Daily Thoughts & Issues

IN THIS ISSUE:

NOVEMBER 2

Days left until the next millennium 01.01.3001

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Achieve Your Dreams

November 2 - Election Day. Remember to vote. * Today is Aztec Day of the Dead, Hopi/Zuni/Pueblo Tribes' Ancestors' Day - food offerings are put into rivers and lakes in honor of the ancestors. Also, All Souls Day - Christian day for remembering all the beloved dead. *  All Souls' Day. Kitchens were kept warm and food was left out overnight for those unhappy departed souls who were believed to return to visit their homes on this evening. English children once went door-to-door "a-souling" singing couplets that asked for fruit and cake in saints' names. In early times, people solicited from passersby prayers for the recently departed, as well as money, ostensibly for the performance of masses for their souls,. Soul-mass cakes, certain oaten cakes which some of the wealthier sort of persons in Lancashire, Herefordshire, etc. still used to give the poor on All-Souls' day, who take themselves obliged to say this old serve in retribution: God have your soul, Bones and all. - Thomas Blout's Glossgraphia, 1656. Forgotten English * National Men Make Dinner Day (a day set aside for "Men Only" in the kitchen. Give wives a break and let the men whip up some culinary delight with no help from family members. In the true spirit of this event, barbecues are not allowed. * New York Subway Accident: (1918). The Brighton Beach Express, exceeding the speed five times over (going 30 mph) while approaching the station near Malbone Street tunnel in Brooklyn, jumped the tracks, killed 97 people and injuring 100. The supervisor-engineer, taking the place of a striking motorman of the Brotherhood of Locomotive Engineers, was tried and acquitted of charges of negligence. * The mammoth flying boat Hercules, then the world's largest airplane, was designed, built and flown (once) by Howard Hughes. Its first and only flight was about one mile and at an altitude of 70 feet over Long Beach Harbor, CA. The $25 million, 200-ton plywood craft was nicknamed the "Spruce Goose". It is now displayed near the Queen Mary at Long Beach, CA. * Plan Your Epitaph Day. Dedicated to the proposition that a forgettable gravestone is a fate worse than death, and that everyone can be in he same league with William Shakespeare and W. C. Fields. Annually, coincides with the Day of the Dead. * Birthdays: Daniel Boone, David Knapp, Ray Walston, Alfre Woodard.

Teach citizenship by example - vote tomorrow!

DAILY THOUGHTS

Use less makeup than you think you need. - Jamie, 30 Best of 1001 Sex Secrets Every Man & Woman Should Know

A talent is a gift from God; what you do with it is your gift to God.Dr. Buff's 365 Day Parenting Calendar

Important islands within the scientific community are departing from the traditional "time bomb model", which holds that the human body self-destructs at a certain age, and considering instead a new "spaceship model," whereby the body can be retrofitted to go father. According to neurobiologist Caleb Finch, it is totally plausible to modify aspects of human development so that some cells can replace themselves throughout life. New Passages

Accomplishment begins with action. Achieve Your Dreams

Things to Be Happy About: A $ pledge to public radio. Long hay rides. Finding patience. 14,000 Things to Be Happy About

Apologize for it before your mother notices the stain on your shirt. Really Important Stuff My Kids Have Taught Me

Only that day dawns to which we are awake. - Henry David Thoreau. If Life is a Game, These are the Rules

The glitter of the Personality Ethic is that there is some quick and easy way to achieve quality of life - personal effectiveness and rich, deep relationships with other people - without going through the natural process of work and growth that makes it possible. It's symbol without substance. It's the "get-rich-quick" scheme promising "wealth without work." And it might even appear to succeed, but the schemer remains. Seven Habits of Highly Effective People

Harvey Milk was elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors (1977). To mark the twentieth anniversary of this event, a huge twenty-by-thirty-foot rainbow flag was unfurled at Harvey Milk Plaza, in the heart of San Francisco's Castro district. The flag can be seen all the way at the other end of town. Gay & Lesbian Calendar

Going within to find the meaning of our lives doesn't mean avoiding the challenges our circumstances present. Rather it means finding the grace to learn how to live our lives to the fullest extent possible - whatever that is for us - and, in the acceptance, to move on to the highest level of growth we can. Simplify Your Life

