and yet, not diminish the life that women
   are discovering on their own path?" Paulist Press, 1996 Johnson, Kenneth & Marguerite Elisabeth, Grail
   Castle:  Male myths and mysteries in the Celtic
   tradition, Llewellyn Publications, 1995
   Johnson, Kenneth & Marguerite Elisabeth, Grail
   Castle:  Male myths and mysteries in the Celtic
   tradition, Llewellyn Publications, 1995 Johnson, Toby, Getting Life in
   Perspective. A Novel. When warned by his doctor to rest,
   Rick Carton, a jaded and disillusioned editor with a Boston
   publishing house, retires to a neglected old mansion in the Texas
   hill country to write the novel he's always intended to. He
   discovers he is not alone...This book is a post-modern ghost story
   featuring two lovable Topperesque apparitions from
   turn-of-the-century America who haunt the sometimes bewildered
   writer struggling to face the enormous problems of contemporary
   society - and gay men in particular - as the 21st century is about
   to turn. It is a sweet, occasionally sexy, surprisingly wise, and
   thoroughly enteraining mytho-historical romance with a
   gay-positive spiritual message woven in - along with just a touch
   of the Twilight Zone. Lavender Press, 1991
   ISBN 0-938743-17-1 Buy
   This Book!
   Johnson, Toby, Getting Life in
   Perspective. A Novel. When warned by his doctor to rest,
   Rick Carton, a jaded and disillusioned editor with a Boston
   publishing house, retires to a neglected old mansion in the Texas
   hill country to write the novel he's always intended to. He
   discovers he is not alone...This book is a post-modern ghost story
   featuring two lovable Topperesque apparitions from
   turn-of-the-century America who haunt the sometimes bewildered
   writer struggling to face the enormous problems of contemporary
   society - and gay men in particular - as the 21st century is about
   to turn. It is a sweet, occasionally sexy, surprisingly wise, and
   thoroughly enteraining mytho-historical romance with a
   gay-positive spiritual message woven in - along with just a touch
   of the Twilight Zone. Lavender Press, 1991
   ISBN 0-938743-17-1 Buy
   This Book! Jones, Terry, The Elder Within: The
   source of mature masculinity. This is an exploration into the
   potential of eldership, the second half of life expression of
   mature masculinity. It surveys the way a man can tap this
   archetypal energy within himself. The author has developed a
   passion for understanding what a healthy and spiritual expressoin
   of masculinity would look like. By participating in ritualized
   weekend workshops and ongoing men's groups, he found that many men
   share a hunger for spiritual and emotional growth and the desire
   to make a difference. He believes that the man who embraces
   eldership makes himself available to younger men, to the family
   and to the community. He has confidence in the fruits of his long
   life of experience and wants to see the future by sharing with the
   young. This book examines traditional male qualities, such as
   protector, while painting a picture of the mature masculine who
   energizes himself by using tools of wisdom: meditation,
   contemplation, and listening. This book is a must read for both
   men and women alike, as it presents an enlightened view of the
   elder as a major contributor to society. This is a much needed
   resource for empowerment of mature men as well as an enlightened
   forecast of the journey many men will travel. Bookpartners,
   www.bookpartners.com
   2001, ISBN 1-59151-088-8 Buy
   This Book!
   Jones, Terry, The Elder Within: The
   source of mature masculinity. This is an exploration into the
   potential of eldership, the second half of life expression of
   mature masculinity. It surveys the way a man can tap this
   archetypal energy within himself. The author has developed a
   passion for understanding what a healthy and spiritual expressoin
   of masculinity would look like. By participating in ritualized
   weekend workshops and ongoing men's groups, he found that many men
   share a hunger for spiritual and emotional growth and the desire
   to make a difference. He believes that the man who embraces
   eldership makes himself available to younger men, to the family
   and to the community. He has confidence in the fruits of his long
   life of experience and wants to see the future by sharing with the
   young. This book examines traditional male qualities, such as
   protector, while painting a picture of the mature masculine who
   energizes himself by using tools of wisdom: meditation,
   contemplation, and listening. This book is a must read for both
   men and women alike, as it presents an enlightened view of the
   elder as a major contributor to society. This is a much needed
   resource for empowerment of mature men as well as an enlightened
   forecast of the journey many men will travel. Bookpartners,
   www.bookpartners.com
   2001, ISBN 1-59151-088-8 Buy
   This Book! Kammen, Carole & Jodi Gold, Call to Connection: Bringing
   sacred tribal values into modern life, Commune-A-Key
   Publishing, 1998
   Kammen, Carole & Jodi Gold, Call to Connection: Bringing
   sacred tribal values into modern life, Commune-A-Key
   Publishing, 1998 Kasl, Charlotte, If the Buddha
   Married: Creating enduring relationships on a spiritual
   path. Filled with the same highly practical, spiritually sound
   guidance that so clearly touched a chord with readers of If the
   Buddha Dated, this new book is a fresh and inspiring guide for
   anyone who wants to strengthen, deepen, or revitalize a
   relationship. The author empowers us to create fulfilling and
   vibrant relationships through a commitment to awareness, truth and
   compassion. She shows how a "beginner's mind" can help us see our
   partners and ourselves afresh each day as we learn to nurture our
   commitment to each other. Marriage is truly a journey - combining
   key teachings of Buddhism with elements of psychology and other
   spiritual traditions. This book becomes a wise and trusted guide
   through the joys and thickets of relationships that last and grow.
   Penguin Compass, www.penguinputnam.com
   2001 ISBN 0-14-019622-6 Buy
   This Book!
   Kasl, Charlotte, If the Buddha
   Married: Creating enduring relationships on a spiritual
   path. Filled with the same highly practical, spiritually sound
   guidance that so clearly touched a chord with readers of If the
   Buddha Dated, this new book is a fresh and inspiring guide for
   anyone who wants to strengthen, deepen, or revitalize a
   relationship. The author empowers us to create fulfilling and
   vibrant relationships through a commitment to awareness, truth and
   compassion. She shows how a "beginner's mind" can help us see our
   partners and ourselves afresh each day as we learn to nurture our
   commitment to each other. Marriage is truly a journey - combining
   key teachings of Buddhism with elements of psychology and other
   spiritual traditions. This book becomes a wise and trusted guide
   through the joys and thickets of relationships that last and grow.
   Penguin Compass, www.penguinputnam.com
   2001 ISBN 0-14-019622-6 Buy
   This Book! Katz, Jon, Running to the
   Mountain: A midlife adventure. The author, a
   respected journalist, father, and husband, was turning fifty. His
   writing career had taken a dubious turn, his wife had a demanding
   career of her own, his duaghter was preparing to leave home for
   college, and he had become used to a sedentary lifestyle.
   Wonderfully witty and insightful, this book chronicles the
   author's hunger for change and his search for renewed purpose and
   meaning in his familiar world. Armed with the writings of Thomas
   Merton and his two faithful labradors, he trades in his suburban
   carpool-driving and escapes to the mountains of upstate New York.
   There, as he restores a dilapidated cabin, learns self-reliance in
   a lightning storm, shares a bottle of Glenlivet with unexpected
   ghosts, and helps a friend prepare for fatherhood, he confronts
   his lifelong questions about spirituality, mortality, and his own
   self-worth. He ultimately rediscovers a profound appreciation for
   his work, his family and the beauty of everyday life - and
   provides a glorious lesson for us all. Broadway Books, 2000,
   ISBN 0-7679-0498-2 Buy
   This Book!
   Katz, Jon, Running to the
   Mountain: A midlife adventure. The author, a
   respected journalist, father, and husband, was turning fifty. His
   writing career had taken a dubious turn, his wife had a demanding
   career of her own, his duaghter was preparing to leave home for
   college, and he had become used to a sedentary lifestyle.
   Wonderfully witty and insightful, this book chronicles the
   author's hunger for change and his search for renewed purpose and
   meaning in his familiar world. Armed with the writings of Thomas
   Merton and his two faithful labradors, he trades in his suburban
   carpool-driving and escapes to the mountains of upstate New York.
   There, as he restores a dilapidated cabin, learns self-reliance in
   a lightning storm, shares a bottle of Glenlivet with unexpected
   ghosts, and helps a friend prepare for fatherhood, he confronts
   his lifelong questions about spirituality, mortality, and his own
   self-worth. He ultimately rediscovers a profound appreciation for
   his work, his family and the beauty of everyday life - and
   provides a glorious lesson for us all. Broadway Books, 2000,
   ISBN 0-7679-0498-2 Buy
   This Book! Kiyosaki, Emi & Robert Rich
   Brother, Rich Sister: Two different paths to god, money and
   happiness. Together, then apart, then together again, as a
   brother and a sister discover the riches of life. This book
   combines the inspirational, true life stories of a brother and
   sister (the Venerable Tenzin Kacho) into a book that will reaffirm
   your belief in the power of purpose, the importance of actoin, and
   the ability to overcome obstacles in a quest for a rich life. This
   book will inspire you along your own life's journey as you search
   for your own truths, purpose and path to wealth - both financial
   and spiritual - to achieve all the riches of life that were meant
   for you ...and us all. Vanguard Press, 2009,
   ISBN 978-1-59315-493-6
   Kiyosaki, Emi & Robert Rich
   Brother, Rich Sister: Two different paths to god, money and
   happiness. Together, then apart, then together again, as a
   brother and a sister discover the riches of life. This book
   combines the inspirational, true life stories of a brother and
   sister (the Venerable Tenzin Kacho) into a book that will reaffirm
   your belief in the power of purpose, the importance of actoin, and
   the ability to overcome obstacles in a quest for a rich life. This
   book will inspire you along your own life's journey as you search
   for your own truths, purpose and path to wealth - both financial
   and spiritual - to achieve all the riches of life that were meant
   for you ...and us all. Vanguard Press, 2009,
   ISBN 978-1-59315-493-6  
   
 Knight, Sirona, Greenfire:  Making love with the
   Goddess, Llewellyn Publications, 1996
   Knight, Sirona, Greenfire:  Making love with the
   Goddess, Llewellyn Publications, 1996 Koltuv, Barbara Black, The Book of
   Lilith. Lilith, a long haired she demon of the night, flies
   through Sumerian, Babylonian, Assyrian, Canaanite, Persian,
   Hebrew, Arabic and Teutonic mythology. It is said that Adam's
   original consort was Lilith, and she represents the first Eve or
   the woman who tempted Adam with the apple from the Tree of
   Knowledge. Lilith is many things - she is seductress,
   child-killer, an evil energy. Lilith is also one of the
   essentially motherless forms of the feminine Self, and arose as an
   embodiment of the neglected and rejected aspects of the Great
   Goddess. Lilith is Adamah, that part of the Self today's women
   need to reconnect with in order to no longer be spiritual
   outcasts. Nicolas-Hays, Inc., 1986, ISBN 0-89254-014-1
   Koltuv, Barbara Black, The Book of
   Lilith. Lilith, a long haired she demon of the night, flies
   through Sumerian, Babylonian, Assyrian, Canaanite, Persian,
   Hebrew, Arabic and Teutonic mythology. It is said that Adam's
   original consort was Lilith, and she represents the first Eve or
   the woman who tempted Adam with the apple from the Tree of
   Knowledge. Lilith is many things - she is seductress,
   child-killer, an evil energy. Lilith is also one of the
   essentially motherless forms of the feminine Self, and arose as an
   embodiment of the neglected and rejected aspects of the Great
   Goddess. Lilith is Adamah, that part of the Self today's women
   need to reconnect with in order to no longer be spiritual
   outcasts. Nicolas-Hays, Inc., 1986, ISBN 0-89254-014-1 Kybartas, Ray, Fitness is Religion: Keep
   the Faith. This book provides a spiritual guidance that will
   help foster life change. As personal trainer for Madden, Sean
   Penn, Marlo Thomas and others, it also outlines the basics of a
   good diet, offering accessible and down-to-earth explanations
   about foods and the nutrition they provide. He claims that a high
   carbohydrate diet has not worked and that eating a lower
   carbohydrate diet with more protein and a bit more fat leaves less
   evidence around the waste. It also includes dozens of workout
   strategies including resistance work, aerobic training, and
   alternative methods like yoga, Pilates and Feldenkrais. By
   combining methods, this book offers a fresh and exciting
   perspective and a sound cross training platform. Simon &
   Schuster www.SimonSays.com
   1997 Buy
   This Book!
   Kybartas, Ray, Fitness is Religion: Keep
   the Faith. This book provides a spiritual guidance that will
   help foster life change. As personal trainer for Madden, Sean
   Penn, Marlo Thomas and others, it also outlines the basics of a
   good diet, offering accessible and down-to-earth explanations
   about foods and the nutrition they provide. He claims that a high
   carbohydrate diet has not worked and that eating a lower
   carbohydrate diet with more protein and a bit more fat leaves less
   evidence around the waste. It also includes dozens of workout
   strategies including resistance work, aerobic training, and
   alternative methods like yoga, Pilates and Feldenkrais. By
   combining methods, this book offers a fresh and exciting
   perspective and a sound cross training platform. Simon &
   Schuster www.SimonSays.com
   1997 Buy
   This Book! Kyle, David, Human Robots & Holy
   Mechanics: Reclaiming our souls in a machine world. This is
   not a book of answers. It is an attempt to look again at the
   history and condition of our current dilemma as it affects us
   today in this machinelike culture in which we all play a part. It
   is also a book that attempts to have us remember what we know
   about the mystery and sacredness of the natural world. And, it is
   a book that attempts to point to some simple pathways within us
   where we can reexperience a renewed relationship with the Sacred,
   with ourselves and with one another. Swan Raven, 1993,
   ISBN 0-9632310-0-6
   Kyle, David, Human Robots & Holy
   Mechanics: Reclaiming our souls in a machine world. This is
   not a book of answers. It is an attempt to look again at the
   history and condition of our current dilemma as it affects us
   today in this machinelike culture in which we all play a part. It
   is also a book that attempts to have us remember what we know
   about the mystery and sacredness of the natural world. And, it is
   a book that attempts to point to some simple pathways within us
   where we can reexperience a renewed relationship with the Sacred,
   with ourselves and with one another. Swan Raven, 1993,
   ISBN 0-9632310-0-6 
 Levoy, Gregg, Callings:  Finding
   and following an authentic life. How do we know if we're
   following our true callings?  How do we sharpen our
   senses to cut through the distractions of everyday reality and
   hear the calls that are beckoning us?  This book
   examines the many kinds of calls we receive and the great variety
   of channels through which they come to us. A calling may be
   to do something (change careers, go back to school, have a child)
   or to be something (more creative, less judgmental, move loving).
   While honoring a calling's essential mystery, this book also
   guides readers to ask and answer the fundamental questions that
   arise from any calling: How do we recognize it?  How do
   we distinguish the true call from the siren song?  How
   do we handle our resistance to a call?  What happens
   when we say yes?  What happens when we say no? Three
   Rivers Press www.randomhouse.com
   1998 ISBN 0-609-80370-0 Buy
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   Levoy, Gregg, Callings:  Finding
   and following an authentic life. How do we know if we're
   following our true callings?  How do we sharpen our
   senses to cut through the distractions of everyday reality and
   hear the calls that are beckoning us?  This book
   examines the many kinds of calls we receive and the great variety
   of channels through which they come to us. A calling may be
   to do something (change careers, go back to school, have a child)
   or to be something (more creative, less judgmental, move loving).
