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If you are divorced, seeking custody, abused, an abuser, someone
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especially in our Crisis,
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search engines where we have no control.)
August 1, 2016 starts our 21st year on the
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menstuff.org. And, while we get millions of hits every month, I have
turned down some lucrative offers from advertisers in order to keep
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After that explanation, I need to add that menstuff.org would not
exist today if not for those of you who have made your book purchases
through us. Thank you.
Please send comments on our pages so we can better carry out our
mission of ending men's isolation. Whenever you're ready to go to the
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Overview of the Site
Menstuff.org is the starting point for information for and about men
on the web. Menstuff is an educational web site which serves a
diverse men's community
(men's rights, mythopoetic, pro-feminist, recovery, re-evaluation
counseling, and spiritual). Menstuff has 65 columnist reporting on a
weekly or monthly basis. Menstuff lists thousands of on-site men's
book reviews & covers, men's resources and hyperlinks and
hundreds of events, periodicals and groups. It provides information
on hundreds of men's issues regarding positive change in male roles
and relationships (including aging,
circumcision,
divorce,
fathers, health,
kidstuff, mid-life,
multicultural,
prostate cancer,
relationship, sexuality,
spirituality,
testicular cancer,
violence,
work, and much
more.) We always provide the original source of our mateial. However,
as weeks, months or years go by, many of those sources end. If it
wasn't for Menstuff.org, much of that information would be lost
forever. Therefore, if you find a broken link, realize that this is
probably what happened. We leave the broken link there so you know
the original source of the information.
Menstuff holds a 4-star rating with Britannica.com.
(See our Position
Statement.) (Homepage)
Linking to Us
If you have or know of a web site one men's issues, please let us
know. One of the important ways we can help each other and those out
there who are in need of our information, is to provide hyperlinks to
other related sites. If you would like to add us to your site, please
go to Link to Us. It's easy and will help
us in our mission to end men's isolation. Thanks.
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Scroll Down Our Side Bar
The first thing we suggest is to scroll down our left side bar to see
all of the pages and options available. We designed it this way so
that if you print out some of our information, you'll get full pages
of information rather than a lot of listings, banners, search
engines, etc. And, you'll use considerably less of your color
cartridge, too. (Homepage)
Lenny
We don't have a lot of graphics or pictures, because they take you
extra time to download. So, we use an icon that we lovingly call
"Lenny", so you can access secondary information that may be of less
importance to other visitors. At the start of many documents it is
often used to give information or to provide a graphic pertinent to
the issue. In the books by issue section, it calls up a copy of the
book cover (example Men's
Lives) next to the book review. In the books by issue section
under Cassettes: audio
or Cassettes: video,
a click will reveal the pertinent j-card cover. So, when you have the
time, click on the "Lenny" icon. It reveals something that Lenny
likes. Check it out! (Homepage)
"Today's" Daily Thoughts
A click on "Lenny" icon or a click on "Today" on side banner
will take you to our thoughts and issues for the day. At 12 mm, today
ends and a new day begins. With it comes the opportunity to move
backward, forward, or stay where you are in life. This section will
also change, bringing you information and inspiration (depending on
how you might look at it). Revisit to see what tomorrow has to offer.
