Boy are we happy! December saw us break the 2,500,000 hits a month mark and the 100,000 per day mark on December 21 and 29. PICKS OF THE WEEK BOOK HOT! ACTION Emergency Resources - Crisis, Suicide, Runaway here Check out the 20 weekly and 30 monthly columns Review 44 Current Men's Publications and Newsletters Access Previous months' Homepages 2,630,915 Dec. Hits Interview of the Month Dan Millman New Column Wendy McElroy Daily Newsletter Free sign up NEWSBYTES ARCHIVES NEWSBYTES - Updated 12/27/04 30 Tings to do Before the Inauguration BB Guns Injure Thousands Each Year Mental Illness in America A New Colic Cure? Need H2O? Your Body Lets You Know How To Understand When Your Doctor Talks Statistics Hormone May Foretell Heart Disease Osgood-Schlatter Disease Allergy Alerts cancer news every 30 minutes WEEKLY COLUMNS DocLove Sandra L. Caron Tom Blake Bruce Van Horn Tim Hartnett Relationships Sexuality Relationships Yoga Fathering Glenn Sacks R. Don Steele Mark Brandenburg K C Wilson Marty Nemko Gender Relationships Fathering Gender Worklife Susie & Otto Collins Dennis W. Neder Judith Sherven & Jim Sniechowski Ken Byers Carey Roberts Relationships Relationships Relationships Transition Feminism Armin Brott Wendy McElroy Joe Kort Jed Diamond Nancy Fagan Fathering Feminism Sexuality Health Relationships MONTHLY COLUMNS David Kundtz Robert N Minor George Simons Ted Braude Reid Baer Feelings Sexuality On Life Boys Interviews Kathy Noll John Hershey Reena Sommer David Steinberg Linda Nielsen Youth Violence Parenting Humor Custody Sexuality Daughters Ron DesMarais Bruce Linton Get It On The Cutrights Michael Webb Cooking Fathering Sexuality Relationship Relationship Dr. Williams Eli Newberger The Advice Diva Barry Durdant-Hollamby Peter Baylies Sex Health Men's Issues Relationship Change At Home Dads Gary Hoeber David Copeland & Ron Louis Words Can Heal Warren Farrell Soul Work Relationships On Healing Men's Issues Relationship Surprise Wuzup?! Questions Numbers Health Tips ! @ ? # & IMPORTANT WEB SITES World AIDS Day Mencare No Circumcision Prostate Cancer Testicular Cancer One must keep to one's gentle habits even if the Mongols are at the gate, for without one's gentle habits we are nothing. - Stuart Wilde I run great risk of failing. It may be that I shall encounter ruin where I look for reputation and a career of honor. The chances are perhaps more in favour of ruin than of success. But, whatever may be the chances, I shall go on as long as any means of carrying on the fight are at my disposal. -- Anthony Trollope (1815-1882) English Novelist Resentment is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die. -- Carrie Fisher Nobody grows old merely by living a number of years. We grow old by deserting our ideals. -- Samuel Ullman If you ever choose to go with your woman's suggestion, even when deep in your heart you feel that another decision is more wise, you are in effect, saying, 'I don't trust my own wisdom.' You are weakening yourself by telling yourself this. You are weakening your woman's trust in you. Why should she trust your wisdom if you don't." -- David Deida OUTSTANDING ACTIONS   MGA Promotes Blind-Date Play for 6-Year-Olds Television Networks Refuse Religious Commercial Verizon tells fathers to "Leave Your Daughter Alone" A & F is for Losers The Pill - A Woman's Only Issue? Watch Out - The New "Shell" Game can Cost You - Big Time Kidnapping Children May Become Legal in California New Potter Movie Condones Domestic Violence Fred Meyer Sells "Boys are Smelley" Products Child Supermodel Site is Questionable Wal-Mart Continues to Encourage " No Boundaries" Commercial List Brokers Target Children Boys Are Stupid & Happy Bunny Campaigns FATHERSTUFF FOR DECEMBER Monthly New this Week Peter Baylies - I'll have some prolactin with lactation on the side please Mark Brandenburg - Commitments for the New Year Ted Braude - Boys: Crossing the Bridge and Entering the Forest Armin Brott - Defining "Daddy" Tim Hartnett - The Second Parent John Hershey - The Beer Garden: Grow your own! Independent Means - Money Mentoring Team for Your Kids Bruce Linton - Christmas Linda Nielsen - Gift Giving: Fathers and