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Questions Numbers Health Tips ! @ ? # & IMPORTANT WEB SITES World AIDS Day Mencare No Circumcision Prostate Cancer Testicular Cancer So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable, and then, when we summon the will, they soon become inevitable. - Christopher Reeve True happiness is not attained through self-gratification, but through fidelity to a worthy purpose. -- Helen Keller (1880-1968) American Writer If you have made mistakes...there is always another chance for you...you may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call "failure" is not the falling down, but the staying down. -- Mary Pickford (1893-1979) Canadian Actress How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving, and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these. -- George Washington Carver Great sex is the place where many people taste bliss, to one degree or another. You can taste it any time-during meditation, dance, prayer, sports, picnics, childbirth, death-anytime you are willing to be totally present and relax all hold on yourself while surrendering open as unlimited feeling. -- David Deida Who in the rainbow can draw the line where the violet tint ends and the orange tint begins?  Distinctly we see the difference of the colors, but where exactly does the first one blendingly enter into the other? So with sanity and insanity. - Herman Melville INone of us can stand other people having the same faults as ourselves. - Oscar Wilde Children have never been very good at listening to their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them. - James Baldwin The lion and calf shall lie down together but the calf won't get much sleep. - Woody Allen A large part of altruism, even when it is perfectly honest, is grounded upon the fact that it is uncomfortable to have unhappy people about one. - H. L. Mencken FATHERSTUFF FOR JULY Monthly; New this Week Mark Brandenburg - Say you're sorry - mean it Ted Braude - Sensitive and Strong - Part Two Armin Brott - On Not Being a Disneyland Dad Tim Hartnett - Getting Dragged Along John Hershey - Compost is vital to our gardens, our national security, and even our celebrities! Independent Means - MoonJar Bruce Linton - How a Baby Changes the Couple's Relationship Linda Nielsen - Demeaning and Demoralizing Divorced Dads Kathy Noll - What to do About Bullies Mark Phillips -Three Vacations David B. Smith - Why more priests need to train as fighters (and why we don't see many boxers in church) Reena Sommer - Developing a Joint Custody Arrangement Mary Lou St Lucas - "How did it get so late so soon? HEALTHSTUFF FOR JULY Monthly; New this Week Ken Byers - Rites of Passage Jed Diamond - The Many Masks of Male Depression Kim Garretson - Bladder Flinch Stories Health Tips - Be Sun-Smart David Kuntz - Three Steps to Emotional Fitness - Step 2 Bruce Van Horne - Dr. Andrew Weil Discusses the Benefits of Organic Foods Words Can Heal - The Roots of Gossip-Part 2 MENSTUFF ISSUES FOR JULY Monthly; New this Week Peter Alsop - Kids Songs Reid Baer - Interview with Fred Saldutti Reid Baer - Poetry Molly Barrow - Just Say Hi Calendar of Events - July Ron DesMarais - Things from the Water - Baked Halibut Barry Durdant-Hollamby - 'Challenging The Monkey' – Part 1 Warren Farrell - Ch. VI) The Politics and Psychology of Rape, Sex, and Love Wendy McElroy - Privacy: Throwing Babies Out with Bath Water Robert L. Moore - Your Ego Is Not the Villain Marty Nemko - Three Bad Employees Eli Newberger - Early Adolescence Numbers - What one part of your body do you consider your best? Q&A - If You're Not Quiet, You'' Wake the Baby Carey Roberts - Moms, Don’t Take Your Kids to an Abuse Shelter Glenn Sacks - California Senate Leader to Family Courts: Don't Consider Children's Best Interests George Simons - Our Passion for Passion Surprise - Did Phil Hartman Die from Congressionally-Sanctioned Discrimination? Michael Taylor - The Four Freedoms Stuart Wilde - Justice and Injustice K.C. Wilson - Don't Use Mediation for Divorce RELATIONSTUFF FOR JULY Monthly; New this Week The Advice Diva - Tick Tock Goes the Love Clock Tom Blake - A romance 30 years in the making Neil Chethik - What I Learned on My First Hunting Trip Otto & Susie Collins - How to release past hurts and betrayals inorder to gain more trust in your relationship David Copeland & Ron Louis - Being "Friends" First Layne & Paul Cutright - The Healing Power of Love, Some Unexpected Surprises DocLove - How Does Colin Farrell Handle the Older Ones? Irv Engel - The Rest of the Story Nancy Fagan - Strange Sexual Practices Marty Friedman - Assessment for Men in Marriage Lion Goodman - Have Some Body Dennis W. Neder - Sexless Relationship, Missing Boyfriend Judith Sherven & Jim Sniechowski - The Magic Wisdom of Love Andy Smith - Have fun, Live longer Don Steele - Her Boyfriend Stays Over on Weekends Michael Webb - Is Your Freezer Full? SEXSTUFF FOR JULY Monthly; New