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Winter, after all, gives way to spring and summer, though sometimes when branches stay dark and the earth cracks with ice, one thinks they will never come, that spring, and that summer, but they do, and always. - Truman Capote Each man takes care that his neighbor shall not cheat him. But a day comes when he begins to care that he does not cheat his neighbor. Then all goes well. He has changed his market cart into a chariot of the sun. - Ralph Waldo Emerson "Perhaps real wisdom lies in not seeking answers at all. Any answer we find will not be true for long. An answer is a place where we can fall asleep as life moves past us to its next question. After all these years I have begun to wonder if the secret of living well is not in having all the answers, but in pursuing unanswerable questions in good company." from My Grandfather's Blessings by Rachel Naomi Remen We are healed of a suffering only by experiencing it to the full. - Marcel Proust If something makes me uncomfortable,or scares me, I have to surround myself with it and get to understand its shape. Then it can't affect me. - David Wojnarowicz As often as we do good we sacrifice. - Thomas Fuller An actor is a guy who, if you ain't talking about him, he ain't listening. - Marlon Brando This world is white no longer, and it will never be white again. - James Baldwin Don't condescend to unskilled labor. Try it for a half a day first. - Brooks Atkinson God enters by a private door into every individual. - Ralph Waldo Emerson FATHERSTUFF FOR APRIL Monthly; New this Week Mark Brandenburg - Should Parents Reward Their Children? Ted Braude - Boys Are Focused Armin Brott - 2nd Child Neil Chethik - What Sons Need From Their Dads Tim Hartnett - Parenting is challenging John Hershey - Inch by Inch, Row by Row: When is this Stupid Plant Going to Grow? Patrick Houser - Chapter 3. Freeing the Father - Preparation Independent Means - How to Make the Ms. Foundation's Take Our Daughter's to Work Day® a Lasting Experience Bruce Linton - Rites of Spring: Hardball, Softball and Gender Linda Nielsen - Father-Daughter Friendly Schools Kathy Noll - Should the School Contact the Bully's Parents? Mark Phillips - Baby Soups an’ Plip Plops David B. Smith - The Pain of Non-Custodial Fatherhood Reena Sommer - Parental Alienation Syndrome: The Problem Mary Lou St Lucas - Honey, we need to talk HEALTHSTUFF FOR APRIL Monthly; New this Week Ken Byers - Excellence vs. Perfection Jed Diamond - The Irritable Male Syndrome: A Multi-Dimensional Problem in Life - 2 Kim Garretson - The Shots Derriere Derringer Health Tips - Care for Our Planet David Kuntz - The Way a Man Feels Bruce Van Horne - The Right Season & Synchronicity Words Can Heal - An Open Letter from a Parent MENSTUFF ISSUES FOR APRIL Monthly; New this Week Peter Alsop - Kids Songs Reid Baer - Interview with George Daranyi Reid Baer - Poetry Molly Barrow - Talking to your Teenager Calendar of Events - April Ron DesMarais - Bruschetta Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Time Warren Farrell - Ch. 3: What the All-Male Draft and the Combat Exclusion of Women Tell Us About Men, Women and Feminism Wendy McElroy - Cosby Case Shows Media's Marty Nemko - In Defense of Men Eli Newberger - The Key to a Man's Health - A Woman Numbers - Would You Be Embarrassed to Buy Condoms from a Salesperson of the Other Sex? Q&A - We are More Romantic and Conceive more Babies During the Full Moon Carey Roberts - The Sad Spectacle of Dee Dee Myers Glenn Sacks - The 'Gray' Divorcee: Sometimes it's husbands getting dumped George Simons - Testosterone Poisoning Surprise - Tie Up Loose Ends or Find Yourself in Knots Michael Taylor - A New Conversation about Faith Stuart Wilde - Heart Waves K.C. Wilson - Replace “Best Interest of the Child” with “Protect and Support the Child’s Family” RELATIONSTUFF FOR APRIL Monthly; New this Week The Advice Diva - Thou Shalt Not Snoop Tom Blake - Men respond to the age lying issue Otto & Susie Collins - Are You Better or Worse Than You Think At This? David Copeland & Ron Louis - Getting Women to Lose Weight Layne & Paul Cutright - How to Create Healthy Boundaries in Relationships DocLove - Is Angelina too "Touchy" for Brad? Irv Engel - What is your relationship with YOU? Nancy Fagan - The Kiss Goodnight Marty Friedman - From Marriage to Dating: Changing Old Habits Lion Goodman - Technique #11: Enjoy