Daily Thoughts & Issues

IN THIS ISSUE:

SEPTEMBER 26

Days left until the next millennium 01.01.3001

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Achieve Your Dreams

September 26 - Battle of Meuse-Argonne Forest (1918). As part of four major efforts to break the Hindenburg line, a Franco-American offensive began on this date with the US First Army striking between the Meuse River and the Argonne Forest and the French Fourth Army to their west. After four taxing weeks of attack, the Germans were gradually pushed back. By October 31, the Americans had advanced 10 miles, the French had reached the Aisne River 20 miles away and the Argonne Forest was rid of the Central Power forces. This was the final great battle of WWI. * Germany, Italy and Japan conclude a pact in Berlin (1940) agreeing to aid each other for 10 years. * The first TV debates between presidential candidates Nixon and Kennedy take place (1960). * Birthdays: Johnny Appleseed, T.S. Eliot, George Gershwin, Pope Paul VI, Bryan Ferry.

Know your children's friends and their families!

DAILY THOUGHTS

We may wish to avoid the journey and the visitation to an unfamiliar or frightening place. Yet precisely this kind of movement gives the soul its desired spaciousness and acquaints us with its territory. Soul Mates

I love it when he nibbles very gently on the lips of my vagina. - Jenny, 23. I wish women knew that men like the feel of hands on their bodies. Nothing fancy - just necks, chests, arms and such. - Frank, 34 Best of 1001 Sex Secrets Every Man & Woman Should Know

Why does God want us to grow?  What are we growing toward?  Where is the end point, the goal of evolution?  What is it that God wants of us?  God wants us to become Himself (or Herself or Itself). We are growing toward godhood. Got is the goal of evolution. It is God who is the source of the evolutionary force and God who is the destination. This is what we mean when we say that He is the Alpha and the Omega, the beginning and the end. The Road Less Traveled

Order shapes success. Achieve Your Dreams

Things to Be Happy About:  Reasonable limits. Quiet time at dawn. Apple-farm field trips. 14,000 Things to Be Happy About

Try the grown-up rake before you decide to use the kid rake.  Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me

Healing is a matter of time, but it is sometimes also a matter of opportunity. - Hippocrates.  If Life is a Game, These are the Rules

Use of the word "lesbian" in print goes at least as far back as 1732 when William King published The Toast, a poetic satire about a group of women in Dublin. Gay & Lesbian Calendar

It is impossible to achieve public victory with popular "Win/Win negotiation" techniques or "reflective listening" techniques or "creative problem-solving" techniques that focus on personality and truncate the vital character base. Effective interdependence can only be achieved by truly independent people. Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

PediaTRICK. To minimize the "yuck" factor when giving your children medicine, let a child age 5 or older first suck on ice chips or an ice pop. This will numb their taste buds. Parents Tips & Tricks

Become aware of the situations and people that drain your energy. Look at noise sources such as radios, stereos, television, shoot-'em-up movies, traffic and raucous gatherings. Eliminate these and other disrupting aural intrusions from your life, and notice how your energy goes up. Simplify Your Life

The buildup of stress compounds in the body can suppress the immune system and lead to physical illness and disease. Regular exercise is useful in ridding the body of these potentially damaging chemicals. Stress Busters

Trade things you don't want or need anymore with stuff your friends don't want or need. Great for kids to do too. Make sure you give your kids permission on what they can trade. Ask friends to bring their items over to trade. If no one needs the stuff, donate it to charity.  To Do Today

It's more than just a business; it's more than just sports. It is a mission. I mean this is what we've committed out lives to doing, so let's make it something worthwhile. - Phil Knight. Win the Day!

El terrmoto (tehrehHOHtoh) Earthquake. Sentisteis el terremoto? Did you feel the earthquake?  Living Language

TODAY'S ISSUE: THOSE WHO PASSED ON

In endowing us with memory, nature has revealed to us a truth utterly unimaginable to the unreflective creation, the truth of immortality. - George Santayana. There is an electricity in the air on a crisp September night. The edge of coolness, the changing afternoon light brings back the unmistakable sounds of fall: voices of schoolchildren, football games, the crackling of leaves underfoot. I can be transported back in time. At times, for the sake of recovery, I've gone reluctantly back to revisit the painful scenes. But I can also journey back to the good moments - the good friends who made life bearable at unbearable times: first loves who helped take away the chill of adolescence like a wool blanket on a cool Friday night. These good moments do exist in my life, and in my memory. A Quiet Strength: Meditations on the Masculine Soul

Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at Contact Us. Today I will take time to revisit good memories and appreciate them. Today I remember the first kiss of autumn. A Quiet Strength: Meditations on the Masculine Soul Want to make a difference but you don't know where to start?

