Daily Thoughts & Issues

IN THIS ISSUE:

MARCH 18

Days left until the next millennium 01.01.3001

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Achieve Your Dreams

March 18 - The Arab oil embargo against the U.S. is officially lifted. (1974) * The first electric razor was marketed by Schick (1931). * The Japanese released mechanized flying bombs piloted by young Japanese men. (1945) These suicide bombs, directed against the US aircraft carrier fleet attacking the Japanese fleet in the Kure-Kobe area, inflicted serious damage on the Enterprise, Intrepid and Wasp. * Voskhod 2 (USSR) saw Colonel Leonov step out of the capsule for 20 minutes in a special space suit, the first man to leave a spaceship. It was two months prior to the first US space walk (1965). * Birthdays: George Plimpton, William H. Johnson, Kevin Dobson, Brad Dourif, Peter Graces, George Kander, Shashi Kapoor, Wilson Pickett, George Plimpton, Charley Pride, John Updike.

DAILY THOUGHTS

Spend one day a month in solitude. Spending time away from the constant barrage of pressures we face can get us back in tough with what is real, and can help to alleviate the tensions of everyday life. After all, freeing ourselves from the pressures of modern living is a major part of what simplifying is all about. Simplify Your Life

The Ford Foundation awarded $100 million to black colleges in 1969. African American History

She taught me how to insert her diaphragm. Now we make it part of foreplay. - James, 35 Best of 1001 Sex Secrets Every Man & Woman Should Know

What's the best way to deal with children's temper tantrums? Unless they are harming themselves or others, or damaging property, let the tantrums run their course, with no attention from you. Dr. Buff's 365 Day Parenting Calendar (Ed. - If eye contact is made, show a willingness for the child to continue until they are complete.)

Living and working together for over thirty years, film makers and life-partners Ismail Merchant and James Ivory have brought two of E. M. Forster's books to film. Can you name them?   Gay & Lesbian Calendar Answer below:

If people in their forties are determined to become authentically themselves, they will have to stop pretending to be the people they have been an begin to recognize and ultimately accept who, or what, they are becoming. New Passages

Four!  Can you name these fours?  1. The 4 dimensions. 2. The 4 humors. 3. The 4 Hs in the 4-H Club. 4. The 4 Freedoms. Answers: 1. length, width, depth, time; 2. black bile, yellow bile, phlegm, blood; 3. heart, hands, head, and health; 4. of speech and expressions; of religion, from want, from fear. The Old Farmer's Almanac

0 - 12 Months - Learning by Mouth. It's natural for your baby to put one object after another into her mouth, but this is an easy way for her to come in contact with viruses and other germs. Routine washing with soap and warm water is sufficient to keep objects that go in your baby's mouth clean. You don't have to panic and wash pacifiers or other objects every time they drop on the floor. However, washing is particularly important if another child has been playing with the object. This is one way that coughs, colds, diarrhea, and pinkeye can get passed between babies. Parents Tips & Tricks

Marriage is filled with paradoxical feelings, far-flung fantasies, profound despair, blissful epiphanies, and bitter struggle - all signs of the active presence of soul. Soul Mates

Thing to Be Happy About:  The value of old books. Low cholesterol. Enterprising youngsters. 14,000 Things to Be Happy About

Don't laugh if you don't get the joke.  Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me

"All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy." - James Howell, Proverbs (1659) It doesn't do anything for Jill, either! Stress Busters

A happy person is not a person in a certain set of circumstances, but rather a person with a certain set of attitudes. - Hugh Downs. Win the Day!

Cuando?  (KWAHNdoh) When?  Cuando tenemos que estar alli?  When do we have to be there? Living Language

Answer: A Room with a View (1985) and Maurice (1986)