   While honoring a calling's essential mystery, this book also
   guides readers to ask and answer the fundamental questions that
   arise from any calling: How do we recognize it?  How do
   we distinguish the true call from the siren song?  How
   do we handle our resistance to a call?  What happens
   when we say yes?  What happens when we say no? Three
   Rivers Press www.randomhouse.com
   1998 ISBN 0-609-80370-0 Buy
   This Book! Linn, Denice, Quest:  A guide
   for creating your own vision quest. For centuries, ancient
   cultures embarked on rites of passage to gain entrance to the
   spiritual realms and attain self-knowledge. Now an international
   lecturer and healer draws on her Native American roots, as well as
   the teaching of other cultures, to create a carefully crafted
   spiritual program for anyone wishing to venture on a retreat or
   create a uniquely personal Quest of your own. This practical,
   engaging book will show you how to:  Discover your
   life's purpose, find mystery at the core of your life, release
   limiting beliefs about yourself, call for a vision, harness the
   power of the Sacred Circle, confront and free yourself from fears,
   heal emotional wounds, and develop peace of mind. This guidebook
   gives you the necessary tools to prepare for a Vision Quest that
   will take you to the center of your soul. Ballantine www.randomhouse.com/BB/
   1999 ISBN 0-345-42544-8 Buy
   This Book!
    Linn, Denice, Quest:  A guide
   for creating your own vision quest. For centuries, ancient
   cultures embarked on rites of passage to gain entrance to the
   spiritual realms and attain self-knowledge. Now an international
   lecturer and healer draws on her Native American roots, as well as
   the teaching of other cultures, to create a carefully crafted
   spiritual program for anyone wishing to venture on a retreat or
   create a uniquely personal Quest of your own. This practical,
   engaging book will show you how to:  Discover your
   life's purpose, find mystery at the core of your life, release
   limiting beliefs about yourself, call for a vision, harness the
   power of the Sacred Circle, confront and free yourself from fears,
   heal emotional wounds, and develop peace of mind. This guidebook
   gives you the necessary tools to prepare for a Vision Quest that
   will take you to the center of your soul. Ballantine www.randomhouse.com/BB/
   1999 ISBN 0-345-42544-8 Buy
   This Book! Littell, Jay F, Soul Sailing: How
   life-stories can transform the voyage: An interactive
   guidebook for your journey. This book offers compelling
   hands-on advice for gaining a deeper understanding of how key
   episodes in the reader's past have created present circumstances,
   and for learning how these same episodes can be reexamined to
   create a more fulfilling future. This unique quide presents a
   non-denominational approach to personal spiritual growth,
   emphasizing the individual's needs and potential for increasing
   self-awareness and meaningful inspirational connection. The
   concepts are reinforced with numerous examples, exercises, and
   resources, making each leg of the voyage both accessible and
   actionable. Storytelling as an art is gaining in popularity in the
   US and this book shows readers how this art can help define
   negative and positive elements in past experiences as well as
   transform them into agents for positive change. The book's
   self-paced guidance gives assistance. The exercises and resources
   guarantee that this book can be turned to again and again for help
   in charting a course for personal progress. The nautical theme
   emphasizes the bouyant feeling of progress that comes with a
   voyage of discovery. tellingyourstories.com/cart/
   Safe Harbor Media, 2007, ISBN 978-0-9724934-6-8
    Littell, Jay F, Soul Sailing: How
   life-stories can transform the voyage: An interactive
   guidebook for your journey. This book offers compelling
   hands-on advice for gaining a deeper understanding of how key
   episodes in the reader's past have created present circumstances,
   and for learning how these same episodes can be reexamined to
   create a more fulfilling future. This unique quide presents a
   non-denominational approach to personal spiritual growth,
   emphasizing the individual's needs and potential for increasing
   self-awareness and meaningful inspirational connection. The
   concepts are reinforced with numerous examples, exercises, and
   resources, making each leg of the voyage both accessible and
   actionable. Storytelling as an art is gaining in popularity in the
   US and this book shows readers how this art can help define
   negative and positive elements in past experiences as well as
   transform them into agents for positive change. The book's
   self-paced guidance gives assistance. The exercises and resources
   guarantee that this book can be turned to again and again for help
   in charting a course for personal progress. The nautical theme
   emphasizes the bouyant feeling of progress that comes with a
   voyage of discovery. tellingyourstories.com/cart/
   Safe Harbor Media, 2007, ISBN 978-0-9724934-6-8 
 Lozowick, Lee, Conscious Parenting.
   This is not your run-of-the-mill parenting book. It has
   commonsense appeal but offers no sweet consolation to those who
   are unwilling to make their parenting responsibilities a top
   priority in their lives. The author is a child advocate who has
   worked with parents and children for the past twenty-five years.
   So, anyone who cares for children needs to attend to the essential
   message of this book - that the first two years are the most
   crucial time in a child's education and development, and that
   children learn to be healthy and whole by living with healthy,
   whole adults. Hohm Press 800.381.2700 or www.booknotes.com/hohm,
   1997
    Lozowick, Lee, Conscious Parenting.
   This is not your run-of-the-mill parenting book. It has
   commonsense appeal but offers no sweet consolation to those who
   are unwilling to make their parenting responsibilities a top
   priority in their lives. The author is a child advocate who has
   worked with parents and children for the past twenty-five years.
   So, anyone who cares for children needs to attend to the essential
   message of this book - that the first two years are the most
   crucial time in a child's education and development, and that
   children learn to be healthy and whole by living with healthy,
   whole adults. Hohm Press 800.381.2700 or www.booknotes.com/hohm,
   1997 MacDonald, Gordon, When Men Think Private Thoughts: Exploring
   the Issues that Captivate the Minds of Men. Regardless of age,
   occupation or financial and social status, most men struggle with
   private thoughts that have stirred the hearts and minds of men for
   countless ages. Here, you'll travel the inner recesses of a man's
   mind to unravel the complex, centuries-old questions that shape a
   man's identity and self-concept. You'll learn how a man's sense of
   self begins to form even before birth and how the terrain between
   childhood and manhood affects his adult relationships, spiritual
   life and more. Thomas Nelson, 1996 ISBN 0-7852-7839-7
   Buy
   this book!
   MacDonald, Gordon, When Men Think Private Thoughts: Exploring
   the Issues that Captivate the Minds of Men. Regardless of age,
   occupation or financial and social status, most men struggle with
   private thoughts that have stirred the hearts and minds of men for
   countless ages. Here, you'll travel the inner recesses of a man's
   mind to unravel the complex, centuries-old questions that shape a
   man's identity and self-concept. You'll learn how a man's sense of
   self begins to form even before birth and how the terrain between
   childhood and manhood affects his adult relationships, spiritual
   life and more. Thomas Nelson, 1996 ISBN 0-7852-7839-7
   Buy
   this book! Macy, Joanna & Molly Young Brown,
   Coming Back to Life: Practices to reconnect our lives, our
   world. The authors offer eloquent and compelling insight into
   the roots of our angst, then point the way forward out of apathy
   to "the work that reconnects."  An inspiring and
   practical guide, this much sought-after update and expansion of
   Macy's earlier Despair and Personal Empowerment in the Nuclear
   Age will be welcomed throughout the world by all those
   concerned with peace, spirit, eco-activism and education. New
   Society Publishers, www.newsociety.com,
   1999 ISBN 0-86571-391-X Buy
   This Book!
    Macy, Joanna & Molly Young Brown,
   Coming Back to Life: Practices to reconnect our lives, our
   world. The authors offer eloquent and compelling insight into
   the roots of our angst, then point the way forward out of apathy
   to "the work that reconnects."  An inspiring and
   practical guide, this much sought-after update and expansion of
   Macy's earlier Despair and Personal Empowerment in the Nuclear
   Age will be welcomed throughout the world by all those
   concerned with peace, spirit, eco-activism and education. New
   Society Publishers, www.newsociety.com,
   1999 ISBN 0-86571-391-X Buy
   This Book! Maggio, Michael
   compiled, Quotations for a Man's Soul. A man's path to
   self-awareness and understanding need never be a lonely one. This
   collection of wise quotations is the perfect companion for the man
   seeking deeper meaning in his spirituality, life goals,
   relationships and identity. Prentice Hall 1998 Buy
   This Book!
    Maggio, Michael
   compiled, Quotations for a Man's Soul. A man's path to
   self-awareness and understanding need never be a lonely one. This
   collection of wise quotations is the perfect companion for the man
   seeking deeper meaning in his spirituality, life goals,
   relationships and identity. Prentice Hall 1998 Buy
   This Book! Mann, Nicholas, The Dark God:  A personal journey
   through the underworld. August 1972 Istanbul, Turkey. Waves of
   spiritual seekers journeyed to the mystic East in search of
   enlightenment. The author found himself on a very different trip -
   deep into the bowels of the Turkish prison system. Set up and
   arrested for possession of a small quantity of hashish, he became
   imprisoned within an underworld ruled by money, violence and lies.
   Raw, emotional, intense, the book chronicles one man's spiritual
   odyssey through the darkness and brutality of life in prison. Cut
   off from the rest of the world, he turned to a daily practice of
   yoga and meditation-prison became his monastery. Surrounded by the
   harsh conditions of Bayrampasa, he found himself exploring the
   deepest, most fundamental issues of spirituality. Drawing upon the
   traditions of his ancestors, he discovered a powerful,
   transformative means through which the divine masculine can at
   last become whole, and once more rejoin the divine feminine. By
   facing the fear and denial surrounding the mythic figure of the
   Dark God, the author has uncovered a bold, new insight into the
   true nature of masculine spirituality. Llewellyn Publications,
   1996
   Mann, Nicholas, The Dark God:  A personal journey
   through the underworld. August 1972 Istanbul, Turkey. Waves of
   spiritual seekers journeyed to the mystic East in search of
   enlightenment. The author found himself on a very different trip -
   deep into the bowels of the Turkish prison system. Set up and
   arrested for possession of a small quantity of hashish, he became
   imprisoned within an underworld ruled by money, violence and lies.
   Raw, emotional, intense, the book chronicles one man's spiritual
   odyssey through the darkness and brutality of life in prison. Cut
   off from the rest of the world, he turned to a daily practice of
   yoga and meditation-prison became his monastery. Surrounded by the
   harsh conditions of Bayrampasa, he found himself exploring the
   deepest, most fundamental issues of spirituality. Drawing upon the
   traditions of his ancestors, he discovered a powerful,
   transformative means through which the divine masculine can at
   last become whole, and once more rejoin the divine feminine. By
   facing the fear and denial surrounding the mythic figure of the
   Dark God, the author has uncovered a bold, new insight into the
   true nature of masculine spirituality. Llewellyn Publications,
   1996 Mares, Theun, The Quest for
   Maleness: Avoiding emasculation. Releasing the creative
   powers of the true male. Where have all the heroes
   gone?  In today's world men everywhere are becoming
   weaker and more impotent as women challenge them in every field.
   What can men do about this?  Are men headed for total
   emasculation?  Or are we facing the battle of the
   sexes?  Revealing the true nature of masculinity, Toltec
   warrior and seer, the author shows men how to get back in touch
   with the essential core of their maleness - a core that is nothing
   less that the untapped power of creativity. He describes how to
   access and release the creative power that is the right and duty
   of every true male to exercise. He shows how, by going this, you
   will find the wisdom, vision and sense of purpose to be a true
   leader, and to stand proud in your masculinity. This book is both
   a message of hope and a guidebook for every man who wants to find
   his way as a male and walk tall in the world today. Lionheart
   Publishing, 1999. lionheart@toltec-foundation.org
   or www.toltec-foundation.org
   or www.elusivehappiness.com.
   ISBN 1-919792-07-4 Buy
   This Book!
    Mares, Theun, The Quest for
   Maleness: Avoiding emasculation. Releasing the creative
   powers of the true male. Where have all the heroes
   gone?  In today's world men everywhere are becoming
   weaker and more impotent as women challenge them in every field.
   What can men do about this?  Are men headed for total
   emasculation?  Or are we facing the battle of the
   sexes?  Revealing the true nature of masculinity, Toltec
   warrior and seer, the author shows men how to get back in touch
   with the essential core of their maleness - a core that is nothing
   less that the untapped power of creativity. He describes how to
   access and release the creative power that is the right and duty
   of every true male to exercise. He shows how, by going this, you
   will find the wisdom, vision and sense of purpose to be a true
   leader, and to stand proud in your masculinity. This book is both
   a message of hope and a guidebook for every man who wants to find
   his way as a male and walk tall in the world today. Lionheart
   Publishing, 1999. lionheart@toltec-foundation.org
   or www.toltec-foundation.org
   or www.elusivehappiness.com.
   ISBN 1-919792-07-4 Buy
   This Book! McLaren , Karla, Emotional
   Genius: Discovering the deepest language of the soul. All
   of your emotions - especially your strongest and most difficult
   feelings - are storehouses of unlimited energy. For instance, your
   rage can give you superhuman strength, your fear can save you from
   certain death, and your shame and depression can bring you to a
   complete (and often necessary) halt. Imagine what you could
   accomplish if - instead of repressing your emotions and losing
   your energy or expressing them haphazardly and losing your way -
   you could marshal their energies and use them to increase your
   awareness, heal your relationships, and address your deepest
   wounds. In her groundbreaking new work, the author leads us on a
   step-by-step journey out of emotional confusion and suffering, and
   helps us discover our soul's deepest language and our own innate
   Emotional Genius. Laughing Tree Press, www.emovere.com,
   2001, ISBN 0-9656583-4-1 Buy
   This Book!
   McLaren , Karla, Emotional
   Genius: Discovering the deepest language of the soul. All
   of your emotions - especially your strongest and most difficult
   feelings - are storehouses of unlimited energy. For instance, your
   rage can give you superhuman strength, your fear can save you from
   certain death, and your shame and depression can bring you to a
   complete (and often necessary) halt. Imagine what you could
   accomplish if - instead of repressing your emotions and losing
   your energy or expressing them haphazardly and losing your way -
   you could marshal their energies and use them to increase your
   awareness, heal your relationships, and address your deepest
   wounds. In her groundbreaking new work, the author leads us on a
   step-by-step journey out of emotional confusion and suffering, and
   helps us discover our soul's deepest language and our own innate
   Emotional Genius. Laughing Tree Press, www.emovere.com,
   2001, ISBN 0-9656583-4-1 Buy
   This Book! McLaren, Karla, Further into the
   Garden: Discovering Your Chakras. In this companion book
   to Rebuilding the Garden (see above review), the author
   delves into the world of the chakras, which can be likened to
   energetic glands of the body. Written directly for readers of the
   first book, this incorporates hands-on healing techniques with
   explanations of the eight central chakras and the chakras of the
   hands and feet. Here, molest survivors learn how chakras should
   function, what chakra damage feels like in the body and the aura,
   and how to cleanse, reshape and heal each of the chakras with
   simple, grounded intuitive healing techniques. Laughing Tree Press
   1997 Buy
   This Book!
    McLaren, Karla, Further into the
   Garden: Discovering Your Chakras. In this companion book
   to Rebuilding the Garden (see above review), the author
   delves into the world of the chakras, which can be likened to
   energetic glands of the body. Written directly for readers of the
   first book, this incorporates hands-on healing techniques with
   explanations of the eight central chakras and the chakras of the
   hands and feet. Here, molest survivors learn how chakras should
   function, what chakra damage feels like in the body and the aura,
   and how to cleanse, reshape and heal each of the chakras with
   simple, grounded intuitive healing techniques. Laughing Tree Press
   1997 Buy
   This Book! McLaren, Karla, Your Aura & Your
   Chakras: The owner's manual, Samuel Weiser Inc.,
   1998
   McLaren, Karla, Your Aura & Your
   Chakras: The owner's manual, Samuel Weiser Inc.,
   1998 Meadows, Kenneth, Where Eagles Fly: A shamanic way to
   inner wisdom, Element, 1995
   Meadows, Kenneth, Where Eagles Fly: A shamanic way to
   inner wisdom, Element, 1995 Metcalf, Franz, Buddha in Your
   Backpack: Everyday Buddhism for teens. Probably all the
   jumbled stuff of your daily life - school books, CDs, cell phone,
   maybe that thing you've been looking for everywhere and just can't
   find. Why not add Buddha to the mix? This book, that is. It
   gives you Buddham's life - did you know he rebelled against the
   system? Everyday Buddhism - a new way for you to deal with
   friends, family, food, school, sex, all of it. Your own path -
   ways to move forward. It's not about joining a religion - it's
   about being happier. Make room for Buddha in Your Backpack.