Daughters Kathy Noll - Empowering Kids to Deal with Bullies and Low Self-esteem Reena Sommer - What Kind of People Go into Therapy or Counseling? HEALTHSTUFf FOR DECEMBER Ken Byers - Suicide Jed Diamond - When Depression Takes Over and Life Becomes Too Painful Kim Garretson - Monkey on His Back Health Tips - Have Happy, Healthy Holidays David Kuntz - Feeding the Emotions Bruce Van Horne - Improving Sexual Preformance with Tantra Yoga Words Can Heal - The Gift of Friendship MENSTUFF ISSUES FOR DECEMBER Reid Baer - Interview with Dan Millman Calendar of Events - December Ron DesMarais - Pretty Salad Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Men and The News Warren Farrell - Introducing Men’s Issues and Why Men Earn More Gary Hoeber - Coming in 2005 Wendy McElroy - Wage Gap Reflects Women's Priorities Marty Nemko - Tackling The Really Big Problems Eli Newberger - Adolescent Suicide Numbers - Do You Ever Fantasize about Someone Else During Sex? Q&A - Black Coffee Sobers You Up Carey Roberts - Kofi's Resignation Won't Cure the AIDS Epidemic Glenn Sacks - Families and the War George Simons - SUV Nation - Mine’s bigger Surprise - Quality time with your kids K.C. Wilson - I No Longer Support the Women’s Movement A Man Speaks Out RELATIONSTUFf FOR DECEMBER The Advice Diva - The Independent Woman and the Metrosexual Man Tom Blake - Stop Blaming Others Otto & Susie Collins - What are you Noticing? David Copeland & Ron Louis - Dating Basics Layne & Paul Cutright - Creating Agreements That Work: Building Trust Through Clarity DocLove - Would Marky Mark Mind if She Brought a Friend Along? Nancy Fagan - Fragrances and Temporary Insanity Dennis W. Neder - She’s Going to Show You What Real “Hurt” Is! Judith Sherven & Jim Sniechowski - The Gift of the Future Don Steele - She's Making Eyes at Me! Michael Webb - Is Your Relationship in Neutral? SEXSTUFf FOR DECEMBER Sandra L. Caron - Is it common for straight males to masturbate with and/or for other straight males? Paul Joannides - Yeast Infections from Lubes? Joe Kort - Take the Quiz on marriage to see which marriage the quotes describe: Interracial or same-sex couples Robert N. Minor - If We Could Just Get Over the Liberal Guilt David Steinberg - A Romantic View of Sadomasochism Dr. Williams - Top Ten Men's Sex Facts COLUMNS BY AUTHOR Monthly Weekly The Advice Diva - The Advice Diva Reid Baer - A Man Overboard Peter Baylies - At Home Dads Tom Blake - Middle-Age Relationships Mark Brandenburg - Great Fathers Ted Braude - BoysWork Armin Brott - A Father's Guide Ken Byers - Transition Sandra L. Caron - Sex Talk Otto & Susie Collins - Susie and Otto David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women Layne & Paul Cutright - Powerful Partnerships Ron DesMarais - Cavemen in the Kitchen Jed Diamond - Irritable Male Syndrome Doc Love - Women Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Change Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice Warren Farrell - Coming January 1, 2005 Kim Garretson - MansGland Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks John Hershey - Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor Gary Hoeber - Coming January 1, 2005 Paul Joannides - The Guide to Getting It On Joe Kort - Gaydar David Kundtz - David Kundtz Bruce Linton - Dr. Dad Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy Robert N. Minor - Minor Details Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man Marty Nemko - Worklife Eli Newberger - Eli Newberger Linda Nielsen - Embracing Your Father Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism Glenn Sacks - His Side Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy George Simons - Bellicose Veins Jim Sniechowski. - The New Intimacy Reena Sommer - Custody R. Don Steele - Don Steele David Steinberg - Comes Naturally Surprise - Quality time with your kids Steven Svoboda - Fatherhood, Activism and the Law Bruce Van Horn - Yoga for Men Michael Webb - Secrets of Blissful Relationships Dr.Williams - Sex Health KC Wilson - On Gender Politics *     *     * It is most dangerous to lead as the head of the world if we don't use our heart. 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