this Week Sandra L. Caron - Why Do Women Always Want Serious Commitments Leonard Felder - Smooth Out the Initiation of Intimacy Paul Joannides - Tears on the tip of his foreskin Joe Kort - What About Gay Children Robert N. Minor - Target: Michelle Obama David Steinberg - Two Hundred Pounds of Fun Dr. Williams - Testosterone - Part 3 - Be your own Testosterone Factory CONTINUEING ACTIONS   JC Penney's "Teen Sex" Ad The Boys at Rotten Cotton promote rape Bimbo City delivers poor messages Bikini clad girl gives Timberlake a "suck-job" on the Super Bowl From the Kinky Folks Who Brought Us 'No Boundaries' Panties for Teen Girls Wal Mart tells junior girls to kick, hit, spray bug spray in boys' faces Albertsons' Thinks Violence is Funny Nordstrom Heeds Call Anheuser-Busch Wants to Spyke Up Your Life Wal Mart Continues to Encourage 'No Boundaries" msn.com Promotes False Circumcision Story! Dodge Glorifies Women Headbutting Men Raise your voice. Wear the tag The Trouble with Boys Dove Self-Esteem Fund Qantas Tags All Men as Potential Molesters PBS's Assault on Fathers Dior Markets 'Addict 2' Fragrance to Teen Girls New Orleans Times-Picayune Makes Fun of DV Home Depot makes Toxic Choices DishNetwork Promotes Violence Against Men People Magazine Makes a Pedophile a Star American Greeting Sticks it to Men Paris Hilton Washes Cars for Carl's Jr. Durex - Bravo for this Caped Crusader FedEx/Fox find a Kick in the Groin Funny Fred Meyer and the Stupid Factory MGA Promotes Blind-Date Play for 6-Year-Olds Television Networks Refuse Religious Commercial Verizon tells fathers to "Leave Your Daughter Alone" A & F is for Losers The Pill - A Woman's Only Issue? Watch Out - The New "Shell" Game can Cost You - Big Time Kidnapping Children May Become Legal in California New Potter Movie Condones Domestic Violence Fred Meyer Sells "Boys are Smelley" Products Child Supermodel Site is Questionable Wal-Mart Continues to Encourage "No Boundaries" for Young Girls" Commercial List Brokers Target Children Boys Are Stupid & Happy Bunny Campaigns COLUMNS BY AUTHOR Seventy-one columns. Monthly; Weekly The Advice Diva - The Advice Diva Peter Alsop - Songs Reid Baer - A Man Overboard Reid Baer - Poetry Molly Barrow - Shrink About This Peter Baylies - At Home Dads Tom Blake - Middle-Age Relationships Mark Brandenburg - Great Fathers Ted Braude - BoysWork Armin Brott - A Father's Guide Dan Bulf - Get Real Ken Byers - Transition Sandra L. Caron - Sex Talk Neil Chethik - Relationship Otto & Susie Collins - Susie and Otto David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women Layne & Paul Cutright - Powerful Partnerships Ron DesMarais - Cavemen in the Kitchen Jed Diamond - Irritable Male Syndrome Doc Love - Women Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Change Irv Engel - The Real Deal Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice Warren Farrell - Does Feminism Discriminate Against Men? A Debate Leonard Felder - Wake Up or Break Up Marty Friedman - Strong Men, Strone Marriage Kim Garretson - MansGland Lion Goodman - How to get Women to Love You Liz Halliday - In a Man's World Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks John Hershey - Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor Gary Hoeber - Psychotherapy as Soul Work Patrick Houser - Fathers Make a World of Difference Paul Joannides - The Guide to Getting It On Jack Kahn - NOMAS Boston Joe Kort - Gaydar David Kundtz - David Kundtz Bruce Linton - Dr. Dad Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy Robert N. Minor - Minor Details Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man Marty Nemko - Worklife Eli Newberger - Eli Newberger Linda Nielsen - Embracing Your Father Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex Glenn Sacks - His Side Trudy Schuett - Domestic Violence Carl J. Schutt - Circumcision Hugo Schwyzer - A Pro-feminist's Response Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy George Simons - Bellicose Veins Andy Smith - Hard Hat Brotherhood David B. Smith - Fighting Father Dave Jim Sniechowski. - Judith & Jim Jim Sniechowski. - The New Intimacy Reena Sommer - Custody R. Don Steele - Don Steele David Steinberg - Comes Naturally Mary Lou St Lucas - A Mother's Love Surprise - Surprise Author Steven Svoboda - Fatherhood, Activism and the Law Michael Taylor - A New Conversation with Men Bruce Van Horn - Yoga for Men Michael Webb - Secrets of Blissful Relationships Stuart Wilde - Spirituality Dr.Williams - Sex Health KC Wilson - On Gender Politics *     *     * It is most dangerous to lead as the head of the world if we don't use our heart. Gordon Clay Contact Us | Disclaimer | Privacy Statement Menstuff® Directory Menstuff® was developed and is maintained by Gordon Clay Menstuff®, Mencare®, Fatherstuff™, Healthstuff™, Kidstuff™, Men's Issues Relationstuff™ , Sexstuff™ , Teensstuff ™, Men At Risk™ and Let's Talk about Sex™ are registered trademarks of Gordon Clay ©1996-2023, Gordon Clay