Daily Thoughts & Issues

IN THIS ISSUE:

MAY 25

Days left until the next millennium 01.01.3001

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Achieve Your Dreams

May 25 - Vigil for lost spouces/partners; night of mourning and healing. The Mystic's Wheel of the Year * National Missing Children's Day. * UN week of solidarity with the people of non-self-governing territories. www.un.org * Independence Day in Argentina and Jordan. * American flight crashes at O'Hare (1979) when it lost an engine upon takeoff and crashed second later, killing all 272 aboard and three people on the ground. * In 1950, The Brooklyn-Battery Tunnel in New York City opens. It is the longest motor vehicle tunnel in the U.S. * Birthday of Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803), Unitarian philosopher who believed in equality, self reliance, and the immanence of Deity in humans and in all Nature. Also, Miles Davis, Bill "Bojangles" Robinson, James Joseph (Gene) Tunney, K.C.Jones, Robert Ludlum, Sir Ian McKellen, Mike Myers, Igor Sikorsky, Tito (Josip Broz), Tom Hall, Justin Henry.

DAILY THOUGHTS

Why No Sleep is No Joke. Many parents are all too familiar with the effects of sleep deprivation. We live in a culture that views sleep as unproductive downtime. Parents of young children are among the groups at highest risk for chronic sleep deprivation, and this loss of sleep can cause a disinhibiting of emotion; controlling your emotions and behavior becomes harder when you're exhausted. What can you do about it?  Examine your sleep habits; it's counterproductive to cling to "normal" pre-baby bedtimes if the result is that you're left exhausted the next day. Make sure you have plenty of support from a spouse, close friend, or family member. Take turn relieving each other of childcare responsibilities for brief periods during the day. Family Feelings

The top Hollywood box office star of the 1930's was actor William Haines, who lived in an openly gay relationship with Jimmy Shields for almost fifty years. Gay & Lesbian Calendar

Watch What You Say, Dear. Part II. Lilac (purple) First emotions of love. Magnolia - love of nature. Myrtle - Love (generic). Rose (damask) - youthful love. Rose (deep red) 0- Bashful love. Rose (white) - Heedless of love. Tulip (yellow) - Hopeless love. The Old Farmer's Almanac

When we extend ourselves, when we take an extra step or walk an extra mile, we do so in opposition to the inertia of laziness or the resistance of fear. Extension of ourselves or moving out against the inertia of laziness we call work. Moving out in the face of fear we call courage. Love, then, is a form of work or a form of courage. Specifically, it is work or courage directed toward the nurture of our own or another's spiritual growth. We may work or exert courage in directions other than toward spiritual growth, and for this reason all work and all courage is not love. The Road Less Traveled

The real secret of success is enthusiasm. Achieve Your Dreams

Things to Be Happy About:  Time to plan a party. The intensity of genius. Kitty litter in the box. 14,000 Things to Be Happy About

Slugs leave an easy trail to follow, but who really wants to? Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me

You need to learn to surrender to those circumstances over which you never really had any control anyway. Surrender or no surrender, the reality remains the same. If you surrender to the fact that the universe will always present you with lessons, over and over again, you can stop trying to second-guess the divine plan. You will be amazed how much easier life gets when you stop resisting and controlling it, and ride the waves toward the fulfillment of your destiny.  If Life is a Game, These are the Rules

Effectiveness - often even survival - does not depend solely on how much effort we expend but on whether or not the effort we expend is in the right jungle. Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

Every day for the next week, spend five or ten minutes laughing first thing in the morning. Do this in your sanctuary, at your kitchen table, or wherever works for you. You'll be amazed at the insight it will give you.  Simplify Your Life

The Kneeling Bow. To stretch the upper body, sit back on your heels in a kneeling position and slowly raise your hands about your head, reaching as high as you can. With your arms still above your head, bend forward from the waist until your hands touch the floor. Hold for 10 seconds, then reverse the motions. Repeat 3 times.  Stress Busters

Create a flip book. Take a Post-It note pad. Just draw a picture on one page, then change it slightly on the next page. Keep drawing close to the edge that doesn't have the sticky part on the back. Now flip the pages to watch your picture move!  To Do Today

A failure is a man who has blundered but is not able to cash in on the experience. - Elbert Hubbard. Win the Day!

A un lado (ah oon LAHdoh) Aside, to one side. Hagase a un lado. Step aside. Living Language

TODAY'S ISSUE: POWER

Power is not happiness. - William Godwin

So many of us are ensnared and intoxicated by the idea of power. We believe that is we can attain a certain level of power, we will be free to tyranny.

