Daily Thoughts & Issues

IN THIS ISSUE:

OCTOBER 13

Days left until the next millennium 01.01.3001

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Achieve Your Dreams

October 13 - The new Italian government, headed by Pietro Badoglio, declares war on Germany (1943). * Birthdays: Jerry Lee Rice,  Jesse Leroy Brown, Yves Montand, Rudolf Virchow, Chris Carter, Sammy Hagar, Glenn Anton (Doc) Rivers, Nipsey Russell, Paul Simon, Reggie Wayne Theus.

DAILY THOUGHTS

Moving into Second Adulthood encourages us to connect in a different way to other people. We become pioneers together in this new territory of life that beckons with possibilities that have been merely glimpsed and rarely lived until recent times. New Passages

We do not have to justify our pleasure in the illusions of love. The soul thrives on ephemeral fantasies of love as much as it does on lifelong partnerships. Soul Mates

Ask me what I'd like for a chance. - Barbara, 35 Best of 1001 Sex Secrets Every Man & Woman Should Know

On the playground, you're either chasing or being chased. Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me

Today is the day the world reached 6 billion people in 1999, almost 5 billion are in the Third World. About 3 billion live on less than $2 per day, 1.3 billion live on less than $1. The direst poverty is in Africa, home of the world's 10 poorest countries, according to the UN report, The Progress of Nations. The 10 (with their annual gross national product per capita) are: Mozambique $80, Eritrea and Ethiopia $100, Somalia, Congo Democratic Republic and Tanzania $120, Burundi $160, Malawi $170, and Rwanda and Sierra Leone at $180. It wasn't until 1804 that the world's population reached one billion; now a billion people are added to the population about every 12 years.

When you walk what you talk, people listen. - Anonymous Achieve Your Dreams

Oktoberfest, begun in 1810 with a horse-race in honor of Bavaria's eccentric Prince Ludwig's marriage, this protracted celebration of the brewer's art has expanded greatly to its current sixteen-day length. The memory of the original celebration has been preserved in language, as residents, when going to Oktoberfest in Munich, say they are going "to the meadow," meaning the site of the original race.  Forgotten English

Things to Be Happy About:  Throwing open the French doors. The Arctic circle. Well-worn stone steps. 14,000 Things to Be Happy About

Sometimes two is a crowd. Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me

There are two ways of spreading light: to be the candle or the mirror that reflects it. - Edith Wharton. If Life is a Game, These are the Rules

Researchers have discovered species of fish that change their gender when social circumstances require it. Over a four-day period these fish can restructure their genitalia and brains from male to female and vice versa. Gay & Lesbian Calendar

Win/Win thinking creates teamwork. Win/Lose thinking creates rivalry. Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

Accept the fact that it's okay to do nothing. If you've begun to slow down, simplify your life, and go within, doing nothing will be much easier. When you do this consistently, when you lean into it, when you start to delight in it, you'll find nothing one of the most productive inactivities you engage in.  Simplify Your Life

Lullaby Classics. You know the tune; here are the words to "Hush, Little Baby": Hush, little baby, don't say a word, Papa's gonna buy you a mockingbird. And if that mockingbird won't sing, Papa's gonna buy you a diamond ring. If that diamond ring turns brass, Papa's gonna buy you a looking glass. If that looking glass gets broke, Papa's gonna buy you a billy goat. If that billy goat won't pull, Papa's gonna buy you a cart and bull. If that car and bull turns over, Papa's gonna buy you a dog named Rover. It that dog named Rover won't back, Papa's gonna buy you a horse and cart. If that horse and cart fall down, You'll still be the sweetest baby in town! - Author unknown. Parents Tips & Tricks

Neck stiff from computer work? Try this. Put your right arm behind your lower back, and grab your right wrist with your left hand. Slowly drop your left ear toward your shoulder, while at the same time pulling your right arm father to the left until you can feel the stretch in your neck muscles. Hold for about 20 seconds while slowly moving your chin into different positions to ease various spots of tension in your neck. Repeat the exercise with your left hand behind your back and your right ear dropped toward your shoulder.  Stress Busters

Show your kids how to make book marks. Cut colored heavy paper into a bookmark shape. Hole-punch the top. Glue on googly eyes, and tie yarn through the hole. Then write: "Eye" gotta read! To Do Today

Great things are not don by impulse, but by a series of small things brought together. - Vincent van Gogh Win the Day!

