. PICKS OF THE WEEK BOOK ACTION Emergency Resources - Crisis, Suicide, Runaway here Check out the 25 weekly and 41 monthly columns Review 44 Current Men's Publications and Newsletters Access Previous months' Homepages 3,235,875 April Hits Interview of the Month Neil Chethik New Columnist Andy Smith Daily Newsletter Free sign-up Weather Roads Gas Prices Movie Reviews Men's Reviews Our Blog WEEKLY NEWSBYTES - Updated 5/1/06 Jeff Foxworthy Sums Up what being a Father is All About Don't Ignore Migraines in Teenagers Tribal President Cecelia Fire Thunder Speaks Women Set to Outlive Men Worldwide Debra Lafave is Engaged   Stop Underage Drinking: A Town Hall Meeting Near You WEEKLY & MONTHLY COLUMNS Fatherstuff | Healthstuff | Menstuff | Relationstuff | Sexstuff Armin Brott Warren Farrell Jed Diamond Sandra L. 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Walter Lippmann (1898-1974)  Fatherhood, like marriage, is a constant struggle against your limitations and self-interests. But the urge to be a perfect father is there, because your child is a perfect gift. --Kent Nerburn, from Letters to My Son Amnesia is the handmaiden of hypocrisy. -- Francis Wheen The life of man is like a game with dice; if you don’t get the throw you want, you must show your skill in making the best of the throw you get. -- Terence I am convinced that the world is not a mere bog in which men and women trample themselves and die. Something magnificent is taking place here amidst the cruelties and tragedies, and the supreme challenge to intelligence is that of making the noblest and best in our curious heritage prevail. -- C.A. Beard The next time you notice yourself 'giving in' to your woman, postponing your mission and denying your true purpose in order to spend time with her, stop. Tell your woman that you love her, but you cannot deny your heart's purpose. Tell her that you will spend 30 minutes (or some specific time) with her in absolute attention and total presence, but then you must return to carry on your mission. -- David Deida If the word has the potency to revive and make us free, it has also the power to blind, imprison, and destroy. - Ralph Ellison Character is an essential tendency. It can be covered up, it can be messed with, it can be screwed around with, but it can't be ultimately changed. It's like the structure of our bones, the blood that runs through our veins. - Sam Shepard CONTINUEING ACTIONS   Dodge Glorifies Women Headbutting Men Raise your voice. Wear the tag The Trouble with Boys Dove Self-Esteem Fund Qantas Tags All Men as Potential Molesters PBS's Assault on Fathers Dior Markets 'Addict 2' Fragrance to Teen Girls New Orleans Times-Picayune Makes Fun of DV Home Depot makes Toxic Choices DishNetwork Promotes Violence Against Men People Magazine Makes a Pedophile a Star American Greeting Sticks it to Men Paris Hilton Washes Cars for Carl's Jr. Durex - Bravo for this Caped Crusader Wal-Mart Continues to Encourage 'No Boundaries" FedEx/Fox find a Kick in the Groin Funny Fred Meyer and the Stupid Factory MGA Promotes Blind-Date Play for 6-Year-Olds Television Networks Refuse Religious Commercial Verizon tells fathers to "Leave Your Daughter Alone" A & F is for Losers The Pill - A Woman's Only Issue? Watch Out - The New "Shell" Game can Cost You - Big Time Kidnapping Children May Become Legal in California New Potter Movie Condones Domestic Violence Fred Meyer Sells "Boys are Smelley" Products Child Supermodel Site is Questionable Wal-Mart Continues to Encourage "No Boundaries" for Young Girls" Commercial List Brokers Target Children Boys Are Stupid & Happy Bunny Campaigns FATHERSTUFF FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week Mark Brandenburg - Oh No, the Sex Talk Ted Braude - Boys Say It Like It Is Armin Brott - When the Father Becomes the Child Tim Hartnett - Spoiling the kids John Hershey - You've got to fight for your right to garden Liz Halliday - In a Man's World Independent Means - You Took Her to Work -- Now What? Eleven Ways to Make Your Daughter Money Smart Year 'Round Bruce Linton - When Men Become Fathers Linda Nielsen - Helping Daughters Embrace Their Relationships with Their Fathers Kathy Noll - What can Schools do to Help Stop Bullies & Violence? Mark Phillips - Giving the World the Finger David B. Smith - Boys will be Boys or 'why men love to Fight' Reena Sommer - Infidelity - Again! It Can Happen to You More Than Once HEALTHSTUFF FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week Ken Byers - Herstory/History Jed Diamond - The Irritable Male Syndrome: Up Close and Personal Kim Garretson - Man's Gland Peril Health Tips - Be Ready with First Aid David Kuntz - Talking About It Bruce Van Horne - Understanding Belief Systems