   Seastone, www.ulyssespress.com
   2003, ISBN 1-56975-321-0 Buy
   This Book!
   Metcalf, Franz, Buddha in Your
   Backpack: Everyday Buddhism for teens. Probably all the
   jumbled stuff of your daily life - school books, CDs, cell phone,
   maybe that thing you've been looking for everywhere and just can't
   find. Why not add Buddha to the mix? This book, that is. It
   gives you Buddham's life - did you know he rebelled against the
   system? Everyday Buddhism - a new way for you to deal with
   friends, family, food, school, sex, all of it. Your own path -
   ways to move forward. It's not about joining a religion - it's
   about being happier. Make room for Buddha in Your Backpack.
   Seastone, www.ulyssespress.com
   2003, ISBN 1-56975-321-0 Buy
   This Book! Millman, Dan, The Laws of
   Spirit: A Tale of Transformation. Powerful truths for
   making life work. A companion on the Journey of Spirit. Within
   the mystery of our existence, the universe operates according to
   spiritual laws as real as the law of gravity and as constant as
   the turning of the heavens. Aligning our lives to these laws can
   trasnform our relationships, careers, finances, and health. Simply
   put, they make life work better. In this book, the author offers a
   teaching tale in which he encounters a woman of great wisdom while
   on a mountain hike. In a single weekend in the wilderness, this
   sage takes him - and his readers - through experiences and tests
   in the mountains that demonstrate the power of spiritual laws in
   everyday life. Discover the keys to balance, choice, process,
   presense, compassion, faith, action, patience, surrender, and
   finally, unity. These laws belong to all of us. They rest within
   our hearts and at the heart of every religion and spiritual
   tradition. As you make your own journey through the pages of this
   book, you will find universal solutions to the varied challenges
   of your life. Join the author on an adventure that changes lives.
   Open the doors to a deeper sense of meaning, purpose, and
   connection with all of creation. HJ Kramer, www.newworldlibrary.com,
   2001 ISBN 0-915811-93-6 Buy
   This Book!
   Millman, Dan, The Laws of
   Spirit: A Tale of Transformation. Powerful truths for
   making life work. A companion on the Journey of Spirit. Within
   the mystery of our existence, the universe operates according to
   spiritual laws as real as the law of gravity and as constant as
   the turning of the heavens. Aligning our lives to these laws can
   trasnform our relationships, careers, finances, and health. Simply
   put, they make life work better. In this book, the author offers a
   teaching tale in which he encounters a woman of great wisdom while
   on a mountain hike. In a single weekend in the wilderness, this
   sage takes him - and his readers - through experiences and tests
   in the mountains that demonstrate the power of spiritual laws in
   everyday life. Discover the keys to balance, choice, process,
   presense, compassion, faith, action, patience, surrender, and
   finally, unity. These laws belong to all of us. They rest within
   our hearts and at the heart of every religion and spiritual
   tradition. As you make your own journey through the pages of this
   book, you will find universal solutions to the varied challenges
   of your life. Join the author on an adventure that changes lives.
   Open the doors to a deeper sense of meaning, purpose, and
   connection with all of creation. HJ Kramer, www.newworldlibrary.com,
   2001 ISBN 0-915811-93-6 Buy
   This Book! Millman, Dan, Living on
   Purpose: Straight answers to life's tough questions. The
   author combines the wisdom of Solomon with the commonsense touch
   of Dear Abby, tackling real-world questions with the intuitive
   insight that has drawn millions of readers to his books. Here, for
   the first time, he distills his powerful teaching into twenty-five
   key principles, which his mentor, an old warrior named Socrates -
   called the House Rules. Dan illustrates each House Rule with
   user-friendly stories, quotations, and exercises for applying the
   House Rules into our own lives. He answers univeral questions
   about money and work, parenting and priorities, diet and health,
   decision-making and divorce, simplicity and spirituality,
   meditation and morality, sexuality and fear, life and death, and
   more. Each answer offers fresh insight and personal guidance - a
   bold new vision for living on purpose. www.danmillman.com
   New World Library, www.newworldlibrary.com
   2000 ISBN 1-57731-132-9 Buy
   This Book!
   Millman, Dan, Living on
   Purpose: Straight answers to life's tough questions. The
   author combines the wisdom of Solomon with the commonsense touch
   of Dear Abby, tackling real-world questions with the intuitive
   insight that has drawn millions of readers to his books. Here, for
   the first time, he distills his powerful teaching into twenty-five
   key principles, which his mentor, an old warrior named Socrates -
   called the House Rules. Dan illustrates each House Rule with
   user-friendly stories, quotations, and exercises for applying the
   House Rules into our own lives. He answers univeral questions
   about money and work, parenting and priorities, diet and health,
   decision-making and divorce, simplicity and spirituality,
   meditation and morality, sexuality and fear, life and death, and
   more. Each answer offers fresh insight and personal guidance - a
   bold new vision for living on purpose. www.danmillman.com
   New World Library, www.newworldlibrary.com
   2000 ISBN 1-57731-132-9 Buy
   This Book! Millman, Dan, Way of the Peaceful
   Warrior:  A book that changes lives. This book
   has become one of the most beloved spiritual sagas of our time.
   Despite his success, the author, college student and
   world-champion athlete, is haunted by a feeling that something is
   missing from his life. Awakened one night by dark dreams, he
   wanders into an all-night gas statoin, meets an old man named
   Socrates, and his world is changed forever. Guided by this
   eccentric old warrior, drawn to an elusive young woman named Joy,
   he begins a spiritual odyssey into realms of light and shadow,
   romance and mystery, toward a final confrontation that will
   deliver or destroy him. This classic tale, told with heart and
   humor, speaks to the peaceful warrior in each of us. Countless
   readers have been moved to laughter and tears - even moments of
   illumination - as they rediscover life's larger meaning and
   purpose. Journey with Dan on the peaceful warrior's path to
   unreasonable happiness. Find out for yourself why this book
   changes lives. With a new afterword and revisions by the author.
   www.danmillman.com H.J.
   Kramer, 1984; New World Library, www.newworldlibrary.com
   2000 ISBN 0-915811-89-8 Buy
   This Book!
   Millman, Dan, Way of the Peaceful
   Warrior:  A book that changes lives. This book
   has become one of the most beloved spiritual sagas of our time.
   Despite his success, the author, college student and
   world-champion athlete, is haunted by a feeling that something is
   missing from his life. Awakened one night by dark dreams, he
   wanders into an all-night gas statoin, meets an old man named
   Socrates, and his world is changed forever. Guided by this
   eccentric old warrior, drawn to an elusive young woman named Joy,
   he begins a spiritual odyssey into realms of light and shadow,
   romance and mystery, toward a final confrontation that will
   deliver or destroy him. This classic tale, told with heart and
   humor, speaks to the peaceful warrior in each of us. Countless
   readers have been moved to laughter and tears - even moments of
   illumination - as they rediscover life's larger meaning and
   purpose. Journey with Dan on the peaceful warrior's path to
   unreasonable happiness. Find out for yourself why this book
   changes lives. With a new afterword and revisions by the author.
   www.danmillman.com H.J.
   Kramer, 1984; New World Library, www.newworldlibrary.com
   2000 ISBN 0-915811-89-8 Buy
   This Book! Minor, Robert, When Religion is an
   Addiction. The religious right-wing is on a bender and their
   current drink is political. John Bradshaw describes the "high"
   someone gets from feeling righteous as similar to the high of
   cocaine. There's a recognizable difference between addictive and
   non-addictive religion. Crucial is the conservative Christian
   teaching that people are basically so evil and lost that they
   deserve eternal, unimaginably abusive punishment from someone they
   are told is really a loving heavenly Father. Religious addicts
   blame God for their beliefs and activities. That eliminates
   personal responsibility for the addiction and its results.
   Addictive religion is often used to cover sexual addiction. The
   old "nice" liberal response that's been tried again and again
   hasn't worked. Remove the addict and the addiction from the
   driver's seat in our society and lives, through non-codependent,
   non-co-addictive strategies. This book will definitely help you
   "find the way." www.fairnessproject.org,
   HumanityWorks, 2007, ISBN 978-0-9709581-2-9
   Minor, Robert, When Religion is an
   Addiction. The religious right-wing is on a bender and their
   current drink is political. John Bradshaw describes the "high"
   someone gets from feeling righteous as similar to the high of
   cocaine. There's a recognizable difference between addictive and
   non-addictive religion. Crucial is the conservative Christian
   teaching that people are basically so evil and lost that they
   deserve eternal, unimaginably abusive punishment from someone they
   are told is really a loving heavenly Father. Religious addicts
   blame God for their beliefs and activities. That eliminates
   personal responsibility for the addiction and its results.
   Addictive religion is often used to cover sexual addiction. The
   old "nice" liberal response that's been tried again and again
   hasn't worked. Remove the addict and the addiction from the
   driver's seat in our society and lives, through non-codependent,
   non-co-addictive strategies. This book will definitely help you
   "find the way." www.fairnessproject.org,
   HumanityWorks, 2007, ISBN 978-0-9709581-2-9  Robert is a monthly columnist
   here.
   Robert is a monthly columnist
   here. Moore, Thomas, Care of the
   Soul: A guide for cultivating depth and sacredness in
   everyday life is considered to be one of the best primers for
   soul work ever written. The author, an internationally renowned
   theologian and former Catholic monk, offers a philosophy for
   living that involves accepting our humanity rather than struggling
   to transcend it. By nurturing the soul in everyday life, he shows
   how to cultivate dignity, peace, and depth of character. For
   example, in addressing the importance of daily rituals he writes,
   "Ritual maintains the world's holiness. As in a dream a small
   object may assume significance, so in a life that is animated by
   ritual there are no insignificant things." This is the eloquence
   that helped reintroduce the sacred into everyday language and
   contemporary values. HarperPerennial, 1994, ISBN 0060922249
   Buy
   This Book!
   Moore, Thomas, Care of the
   Soul: A guide for cultivating depth and sacredness in
   everyday life is considered to be one of the best primers for
   soul work ever written. The author, an internationally renowned
   theologian and former Catholic monk, offers a philosophy for
   living that involves accepting our humanity rather than struggling
   to transcend it. By nurturing the soul in everyday life, he shows
   how to cultivate dignity, peace, and depth of character. For
   example, in addressing the importance of daily rituals he writes,
   "Ritual maintains the world's holiness. As in a dream a small
   object may assume significance, so in a life that is animated by
   ritual there are no insignificant things." This is the eloquence
   that helped reintroduce the sacred into everyday language and
   contemporary values. HarperPerennial, 1994, ISBN 0060922249
   Buy
   This Book! Moorey, Teresa & Howard, Pagan Gods for
   Todays Man: a beginners guide. Men today are
   conscious of many dilemmas. The new role of women has thrown a
   fresh light on male status and identity and changing economic and
   social conditions raise similar issues. Belief in a sole,
   exclusively male deity is on the wane in many quarters and the
   idea of male supremacy is becoming outmoded. Where might a man now
   look for images to inspire and uplift? What does it mean to be a
   hero? What social and psychological issues currently affect men
   and how might these be addressed? Looking at ancient gods and old
   stories, addressing issues such as sensitivity in men, the warrior
   ethic and respect for Nature, the authors explore fresh approaches
   to these and other contemporary concepts. Men of all ages and
   persuasions can find something in these pages to provoke thought,
   inspire and hearten. Hodder & Stoughton, 1997 Buy
   This Book!
   Moorey, Teresa & Howard, Pagan Gods for
   Todays Man: a beginners guide. Men today are
   conscious of many dilemmas. The new role of women has thrown a
   fresh light on male status and identity and changing economic and
   social conditions raise similar issues. Belief in a sole,
   exclusively male deity is on the wane in many quarters and the
   idea of male supremacy is becoming outmoded. Where might a man now
   look for images to inspire and uplift? What does it mean to be a
   hero? What social and psychological issues currently affect men
   and how might these be addressed? Looking at ancient gods and old
   stories, addressing issues such as sensitivity in men, the warrior
   ethic and respect for Nature, the authors explore fresh approaches
   to these and other contemporary concepts. Men of all ages and
   persuasions can find something in these pages to provoke thought,
   inspire and hearten. Hodder & Stoughton, 1997 Buy
   This Book! Nepo, Mark, The Book of Awakening: Having the life you
   want by being present to the life you have. A journey
   depends on the kind of deeply held intention that transforms even
   the most ordinary occasion into a subtle or life-altering move
   from mindless to mindful, soul-less to soulful. The author's
   spiritual daybook is a summons to reclaim aliveness, liberate the
   self, take each day one at a time, and savor the beauty offered by
   life's unfolding. Reading his poetic prose is like being given a
   second sight, exposing the reader to life's multiple dimensions,
   each one drawn with awe and affection. A series of daily
   reflections, this is a guidebook for a new journey of the soul.
   Each entry is a work of art, accompanied by a practice that makes
   for a completely original call to awaken the mind and the senses.
   It is filled with a reminding wisdom both gathered from others and
   harvested from the author's own life. Each entry in this capacious
   and tender daybook widens both the eyes and the heart. A cancer
   survivor and writer-in-residence at the Fetzer Institute in
   Michigan, the author has allowed life to consciously move through
   him and the results of that exploratoin take form here. Designed
   as a companion and soul-friend, a "thinking person's daybook," it
   is a book of marvels, woven from the author's own story, stories
   of others struggling with their humanness, and truths from the
   great wisdom traditions. Conari Press, 2000
   ISBN 1-57324-117-2 Buy
   This Book!
   Nepo, Mark, The Book of Awakening: Having the life you
   want by being present to the life you have. A journey
   depends on the kind of deeply held intention that transforms even
   the most ordinary occasion into a subtle or life-altering move
   from mindless to mindful, soul-less to soulful. The author's
   spiritual daybook is a summons to reclaim aliveness, liberate the
   self, take each day one at a time, and savor the beauty offered by
   life's unfolding. Reading his poetic prose is like being given a
   second sight, exposing the reader to life's multiple dimensions,
   each one drawn with awe and affection. A series of daily
   reflections, this is a guidebook for a new journey of the soul.
   Each entry is a work of art, accompanied by a practice that makes
   for a completely original call to awaken the mind and the senses.