What a great way to start the day! (Homepage)
Columns
We post 22 weekly columns inicluding Tom Blake
- Middle-Age
Relationships, Mark Brandenburg -
Great
Fathers, Armin Brott
- A Father's
Guide, Ken Byers - Transition,
Sandra L. Caron -
Sex
Talk, Otto & Susie Collins
- Susie
and Otto, David Copeland -
How
to Succeed with Women, Jed Diamond -
Irritable
Male Syndrome, Doc Love -
Women
Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen, Nancy
Fagan - Expert
Dating Advice, Tim Hartnett -
Daddyman
Speaks, Joe Kort - Gaydar,
Ron Louis - How
to Succeed with Women, Wendy McElroy
- Wendy
McElroy, Dennis W. Neder -
Being
a Man, Marty Nemko
- Worklife,
Carey Roberts - Socialism
& Feminism, Perry Rose -
Dating,
Relationships
or Sex;
Glenn Sacks - His
Side, Judith Sherven -
The
New Intimacy, Jim Sniechowski. -
The
New Intimacy, Don Steele -
Don
Steele; Bruce Van Horn -
Yoga
for Men and KC Wilson -
On
Gender Politics
We post 44 monthly columns including The
Advice Diva - The
Advice Diva, Reid Baer -
A Man
Overboard, Peter Alsop -
Songs;
Peter Baylies - At
Home Dads, Ted Braude -
BoysWork,
Sandra Caron - Sex
Talk; Layne & Paul Cutright
- Powerful
Partnerships, Ron DesMarais -
Cavemen
in the Kitchen, Barry
Durdant-Hollamby - Creating
Change, Irv Engel - The
Real Deal; Warren Farrell -
Men's
Issues, Leonard Felder -
Wake
Up or Break Up; Martin Friedman -
Strong
Man, Strong Marriage; Liz Halliday -
In
a Man's World; Kim Garretson -
MansGland,
Lion Goodman - How
to get Women to Love You; John
Hershey - Blood,
Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with
Humor, Gary Hoeber -
Soul
Work, Paul Joannides -
The
Guide to Getting It On, Jack Kahn -
NOMAS Boston;
David Kundtz - David
Kundtz, Bruce Linton -
Dr.
Dad, Robert N. Minor -
Minor
Details,
Eli Newberger - Eli
Newberger, Dan Millman - Way
of the Peaceful Warrior, Linda Nielsen -
Embracing
Your Father, Kathy Noll -
Bullies
and Youth Violence, Trudy Schuett -
Trudy
Schuett; Carl Schutt -
Circumcision;
Hugo Schwyzer - A Pro-Feminist's
Response; George Simons -
Bellicose
Veins, Andy Smith - The
Hard Hat Brotherhood; David Smith -
Fighting
Father Dave; Reena Sommer -
Custody,
David Steinberg - Comes
Naturally,
Steven Svoboda - Fatherhood,
Activism and the Law, Michael Taylor
- A
New Conversation with Men; Michael
Webb - Secrets
of Blissful Relationships,
Stuart Wilde - Stuart
Wilde: Dr.Williams -
Sex
Health,
and Words
Can Heal plus a informational
columns Health Tips,
Numbers, Q&A,
and Wuzup?! that we
hope you will enjoy as well as a Surprise
columnist each month. Others will be added to this list. (Homepage)
Events for Men in Your State
Menstuff® Events Calendar lists hundreds of men’s events
through the next 12 months. To find what's happening in your state,
go to the Calendar and
click on the month you want to check out. State codes appear to
the far left of the first line of each listing. If there is an event
in the state this month, a click on the state code will bring up the
first one. You will have to scroll down from there to see if there
are other events in your state during that month. Or, use our search
engine in the left sidebar. Type in the two-letter state code. It
will bring up everything with the state code, including events and
even your state representatives. Click on those months you're
interested in where it says "Men's Events - (the month)". When it
brings up the month, click on the state code. Event listings are
updated at least monthly. You can also find events by type
and by title.
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To Contact Us
There are several important differences in ways to contact us. For
general messages, use the Contact
Us email at the bottom of the side bar. If you want to add a
group, event, or other information to the site, click on "Feedback"
on the side bar and go to the appropriate form. However, if you have
a comment or want to suggest a change of address, web site or e-mail
on the page you are looking at, go to the email address at the
bottom of that page. This really helps us find
the location relating to your comments and make the appropriate
changes. (Homepage)
Snippets
They are everywhere but are usually hanging on to the very end of a
page. Some call them scratchings, which is Italian for graffiti.
Evidence of snippets goes back to early Roman and Greek times. Ours
don't go back that far but we hope you will enjoy them anyway. Share
your snippets with us at Snippets.
We love original ones, but your favorites come in a close second.
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Under
construction.