Mundial (moonDYAHL) Worldwide. Crees que leegaremos a la Copa Mundial? Do you think we'll make it to the World Cup? Living Language

TODAY'S ISSUE: WILDLIFE

While this is the beginning of National Wildlife Week, and it is a time for renewed awareness and commitment to wildlife conservation, we are talking here about another kind of wildlife.

"In wildness is the preservation of the World...I would have every man so much like a wild antelope, so much a part and parcel of nature...The most alive is the wildest.:  Henry David Thoreau. "All good things are wild and free," according to Thoreau. "Give me for my friends and neighbors, wild men, not tame ones."  We are blessed if we have friends who are truly wild men. Wild here does not mean those who drink heavily or hurt people. It means those unpredictable ones who might bring wild gifts, invite us on forays into nature, and refresh our souls in a multitude of ways. We never know what our wild friends will do or when they may appear. They can be embarrassing. Their clothing can be unusual. They can bring us great delight and joy. When men lose touch with the wilderness, they lose contact with an essential part of their masculinity. Outer wildness can evoke our natural wildness - that which is spontaneous, alive, zany and fresh. Meditations for Men Who Do Next to Nothing: and would like to do even less

Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at Contact Us. Remember a time when you had direct contact with natural wildness. Imagine it or literally go our and find some wildness. Be wild enough to cancel any tame regular plans and go off into a wilderness. Meditations for Men Who Do Next to Nothing: and would like to do even less Want to make a difference but you don't know where to start?

BOOK OF THE WEEK

Storms of my Grandchildren: The truth about the coking climate catastrophe and our last chance to save humanity, James Hansen. The author, the nation's leading scientist on climate issues, speaks out for the first time with the full truth about global warming: The planet is hurtling even more rapidly than previously acknowledged to a climatic point of no return. Although the threat of human-caused climate change is now widely recognized, politicians have failed to connect policy with the science, responding instead with ineffectual remedies distracted by special interests., He shows why President Obama's solution, cap-and-trade, which Al Gore has signed on to, won't work; why we must phase out all coal; and why 350 parts per million of carbon dioxide in the atmosphere is a goal we musth achieve if our children and grandchildren are to avoid global meltdown and the horrific storms of the book's title. This urgent manifesto bucks conventional wisdom (including the Kyoto Protocol) and is sure to stir controversy, but he - whose climate predictions have come to pass again and again, beginning the the 1980s when he first warned Congress about global warming - is the single most credible voice on the subject worldwide. He paints a devastating, all-too-realistic picture of what will happen in the near future, mere years and decades from now, if we follow the course we're on. But he is also an optimist, showing that there is still time to do what we need to save the planet. Urgent, strong action is needed, and this book will be key in setting the agenda going forward to create a groundswell, a tipping point, to save humanity - and our grandchildren - from a dire fate more imminent than we had supposed. Bloomsbury, www.bloomsburyusa.com, 2009, ISBN 978-1-60819-200-7

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  • Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice - with Nancy Fagan - www.menstuf.org/columns/fagan/archive.html
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  • Tom Matlack - Tom Matlack - Good Men Project - www.menstuff.org/columns/matlack/archive.html
  • Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy on Feminism, www.menstuff.org/columns/mcelroy/archive.html
  • Robert N. Minor - Minor Details - on GBT sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/minordetails/archive.html
  • Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology - www.menstuff.org/columns/moore/archive.html
  • Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man - general questions about men's lives - www.menstuff.org/columns/neder/archive.html
  • Marty Nemko - Worklife - general questions about men and work - www.menstuff.org/columns/nemko/archive.html
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  • Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
  • George Simons - Bellicose Veins - is a US specialist in intercultural and gender communication who hangs out in Mandelieu - la Napoule, France, as well as in Santa Cruz, CA. www.menstuff.org/columns/simons/archive.html
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AWARENESS EVENTS THIS MONTH