TODAY'S ISSUE: NATIONAL POISON PREVENTION WEEK

Simple things you can do now to protect your kids from poisons

  • Post the number. Get the phone number for your poison control center, and post it in a place where family members can find it in an emergency. Tape it to the telephone, post it on the refrigerator, or tack it to the bulletin board. Call the center now to receive helpful advice and phone stickers or magnets displaying this important phone number. If you don't know the number, click here for a directory of numbers for centers across the United States. Fast access to this number could save your child's life.
  • Do the flush. Search the medicine cabinets, bathrooms, the kitchen, the garage, and other rooms of your home to find nonessential household products as well as any unusual, unnecessary, or expired drugs you've been meaning to toss out. For example, flush down the toilet those painkillers your doctor prescribed three years ago. Rid your home of these nonessentials right now.
  • Now crawl around. Get down on your hands and knees and crawl every place your children go, including inside your closets, so that you can see every nook and cranny from their point of view. You'll be surprised what you may find--that free sample of dishwashing detergent that rolled under the kitchen hutch, Grandma's heart pills stuck between the sofa cushions, and the old jug of drain cleaner lurking in your bathroom closet.
  • Check your entire home regularly to make sure that all poisons are not just out of sight and out of reach (kids can open doors and climb on counters), but secured well in a cabinet with a lock or safety latch.
  • If you don't have at least an ounce bottle of Syrup of Ipecac in the house, bring some home today!
  • Write the phone number of your local poison control center next to each telephone. Don't know the number, check www.aapcc.org/findyour.htm or check for the Poison Control Center in the front of your local Yellow Pages.

Learn more at www.menstuff.org/issues/byissue/poison.html

Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at mencare@menstuff.org. Realize the joy you get from helping others. What Every Man Needs to Know Want to make a difference but you don't know where to start?

BOOK OF THE WEEK

Every Moment Matters: Savoring the stuff of life by John St. Augustine. Life is filled with moments that change us, teach us, make us catch our breath, and sometimes make us happy just to be alive. But too often they go unnoticed. In this book, popular radio personality offers compelling stories from his own life that remind us all of the importance of the ordinary moments in our lives. He shows us the lessons and gifts hidden in the everyday moments that make life more vibrant and worth living. This book offers a prescription for a way out of the maze of our rushed and hectic lives by pausing to pay attention to the present. Hampton Roads, www.hrpub.com, 2009 ISBN 978-1-57174-589-7