Splinter Removal. First, wash your hands and the tweezers with soap and water or rubbing alcohol. If the splinter is partially above the skin, use a tweezers to pull it out at the same angle that it went in. If the splinter is just beneath the skin, use a sterilized sewing needle to push aside the top layer of skin to expose the splinter. After removing it, wash the area again before applying an antibacterial ointment. Don't dig for the splinter if you cannot see it. Instead try soaking the area in warm water for 10 to 15 minutes once or twice to help bring the splinter to the surface. Parents Tips & Tricks

"You've got to be very careful if you don't know where you are going 'cause you might not get there." - Yogi Berra. Take time to think about where you want to go with your life. Stress Busters

For your kids: Feed friends and family adorable penguin cookies! Get a Snackwell's chocolate sandwich cookie. Use vanilla frosting to stick on Red Hot candies for eyes, orange candy slices for feet, and a candy corn for the beak! To Do Today

If you're a champion, you have to have it in your heart. - Chris Evert Win the Day!

El/la activista (akteeBEEStah) Activist. Living Language

TODAY'S ISSUE: YOUNG READER'S DAY

Men of power have no time to read; yet the men who do not read are unfit for power. - Michael Foot. So many of us make decisions quickly and that makes us feel like we're efficient and smart. But where do we get the information needed to make rapid decisions? Since most of us are to busy to read the whole daily newspaper, any trade magazines, or a book for pleasure, what is the source of our information? Most men who do too much also, of course, do too little. Too little of a lot of things. Reading, of course, is one of those things If we read for pleasure, it's suspect. If we read for work, we may view that as a waste of time, too, because it's not an "activity" - it appears passive. Meditations For Men Who Do Too Much

Hey Man: Did you make a difference yesterday? Let us know at Contact Us. I will begin reading and informing myself about my work, but today I will also find something to read that I will truly enjoy. Meditations For Men Who Do Too Much

BOOK OF THE WEEK

The Next Ten Minutes: 51 Absurdly Simple Ways to Seize the Moment by Andrew Peterson. The desire to discover meaning in our lives is a powerful motivator for many people. Some turn to psychotherapy and counseling for help, some turn to spiritual teachings, and many turn to both. The book is the guide to help us discover the seeds of transformation and meaning in even the most ordinary routines. Itconsists of a collection of exercises originally created for use in the author's successful counseling practice. Rather than taking readers out of the everyday, he invites them to move more deeply into the familiar tasks of ordinary life, such as turning simple breathing, eating, physical love, or throwing out the trash into meditative exercises that can transform your day. Based on both Buddhist philosophy and proven psychology techniques, these succinct and accessible meditations also offer simple and effective methods for therapeutic counseling and personal growth. The power to seize the day is but a few simple steps away. Atria Books/Beyond Words, 2010, ISBN 1582702748