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Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at Contact Us. Today I will be conscious of what I am passing on to the children, the next generation. Want to make a difference but you don't know where to start?

BOOK OF THE WEEK

 

I'm Outnumbered: One mom's lessons in the lively art of raising boys by Laura Lee Groves. I'm Outnumbered: One mom's lessons in the lively art of raising boys. Only a mom of all boys can really explain what life is like when you are surrounded by men. From one "boy mom" to another, this book offers sound advise and encouragement for every mom ho has more than one son, even if there is a girl in the mix. The author guides moms to see their role as proactive parents with insights gleaned from her own experience, from other boy moms, and from parenting experts. Laced with touching and humorous stories, this practical manual will show boy moms how to escape the expectation trap, handle sibling rivalry, foster leadership and teamwork, maintain order, celebrate their individuality and much more. A Christian perspective. Kregal Publications, 2010 ISBN 978-0-8254-2739-8

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  • Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women - www.menstuff.org/columns/howtosucceed/archive.html
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  • Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy on Feminism, www.menstuff.org/columns/mcelroy/archive.html
  • Robert N. Minor - Minor Details - on GBT sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/minordetails/archive.html
  • Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology - www.menstuff.org/columns/moore/archive.html
  • Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man - general questions about men's lives - www.menstuff.org/columns/neder/archive.html
  • Marty Nemko - Worklife - general questions about men and work - www.menstuff.org/columns/nemko/archive.html
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  • Linda Nielsen - Embracing the Father - working with the father/daughter relationship. www.menstuff.org/columns/nielsen/archive.html
  • Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence - working with schools, teachers and parents to end school violence - www.menstuff.org/columns/noll/archive.html
  • Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads - helping men maintain that which makes us men, instead of becoming hairy Mom-substitutes - www.menstuff.org/columns/phillips/archive.html
  • Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism - is a social commentator on political correctness. www.menstuff.org/columns/roberts/archive.html
  • Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex
  • Glenn Sacks - His Side - on fathering - www.menstuff.org/columns/sacks/archive.html
  • Trudy Schuett - Domestic Violence - serving the under-represented www.menstuff.org/columns/schuett/archive.html
  • Carl J. Schutt - Circumcision - social commentator on circumcision - www.menstuff.org/columns/schutt/archive.html
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  • Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
  • George Simons - Bellicose Veins - is a US specialist in intercultural and gender communication who hangs out in Mandelieu - la Napoule, France, as well as in Santa Cruz, CA. www.menstuff.org/columns/simons/archive.html
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  • David B. Smith - Fighting Father Dave - www.menstuff.org/columns/smith/archive.html
  • Jim Sniechowski - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Jim Sniechowski - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
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  • David Steinberg - Comes Naturally - on sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/steinberg/archive.html
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AWARENESS EVENTS THIS MONTH

September is Baby Safety Awareness, Children's Eye Health & Safety, Children's Good Manners, Christmas Seal, Cholesterol Education, Fall Hat, Gay Square Dance, Library Card Sign-up, Little League, Organic Harvest, Pediculosis Prevention, Piano, Pleasure Your Mate, Project Aware, Prosperity Creation, School Success, Sea Cadet, Self Awareness, Self-Improvement, Shameless Promotion, and Sickle Cell Month.

9/15-10/15: Hispanic Heritage Month. 8/29-9/4: National Sobriety Checkpoint Week, Mothers Against Drunk Driving, www.madd.org; 9/1-7: Childhood Injury Prevention; Self-University Week. 9/4-10: Full Employment Week, Mental Health Workers Week.. 9/5-9: Play Days. 9/9-16: National Five-A-Day Week. 9/10-16: National Suicide Prevention; Substitute Teacher Appreciation; National Brainstorming and Mind Mapping; Invisible Chronic Illness Awareness Week: 9/14-20 Dementia Awareness Week (Australia) 9/17-23: *Constitution; Balance Awareness; Love a Mensch; Farm Safety and Health; Historically Black Colleges and Universities; Rehabilitation Awareness; Single's Week. 9/19-25 - Prostate Cancer Awareness Week; 9/23-30: Banned Books, Religious Freedom Week. 9/23-29 - Deaf Awareness, National Dog Week; 9/23-24: Family Health & Fitness. 9/10: Swap Ideas Day. 9/17 *Citizenship Day. 9/19: International Day of Peace. 9/22: National Centenarians, Proposal Day. 9/23: Kiwanis Kids', *National Hunting & Fishing, Smash Out Suicide Day, 9/24: *Gold Star Mother's, National Good Neighbor, World Heart Day. 9/27: Ancestor Appreciation Day. 9/28: Cabrillo Day

* Means a Presidential Proclamation has been made.

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