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  • Reid Baer - A Man Overboard - Interview of the Month - www.menstuff.org/columns/overboard/archive.html
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  • Molly Barrow - Shrink About This - www.menstuff.org/columns/barrow/archive.html
  • Peter Baylies - At Home Dads - on at-home-dad issues that impact fathers who stay at home to raise their kids - www.menstuff.org/columns/baylies/archive.html
  • Tom Blake - Middle-Age Relationships - from an expert on dating after 50. www.menstuff.org/columns/blake/archive.html
  • Mark Brandenburg - Great Fathers - on fathering issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/greatfathers/archive.html
  • Ted Braude - BoysWork - a columnist in the The Detroit Free Press "Body and Mind" section www.menstuff.org/columns/braude/archive.html
  • Armin Brott - A Father's Guide - hosts "Positive Parenting" on radio www.menstuff.org/columns/brott/archive.html
  • Dan Bulf - Get Real - weekly pod cast on men's issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/bulf/archive.html
  • Ken Byers - Transition - on men's life transitions - www.menstuff.org/columns/byers/archive.html
  • Sandra L. Caron - Sex Talk - college students get answers to their questions - www.menstuff.org/columns/sextalk/archive.html
  • Neil Chethik - Relationships - www.menstuff.org/columns/chethik/archive.html
  • Otto & Susie Collins - Susie and Otto - relationship issues discussed - www.menstuff.org/columns/susie&otto/archive.html
  • David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women - www.menstuff.org/columns/howtosucceed/archive.html
  • Forrest Craver - Spirituality & Social Change - www.menstuff.org/columns/craver/archive.html
  • Layne & Paul Cutright - Powerful Partnerships - relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/cutright/archive.html
  • Ron DesMarais - Cavemen in the Kitchen - great recipes for men - www.menstuff.org/columns/desmarais/archive.html
  • Jed Diamond - Irritable Male Syndrome - www.menstuff.org/columns/diamond/archive.html
  • Doc Love - Women Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen - answers to relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/doclov/archive.html
  • Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Change - creating change in your life - www.menstuff.org/columns/durdant/archive.html
  • Irv Engel - The Real Deal - www.menstuff.org/columns/engel/archive.html
  • Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice - with Nancy Fagan - www.menstuf.org/columns/fagan/archive.html
  • Warren Farrell - Men's Issues: Facts and Perspectives www.menstuff.org/columns/farrell/archive.html
  • Leonard Felder - Wake Up or Break Up - www.menstuff.org/columns/felder/archive.html
  • Marty Friedman - Strong Men, Strong Marriage - www.menstuff.org/columns/friedman/archive.html
  • Kim Garretson - Mansgland - using humor to encourage prostate exams - www.menstuff.org/columns/mansgland/archive.html
  • Lion Goodman - How to get Women to Love You - www.menstuff.org/columns/goodman/archive.html
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  • Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks - being a father www.menstuff.org/columns/daddyman/archive.html
  • John Hershey - Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor - He writes a syndicated biweekly humor column about parenting and family life. www.menstuff.org/columns/hershey/archive.html
  • Gary Hoeber - Psychotherapy as Soul Work, www.menstuff.org/columns/hoeber/archive.html
  • Patrick Houser - Fathers Make a World of Difference, www.menstuff.org/columns/houser/archive.html
  • Paul Joannides - The Guide to Getting It On - on sex - www.menstuff.org/columns/getiton/archive.html
  • Jack Kahn - NOMAS Boston - www.menstuff.org/columns/kahn/archive.html
  • Patrick Kennedy - Seniors - www.menstuff.org/columns/kennedy/archive.html
  • Joe Kort - Gaydar - to increase understanding between gay and het men - www.menstuff.org/columns/kort/archive.html
  • David Kundtz - David Kundtz - presents seminars, workshops, retreats, and conference presentations in the areas of men's emotional health, stress management, and spirituality. www.menstuff.org/columns/kundtz/archive.html
  • Bruce Linton - Dr. Dad - on fathering - www.menstuff.org/columns/drdad/archive.html
  • Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women - www.menstuff.org/columns/howtosucceed/archive.html
  • Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy on Feminism, www.menstuff.org/columns/mcelroy/archive.html
  • Robert N. Minor - Minor Details - on GBT sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/minordetails/archive.html
  • Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology - www.menstuff.org/columns/moore/archive.html
  • Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man - general questions about men's lives - www.menstuff.org/columns/neder/archive.html
  • Marty Nemko - Worklife - general questions about men and work - www.menstuff.org/columns/nemko/archive.html
  • Eli Newberger - Eli Newberger - general information on men's lives - www.menstuff.org/columns/newberger/archive.html
  • Linda Nielsen - Embracing the Father - working with the father/daughter relationship. www.menstuff.org/columns/nielsen/archive.html
  • Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence - working with schools, teachers and parents to end school violence - www.menstuff.org/columns/noll/archive.html
  • Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads - helping men maintain that which makes us men, instead of becoming hairy Mom-substitutes - www.menstuff.org/columns/phillips/archive.html
  • Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism - is a social commentator on political correctness. www.menstuff.org/columns/roberts/archive.html
  • Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex
  • Glenn Sacks - His Side - on fathering - www.menstuff.org/columns/sacks/archive.html
  • Trudy Schuett - Domestic Violence - serving the under-represented www.menstuff.org/columns/schuett/archive.html
  • Carl J. Schutt - Circumcision - social commentator on circumcision - www.menstuff.org/columns/schutt/archive.html
  • Hugo Schwyzer - A Pro-feminist's Response - www.menstuff.org/columns/schwyzer/archive.html
  • Michael Shaffran - Men's Issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/shaffran/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
  • George Simons - Bellicose Veins - is a US specialist in intercultural and gender communication who hangs out in Mandelieu - la Napoule, France, as well as in Santa Cruz, CA. www.menstuff.org/columns/simons/archive.html
  • Andy Smith - Hard Hat Brotherhood - www.menstuff.org/columns/hardhat/archive.html
  • David B. Smith - Fighting Father Dave - www.menstuff.org/columns/smith/archive.html
  • Jim Sniechowski - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Jim Sniechowski - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
  • Reena Sommer - Custody - is an internationally recognized relationship and divorce consultant. www.menstuff.org/columns/sommer/archive.html
  • R. Don Steele - Don Steele - relationship questions answered -
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  • David Steinberg - Comes Naturally - on sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/steinberg/archive.html
  • Mary Lou St Lucas - A Mother's Love - www.menstuf.org/columns/stlucas/archive.html
  • Surprise - Surprise Author - From a new columnist every month - www.menstuff.org/columns/surprise/archive.html
  • Steven Svoboda - Fatherhood, Activism and the Law www.menstuff.org/columns/svoboda/archive.html
  • Michael Taylor - A New Conversation with Men - www.menstuff.org/columns/taylor/archive.html
  • Bruce Van Horn - Yoga for Men - issues around the health benefits of yoga for men - www.menstuff.org/yoga/archive.html
  • Michael Webb - Secrets of Blissful Relationships - on relationship - www.menstuff.org/columns/bliss/archive.html
  • Stuart Wilde - Spirituality - www.menstuff.org/columns/wilde/archive.html
  • Dr.Williams - Sex Health - on sexual health - Dr. Williams, www.menstuff.org/columns/sexhealth/archive.html
  • KC Wilson - On Gender Politics is a social commentator and author. www.menstuff.org/columns/wilson/archive.html