   It is filled with a reminding wisdom both gathered from others and
   harvested from the author's own life. Each entry in this capacious
   and tender daybook widens both the eyes and the heart. A cancer
   survivor and writer-in-residence at the Fetzer Institute in
   Michigan, the author has allowed life to consciously move through
   him and the results of that exploratoin take form here. Designed
   as a companion and soul-friend, a "thinking person's daybook," it
   is a book of marvels, woven from the author's own story, stories
   of others struggling with their humanness, and truths from the
   great wisdom traditions. Conari Press, 2000
   ISBN 1-57324-117-2 Buy
   This Book! O'Neill, Jessie, The Golden
   Ghetto:  The psychology of affluence. It is a
   peculiarly American notion that money will guarantee happiness,
   bring us personal fulfillment, strengthen our relationships, give
   us smarter, better adjusted children - in short, make all our
   dreams come true. Here the author, granddaughter of Charles Erwin
   Wilson, one-time president of General Motors, provides a
   penetrating look at why attaining wealth proves to be a hollow
   achievement for many. She has based her professional practice on
   understanding and treating the problems of those who have amassed
   great wealth, and her book is both a description of their lives
   and an analysis of and prescription for the problems they've had
   to face. While the author's main focus is on the very rich, the
   lessons to be learned from their lives have a far broader
   application. This book is in fact inhabited by millions of
   Americans, rich and poor alike, who embrace and endlessly pursue
   the fantasy that more is better, while allowing all that is truly
   worthwhile - loving relationships, the selfless giving of oneself,
   and spiritual growth - to fall by the wayside. This books shows us
   how to right our own relationship with money, and offers
   insightful suggestions for repairing the psychological and
   cultural damage our misguided beliefs about money, power and
   happiness have caused. Hazelden 1.800.328.0098 www.hazelden.com
   1997 (Audio-Cassette,
   CD)
    O'Neill, Jessie, The Golden
   Ghetto:  The psychology of affluence. It is a
   peculiarly American notion that money will guarantee happiness,
   bring us personal fulfillment, strengthen our relationships, give
   us smarter, better adjusted children - in short, make all our
   dreams come true. Here the author, granddaughter of Charles Erwin
   Wilson, one-time president of General Motors, provides a
   penetrating look at why attaining wealth proves to be a hollow
   achievement for many. She has based her professional practice on
   understanding and treating the problems of those who have amassed
   great wealth, and her book is both a description of their lives
   and an analysis of and prescription for the problems they've had
   to face. While the author's main focus is on the very rich, the
   lessons to be learned from their lives have a far broader
   application. This book is in fact inhabited by millions of
   Americans, rich and poor alike, who embrace and endlessly pursue
   the fantasy that more is better, while allowing all that is truly
   worthwhile - loving relationships, the selfless giving of oneself,
   and spiritual growth - to fall by the wayside. This books shows us
   how to right our own relationship with money, and offers
   insightful suggestions for repairing the psychological and
   cultural damage our misguided beliefs about money, power and
   happiness have caused. Hazelden 1.800.328.0098 www.hazelden.com
   1997 (Audio-Cassette,
   CD) O'Reilly, Sean, James, Tim, The Road
   Within: True stories of transformation and the soul. This
   is a very different kind of travel book, a venture into the hidden
   territories of the human spirit and heart. It is a book of
   transformation, of lessons learned, maps drawn and burned, and
   spiritual blessings bestowed by that great and hard teacher:
   travel. It will show you what the great mystics and saints have
   always known - that you are closer to yourself, the world, and
   God, than you can possibly imagine, and that wondrous things await
   you on your journeys. Just a few of the notable authors you'll
   find in this book: Annie Dillard, Huston Smith, Redmond O'Hanlon,
   Natalie Goldberg, David Berlinski, Andrew Harvey, Lyall Watson,
   Holly Morris, Barry Lopez and Bill Buford. Travelers' Tales, 1998
   ISBN 1-885211-19-8 Buy
   This Book!
    O'Reilly, Sean, James, Tim, The Road
   Within: True stories of transformation and the soul. This
   is a very different kind of travel book, a venture into the hidden
   territories of the human spirit and heart. It is a book of
   transformation, of lessons learned, maps drawn and burned, and
   spiritual blessings bestowed by that great and hard teacher:
   travel. It will show you what the great mystics and saints have
   always known - that you are closer to yourself, the world, and
   God, than you can possibly imagine, and that wondrous things await
   you on your journeys. Just a few of the notable authors you'll
   find in this book: Annie Dillard, Huston Smith, Redmond O'Hanlon,
   Natalie Goldberg, David Berlinski, Andrew Harvey, Lyall Watson,
   Holly Morris, Barry Lopez and Bill Buford. Travelers' Tales, 1998
   ISBN 1-885211-19-8 Buy
   This Book! O'Reilly, Sean Joseph, How to Manage Your
   Dick*  (Destructive Impulses with Cyber
   Kinetics): Redirect sexual energy and discover your more
   spiritually enlightened, evolved self. This is one of the most
   unusual concepts you may ever encounter. It is also one of the
   most important. This is the book that might have saved Bill
   Clinton and Gary Condit from personal and political chaos. The
   author presents ideas about energy, moral development, and sexual
   management that will revolutionize your life. Our society
   emphasizes concepts like time and resource management, but for the
   most part ignores one very importnat kind of
   management: DICK Managment. An ecology of persoanl
   energy use that studies destructive, testosterone-driven impulses
   from the perspective of metaphysics and science, it is a new
   discipline that will teach you how to redirect your sexual energy
   and discover your more spiritually enlightened, dimensionally
   evolved self. This is an extraordinary new guide to the soul. It's
   about finding your own personal life ethic - not just saying "no"
   or suppressing your desires but rather about saying "yes" to
   something larger than the tunnel vision of the Cyclops in your
   pants. Auriga Publishing Group, Ten Speed Press, www.dickmanagement.com,
   2001, ISBN 158008350-1, Buy
   This Book!
   O'Reilly, Sean Joseph, How to Manage Your
   Dick*  (Destructive Impulses with Cyber
   Kinetics): Redirect sexual energy and discover your more
   spiritually enlightened, evolved self. This is one of the most
   unusual concepts you may ever encounter. It is also one of the
   most important. This is the book that might have saved Bill
   Clinton and Gary Condit from personal and political chaos. The
   author presents ideas about energy, moral development, and sexual
   management that will revolutionize your life. Our society
   emphasizes concepts like time and resource management, but for the
   most part ignores one very importnat kind of
   management: DICK Managment. An ecology of persoanl
   energy use that studies destructive, testosterone-driven impulses
   from the perspective of metaphysics and science, it is a new
   discipline that will teach you how to redirect your sexual energy
   and discover your more spiritually enlightened, dimensionally
   evolved self. This is an extraordinary new guide to the soul. It's
   about finding your own personal life ethic - not just saying "no"
   or suppressing your desires but rather about saying "yes" to
   something larger than the tunnel vision of the Cyclops in your
   pants. Auriga Publishing Group, Ten Speed Press, www.dickmanagement.com,
   2001, ISBN 158008350-1, Buy
   This Book! Ortlund, Ray and Anne, A Man and His
   Loves:  Mastering the six vital masculine
   relationships. Amid the inverse pictures of men painted by
   modern society, is there a single image worth
   duplicating?  Why not the picture drawn in Scripture of
   the man Jesus of Nazareth?  In this forthright portrait,
   a couple with deep roots in Christian ministry paint a picture of
   the Man for all men. They find in Jesus a blue-collar carpenter
   robust enough for an outdoor ministry, passionate enough to whip
   money-changers out of the temple, and gentle enough to weep, to
   cherish friends (both male and female) and to cuddle Chodron. The
   authors show how men can:  Bond with the manhood God
   implanted within, Keep a journal...and a friend, Stand tall in a
   love relationship, Be the head of their household-with love,
   Pattern "fathering" relationships after seven fathering
   characteristics of God, Do "manly" things - dream, dare, do,
   attack, conquer-through love. They affirm the worth both of
   manhood and the potential men have to enrich themselves, their
   families and society by loving in truly manly ways. Word
   Publishing, 1994 ISBN 084-9910-692 Buy
   This Book!
    Ortlund, Ray and Anne, A Man and His
   Loves:  Mastering the six vital masculine
   relationships. Amid the inverse pictures of men painted by
   modern society, is there a single image worth
   duplicating?  Why not the picture drawn in Scripture of
   the man Jesus of Nazareth?  In this forthright portrait,
   a couple with deep roots in Christian ministry paint a picture of
   the Man for all men. They find in Jesus a blue-collar carpenter
   robust enough for an outdoor ministry, passionate enough to whip
   money-changers out of the temple, and gentle enough to weep, to
   cherish friends (both male and female) and to cuddle Chodron. The
   authors show how men can:  Bond with the manhood God
   implanted within, Keep a journal...and a friend, Stand tall in a
   love relationship, Be the head of their household-with love,
   Pattern "fathering" relationships after seven fathering
   characteristics of God, Do "manly" things - dream, dare, do,
   attack, conquer-through love. They affirm the worth both of
   manhood and the potential men have to enrich themselves, their
   families and society by loving in truly manly ways. Word
   Publishing, 1994 ISBN 084-9910-692 Buy
   This Book! Pable, Martin, The Quest for the Male
   Soul:  In search of something more. Many men in our
   society have a deep spiritual life, and many more desire one. No
   longer satisfied with the games and toys served up in the consumer
   culture, they are searching for "something more."  They
   are seeking deeper spiritual meaning and a more personal
   relationship with God. Defining spirituality as "whatever helps us
   make sense of our lives and gives them meaning," the author offers
   men advice on how to grow in their relationship with God. He uses
   six Hebrew words to describe six stages of a man's spiritual
   development. He guides readers in an exploration of what it means
   to be created in the image of God, to possess positive sexual
   energy, to be endowed with the courage of a warrior, to carry
   one's wounds gracefully, to grow in the mature exercise of
   authority, and finally, to be wise. He shows how these six stages
   represent tasks and skills that engage a man's very soul and bring
   him face to face with life's ultimate questions. He highlights the
   creative possibilities of each stage and illustrates how Jesus
   confronted their challenges in his own life. The book concludes
   with the author's six-step process for spiritual growth which
   shows men how to incorporate a commitment to ongoing change,
   prayer, and service to others into the demands of their everyday
   life. Ave Maria Press1996
    Pable, Martin, The Quest for the Male
   Soul:  In search of something more. Many men in our
   society have a deep spiritual life, and many more desire one. No
   longer satisfied with the games and toys served up in the consumer
   culture, they are searching for "something more."  They
   are seeking deeper spiritual meaning and a more personal
   relationship with God. Defining spirituality as "whatever helps us
   make sense of our lives and gives them meaning," the author offers
   men advice on how to grow in their relationship with God. He uses
   six Hebrew words to describe six stages of a man's spiritual
   development. He guides readers in an exploration of what it means
   to be created in the image of God, to possess positive sexual
   energy, to be endowed with the courage of a warrior, to carry
   one's wounds gracefully, to grow in the mature exercise of
   authority, and finally, to be wise. He shows how these six stages
   represent tasks and skills that engage a man's very soul and bring
   him face to face with life's ultimate questions. He highlights the
   creative possibilities of each stage and illustrates how Jesus
   confronted their challenges in his own life. The book concludes
   with the author's six-step process for spiritual growth which
   shows men how to incorporate a commitment to ongoing change,
   prayer, and service to others into the demands of their everyday
   life. Ave Maria Press1996 Paull, Jennifer, Christopher Culwell,Fodor's
   Giude to the Da Vinci Code: On the trail of the best-selling
   novel. This fully illustrated guide to the best-selling novel
   gives you fresh insight into the Da Vinci Code phenomenon.
   Following the path of the novel's characters, this book delves
   into the locations, people, historic events, and symbols involved
   in the story. Inside you'll find answers to questions such
   as: Do cryptexes really exist? Is there a secret chamber
   below Rosslyn Chapel? And what did conservators discover when
   they restored Leonardo's The Last Supper? Photographs,
   interviews, maps, and smart lively essays from experts in their
   fields reveal the eye-opening true tales behind the mystery. Plus,
   if you're inspired to see the sights for yourself, check out the
   unique travel section, which recommends fun, Code-related places
   to eat, stay, and see in Paris, Rome, London and Roslin. A sample
   itinerary leads the way. Packed with fascinating facts, this guide
   adds a new dimension to your reading experience. Fodors, www.fodors.com,
   2006, ISBN 1-4000-1672-X
   Paull, Jennifer, Christopher Culwell,Fodor's
   Giude to the Da Vinci Code: On the trail of the best-selling
   novel. This fully illustrated guide to the best-selling novel
   gives you fresh insight into the Da Vinci Code phenomenon.
   Following the path of the novel's characters, this book delves
   into the locations, people, historic events, and symbols involved
   in the story. Inside you'll find answers to questions such
   as: Do cryptexes really exist? Is there a secret chamber
   below Rosslyn Chapel? And what did conservators discover when
   they restored Leonardo's The Last Supper? Photographs,
   interviews, maps, and smart lively essays from experts in their
   fields reveal the eye-opening true tales behind the mystery. Plus,
   if you're inspired to see the sights for yourself, check out the
   unique travel section, which recommends fun, Code-related places
   to eat, stay, and see in Paris, Rome, London and Roslin. A sample
   itinerary leads the way. Packed with fascinating facts, this guide
   adds a new dimension to your reading experience. Fodors, www.fodors.com,
   2006, ISBN 1-4000-1672-X 
 Picknett, Lynn, Mary
   Magdalene: Christianity's Hidden Goddess. Traditionally
   portrayed as a marginal figure, a reformed prostitute and penitent
   befriended by Jesus, the Mary Magdalene of the Gospels is always
   inferior to the male disciples, though in recent times there have
   been moves to adopt her as an icon of liberal Christianity and a
   "thirteenth" disciple. But another Magdalene is now emerging
   - the "Apostle of the Apostles" and "The Women Who Knows All". The
   Gnostic Gospels reveal that for the early Church she was second in
   importance only to Jesus. Mary and Jesus were lovers and spiritual
   partners, and she may even have borned him a child. She may not
   have been a Jewish woman, but could have come from Ethiopia, a
   land with its own cult of itinerant pristesses, known to have
   travelled as far as Egypt and Israel to preach. The author
   re-evaluates the evidence from the Gospels, the contemporary
   Gnostic works, and ancient Egyptian texts, seeking enlightenment
   in fields as diverse as the art of Leonardo da Vinci and the
   statues of Black Madonnas. She believes that virtually everything
   the Church teaches about Mary Magdalene is a deliberate attempt to
   cover up uncomfortable facts: that it is time to see the real
   woman and to reassess the history of Christianity. Carroll
   & Graff, www.carrollandgraf.com,
   2004, ISBN 0-7867-1311-9
   Picknett, Lynn, Mary
   Magdalene: Christianity's Hidden Goddess. Traditionally
   portrayed as a marginal figure, a reformed prostitute and penitent
   befriended by Jesus, the Mary Magdalene of the Gospels is always
   inferior to the male disciples, though in recent times there have
   been moves to adopt her as an icon of liberal Christianity and a
   "thirteenth" disciple. But another Magdalene is now emerging
   - the "Apostle of the Apostles" and "The Women Who Knows All". The
   Gnostic Gospels reveal that for the early Church she was second in
   importance only to Jesus. Mary and Jesus were lovers and spiritual
   partners, and she may even have borned him a child. She may not
   have been a Jewish woman, but could have come from Ethiopia, a
   land with its own cult of itinerant pristesses, known to have
   travelled as far as Egypt and Israel to preach. The author
   re-evaluates the evidence from the Gospels, the contemporary
   Gnostic works, and ancient Egyptian texts, seeking enlightenment
   in fields as diverse as the art of Leonardo da Vinci and the
   statues of Black Madonnas. She believes that virtually everything
   the Church teaches about Mary Magdalene is a deliberate attempt to
   cover up uncomfortable facts: that it is time to see the real
   woman and to reassess the history of Christianity. Carroll
   & Graff, www.carrollandgraf.com,
   2004, ISBN 0-7867-1311-9 
 Porter, Bill, Road to Heaven: Encounters with Chinese
   hermits. "Bill Porter's Road to Heaven is a brilliant
   essay on the traditions of Chinese hermits, a startling reminder
   of how far we have gone astray. It should be a part of any serious
   Zen or Taoist library." - Jim Harrison. Mercury House, 1993,
   ISBN 1-56279-041-2 Buy
   This Book!
   Porter, Bill, Road to Heaven: Encounters with Chinese
   hermits. "Bill Porter's Road to Heaven is a brilliant
   essay on the traditions of Chinese hermits, a startling reminder
   of how far we have gone astray. It should be a part of any serious
   Zen or Taoist library." - Jim Harrison. Mercury House, 1993,
   ISBN 1-56279-041-2 Buy
   This Book! Prather, Hugh, Spiritual Notes to
   Myself: Essential wisdom for the 21st century. "Our
   spiritual efforts do not give us privileges in the world - no
   parking spaces that manifest magically, no fat bank accounts. The
   author says it up front and straight out. What readers of this
   intimate notebook will discover, however, is how Truth reveals
   itself through the ordinary, daily experiences of our lives - if
   we choose to live consciously."  Patricia Hopkins Conari
   Press 1998 Buy
   This Book!