October is Adopt-a-Shelter Dog; Alternate History; Auto Battery Safety; Campaign for Healthier Babies; Celiac Sprue Awareness; Child Health; Computer Learning; Diversity Awareness; Dryer Vent Safety Awareness; Energy Management is a Family Affair-Improve Your Home; Family History; Family Sexuality Education, Fantasy; Gay and Lesbian History; Health Literacy; International Fired Up; Listen to Your Inner Critic; Lupus Awareness; National AIDS Awareness; National Animal Safety and Protection; *National Breast Cancer Awareness; National Car Care; National Crime Prevention; National Depression Education and Awareness; *National Disability Employment Awareness; *National Domestic Violence Awareness; National Family Health, National Family Sexuality Education; National "Gain the Inside Advantage"; National Home Inspection; National Orthodontic Health; National Pharmacy; National Physical Therapy; National Pizza; National Popcorn Poppin'; National Roller Skating; National Skin Care Awareness; National Spinal Health; National Toilet Tank Repair; Pediatric Cancer Awareness; Rett Syndrome Awareness; Sarcastics Awareness; Substance Abuse Prevention; Talk About Prescriptions; Unmasking Halloween Dangers; Vegetarian Awareness Month.

9/15-10/15: Hispanic Heritage Month. 10/1-7: Mental Illness Awareness; *Minority Enterprise Development; National Health Care Food Oct 8-14: *Fire Prevention; Home Based Business; National Adult Immunization Awareness; *National School Lunch, National Walk to School Week. 10/9-13: Pet Peeve, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Week. 10/10-16: Wildlife Week. 10/14-20: Ally, Pharmacy Week. 10/15-21: Getting the World to Beat a Path to Your Door; *National Character Counts; Teen Read Week. 10/16-22: National Health Education Week. 10/22-28: National Massage Therapy Awareness, National Save Yur Back Week. 10/23-31: Red Ribbon 10/25-31: Peace, Friendship & Goodwill Week. 10/1: World Vegetarian Day. 10/2: World Habitat Day, 10/3: Techies Day. 10/4: Toot Your Flute Day. 10/8 Global Learn Day; National Children's Day. 10/9: Indigenous Persons Day; *Leif Erikson Day, Yom Kippur, Canadian Thanksgiving Day. 10/11: Coming Out; Teddy Bear to Work Day; 10/12: Oktoberfest. 10/13: Blame Someone Else; Scream, Train Your Brain Day, Friday the 13th. 10/14: Sukkot. Be Bald and Be Free Day. 10/15: National Grouch; *White Cane Safety Day. 10/16: Dictionary;  Boss' Day, Intl. Librarians World Food Day. 10/17: Black Poetry, International Eradication of Poverty Day. 10/18: Canadian Persons;  Boost your Brain Day. 10/19: Evaluate Your Life Day 10/21: Sweetest Day. 10/22: Mother-In-Law; National Scientific Literacy Day. 10/23: National Mole Day. 10/24: United Nations Day. Black Thursday. 10/25: Cartoonists Against Crime Day. 10/26: Horseless Carriage; Mule, Intersex Awareness Day 10/27: Frankenstein Friday, Navy Day, Ugly Pickup Contest. 10/28: Make a Difference; Wild Foods Day; Day of Meditation. 10/29: Daylight Savings Times Ends. 10/31: Halloween; National Magic; *National Unicef Day. 11/2 is Election Day. Vote Absentee Ballot.

* Means a Presidential Proclamation has been made.

Domestic Violence Prevention Month - See Issues. Also, see books on anger, violence-general, violence-domestic, violence-rape, violence-sexual, women's violence, sexual harassment plus Q&A Slide Guide on Gangs and Safe Dating in Merchandise and Alternatives to Violence programs. - resources for male and female perpetrators and male and female victims. Got some information to add, send it to mailto:violence@menstuff.org

* Means a Presidential Proclamation has been made.

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