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  • Peter Alsop - Song of the Month - www.menstuff.org/columns/alsop/archive.html
  • Reid Baer - A Man Overboard - Interview of the Month - www.menstuff.org/columns/overboard/archive.html
  • Reid Baer - Poetry - poetry read on YouTube - www.menstuff.org/columns/baer/archive.html
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  • Ted Braude - BoysWork - a columnist in the The Detroit Free Press "Body and Mind" section www.menstuff.org/columns/braude/archive.html
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  • Ken Byers - Transition - on men's life transitions - www.menstuff.org/columns/byers/archive.html
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  • David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women - www.menstuff.org/columns/howtosucceed/archive.html
  • Forrest Craver - Spirituality & Social Change - www.menstuff.org/columns/craver/archive.html
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  • Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Change - creating change in your life - www.menstuff.org/columns/durdant/archive.html
  • Irv Engel - The Real Deal - www.menstuff.org/columns/engel/archive.html
  • Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice - with Nancy Fagan - www.menstuf.org/columns/fagan/archive.html
  • Warren Farrell - Men's Issues: Facts and Perspectives www.menstuff.org/columns/farrell/archive.html
  • Leonard Felder - Wake Up or Break Up - www.menstuff.org/columns/felder/archive.html
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  • Kim Garretson - Mansgland - using humor to encourage prostate exams - www.menstuff.org/columns/mansgland/archive.html
  • Lion Goodman - How to get Women to Love You - www.menstuff.org/columns/goodman/archive.html
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  • Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks - being a father www.menstuff.org/columns/daddyman/archive.html
  • John Hershey - Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor - He writes a syndicated biweekly humor column about parenting and family life. www.menstuff.org/columns/hershey/archive.html
  • Gary Hoeber - Psychotherapy as Soul Work, www.menstuff.org/columns/hoeber/archive.html
  • Patrick Houser - Fathers Make a World of Difference, www.menstuff.org/columns/houser/archive.html
  • Paul Joannides - The Guide to Getting It On - on sex - www.menstuff.org/columns/getiton/archive.html
  • Jack Kahn - NOMAS Boston - www.menstuff.org/columns/kahn/archive.html
  • Patrick Kennedy - Seniors - www.menstuff.org/columns/kennedy/archive.html
  • Joe Kort - Gaydar - to increase understanding between gay and het men - www.menstuff.org/columns/kort/archive.html
  • David Kundtz - David Kundtz - presents seminars, workshops, retreats, and conference presentations in the areas of men's emotional health, stress management, and spirituality. www.menstuff.org/columns/kundtz/archive.html
  • Bruce Linton - Dr. Dad - on fathering - www.menstuff.org/columns/drdad/archive.html
  • Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women - www.menstuff.org/columns/howtosucceed/archive.html
  • Tom Matlack - Tom Matlack - Good Men Project - www.menstuff.org/columns/matlack/archive.html
  • Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy on Feminism, www.menstuff.org/columns/mcelroy/archive.html
  • Robert N. Minor - Minor Details - on GBT sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/minordetails/archive.html
  • Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology - www.menstuff.org/columns/moore/archive.html
  • Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man - general questions about men's lives - www.menstuff.org/columns/neder/archive.html
  • Marty Nemko - Worklife - general questions about men and work - www.menstuff.org/columns/nemko/archive.html
  • Eli Newberger - Eli Newberger - general information on men's lives - www.menstuff.org/columns/newberger/archive.html
  • Linda Nielsen - Embracing the Father - working with the father/daughter relationship. www.menstuff.org/columns/nielsen/archive.html
  • Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence - working with schools, teachers and parents to end school violence - www.menstuff.org/columns/noll/archive.html
  • Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads - helping men maintain that which makes us men, instead of becoming hairy Mom-substitutes - www.menstuff.org/columns/phillips/archive.html
  • Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism - is a social commentator on political correctness. www.menstuff.org/columns/roberts/archive.html
  • Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex
  • Glenn Sacks - His Side - on fathering - www.menstuff.org/columns/sacks/archive.html
  • Trudy Schuett - Domestic Violence - serving the under-represented www.menstuff.org/columns/schuett/archive.html
  • Carl J. Schutt - Circumcision - social commentator on circumcision - www.menstuff.org/columns/schutt/archive.html
  • Hugo Schwyzer - A Pro-feminist's Response - www.menstuff.org/columns/schwyzer/archive.html
  • Michael Shaffran - Men's Issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/shaffran/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
  • George Simons - Bellicose Veins - is a US specialist in intercultural and gender communication who hangs out in Mandelieu - la Napoule, France, as well as in Santa Cruz, CA. www.menstuff.org/columns/simons/archive.html
  • Andy Smith - Hard Hat Brotherhood - www.menstuff.org/columns/hardhat/archive.html
  • David B. Smith - Fighting Father Dave - www.menstuff.org/columns/smith/archive.html
  • Jim Sniechowski - Judith & Jim - discussion and answers regarding relationship issues - www.menstuff.org/columns/judith&jim/archive.html
  • Jim Sniechowski - The New Intimacy - www.menstuff.org/columns/newintimacy/archive.html
  • Reena Sommer - Custody - is an internationally recognized relationship and divorce consultant. www.menstuff.org/columns/sommer/archive.html
  • R. Don Steele - Don Steele - relationship questions answered -
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  • David Steinberg - Comes Naturally - on sexuality - www.menstuff.org/columns/steinberg/archive.html
  • Mary Lou St Lucas - A Mother's Love - www.menstuf.org/columns/stlucas/archive.html
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  • Michael Taylor - A New Conversation with Men - www.menstuff.org/columns/taylor/archive.html
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  • Michael Webb - Secrets of Blissful Relationships - on relationship - www.menstuff.org/columns/bliss/archive.html
  • Stuart Wilde - Spirituality - www.menstuff.org/columns/wilde/archive.html
  • Dr.Williams - Sex Health - on sexual health - Dr. Williams, www.menstuff.org/columns/sexhealth/archive.html
  • KC Wilson - On Gender Politics is a social commentator and author. www.menstuff.org/columns/wilson/archive.html