    Prather, Hugh, Spiritual Notes to
   Myself: Essential wisdom for the 21st century. "Our
   spiritual efforts do not give us privileges in the world - no
   parking spaces that manifest magically, no fat bank accounts. The
   author says it up front and straight out. What readers of this
   intimate notebook will discover, however, is how Truth reveals
   itself through the ordinary, daily experiences of our lives - if
   we choose to live consciously."  Patricia Hopkins Conari
   Press 1998 Buy
   This Book! Prather, Hugh & Gayle, Spiritual
   Parenting:  A guide to understanding and nurturing
   the heart of your child. The book is a guide to the naturally
   intuitive and spiritual core of every child. It refutes the
   current notions of the basic nature of children and teenagers,
   while offering a radically new way to approach parenting. In the
   words of the authors, counselor and ministers, this book reflects
   the deep personal conviction that parenting is a spiritual path, a
   form of worship. In their characteristically warm style, the
   authors offer a book of principles that parents can use to
   understand and protect their children at home, at school and in
   the world. While one does not have to believe in God to understand
   these principles, parents must approach child care as a spiritual
   task. They offer ways to keep this essential focus amid the
   bewildering complexities involved in guiding children toward
   adulthood. With joy and a sense of humor, the authors offer
   stories and anecdotes about their own children and the children of
   families they have counseled to help today's parents break through
   conflicting ideas and emotions and learn to enjoy their children
   at all stages of their growth. Harmony Books, 1996
   Prather, Hugh & Gayle, Spiritual
   Parenting:  A guide to understanding and nurturing
   the heart of your child. The book is a guide to the naturally
   intuitive and spiritual core of every child. It refutes the
   current notions of the basic nature of children and teenagers,
   while offering a radically new way to approach parenting. In the
   words of the authors, counselor and ministers, this book reflects
   the deep personal conviction that parenting is a spiritual path, a
   form of worship. In their characteristically warm style, the
   authors offer a book of principles that parents can use to
   understand and protect their children at home, at school and in
   the world. While one does not have to believe in God to understand
   these principles, parents must approach child care as a spiritual
   task. They offer ways to keep this essential focus amid the
   bewildering complexities involved in guiding children toward
   adulthood. With joy and a sense of humor, the authors offer
   stories and anecdotes about their own children and the children of
   families they have counseled to help today's parents break through
   conflicting ideas and emotions and learn to enjoy their children
   at all stages of their growth. Harmony Books, 1996 Quinn, Daniel, My Ishmael: A sequel. Ishmael was an
   extraordinary novel which became an underground bestseller and a
   testament for a burgeoning spiritual movement, especially in some
   areas of the "mens movement". This new novel is a companion
   piece - not a story that follows the first but rather a story
   contemporaneous with the first. In it, the Ishmael saga takes a
   startling direction that is in no way prefigured in the original.
   Bantam Books www.bantam.com
   1997 Buy
   This Book!
   Quinn, Daniel, My Ishmael: A sequel. Ishmael was an
   extraordinary novel which became an underground bestseller and a
   testament for a burgeoning spiritual movement, especially in some
   areas of the "mens movement". This new novel is a companion
   piece - not a story that follows the first but rather a story
   contemporaneous with the first. In it, the Ishmael saga takes a
   startling direction that is in no way prefigured in the original.
   Bantam Books www.bantam.com
   1997 Buy
   This Book! Ramer, Andrew, Two Flutes Playing: A
   spiritual journeybook for gay men. In a dizzying tumble or
   words about gay life that has left little uncovered, the author
   has something new to say. He does not rationalize, analyze,
   cheered or scold, but presents a simple vision so steeped in
   age-old wisdom that it appears more contemporary than tomorrow's
   headlines. By writing as purely from the heart as he does, he
   engages a timeless place within us - a place beyond damage and
   doubt, caution and guile. Plunging fearlessly into the truth as he
   sees it, he can't help but liberate readers from their own
   blinkers about the saving grace of being queer. Mark Thompson,
   author of Gay Body, Gay Spirit and Gay Soul.
   Alamo Press arame@earthlink.net
     ISBN 1-886360-05-7 Buy
   This Book!
   Ramer, Andrew, Two Flutes Playing: A
   spiritual journeybook for gay men. In a dizzying tumble or
   words about gay life that has left little uncovered, the author
   has something new to say. He does not rationalize, analyze,
   cheered or scold, but presents a simple vision so steeped in
   age-old wisdom that it appears more contemporary than tomorrow's
   headlines. By writing as purely from the heart as he does, he
   engages a timeless place within us - a place beyond damage and
   doubt, caution and guile. Plunging fearlessly into the truth as he
   sees it, he can't help but liberate readers from their own
   blinkers about the saving grace of being queer. Mark Thompson,
   author of Gay Body, Gay Spirit and Gay Soul.
   Alamo Press arame@earthlink.net
     ISBN 1-886360-05-7 Buy
   This Book! Rinpoche, Dzogchen Ponlop,
   Rebel Buddha: On
   the road to freedom (See
   articles: Finding
   Your Buffalo and Relationships:
   Your Emotional Signature .)
   Rinpoche, Dzogchen Ponlop,
   Rebel Buddha: On
   the road to freedom (See
   articles: Finding
   Your Buffalo and Relationships:
   Your Emotional Signature .) Roads, Michael J., Journey into Nature:  A spiritual
   adventure, H. J. Kramer, 1990
   Roads, Michael J., Journey into Nature:  A spiritual
   adventure, H. J. Kramer, 1990 Roberts, Williams O., Crossing the Soul's
   River: A Rite of passage for men. This compelling
   book puts the male midlife crisis into its deepest context - the
   growth of ourselves as spiritual beings. In so doing it moves well
   beyond treatments which focus solely on the psychological
   dimensions of this process - though the author details these too
   with a sharp insightful eye honed by his own personal experience.
   Most helpful is his detailing of various rites of passage designed
   to help men navigate through this difficult time. In this the book
   is of practical as well as intellectual use. The book is deeply
   insightful and altogether illuminating. The Pilgrim Press,
   pilgrim@ucc.org, 1998
   ISBN 0-8298-1259-8 Buy
   This Book!
   Roberts, Williams O., Crossing the Soul's
   River: A Rite of passage for men. This compelling
   book puts the male midlife crisis into its deepest context - the
   growth of ourselves as spiritual beings. In so doing it moves well
   beyond treatments which focus solely on the psychological
   dimensions of this process - though the author details these too
   with a sharp insightful eye honed by his own personal experience.
   Most helpful is his detailing of various rites of passage designed
   to help men navigate through this difficult time. In this the book
   is of practical as well as intellectual use. The book is deeply
   insightful and altogether illuminating. The Pilgrim Press,
   pilgrim@ucc.org, 1998
   ISBN 0-8298-1259-8 Buy
   This Book! Robinson, Jonathan, Life's Big
   Questions: 200 ways to explore your spiritual life. What
   kind of person have you dreamed of becoming?  Filled
   with provocative questoins, inspiring anecdotes, and guided
   meditations, this book invites you to examine your beliefs about
   spirituality and learn new ways of encountering the sacred in
   daily life. Topics range from the concept of God and the reason
   for love to the meaning of death and the wonder of miracles. Ask
   yourself, your family, and your friends these "big questions" and
   you will begin to discover the key to unlocking life's deepest
   mysteries., Conari Press, 1995. ISBN 1-57324-711-1 Buy
   This Book!
   Robinson, Jonathan, Life's Big
   Questions: 200 ways to explore your spiritual life. What
   kind of person have you dreamed of becoming?  Filled
   with provocative questoins, inspiring anecdotes, and guided
   meditations, this book invites you to examine your beliefs about
   spirituality and learn new ways of encountering the sacred in
   daily life. Topics range from the concept of God and the reason
   for love to the meaning of death and the wonder of miracles. Ask
   yourself, your family, and your friends these "big questions" and
   you will begin to discover the key to unlocking life's deepest
   mysteries., Conari Press, 1995. ISBN 1-57324-711-1 Buy
   This Book! Rosen, Jonathan, The Talmud and the
   Internet: A journey between worlds. "Not long after my
   grandmother died, my computer crashed and I lost the journal I had
   kept of her dying."  So begins this powerful personal
   consideration of modern technology and ancient religious impulses
   by a celebrated young novelist and essayist who blends religious
   history, memoir and literary reflection as he compares the
   fortunae life of his American-born grandmother to the life of his
   European-born granmother, who was murdered by Nazis. In this
   profound, ultimately hopeful meditation, the author charts the
   territory between doubt and belief, tragedy and prosperity, the
   world of the living and the world of the dead. Farrar, Straus and
   Giroux, 2000 ISBN 0-374-27238-7 Buy
   This Book!
   Rosen, Jonathan, The Talmud and the
   Internet: A journey between worlds. "Not long after my
   grandmother died, my computer crashed and I lost the journal I had
   kept of her dying."  So begins this powerful personal
   consideration of modern technology and ancient religious impulses
   by a celebrated young novelist and essayist who blends religious
   history, memoir and literary reflection as he compares the
   fortunae life of his American-born grandmother to the life of his
   European-born granmother, who was murdered by Nazis. In this
   profound, ultimately hopeful meditation, the author charts the
   territory between doubt and belief, tragedy and prosperity, the
   world of the living and the world of the dead. Farrar, Straus and
   Giroux, 2000 ISBN 0-374-27238-7 Buy
   This Book! Schechter, Howard, Jupiter's
   Rings: Balance from the inside out. An often heard
   complaint from people everywhere is: "my life feels out of
   balance." The author's book provides an antidote to this malaise,
   offering relief through practical spiritual and psychological
   guidanace. It is a deep and graveful study of the inner life. He
   shows how a life in balance flows naturally out of the condition
   of internal harmony and can only be achieved through an inner
   focused process. All attempts to generate balance by rearranging
   the furniture of one's external life will ultimately prove futile.
   The twelve chapters constitute discussions of, and guidance in,
   the key elements and practices that will produce internal harmony.
   It is unique in it's fresh formulation and synthesis of perennial
   wisdom. It is easily accessible to those beginning their search
   for a more balanced life as well as appealing to individuals
   further along the path of personal and spiritual growth. White
   Cloud Press, www.whitecloudpress.com,
   2002, ISBN 1-883991-40-4 Buy
   This Book!
   Schechter, Howard, Jupiter's
   Rings: Balance from the inside out. An often heard
   complaint from people everywhere is: "my life feels out of
   balance." The author's book provides an antidote to this malaise,
   offering relief through practical spiritual and psychological
   guidanace. It is a deep and graveful study of the inner life. He
   shows how a life in balance flows naturally out of the condition
   of internal harmony and can only be achieved through an inner
   focused process. All attempts to generate balance by rearranging
   the furniture of one's external life will ultimately prove futile.
   The twelve chapters constitute discussions of, and guidance in,
   the key elements and practices that will produce internal harmony.
   It is unique in it's fresh formulation and synthesis of perennial
   wisdom. It is easily accessible to those beginning their search
   for a more balanced life as well as appealing to individuals
   further along the path of personal and spiritual growth. White
   Cloud Press, www.whitecloudpress.com,
   2002, ISBN 1-883991-40-4 Buy
   This Book! Shannon, Maggie Oman, The Way We
   Pray: Prayer practices from around the world.We all yearn
   to feel a spiritual connection with a higher power. In this book,
   the author celebrates fifty diverse prayer practices from around
   the world, creating the perfect resource for your own spiritual
   exploration. Among the practices described in the book are walking
   a labyrinth, drawing a mandala, counting prayer beads, speaking
   affirmations, writing in a gratitude journal, displaying prayer
   flags, reading sacred scriptures, listening to the resonant sounds
   of a prayer bowl, fasting, writing haiku and chanting. Conari
   Press, 2001. ISBN 1-57324-571-2 Buy
   This Book!
   Shannon, Maggie Oman, The Way We
   Pray: Prayer practices from around the world.We all yearn
   to feel a spiritual connection with a higher power. In this book,
   the author celebrates fifty diverse prayer practices from around
   the world, creating the perfect resource for your own spiritual
   exploration. Among the practices described in the book are walking
   a labyrinth, drawing a mandala, counting prayer beads, speaking
   affirmations, writing in a gratitude journal, displaying prayer
   flags, reading sacred scriptures, listening to the resonant sounds
   of a prayer bowl, fasting, writing haiku and chanting. Conari
   Press, 2001. ISBN 1-57324-571-2 Buy
   This Book! Smith, David B., Sex,
   the Ring & the Eucharist: Reflections on life, ministry
   & fighting in the inner-city. Father Dave is a man who is
   as unconventional as he is remarkable. He is the only Australian
   in Holy Orders to have ever boxed professionally to help raise
   money to keep his ministry going. He is Sydney's 'Fighting
   Father', who combines his regular work as a Parish Priest with a
   ministry to street kids, heroin addicts and other undesirables
   from the underside of Australian society. This book is a series of
   snapshots from Father Dave's life. The book, like the author, is
   hard-hitting and straight talking. The language will shock some.
   Others will be put off by Dave's criticism of the established
   church and the legal system that is, at points, quite savage. And
   yet, there is a pervading sense of faith and hope running through
   this book that is inescapable and infectious. www.fatherdave.org,
   Hippo Books, 2003, ISBN 0-9751630-0-0
   Smith, David B., Sex,
   the Ring & the Eucharist: Reflections on life, ministry
   & fighting in the inner-city. Father Dave is a man who is
   as unconventional as he is remarkable. He is the only Australian
   in Holy Orders to have ever boxed professionally to help raise
   money to keep his ministry going. He is Sydney's 'Fighting
   Father', who combines his regular work as a Parish Priest with a
   ministry to street kids, heroin addicts and other undesirables
   from the underside of Australian society. This book is a series of
   snapshots from Father Dave's life. The book, like the author, is
   hard-hitting and straight talking. The language will shock some.
   Others will be put off by Dave's criticism of the established
   church and the legal system that is, at points, quite savage. And
   yet, there is a pervading sense of faith and hope running through
   this book that is inescapable and infectious. www.fatherdave.org,
   Hippo Books, 2003, ISBN 0-9751630-0-0  (See Fighting Father Dave's monthly column here.)
   (See Fighting Father Dave's monthly column here.) Smith, Huston, The World's Religions. Originally titled
   The Religions of Man, this completely revised and updated
   edition of Smith's masterpiece, now with an engaging new foreword,
   explores the essential elements and teachings of the world's
   predominant faiths, including: Buddhism, Christianity,
   Confucianism, Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, Taoism and the native
   traditions of Africa, the Americas, Australia and Oceania.
   Emphasizing the inner - rather than institutional - dimensions of
   these religions, he devotes special attention to Zen and Tibetan
   Buddhism, Sufism and the teachings of Jesus. He convincingly
   conveys the unique appeal and gifts of each of the traditions and
   reveals their hold on the human heart and imagination. Harper San
   Francisco, 1991, www.harpercollins.com,
   ISBN 0-06-250811-3 (paperback) and 0-06-250799-0
   (cloth).
   Smith, Huston, The World's Religions. Originally titled
   The Religions of Man, this completely revised and updated
   edition of Smith's masterpiece, now with an engaging new foreword,
   explores the essential elements and teachings of the world's
   predominant faiths, including: Buddhism, Christianity,
   Confucianism, Hinduism, Islam, Judaism, Taoism and the native
   traditions of Africa, the Americas, Australia and Oceania.