That Bind Us To Materialism Words Can Heal - Florence Henderson’s Mother’s Day Tips MENSTUFF ISSUES FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week Reid Baer - Interview with Neil Chethik Calendar of Events - May Ron DesMarais - Salads and Soups - Miso Horny Soup Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Meditation - Change Tool Number 1! Warren Farrell - Why Men Earn More: 11 Top Tips on How Women Can Earn Mor Wendy McElroy - Muslim Woman's Courage Sets Example Marty Nemko - Why So Few Women Are in the Boardroom Eli Newberger - Discipline and Punishment Numbers - Do You Refer to Your Mate by Any Special or Pet Name? Q&A - Whether the Baby's Bellybutton is an "Inny" or an "Outy" Depends on how the Doctor Cut the Umbilical Cord Carey Roberts - Women's Health Hoax Glenn Sacks - Domestic Violence Series Substitutes Emotion for Facts George Simons - Manifest Destiny—the Promised Land is Everywhere Surprise - Undoing the Damage of Male-Bashing, One Daughter at a Time Stuart Wilde - An Awesome Journey K.C. Wilson - Fathers and Religious Practice RELATIONSTUFF FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week The Advice Diva - Psycho or Jealous? Tom Blake - Marriage or Live Together? Otto & Susie Collins - A Matter of Choice David Copeland & Ron Louis - Approaching Groups of Women Layne & Paul Cutright - Designing for Trust DocLove - Would George Clooney ever Give away His Love Strategies? Irv Engel - Defining Real Relationships Nancy Fagan - Uniquely Yours: Wedding Vows Marty Friedman - “A”, “I” or “H” - What Kind of Marriage Do You Have? Lion Goodman - Technique #11: Show Up Dennis W. Neder - Grow Yourself, Grow Your Relationship Judith Sherven & Jim Sniechowski - Finding a Soul Mate Andy Smith - The HHBrotherhood: A Complete Lack of Elegance Don Steele - Use birth control pills or nosex? Michael Webb - How to Find (or Keep) a Spouse SEXSTUFF FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week Sandra L. Caron - Is it normal for a person in a relationship to masturbate? Leonard Felder - What to do When You're Tempted to Stray Paul Joannides - Watching Porn Joe Kort - Your Sexual Map Robert N. Minor - Will We Clean Up the Messes We’ve Made? David Steinberg - Looking Back over One Year: A Photographic Remembrance of San Francisco's Same-Sex Marriage Revolt Dr. Williams - Be your own Testosterone Factory - Part 1 COLUMNS BY AUTHOR Sixty-six columns. Twenty-one joined us in 2004, thirteen in 2005 and one in 2006. Monthly; Weekly The Advice Diva - The Advice Diva Reid Baer - A Man Overboard Peter Baylies - At Home Dads Tom Blake - Middle-Age Relationships Mark Brandenburg - Great Fathers Ted Braude - BoysWork Armin Brott - A Father's Guide Ken Byers - Transition Sandra L. Caron - Sex Talk Otto & Susie Collins - Susie and Otto David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women Layne & Paul Cutright - Powerful Partnerships Ron DesMarais - Cavemen in the Kitchen Jed Diamond - Irritable Male Syndrome Doc Love - Women Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Change Irv Engel - The Real Deal Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice Warren Farrell - Men's Issues: Facts and Perspectives Leonard Felder - Wake Up or Break Up Marty Friedman - Strong Men, Strone Marriage Kim Garretson - MansGland Lion Goodman - How to get Women to Love You Liz Halliday - In a Man's World Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks John Hershey - Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor Gary Hoeber - Psychotherapy as Soul Work Paul Joannides - The Guide to Getting It On Joe Kort - Gaydar David Kundtz - David Kundtz Bruce Linton - Dr. Dad Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy Robert N. Minor - Minor Details Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man Marty Nemko - Worklife Eli Newberger - Eli Newberger Linda Nielsen - Embracing Your Father Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex Glenn Sacks - His Side Trudy Schuett - Domestic Violence Carl J. Schutt - Circumcision Hugo Schwyzer - A Pro-feminist's Response Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy George Simons - Bellicose Veins Andy Smith - Hard Hat Brotherhood David B. Smith - Fighting Father Dave Jim Sniechowski. - The New Intimacy Reena Sommer - Custody R. Don Steele - Don Steele David Steinberg - Comes Naturally Surprise - Pillar Strength Steven Svoboda - Fatherhood, Activism and the Law Bruce Van Horn - Yoga for Men Michael Webb - Secrets of Blissful Relationships Stuart Wilde - Spirituality Dr.Williams - Sex Health KC Wilson - On Gender Politics *     *     * It is most dangerous to lead as the head of the world if we don't use our heart. 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