Her Dennis W. Neder - Interviewing For the Love of Your Life Judith Sherven & Jim Sniechowski - Is Love Magical? You Bet! Andy Smith - Self Realization For Men or How We Can Be Our Own Worst Enemy Don Steele - Online Romance Michael Webb - Collecting Dust SEXSTUFF FOR APRIL Monthly; New this Week Sandra L. Caron - What is emergency contraception? Leonard Felder - Were You Told Sex is Holy or Nasty? Paul Joannides - Uncircumcised Penis - A Turn On Joe Kort - Homosexuality and Pedophilia: The False link Robert N. Minor - Let’s Talk About the Religious Addicts in McCain’s Lif David Steinberg - Exploring the Gender Frontier Dr. Williams - Testosterone - Follow-up CONTINUEING ACTIONS   Bimbo City delivers poor messages Bikini clad girl gives Timberlake a "suck-job" on the Super Bowl From the Kinky Folks Who Brought Us 'No Boundaries' Panties for Teen Girls Wal Mart tells junior girls to kick, hit, spray bug spray in boys' faces Albertsons' Thinks Violence is Funny Nordstrom Heeds Call Anheuser-Busch Wants to Spyke Up Your Life Wal Mart Continues to Encourage 'No Boundaries" msn.com Promotes False Circumcision Story! Dodge Glorifies Women Headbutting Men Raise your voice. Wear the tag The Trouble with Boys Dove Self-Esteem Fund Qantas Tags All Men as Potential Molesters PBS's Assault on Fathers Dior Markets 'Addict 2' Fragrance to Teen Girls New Orleans Times-Picayune Makes Fun of DV Home Depot makes Toxic Choices DishNetwork Promotes Violence Against Men People Magazine Makes a Pedophile a Star American Greeting Sticks it to Men Paris Hilton Washes Cars for Carl's Jr. Durex - Bravo for this Caped Crusader FedEx/Fox find a Kick in the Groin Funny Fred Meyer and the Stupid Factory MGA Promotes Blind-Date Play for 6-Year-Olds Television Networks Refuse Religious Commercial Verizon tells fathers to "Leave Your Daughter Alone" A & F is for Losers The Pill - A Woman's Only Issue? Watch Out - The New "Shell" Game can Cost You - Big Time Kidnapping Children May Become Legal in California New Potter Movie Condones Domestic Violence Fred Meyer Sells "Boys are Smelley" Products Child Supermodel Site is Questionable Wal-Mart Continues to Encourage "No Boundaries" for Young Girls" Commercial List Brokers Target Children Boys Are Stupid & Happy Bunny Campaigns COLUMNS BY AUTHOR Seventy-one columns. Monthly; Weekly The Advice Diva - The Advice Diva Peter Alsop - Songs Reid Baer - A Man Overboard Reid Baer - Poetry Molly Barrow - Shrink About This Peter Baylies - At Home Dads Tom Blake - Middle-Age Relationships Mark Brandenburg - Great Fathers Ted Braude - BoysWork Armin Brott - A Father's Guide Dan Bulf - Get Real Ken Byers - Transition Sandra L. Caron - Sex Talk Neil Chethik - Relationship Otto & Susie Collins - Susie and Otto David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women Layne & Paul Cutright - Powerful Partnerships Ron DesMarais - Cavemen in the Kitchen Jed Diamond - Irritable Male Syndrome Doc Love - Women Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Change Irv Engel - The Real Deal Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice Warren Farrell - Does Feminism Discriminate Against Men? A Debate Leonard Felder - Wake Up or Break Up Marty Friedman - Strong Men, Strone Marriage Kim Garretson - MansGland Lion Goodman - How to get Women to Love You Liz Halliday - In a Man's World Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks John Hershey - Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor Gary Hoeber - Psychotherapy as Soul Work Patrick Houser - Fathers Make a World of Difference Paul Joannides - The Guide to Getting It On Jack Kahn - NOMAS Boston Joe Kort - Gaydar David Kundtz - David Kundtz Bruce Linton - Dr. Dad Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy Robert N. Minor - Minor Details Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man Marty Nemko - Worklife Eli Newberger - Eli Newberger Linda Nielsen - Embracing Your Father Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex Glenn Sacks - His Side Trudy Schuett - Domestic Violence Carl J. Schutt - Circumcision Hugo Schwyzer - A Pro-feminist's Response Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy George Simons - Bellicose Veins Andy Smith - Hard Hat Brotherhood David B. Smith - Fighting Father Dave Jim Sniechowski. - Judith & Jim Jim Sniechowski. - The New Intimacy Reena Sommer - Custody R. 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