   Emphasizing the inner - rather than institutional - dimensions of
   these religions, he devotes special attention to Zen and Tibetan
   Buddhism, Sufism and the teachings of Jesus. He convincingly
   conveys the unique appeal and gifts of each of the traditions and
   reveals their hold on the human heart and imagination. Harper San
   Francisco, 1991, www.harpercollins.com,
   ISBN 0-06-250811-3 (paperback) and 0-06-250799-0
   (cloth). Some, Malidoma Patrice, Of Water & the
   Spirit: Ritual, magic & initiation in the life of an
   African shaman. The author, whose name means "be friends with
   the stranger/enemy," was born under the shadow of French colonial
   rule in Upper Volta, West Africa. When he was four, he was taken
   by a Jesuit priest and imprisoned in a seminary built for training
   a new generation of "black" Catholic priests. In spite of his
   isolation from his tribe and his village, he stubbornly refused to
   forget where he had come from and who he was. Fifteen years later,
   he fled the seminary and walked 125 miles through the dense jungle
   back to his own people, the Dagara. Once he was home, however,
   many there regarded him as a "white black", to be looked on with
   suspicion because he had been contaminated by the "sickness" of
   the colonial world. He was a man of two worlds, at home in
   neither. His only hope of reconnection with his people was to
   undergo the harrowing Dagara monthlong initiation in the
   wilderness, which he describes in fascinating detail. He emerged
   from this supernatural ritual a newly integrated individual,
   rejoined to his ancestral past and his cultural present. For more
   than a century, anthropologists and ethnologists have attempted to
   penetrate the worldview of indigenous peoples. Now a true son of
   Africa has come forth, with the permission of his tribal elders,
   to tell us with stunning candor about their way of life. Today he
   flys the jetways writing on his laptop computer, seeking to share
   the ancient wisdom of the Dagara with the rest of the world and
   bring an understanding of another way of life to his village. His
   book is a courageous testament to the hope that humanity can learn
   to live in a global village and see the "stranger" as a friend.
   Tarcher/Putnam, 1994 ISBN 0-87477-762-3 Buy
   This Book!
   Some, Malidoma Patrice, Of Water & the
   Spirit: Ritual, magic & initiation in the life of an
   African shaman. The author, whose name means "be friends with
   the stranger/enemy," was born under the shadow of French colonial
   rule in Upper Volta, West Africa. When he was four, he was taken
   by a Jesuit priest and imprisoned in a seminary built for training
   a new generation of "black" Catholic priests. In spite of his
   isolation from his tribe and his village, he stubbornly refused to
   forget where he had come from and who he was. Fifteen years later,
   he fled the seminary and walked 125 miles through the dense jungle
   back to his own people, the Dagara. Once he was home, however,
   many there regarded him as a "white black", to be looked on with
   suspicion because he had been contaminated by the "sickness" of
   the colonial world. He was a man of two worlds, at home in
   neither. His only hope of reconnection with his people was to
   undergo the harrowing Dagara monthlong initiation in the
   wilderness, which he describes in fascinating detail. He emerged
   from this supernatural ritual a newly integrated individual,
   rejoined to his ancestral past and his cultural present. For more
   than a century, anthropologists and ethnologists have attempted to
   penetrate the worldview of indigenous peoples. Now a true son of
   Africa has come forth, with the permission of his tribal elders,
   to tell us with stunning candor about their way of life. Today he
   flys the jetways writing on his laptop computer, seeking to share
   the ancient wisdom of the Dagara with the rest of the world and
   bring an understanding of another way of life to his village. His
   book is a courageous testament to the hope that humanity can learn
   to live in a global village and see the "stranger" as a friend.
   Tarcher/Putnam, 1994 ISBN 0-87477-762-3 Buy
   This Book! Some, Malidoma Patrice, The Healing Wisdom
   of Africa:  Finding life purpose through nature, ritual
   and community. A fascinating, detailed journey through the
   traditional healing practices of West Africa, by a beloved shaman
   and scholar. Through this book, readers can come to understand
   that the life of indigenous and traditional people is a paradigm
   for an intimate relationship with the natural world that both
   surrounds us and is within us. This acclaimed book is the most
   distinctive and complete study of the role ritual plays in the
   lives of African people - and the role it can play for seekers in
   the west. Tarcher/Putnam, www.penguinputnam.com
   1999 Paperback. ISBN  0-87477-991-X Buy
   This Book!
    Some, Malidoma Patrice, The Healing Wisdom
   of Africa:  Finding life purpose through nature, ritual
   and community. A fascinating, detailed journey through the
   traditional healing practices of West Africa, by a beloved shaman
   and scholar. Through this book, readers can come to understand
   that the life of indigenous and traditional people is a paradigm
   for an intimate relationship with the natural world that both
   surrounds us and is within us. This acclaimed book is the most
   distinctive and complete study of the role ritual plays in the
   lives of African people - and the role it can play for seekers in
   the west. Tarcher/Putnam, www.penguinputnam.com
   1999 Paperback. ISBN  0-87477-991-X Buy
   This Book! Some, Malidoma Patrice, Ritual: Power, Healing and
   Community, Malidoma Patrice Some. In this remarkable book, we
   explore the essential role ritual plays in maintaining community
   and examine the structure common to all ritual. By telling stories
   of the rituals of his native West African Dagara culture, and his
   own experiences in the tribal community, he makes a convincing
   case that the lack of ritual in the Western world is a fundamental
   reason that the fabric of society is unraveling. "The question
   is," said Michael Meade, "can the modern world find ways to
   perceive the subtle knowledge and imagery of the tribal
   understanding open a place for tribal visions of spiritual life
   and community rituals to enter? Malidoma Some is uniquely
   qualified to find the thresholds between the worlds and hold the
   gates open." Arkana www.penguin.com
   1997 Buy
   This Book!
   Some, Malidoma Patrice, Ritual: Power, Healing and
   Community, Malidoma Patrice Some. In this remarkable book, we
   explore the essential role ritual plays in maintaining community
   and examine the structure common to all ritual. By telling stories
   of the rituals of his native West African Dagara culture, and his
   own experiences in the tribal community, he makes a convincing
   case that the lack of ritual in the Western world is a fundamental
   reason that the fabric of society is unraveling. "The question
   is," said Michael Meade, "can the modern world find ways to
   perceive the subtle knowledge and imagery of the tribal
   understanding open a place for tribal visions of spiritual life
   and community rituals to enter? Malidoma Some is uniquely
   qualified to find the thresholds between the worlds and hold the
   gates open." Arkana www.penguin.com
   1997 Buy
   This Book! Sprager, Hart, The Sound of the Earth: A man's mid-life
   passage and spiritual awakening. By the time the author was
   fifty, he had changed professions more than nine times: actor,
   filmmaker, story consultant and writer, foreign service officer,
   university professor, producer/director of television commercials,
   columnist for a Texas newspaper, commentator for National Public
   Radio, actor (the second time around), and full-time vagabond.
   After returning to the U.S. from India (the setting of this book),
   he did a year-long retreat under the guidance of his Tibetan
   Meditation Master, Gen Lamrimpa. It was a year during which he
   remained silent, sat on his pillow, and meditated. He calls it
   "the most productive year of my life." North Star, 1995,
   ISBN 1-880823-11-X Buy
   This Book!
   Sprager, Hart, The Sound of the Earth: A man's mid-life
   passage and spiritual awakening. By the time the author was
   fifty, he had changed professions more than nine times: actor,
   filmmaker, story consultant and writer, foreign service officer,
   university professor, producer/director of television commercials,
   columnist for a Texas newspaper, commentator for National Public
   Radio, actor (the second time around), and full-time vagabond.
   After returning to the U.S. from India (the setting of this book),
   he did a year-long retreat under the guidance of his Tibetan
   Meditation Master, Gen Lamrimpa. It was a year during which he
   remained silent, sat on his pillow, and meditated. He calls it
   "the most productive year of my life." North Star, 1995,
   ISBN 1-880823-11-X Buy
   This Book! Starhawk, The Spiral Dance: A
   rebirth of the ancient religion of the Great
   Goddess: Rituals, invocations, exercises, magic. This is
   a highly informative, poetic and extremely readable overview of
   the growth, suppression and modern-day reemergence of witchcraft
   as a religion with special relevance to the women's (Editor - and
   men's) movements. The author makes clear that this is a
   sophisticated spiritual and psychological system, the roots of
   which go back to the Stone Age. The Goddess is perceived as
   expressing the wholeness of life, the Divine made manifest in the
   world. The book demystifies a much misunderstood and maligned
   tradition while revealing authentic mysteries through which anyone
   can discover the divinity residing within her or his own soul.
   Starhawk was one of the first, and the most outspoken within the
   Goddess movement of the importance of the inclusion not exclusion
   of men. It is in this book that I found the best definition of
   what a man could be and I have yet to find a better definition, be
   it in theology, sociology, mythology, psychology, you name it. She
   uses the image of the Horned God. Depending on your perspective,
   you could replace this with "Spirit" or "God" or whatever deity
   you hold sacred. "If man had been created in the Horned God's
   image, he would be free to be wild without being cruel, angry
   without being violent, sexual without being coercive, spiritual
   without being unsexed, and able to truly love." The image allows
   me my anger, and wildness and sexuality without losing my
   spirituality, and without hurting others. It is with this
   inspiration that I wrote the statement at the front of this web
   site that flows over Leonardo's "Man".
   Harper & Row, 1979 ISBN 0-06-067535-7 Buy
   This Book!
   Starhawk, The Spiral Dance: A
   rebirth of the ancient religion of the Great
   Goddess: Rituals, invocations, exercises, magic. This is
   a highly informative, poetic and extremely readable overview of
   the growth, suppression and modern-day reemergence of witchcraft
   as a religion with special relevance to the women's (Editor - and
   men's) movements. The author makes clear that this is a
   sophisticated spiritual and psychological system, the roots of
   which go back to the Stone Age. The Goddess is perceived as
   expressing the wholeness of life, the Divine made manifest in the
   world. The book demystifies a much misunderstood and maligned
   tradition while revealing authentic mysteries through which anyone
   can discover the divinity residing within her or his own soul.
   Starhawk was one of the first, and the most outspoken within the
   Goddess movement of the importance of the inclusion not exclusion
   of men. It is in this book that I found the best definition of
   what a man could be and I have yet to find a better definition, be
   it in theology, sociology, mythology, psychology, you name it. She
   uses the image of the Horned God. Depending on your perspective,
   you could replace this with "Spirit" or "God" or whatever deity
   you hold sacred. "If man had been created in the Horned God's
   image, he would be free to be wild without being cruel, angry
   without being violent, sexual without being coercive, spiritual
   without being unsexed, and able to truly love." The image allows
   me my anger, and wildness and sexuality without losing my
   spirituality, and without hurting others. It is with this
   inspiration that I wrote the statement at the front of this web
   site that flows over Leonardo's "Man".
   Harper & Row, 1979 ISBN 0-06-067535-7 Buy
   This Book! Steffen, Sylvester L., Primary
   Scripture: Cosmic religion's first lessons. This book
   gives a scientific perspective of the great catholic mandate "to
   love God and to love one's neighbor as oneself." In the author's
   view, science documents the essential continuity of energy and
   matter, soul and substance, spirituality and materiality - the
   natural source of rationality. He finds validation for new age
   consciousness in the wisdom of the ages. This book is a helpful
   first reader for anyone confused by the wave of new books seeking
   to connect science and religion. 1st Books Library, www.1stbooks.com,
   2001 ISBN 0-75963-396-7 Buy
   This Book!
   Steffen, Sylvester L., Primary
   Scripture: Cosmic religion's first lessons. This book
   gives a scientific perspective of the great catholic mandate "to
   love God and to love one's neighbor as oneself." In the author's
   view, science documents the essential continuity of energy and
   matter, soul and substance, spirituality and materiality - the
   natural source of rationality. He finds validation for new age
   consciousness in the wisdom of the ages. This book is a helpful
   first reader for anyone confused by the wave of new books seeking
   to connect science and religion. 1st Books Library, www.1stbooks.com,
   2001 ISBN 0-75963-396-7 Buy
   This Book! Steinsaltz, Adin, Simple
   Words: Thinking about what really matters in life.
   Friends, family, love, God, death, faith. These are deceptively
   simple words that we use all the time. But do we know what we mean
   by these important words?  Do we know what other people
   mean when they use them?  Because we seldom pause to
   reflect on these words, we misunderstand others, and they
   misunderstand us. The author explores some of the meanings of
   these powerful words that are so central to our lives. He
   transforms each word into a gem, turning it this way, then that,
   examining it to see more clearly its brilliant facets and what
   lies behind them. He challenges us to think deeply about the
   connotations of these commonplace words, and in so doing, to see
   that there may be other ways of looking at things we have taken
   for granted all our lives. Thus, our notion of "goodness" may
   become fluid rather than fixed; we may think ourselves not at all
   spiritual, yet find that we have a deeper involvement in the world
   of spirit than we realized and, as the author explains, we may
   mean many different things when we use the word love. This book is
   not philosophical, sociological or psychological. They are
   intensely personal. In this book, the author summarizes a lifetime
   of spiritual wisdom that will enrich our lives and open us to
   better and deeper communication with others. This book is a
   thought-provoking - and surprising - adventure that may change the
   way we think, speak and act. Simon & Schuster, www.simonsays.com
   1999 ISBN  0-684-84642-X Buy
   This Book!
    Steinsaltz, Adin, Simple
   Words: Thinking about what really matters in life.
   Friends, family, love, God, death, faith. These are deceptively
   simple words that we use all the time. But do we know what we mean
   by these important words?  Do we know what other people
   mean when they use them?  Because we seldom pause to
   reflect on these words, we misunderstand others, and they
   misunderstand us. The author explores some of the meanings of
   these powerful words that are so central to our lives. He
   transforms each word into a gem, turning it this way, then that,
   examining it to see more clearly its brilliant facets and what
   lies behind them. He challenges us to think deeply about the
   connotations of these commonplace words, and in so doing, to see
   that there may be other ways of looking at things we have taken
   for granted all our lives. Thus, our notion of "goodness" may
   become fluid rather than fixed; we may think ourselves not at all
   spiritual, yet find that we have a deeper involvement in the world
   of spirit than we realized and, as the author explains, we may
   mean many different things when we use the word love. This book is
   not philosophical, sociological or psychological. They are
   intensely personal. In this book, the author summarizes a lifetime
   of spiritual wisdom that will enrich our lives and open us to
   better and deeper communication with others. This book is a
   thought-provoking - and surprising - adventure that may change the
   way we think, speak and act. Simon & Schuster, www.simonsays.com
   1999 ISBN  0-684-84642-X Buy
   This Book! Storr, Anthony, Solitude: A return to the self.
   In an era when psychologists seem to measure mental well-being
   almost exclusively by the success of our relationships with
   others, the author offers a welcome dissenting view: that true
   health and happiness is ultimately based upon the ability to live
   in peace with oneself. His intriguing and well-documented look at
   solitude and the positive behavior it can foster is a refreshing
   reappraisal of what being alone can mean. In fact, he shows that
   for the artist, writer, composer or philosopher, the spark of
   creativity burns most brightly in a mind working in solitude - a
   state which may be essential to the creative act and the artist's
   mental and emotional fulfillment. Exploring the creative mind, the
   author looks closely at whether the artist's and thinker's choice
   of isolation from society is a sign of health or neurosis.