Where this symbol is used, we are still developing that sector and
can used information, resources, and books on the issue. (Homepage)
Fatherstuff™
Directory
This is a section of our web site that provides a site map for
father's, their issues, and resources and books pertinent to their
issues. Most men and father's organizations doing father's work are
terribly under-funded and under-staffed. They are often the last
eligible to get funding, if at all. Instead of men's work increasing,
it is actually decreasing. For many years the work has been done by
very few men, usually fathers who want to insure that someone was
there for you when you needed them. For many of these hard-working
men, men who have donated countless hours and many dollars out of
their own pockets, the support hasn't been there and the fire has
gone out.
For all of you who have received support from men, it's time to
give back. It's time to commit to be there for those fathers who
haven't asked for help yet. For, if you don't, not only may they not
get the help they need, but there might not be anyone left if you
need help again. Take this time to go through our Resource
directory and find an organization that you could contribute time
and/or money to. Or Volunteers.
We all have opportunities, many that can be done from the comfort of
your own home. Volunteer and contribute to men's work while these
important services still exist. (Homepage)
Kidstuff™
Directory
This is a section of our web site that provides a site map for
father's around issues, resources and books pertinent to their
children.
Healthstuff™
Directory
This is a section of our web site that provides a site map for men
around issues, resources and books pertinent to their health.
Men's
Issues™ Directory
This is a section of our web site that provides a site map for men
around hundreds of issues, resources and books specific to men.
Relationstuff™
Directory
This is a section of our web site that provides a site map for men
around issues, resources and books pertinent to a variety of types of
relationships.
Let's Talk about
Sex™ Directory
This is a section of our web site that provides a site map for men
around issues, resources and books pertinent to a variety of issues
around sexuality.
Women in
Racing™
This site lists over 2,000 women racers who have or currently race
against men as well as providing lots of information on how to get
into racing, racing schools and resources. It is designed to
encourage fathers to support their daughters in male-dominated
sports, if that's what THEY want to do.
Prostate Cancer
Awareness 
Directory
This is a separate web site that has selected many of the sections at
Menstuff.org to provide a site map for men over 40 around issues,
resources and books concerning Prostate Cancer.
Testicular Cancer
Awareness
Directory
This is a separate web site that has selected many of the sections at
Menstuff.org to provide a site map for boys/men from puberty to 40
around issues, resources and books concerning Testicular Cancer.
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For all of you who have received support from men, it's time to
give back. It's time to commit to be there for those men who haven't
asked for help yet. For, if you don't, not only may they not get the
help they need, but there might not be anyone left if you need help
again. Take this time to go through our Resource
directory and find an organization that you could contribute time
and/or money to. Or Volunteers.
We all have opportunities, many that can be done from the comfort of
your own home. Volunteer and contribute to men's work while these
important services still exist. (Homepage)
Bye for Now
Our web site is pretty clear when you are going to be leaving to
visit another web site since we usually provide the complete URL and
don't make a habit of hiding it behind a title or burying it within
our own URL. However, in some situations, we have used a subject
title as the link. As we locate these situations within our site, you
will see more of this icon. It simply means that by clicking on the
accompanying hyperlink, you will be leaving our site for another
site.(Homepage)
Notice
We are "menstuff.org" and "mensstuff.org". We have no
connection with "menstuff.com" or "mensstuff.com". Type carefully -
we are "menstuff" followed by ".org". Thanks and happy surfing!
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Men represent 98% of firefighters,
96% of truck drivers, 96% of prison inmates, 96% of school
superintendents, 96% of law enforcement officers who are killed
(while only representing 89% of police and detectives), 93% of
engineers (87% of new engineers), 91% of dentists (77% of new
dentists), 91% of fishers, hunters, and trappers, 87% of persons
arrested for offenses against family and children, 85% of doctors
(69% of new doctors), and 78% farm workers (and 85% of migrant
farm workers). Eighty-four percent of men think a father's role in
raising children is just as important as the mother's. We are the
majority of the homeless, unemployables, and addicts. And, we out-die
women in all top fifteen major causes of death to give us a seven
year shorter life span. Let's all come out of isolation and start
doing something about this!
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