However, power for its own sake brings no relief, no solace, no happiness. It is the way in which we use our power that can make us content, but few of us take account of what power will afford us or how we intend to use it, because we are too focused on attaining it for the sake of having it.

Today I shall inventory my need for power in order to discover what is behind my drive to attain it. Meditations For Men Who Do Too Much

Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at Contact Us. Do one good deed each day for someone else. Do one good deed each day for yourself. What Every Man Needs to Know Want to make a difference but you don't know where to start?

BOOK OF THE WEEK

Tragic Love by Tammy Rockett-Box and Mary Jane Rockett. A suspenseful and electribying story of a young man who engages in a forbidden love affair. From the beginning, the relationship is tumultuous and eventually the young man's life comes to a tragic ending. Evidence is overlooked and questions go unanswered as police investigators rule the death a suicide. However, the truth is right in front of their eyes, and it takes a tenacious mother and daughter to determine what really happened in the conclusion of the tragic love. Publish America, www.publishamerica.com ISBN 978-1-61582-293-5

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  • Robert N. Minor - Minor Details - on GBT sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/minordetails/archive.html
  • Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology - www.menstuff.org/columns/moore/archive.html
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  • Marty Nemko - Worklife - general questions about men and work - www.menstuff.org/columns/nemko/archive.html
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  • Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism - is a social commentator on political correctness. www.menstuff.org/columns/roberts/archive.html
  • Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex
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  • Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
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  • Jim Sniechowski - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
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AWARENESS EVENTS THIS MONTH

May is: Skin Cancer Awareness, * Masturbation Month; Asian Pacific American Heritage;. Better Hearing and Speech; Better Sleep; Correct Posture; Creative Beginnings; Family Support; Foster Care; Get Caught Reading; Helping American Youth; National Allergy/Asthma Awareness; National Arthritis; National Barbecue; Good Car-Keeping; Hepatitis Awareness; Mental Health; Osteoporosis Prevention; Physical Fitness and Sports; Recommitment; Scholarship; Self-Discovery; Senior Citizens Month , Senior Travel; Sight-Saving; Stroke Awareness; Teaching and Joy, Teen Pregnancy Prevention, Tuberous; Sclerosis Awareness; *Older Americans; Personal History Awareness; Revise Your Work Schedule; and Strike Out Strokes Month. The most tornados happen in May.

May 14-Jun 18: National Family Month. Apr 29-May 5: *National Science & Technology Week. May 1-7: Cartoon Art Appreciation Week. May 5-11: National Nurses Day and Week. May 6-12: Be Kind to Animals; Flexible Work Arrangements; *Jewish Heritage; National Family; National Pet; PTA Teacher Appreciation; Suicide Awareness; Wildflower; and Teacher Appreciation Week. May 7-13 National Etiquette; and National Herb Week. May 13-219: National Medical Services; *Nat Police; *National Transportation; and *World Trade Week. May 19-25: *National Safe Boating Week. May 20-26: Good Stewardship; International Reggae Music; National New Friends-Old Friends; and, National Reflexology Awareness Week. May 21-28: Buckle Up America; and, National Backyard Games Week. May 1: May Day observed since ancient times and has become Labor Day in most countries except the U.S., Bermuda and Canada. Kindness Day, Teen Day, Freedom Riders Anniversary, Executive Coaching Day. *Law Day. *Loyalty Day. Peace of Mind Day. 40th Anniversary of the U-2 Incident with Francis Gary Powers. May 2: Holocaust Rememberance Day. May 6:: National Day of Hearing Testing. May 8: V-E Day 55th Anniversary, World Red Cross Day, May 9: National Receptionests Day, National Teachers Day. May 10: National Small Business Day. May 12: Chronic Fatigue Awareness Day May 14: *Mother's Day. May 15: *Peace Officer Memorial Day May 19: *National Defense Transportation Day. National Bike to Work Day. May 20: *Armed Forces Day. May 21: National Waitstaff Day, Neighbor Day Youth Against Violence. May 22: *National Maritime Day. May 25: National Missing Children's Day. May 26: Morning Radio Wise Guy Day. May 28:  Ancestor Honor Day. Memorial Day. (celebrated on Monday the *29th Memorial Day Prayer for Peace requests flying the flag at half-staff for the customary forenoon period.) May 31: National Senior Health and Fitness Day. World No-Tobacco Day.

* Means a Presidential Proclamation was made.

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