   Acknowledging that early loss of a parent or separation from peers
   may encourage aspects of personality and activities that can find
   fulfillment in a solitary life, the author shows that such
   pursuits are not necessarily pathological or compensatory, and can
   be more valid than seeking happiness, self-worth and fulfillment
   from an intimate relationship. Also, his examination of the
   healing value of solitude during periods of mourning and stress,
   the surprisingly creative solitude of sleep, and the strong
   relationship between solitude, creativity and the religious
   experience offers new insight into the essential role of the
   solitary state in the life of the thinking, imaginative
   individual. In an age when it is "unfashionable" to choose to be
   alone, this insightful, provocative book is a thoughtful reminder
   that joy and pleasure are to be found, not only in time spent with
   others, but in that which is lived in the rich company of one's
   own thoughts. The Free Press, 1988, ISBN 0-02-931620-0
   Storr, Anthony, Solitude: A return to the self.
   In an era when psychologists seem to measure mental well-being
   almost exclusively by the success of our relationships with
   others, the author offers a welcome dissenting view: that true
   health and happiness is ultimately based upon the ability to live
   in peace with oneself. His intriguing and well-documented look at
   solitude and the positive behavior it can foster is a refreshing
   reappraisal of what being alone can mean. In fact, he shows that
   for the artist, writer, composer or philosopher, the spark of
   creativity burns most brightly in a mind working in solitude - a
   state which may be essential to the creative act and the artist's
   mental and emotional fulfillment. Exploring the creative mind, the
   author looks closely at whether the artist's and thinker's choice
   of isolation from society is a sign of health or neurosis.
   Acknowledging that early loss of a parent or separation from peers
   may encourage aspects of personality and activities that can find
   fulfillment in a solitary life, the author shows that such
   pursuits are not necessarily pathological or compensatory, and can
   be more valid than seeking happiness, self-worth and fulfillment
   from an intimate relationship. Also, his examination of the
   healing value of solitude during periods of mourning and stress,
   the surprisingly creative solitude of sleep, and the strong
   relationship between solitude, creativity and the religious
   experience offers new insight into the essential role of the
   solitary state in the life of the thinking, imaginative
   individual. In an age when it is "unfashionable" to choose to be
   alone, this insightful, provocative book is a thoughtful reminder
   that joy and pleasure are to be found, not only in time spent with
   others, but in that which is lived in the rich company of one's
   own thoughts. The Free Press, 1988, ISBN 0-02-931620-0 Stubbs, Kenneth Ray, editor Women of the
   Light: The new sexual healers.This work consists of a
   series of revealing, compelling essays written by women in various
   professions dealing with sexuality. Perhaps the most telling essay
   concerning our culture is the one by a woman who became a sexual
   surrogate many years ago, when the idea was just being defined.
   This is an incredible account of the modern history of loneliness
   and the fight against narrow-mindedness. Fascinating and highly
   readable, it makes the convincing case that sexwork (that rather
   euphemistic job category covering everyone from strippers and call
   girls to sex surrogates and full-service masseuses) can be a
   source of sexual healing, psychological growth, and spiritual
   awareness. The nine women who tell their stories recount numerous
   touching incidents...Entering into temporary intimate encounters,
   while keeping the full humanity of themselves and their clients
   intact, these women embody the ancient role of the sacred
   prostitute, harking back to early Goddess workshop, when sex was
   part of religious observance. Secret Garden, 1997
   ISBN 0-939263-12-2 Buy
   This Book!
   Stubbs, Kenneth Ray, editor Women of the
   Light: The new sexual healers.This work consists of a
   series of revealing, compelling essays written by women in various
   professions dealing with sexuality. Perhaps the most telling essay
   concerning our culture is the one by a woman who became a sexual
   surrogate many years ago, when the idea was just being defined.
   This is an incredible account of the modern history of loneliness
   and the fight against narrow-mindedness. Fascinating and highly
   readable, it makes the convincing case that sexwork (that rather
   euphemistic job category covering everyone from strippers and call
   girls to sex surrogates and full-service masseuses) can be a
   source of sexual healing, psychological growth, and spiritual
   awareness. The nine women who tell their stories recount numerous
   touching incidents...Entering into temporary intimate encounters,
   while keeping the full humanity of themselves and their clients
   intact, these women embody the ancient role of the sacred
   prostitute, harking back to early Goddess workshop, when sex was
   part of religious observance. Secret Garden, 1997
   ISBN 0-939263-12-2 Buy
   This Book! Taylor, Michael, A New Conversatoin
   with Men. Join the author, an entrepreneur, author,
   motivational speaker and radio-show host as he shares how creating
   a new paradigm of masculinity can help heal America. This book is
   written to inspire men of all ethnicities, ages, socio-economic
   levels and religions to come together to redefine manhood and to
   eradicate the multiplicity of challenges facing America today. Its
   intention is to remove the separation among men and remove the
   hatred, fear and distrust that too many men feel about each other.
   It is a powerful, inspirational document written to educate,
   motivate and inspire all men to reach their full potential. Join
   the conversation and become a part of the revolution! Publish
   America, www.PublishAmerica.com,
   2008, ISBN 1-60563-580-4
   Taylor, Michael, A New Conversatoin
   with Men. Join the author, an entrepreneur, author,
   motivational speaker and radio-show host as he shares how creating
   a new paradigm of masculinity can help heal America. This book is
   written to inspire men of all ethnicities, ages, socio-economic
   levels and religions to come together to redefine manhood and to
   eradicate the multiplicity of challenges facing America today. Its
   intention is to remove the separation among men and remove the
   hatred, fear and distrust that too many men feel about each other.
   It is a powerful, inspirational document written to educate,
   motivate and inspire all men to reach their full potential. Join
   the conversation and become a part of the revolution! Publish
   America, www.PublishAmerica.com,
   2008, ISBN 1-60563-580-4  Visit Michael's monthly column here.
   Visit Michael's monthly column here. Tolle, Eckhart, Awakening to Your Life's
   Purpose. With his bestselling guide The Power of Now,
   the author inspired millions of readers to discover the freedom
   and joy of a life lived "in the now." Here the author expands
   on these powerful ideas to show how transcending our ego-based
   state of consciousness is not only essential to personal happiness
   but also the key to ending conflict and suffering throughout the
   world. He describes how our attachment to the ego creates the
   dysfunction that leads to anger, jealousy, and unhappiness, and
   shows readers how to awaken to a new state of consciousness and
   follow the path to a truly fulfilling existence. Plume Book,
   www.penguin.com, 2006,
   ISBN 0-452-28758-8
   Tolle, Eckhart, Awakening to Your Life's
   Purpose. With his bestselling guide The Power of Now,
   the author inspired millions of readers to discover the freedom
   and joy of a life lived "in the now." Here the author expands
   on these powerful ideas to show how transcending our ego-based
   state of consciousness is not only essential to personal happiness
   but also the key to ending conflict and suffering throughout the
   world. He describes how our attachment to the ego creates the
   dysfunction that leads to anger, jealousy, and unhappiness, and
   shows readers how to awaken to a new state of consciousness and
   follow the path to a truly fulfilling existence. Plume Book,
   www.penguin.com, 2006,
   ISBN 0-452-28758-8 
 Tompkins, Ptolemy, The Beaten
   Path: Field notes on getting wise in a wisdom crazy
   world. Part memoir, part compassionate critique, part road
   journal, part prescription, this book offers the ultimate tour of
   today's flawed and fractured wisdom landscape and provides
   original thoughts on finding the meaning in life beyond the pages
   of a book. For readers tired of the glut of New Age palliatrives,
   the author's fresh take is just what the docter ordered. This is a
   provacative expose on the contemporary quest to attain and keep
   spiritual wisdom. Son of Peter Tompkins, whose The Secret Life
   of Plants helped launch the New Age movement, the author is no
   stranger to the pursuit of enlightenment. But as a young man aware
   of the fact that his father was "a part-good-part-bad human being
   and not the all-knowing sage his followers wanted him to be, he
   brought a healthy dose of skepticism to his own search for
   guidance. Always on the lookout for an alternative to the "noisy
   bohemianism of (his) father's circle," he turned his teenage
   attention to a continuing stream of "wisdom books" that covered
   terrain from Japanese Zen to Iranian Sufism, Amerinidan shamanism
   to Tibetan Buddhism, fueled a Hunter S. Thompson-esque road trip
   in his mother's white '79 Pontiac Sunbird, drove him into the
   jungles of Columbia and the deserts of New Mexico, where - after a
   mushroom trip that left him bereft and confused - he discovered
   that he had "returned to the place I had started out from, and
   against all expectation, I was still not enlightened." In this
   book, he takes readers along for the ride as he revisits with a
   critical but loving eye the books and teachers that shaped his
   youthful quest and explores why his early search for meaning
   failed. In seven enlightening, often humorous, and always
   provocative chapters, he reappraises the masters and explores why
   - unlike the quest for wisdom in other times and places - the
   modern "wisdom-getting adventure had become little more than a
   parody of what it had once been." William Morrow, www.harpercollins.com,
   2001 ISBN 0-380-97822-9 Buy
   This Book!
    Tompkins, Ptolemy, The Beaten
   Path: Field notes on getting wise in a wisdom crazy
   world. Part memoir, part compassionate critique, part road
   journal, part prescription, this book offers the ultimate tour of
   today's flawed and fractured wisdom landscape and provides
   original thoughts on finding the meaning in life beyond the pages
   of a book. For readers tired of the glut of New Age palliatrives,
   the author's fresh take is just what the docter ordered. This is a
   provacative expose on the contemporary quest to attain and keep
   spiritual wisdom. Son of Peter Tompkins, whose The Secret Life
   of Plants helped launch the New Age movement, the author is no
   stranger to the pursuit of enlightenment. But as a young man aware
   of the fact that his father was "a part-good-part-bad human being
   and not the all-knowing sage his followers wanted him to be, he
   brought a healthy dose of skepticism to his own search for
   guidance. Always on the lookout for an alternative to the "noisy
   bohemianism of (his) father's circle," he turned his teenage
   attention to a continuing stream of "wisdom books" that covered
   terrain from Japanese Zen to Iranian Sufism, Amerinidan shamanism
   to Tibetan Buddhism, fueled a Hunter S. Thompson-esque road trip
   in his mother's white '79 Pontiac Sunbird, drove him into the
   jungles of Columbia and the deserts of New Mexico, where - after a
   mushroom trip that left him bereft and confused - he discovered
   that he had "returned to the place I had started out from, and
   against all expectation, I was still not enlightened." In this
   book, he takes readers along for the ride as he revisits with a
   critical but loving eye the books and teachers that shaped his
   youthful quest and explores why his early search for meaning
   failed. In seven enlightening, often humorous, and always
   provocative chapters, he reappraises the masters and explores why
   - unlike the quest for wisdom in other times and places - the
   modern "wisdom-getting adventure had become little more than a
   parody of what it had once been." William Morrow, www.harpercollins.com,
   2001 ISBN 0-380-97822-9 Buy
   This Book! Ullman, Robert and Judyth Reichenberg-Ullman,
   Mystics, Masters, Saints and Sages: Stories of
   enlightenment. From the Buddha's experience under the Bodhi
   tree to Eckhart Tolle's realization of the "power of now", this
   book brings together stories and writings on moments of spiritual
   enlightenment by ancient and modern masters. With selections from
   religious traditions including Christianity, Islam, Buddhism,
   Hinduism, Judaism, Baha'i, and Sufism, this collection provides a
   broad spectrum of spiritual awakenings throughout time. Read and
   be inspired by depictions of divine grace and self-realization
   from as close to the source as possible. Conari Press, 2001.
   ISBN 1-57324-507-0 Buy
   This Book!
   Ullman, Robert and Judyth Reichenberg-Ullman,
   Mystics, Masters, Saints and Sages: Stories of
   enlightenment. From the Buddha's experience under the Bodhi
   tree to Eckhart Tolle's realization of the "power of now", this
   book brings together stories and writings on moments of spiritual
   enlightenment by ancient and modern masters. With selections from
   religious traditions including Christianity, Islam, Buddhism,
   Hinduism, Judaism, Baha'i, and Sufism, this collection provides a
   broad spectrum of spiritual awakenings throughout time. Read and
   be inspired by depictions of divine grace and self-realization
   from as close to the source as possible. Conari Press, 2001.
   ISBN 1-57324-507-0 Buy
   This Book! Upton, Charles, Hammering Hot Iron:  A spiritual
   critique on Bly's Iron John. This is a rare work that raises
   important questions, draws vital distinctions, and elevates
   discourse within the spiritual community on the Men's Movement
   (only a very small part of it-ed.), Jungian psychology, archetypal
   and mythological studies, and polytheistic religions. Drawing on
   the perennial philosophy, the universal expression of absolute
   truth, the author offers a metaphysical and cultural critique of
   Robert Bly's Iron John. He adopts Bly's shadow in the
   Jungian sense. His intellectual argument is masterfully
   intertwined with his own personal and spiritual journey, often
   expressed through original poetry. Quest, 1993,
   ISBN 0-8356-0697-X Buy
   This Book!
   Upton, Charles, Hammering Hot Iron:  A spiritual
   critique on Bly's Iron John. This is a rare work that raises
   important questions, draws vital distinctions, and elevates
   discourse within the spiritual community on the Men's Movement
   (only a very small part of it-ed.), Jungian psychology, archetypal
   and mythological studies, and polytheistic religions. Drawing on
   the perennial philosophy, the universal expression of absolute
   truth, the author offers a metaphysical and cultural critique of
   Robert Bly's Iron John. He adopts Bly's shadow in the
   Jungian sense. His intellectual argument is masterfully
   intertwined with his own personal and spiritual journey, often
   expressed through original poetry. Quest, 1993,
   ISBN 0-8356-0697-X Buy
   This Book! Vanzant, Iyanla, The Spirit of a Man: A Vision of
   Transformation for Black Men and the Women Who Love Them. Long
   known as the country's leading authority on spirituality and
   empowerment for Black women, Iyanla Vanzant now offers a message
   of faith, self-knowledge and courage for Black men in the
   struggles, crises and victories they face in today's society.
   Teaching Black men to recognize and tap the energy of their own
   spirits, Vanzant uses a brilliant and transforming blend of
   ancient African spirituality, practical self-help advice, and
   contemporary faith to help Black men - and the women who love them
   - nurture the strength and power that are their birthright.
   HarperCollins www.harpercollins.com
   1996
   Vanzant, Iyanla, The Spirit of a Man: A Vision of
   Transformation for Black Men and the Women Who Love Them. Long
   known as the country's leading authority on spirituality and
   empowerment for Black women, Iyanla Vanzant now offers a message
   of faith, self-knowledge and courage for Black men in the
   struggles, crises and victories they face in today's society.
   Teaching Black men to recognize and tap the energy of their own
   spirits, Vanzant uses a brilliant and transforming blend of
   ancient African spirituality, practical self-help advice, and
   contemporary faith to help Black men - and the women who love them
   - nurture the strength and power that are their birthright.
   HarperCollins www.harpercollins.com
   1996 von Koss, Doug, How Sweet the Sound
   (w/booklet) "For those who know Doug or those who don't, this
   CD and booklet shows a master at work, taking ordinary
   untrained mens' and womens' voices, with care and inspiration,
   turning them into a single woven voice, rising prayer-like and
   powerful." - Bill Benham, poet. "Doug von Koss is a great
   Earthshaman who is helping us begin singing a post trival Earth
   Community into existence." Robert Moore, co-author of
   King, Warrior, Magician
   and Lover. "Doug's music creates a most exquisite trance.
   (After listening) you shouldn't operate heavy machinery in this
   state."  Larry Lease, MFC therapist. "Doug, I love your
   CD. It is just like being at one of your evenings with all the joy
   and beauty that you inspire in the singers." Dan Zola,
   mythologist, producer Great
   Night of Rumi. Get a copy, invite friends over, and join Doug
   and The Noah Project for an evening of joy. Self-produced, 2004,
   Doug@dougvonkoss.com or
   www.dougvonkoss.com
   von Koss, Doug, How Sweet the Sound
   (w/booklet) "For those who know Doug or those who don't, this
   CD and booklet shows a master at work, taking ordinary
   untrained mens' and womens' voices, with care and inspiration,
   turning them into a single woven voice, rising prayer-like and
   powerful." - Bill Benham, poet. "Doug von Koss is a great
   Earthshaman who is helping us begin singing a post trival Earth
   Community into existence." Robert Moore, co-author of
   King, Warrior, Magician
   and Lover. "Doug's music creates a most exquisite trance.