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  • Health Tips - on general health - www.menstuff.org/columns/healthtips/archive.html
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  • Wuzup?! - National or international events happening this month - www.menstuff.org/columns/whassup/archive.html

AWARENESS EVENTS THIS MONTH

November is International Impotency Awareness Month. We provide background information on this new drug and alternatives to Viagra. Impotency, Viagra and other solutions as well as Books on the subject. National Diabetes Awareness, Lung Cancer Awareness, Native American Heritage, Aviation History, Diabetic Eye Disease, Dummies for Tummies, Epilepsy Awareness, International Drum, *National Adoption, National Alzheimer's Disease, National American Indian Heritage, National Family Caregivers, National Child Safety and Protection, National Life Writing; National Marrow Awareness; National Sleep Comfort; Orphan Disease; Peanut Butter Lovers; Vegan Awareness Month

11/1-12/13:  Merlin's Snug Hugs for Kids, 11/27-12/26: Ramadan. 11/1/00-01/01/01: Tie One on the Safety; 11/4-12/4: Jewish Book Month. 11/26-12/25: Operation Blessing International's 30 Days of Holiday Hope. 11/27-12/26: Ramadan. 11/1-7: Vegan Awareness; World Communication. 11/5-11: Pursuit of Happiness, National Chemistry Week. 11/6-10: Kids' Goals Education Week 11/6-12: Random Acts of Kindness; Shallow Persons Awareness Week 11/8-14: Pursuit of Happiness Week. 11/9-13: Goodwill Annual Used Book Sale. 11/12-18: *American Education; National Geography Awareness, Operating Room Nurse Week. 11/13-19: National Children's Book Week. 11/17-19: National Donor Sabbath. 11/17-23: *National Farm-City Week. 18 -25 November 2000: International Herpes Awareness Week. 11/18 -25 International Herpes Awareness Week 11/19-25:  *National Family; National Family Caregivers; National Game and Puzzle Week. 11/19-26: Bible Week. 11/1-2: Day of the Dead. 11/1 is All Saints Day, National Authors; National Family Literacy. 11/2: US Elecetion Day - Vote Absentee Ballot. All Soul's Day; National Men Make Dinner; 11/3: Culture Day. 11/3-5: Great American Warm-Up; 11/4: Sadie Hawkins; Sweden All Saints. 11/5: Guy Fawkes Day. 11/6: Halfway Point of Autumn. 11/8: Punsters; Abet and Aid Punsters; Cook Something Bold and Pungent; National Young Reader's Day. 11/10: USMC Birthday, Veterans Day (Observed); Lung Cancer Awareness; 11/11: Veterans Day; Remembrance Day; Vox Populi Day. Cook Something Bold Day. 11/12: America Recycles Day. 11/13: World Kindness Day. 11/14: Children's Day (India); National American Teddy Bear; National Community Education Day. 11/15: Gypsy Condemnation Order Anniversary, Shichi-Go-San (Japan); National Educational Support Personnel Day. 11/16: *Great American Smokeout; World Harvest, International Day for Tolerance; 11/17: World Peace Day. 11/19: World's Men's, Have a Bad Day; 11/20: Universal Children's; UN African Industrialization Day. 11/21: UN World Television; World Hello Day. 11/22: National Stop the Violence Day. 11/23: *Thanksgiving Day (US) 11/24: Sinkie Day; Buy Nothing; "What Do You Love about America Day; 11/25: You're Welcomgiving Day. 11/29: UN International Day of Solidarity with the Palestinian People. 11/30: Computer Security; Stay Home Because You're Well Day.

* Means a Presidential Proclamation has been made.

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