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  • Numbers - www.menstuff.org/columns/numbers/archive.html
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  • Words Can Heal - helping children grow up healthy - www.menstuff.org/columns/wordscanheal/archive.html
  • Wuzup?! - National or international events happening this month - www.menstuff.org/columns/whassup/archive.html

AWARENESS EVENTS THIS MONTH

March is International Listening Awareness, International Mirth, *Irish-American Heritage, Mental Retardation Awareness, Music in Our Schools, National Chronic Fatigue Syndrome Awareness, National Collision Awareness, National Colorectal Cancer Awareness, Ethics Awareness; National Humane Education Awareness, National Kidney, National Nutrition, National On-Hold, National Professional Social Worker's, National Talk with Your Teen about Sex, Optimism, Play-the-Recorder, Poison Prevention Awareness, Red Cross, Rosacea Awareness, Workplace Eye Health and Safety; Youth Art; Humorists are Artists and Gender Equality Month: Time to honor both genders; time to meditate on the equality of women and men, on the respect due to both women and men, and on Goddess-God manifesting as woman and man. The Mystic's Wheel of the Year. In keeping with this, be sure to read our writing under "Newsbytes" called Mothers Aren't Essential in Raising Children. Also, check out our books on Feminism, Sexism, Sex Roles, and Social Theory in this regard. Month.

Mar 12-Apr 14: Deaf History Month. Mar 1-5: No Name Calling Week. Mar 1-7 The day the production and use of land mines was outlawed world-wide. The Mystic's Wheel of the Year. National Write a Letter of Appreciation; Return the Borrowed Books; Universal Human Beings Week. Mar 1-10: Bike Week. Mar 2-9: Autograph Collecting, Conserve Water/Detect-a-Leak; National Professional Pet Sitters; *Save Your Vision Week. Mar 4-8: Human Resource ; National Procrastination; National School Breakfast; Newspaper in Education Week. Mar 10-16: Girl Scout; Pulmonary Rehabilitation Week. Mar 11-17: Camp Fire Boys and Girls Birthday Week. Mar 13-20: Education Advocacy; National Toad Hollow Week. Mar 17-23: Anonymous Giving; Jobs for Teens; National Agriculture; National Poison Prevention Week. Mar 18-24: National Bubble; National Clutter Awareness; National Secondhand Shopping; National Spring Fever Week. Mar 20-26: Week of Solidarity with the People's Struggle Against Racism and Racial Discrimination (UN). Mar 24-30: National Cleaning Week. Mar 29-Apr 2: National Youth Violence Prevention Campaign. Mar 1: National March to College; National Pig. National Salesperson's; "Read Across America Day" sponsored by the National Education Association in honor of the birthday of Dr. Seuss (Theordor Geisel). Mar 2: I Want You to Be Happy; National Anthem; What if Cats and Dogs had Opposable Thumbs Day. Mar 3: Hug a GI; Old Inauguration Day. Mar 6: Stop Bad Service Day. Mar 8: Panic Day. Mar 10: Dream 2002; Johnny Appleseed Day. Mar 11: National Organize Your Home Day. Mar 12: National Open an Umbrella Indoors Day. Mar 14: Absolutely Incredible Kid Day. Mar 15: Curlew; Freedom of Information Day. Mar 16: Save the Florida Panther Day. Mar 17: St. Patrick's Day. Mar 19: Great American Meatout; National Agriculture; Proposal Day. Mar 20: Flower; National Tree Planting, Memory; Single Parents; South Africa Human Rights Day; International Day for the Elimination of Racial Discrimination (UN). Mar 21:  As Young as You Feel; New Year's Day (India). Mar 22: Near Miss; World Meteorological Day (UN). Mar 23: World Tuberculosis Day (UN). Mar 24: Mothering Day (ENG); National Family; Old New Year's; Pecan Day. Mar 25: Legal Assistants; Make Up Your Own Holiday Day. Mar 26: American Diabetes Alert. Mar 27: Qing Ming Festival (China). Mar 27:  National Mom and Pop Business Owners; Youth Day (Taiwan); Texas Love the Children Day. Mar 29: I Am in Control; Doctor's Day.

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