   (After listening) you shouldn't operate heavy machinery in this
   state."  Larry Lease, MFC therapist. "Doug, I love your
   CD. It is just like being at one of your evenings with all the joy
   and beauty that you inspire in the singers." Dan Zola,
   mythologist, producer Great
   Night of Rumi. Get a copy, invite friends over, and join Doug
   and The Noah Project for an evening of joy. Self-produced, 2004,
   Doug@dougvonkoss.com or
   www.dougvonkoss.com
    
   
 Walker, Barbara, The Skeptical Feminist: Discovering the
   virgin, mother & crone. This spiritual autobiography
   follows the author's journey away from her Christian upbringing,
   past the necessity for conventional religious beliefs, to an
   appreciation of the idea of the Goddess as a way to structure our
   social systems. She describes her childhood and adolescent
   struggles with Christianity - the unanswered questions and
   prayers, the abounding irrationalities - and her subsequent,
   futile effort to discover a reasonable God in the Bible. In
   telling her own story, she uses the three aspects of the Goddess -
   the Virgin, the Mother and the Crone- as a historical frame. She
   delineates the how and whys of patriarchy and its suppression of
   the Goddess religions; describes witch covens and how they
   function; and reveals how women's morality in the past and present
   is more nourishing, emotional, and cooperative, less aggressive,
   acquisitive and violent, than men's moral code. We are barely
   beginning to understand the enormous tragedy of the historical
   clash between the archaic mother religion and the new, aggressive
   father religion, which took place from approximately 1000BC to
   1000 AD, and which drastically changed the world. The sexist
   attitudes, injustices, and outrages that plague our society today
   have their foundation in religious imagery. The reason a feminist
   needs a skeptical view of father religion is that sexism is the
   product of that religion, and will remain so as long as God is
   assigned a masculine gender. Harper & Row, 1987
   ISBN 0-06-250932-2 Buy
   This Book!
   Walker, Barbara, The Skeptical Feminist: Discovering the
   virgin, mother & crone. This spiritual autobiography
   follows the author's journey away from her Christian upbringing,
   past the necessity for conventional religious beliefs, to an
   appreciation of the idea of the Goddess as a way to structure our
   social systems. She describes her childhood and adolescent
   struggles with Christianity - the unanswered questions and
   prayers, the abounding irrationalities - and her subsequent,
   futile effort to discover a reasonable God in the Bible. In
   telling her own story, she uses the three aspects of the Goddess -
   the Virgin, the Mother and the Crone- as a historical frame. She
   delineates the how and whys of patriarchy and its suppression of
   the Goddess religions; describes witch covens and how they
   function; and reveals how women's morality in the past and present
   is more nourishing, emotional, and cooperative, less aggressive,
   acquisitive and violent, than men's moral code. We are barely
   beginning to understand the enormous tragedy of the historical
   clash between the archaic mother religion and the new, aggressive
   father religion, which took place from approximately 1000BC to
   1000 AD, and which drastically changed the world. The sexist
   attitudes, injustices, and outrages that plague our society today
   have their foundation in religious imagery. The reason a feminist
   needs a skeptical view of father religion is that sexism is the
   product of that religion, and will remain so as long as God is
   assigned a masculine gender. Harper & Row, 1987
   ISBN 0-06-250932-2 Buy
   This Book! Wall, Steve & Harvey Arden,
   Wisdomkeepers: Meetings with native American spiritual
   elders. The spiritual heritage of Native American people is
   here - it has not been extinguished. I believe the spiritual fire
   stall burns and is beckoning for America, indeed, the world, to
   come closer, to listen, to hear, and to share in its warmth and
   comfort. It is time that the buckskin curtain be drawn back. It is
   time, I know it. Teach the children. The Grandfathers and the
   Grandmothers are in the children. If we educate them, our children
   tomorrow will be wiser than we are today. They're the Grandfathers
   and Grandmothers of tomorrow. Beyond Words Publishing, 1990
   ISBN 0-941831-66-3 Buy
   This Book!
   Wall, Steve & Harvey Arden,
   Wisdomkeepers: Meetings with native American spiritual
   elders. The spiritual heritage of Native American people is
   here - it has not been extinguished. I believe the spiritual fire
   stall burns and is beckoning for America, indeed, the world, to
   come closer, to listen, to hear, and to share in its warmth and
   comfort. It is time that the buckskin curtain be drawn back. It is
   time, I know it. Teach the children. The Grandfathers and the
   Grandmothers are in the children. If we educate them, our children
   tomorrow will be wiser than we are today. They're the Grandfathers
   and Grandmothers of tomorrow. Beyond Words Publishing, 1990
   ISBN 0-941831-66-3 Buy
   This Book! Weatherford, Ronald Jeffrey and Carole
   Boston, Somebody's Knocking at Your Door: AIDS and the
   African-American church. Examining the black church's response
   to AIDS, this book analyses sexual ethics and homophobia in the
   black church to provide pastors, social workers, and health
   professionals with intervention strategies for parishioners or
   members of the community who have AIDS. Through the voices of
   leading clergy, AIDS advocates, and people living with AIDS
   (PLWAs), you'll find tips on ministry development, prevention
   education, and pastoral care and explore the history of activism
   in the black church, AIDS statistics, and exemplary
   AIDS ministries. This book urges church officials to welcome
   PLWAs into the church and help prevent AIDS infection through
   education. Haworth Pastoral Press, 1999 ISBN: 0789005751 Buy
   This Book!
   Weatherford, Ronald Jeffrey and Carole
   Boston, Somebody's Knocking at Your Door: AIDS and the
   African-American church. Examining the black church's response
   to AIDS, this book analyses sexual ethics and homophobia in the
   black church to provide pastors, social workers, and health
   professionals with intervention strategies for parishioners or
   members of the community who have AIDS. Through the voices of
   leading clergy, AIDS advocates, and people living with AIDS
   (PLWAs), you'll find tips on ministry development, prevention
   education, and pastoral care and explore the history of activism
   in the black church, AIDS statistics, and exemplary
   AIDS ministries. This book urges church officials to welcome
   PLWAs into the church and help prevent AIDS infection through
   education. Haworth Pastoral Press, 1999 ISBN: 0789005751 Buy
   This Book! Williams, Miriam, Heaven's
   Harlots: My fifteen years in a sex cult. This is an
   explosive first-person account by a young woman who spent fifteen
   years in a sex cult that encouraged "sacred prostitution" and the
   idea that "God is our pimp." Like so many children of the
   1960s, she was an idealist who just wanted to belong; so when a
   Jesus person invited her to live with "God's family" in upstate
   New York, seventeen-year-old Miriam left her home in Lancaster,
   PA, got on a bus, and never looked back. In this compelling,
   cautionary tale of a spiritual odyssey gone haywire, she shares
   her extraordinary existence as a holy whore and the daunting
   experience of rebulding a normal life. After her escape from the
   cult, she helped establish a web site, www.excognet.com,
   dedicated to helping former cult members cope with life on "the
   outside." She makes her home in the South. Eagle Book, www.williammorrow.com
   1998, ISBN 0-688-17012-9 Buy
   This Book!
   Williams, Miriam, Heaven's
   Harlots: My fifteen years in a sex cult. This is an
   explosive first-person account by a young woman who spent fifteen
   years in a sex cult that encouraged "sacred prostitution" and the
   idea that "God is our pimp." Like so many children of the
   1960s, she was an idealist who just wanted to belong; so when a
   Jesus person invited her to live with "God's family" in upstate
   New York, seventeen-year-old Miriam left her home in Lancaster,
   PA, got on a bus, and never looked back. In this compelling,
   cautionary tale of a spiritual odyssey gone haywire, she shares
   her extraordinary existence as a holy whore and the daunting
   experience of rebulding a normal life. After her escape from the
   cult, she helped establish a web site, www.excognet.com,
   dedicated to helping former cult members cope with life on "the
   outside." She makes her home in the South. Eagle Book, www.williammorrow.com
   1998, ISBN 0-688-17012-9 Buy
   This Book! Woody, Carla, Calling Our Spirits
   Home: Gateways to full consciousnes. As people
   increasingly search for something more in our times, awakening
   toward spiritual consciousnses has become prevalent. In that
   sparking, seekers often find themselves in the middle of something
   that turns their lives upside down with few people to turn toward
   for guidance through an often ecsatic, albeit confusing maze of
   possibilities. This book provides a look at the process that
   typically emerges for Everywoman and Everyman in that unfolding.
   Uniquely blending real-life examples, storytelling, mythology,
   world spiritual traditions and transformational modalities, it
   provides insights and tools for every phase of the journey.
   Kenosis Press, 800.650.7888 or cwoody@kenosis.net
   2000 ISBN 1-930192-00-2 Buy
   This Book!
   Woody, Carla, Calling Our Spirits
   Home: Gateways to full consciousnes. As people
   increasingly search for something more in our times, awakening
   toward spiritual consciousnses has become prevalent. In that
   sparking, seekers often find themselves in the middle of something
   that turns their lives upside down with few people to turn toward
   for guidance through an often ecsatic, albeit confusing maze of
   possibilities. This book provides a look at the process that
   typically emerges for Everywoman and Everyman in that unfolding.
   Uniquely blending real-life examples, storytelling, mythology,
   world spiritual traditions and transformational modalities, it
   provides insights and tools for every phase of the journey.
   Kenosis Press, 800.650.7888 or cwoody@kenosis.net
   2000 ISBN 1-930192-00-2 Buy
   This Book! Wright, Judith, The One Decision: Make
   the single choice that will lead to a life of more. Many of us
   spend years seeking meaning in our lives, exploring numerous paths
   in our quest for real, lasting life satisfaction - we change
   careers, lose weight, attend seminars, buy bigger houses and
   fancier cars, or even get ride of it all. Yet in the end, we lead
   only partially successful or "better" lives, achieving at work yet
   failing in relationships, succeeding in relationships but feeling
   unfulfilled in our careers. And we wonder: What's missing?
   What will it take to feel truly satisfied in all of the areas of
   my life? The answsers to the problem, says the author, lies not in
   what we are doing but rather in why we are doing it. What, in
   other words, is our purpose? In this powerful book, she
   reveals that in order to find lasting happiness, each of us must
   make a personal decision about the kind of life we want to live -
   and allow this simple yet profound choice to be the guiding force
   for everyting we do. She offers a 30 day program for discovering a
   personal vision that will inform every aspect of life. This
   groundbreaking book reveals that the key to true happiness is just
   a decision away for each of us. www.judithwright.com,
   www.wrightliving.com,
   Jeremy P Tarcher/Penguin, www.penguin.com,
   2005, ISBN 1-58542-481-1
   Wright, Judith, The One Decision: Make
   the single choice that will lead to a life of more. Many of us
   spend years seeking meaning in our lives, exploring numerous paths
   in our quest for real, lasting life satisfaction - we change
   careers, lose weight, attend seminars, buy bigger houses and
   fancier cars, or even get ride of it all. Yet in the end, we lead
   only partially successful or "better" lives, achieving at work yet
   failing in relationships, succeeding in relationships but feeling
   unfulfilled in our careers. And we wonder: What's missing?
   What will it take to feel truly satisfied in all of the areas of
   my life? The answsers to the problem, says the author, lies not in
   what we are doing but rather in why we are doing it. What, in
   other words, is our purpose? In this powerful book, she
   reveals that in order to find lasting happiness, each of us must
   make a personal decision about the kind of life we want to live -
   and allow this simple yet profound choice to be the guiding force
   for everyting we do. She offers a 30 day program for discovering a
   personal vision that will inform every aspect of life. This
   groundbreaking book reveals that the key to true happiness is just
   a decision away for each of us. www.judithwright.com,
   www.wrightliving.com,
   Jeremy P Tarcher/Penguin, www.penguin.com,
   2005, ISBN 1-58542-481-1  
   
 Wright, Judith, There Must Be More than
   This: Finding more lilfe, love and meaning by overcoming your
   soft addictions. There is more than this and you can have it,
   so says the author. What keeps us from living the rich,
   fulfilling lives we desire? The author has found that too
   often we are tripped up by our dependence on seemingly harmless
   habits like shopping, watching TV, gossiping, and surfing the net.
   These, she calls, soft addictions, and they form a powerful net
   that traps us, preventing us from having more love and meaning in
   our lives. Unlike drugs or alcohol, our soft addictions arrive in
   the seductive guise of a "normal," socially acceptable activity.
   They fill up our time, but leave us feeling empty, asking "Is this
   all there is to life? There must be more than this." Her
   fresh perspective and proven program invite you to overcome your
   soft addictions and discover more - a fully engaging life of more
   intimacy, purpose, joy, satisfaction and love. She promises a life
   in which you advance your goals and your vision every day. You
   will live more purposefully and feel more intensely, stop asking
   the small questions and start asking the big ones. You will fill
   your life with meaningful activity, and your soft addictions will
   fall away. www.theremustbemore.com.
   Broadway Books, www.broadwaybooks.com
   2003. ISBN 0-7679-1339-6 Buy
   This Book!
   Wright, Judith, There Must Be More than
   This: Finding more lilfe, love and meaning by overcoming your
   soft addictions. There is more than this and you can have it,
   so says the author. What keeps us from living the rich,
   fulfilling lives we desire? The author has found that too
   often we are tripped up by our dependence on seemingly harmless
   habits like shopping, watching TV, gossiping, and surfing the net.
   These, she calls, soft addictions, and they form a powerful net
   that traps us, preventing us from having more love and meaning in
   our lives. Unlike drugs or alcohol, our soft addictions arrive in
   the seductive guise of a "normal," socially acceptable activity.
   They fill up our time, but leave us feeling empty, asking "Is this
   all there is to life? There must be more than this." Her
   fresh perspective and proven program invite you to overcome your
   soft addictions and discover more - a fully engaging life of more
   intimacy, purpose, joy, satisfaction and love. She promises a life
   in which you advance your goals and your vision every day. You
   will live more purposefully and feel more intensely, stop asking
   the small questions and start asking the big ones. You will fill
   your life with meaningful activity, and your soft addictions will
   fall away. www.theremustbemore.com.
   Broadway Books, www.broadwaybooks.com
   2003. ISBN 0-7679-1339-6 Buy
   This Book! 
 Yogis,
   Jaimal, Salt Water Buddha: A surfer's quest to find
   zen on the sea. Fed up with his suburban life, the author ran
   off to Hawaii with little more than a copy of Hermann Hesse's
   Siddhartha and enough cash for a surfboard. His journey is
   a coming-of-age saga that takes him from communes to monasteries,
   from the warm Pacific to the icy New York shore. This book is a
   rousing chronicle of finding meditative focus in the barrel of a
   wave and eternal truth in the great salty blue. Wisdom
   Publications, 2009, wisdompubs.org,
   ISBN 978-0-8617-1-535-0
Yogis,
   Jaimal, Salt Water Buddha: A surfer's quest to find
   zen on the sea. Fed up with his suburban life, the author ran
   off to Hawaii with little more than a copy of Hermann Hesse's
   Siddhartha and enough cash for a surfboard. His journey is
   a coming-of-age saga that takes him from communes to monasteries,
   from the warm Pacific to the icy New York shore. This book is a
   rousing chronicle of finding meditative focus in the barrel of a
   wave and eternal truth in the great salty blue. Wisdom
   Publications, 2009, wisdompubs.org,
   ISBN 978-0-8617-1-535-0 