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Don Steele Reena Sommer Leonard Felder Patrick Houser Marriage Relationship Custody Sexuality Fathering Ron DesMarais Sandra Caron Eli Newberger Reid Baer Irv Engel Sexuality Men's Issues Interviews Relationship Dr. Williams NOMAS-Boston Barry Durdant-Hollamby David Steinberg The Advice Diva Sex Health Feminism Change Sexuality Relationship John Hershey Wendy McElroy Carl J Schutt David B. Smith Peter Baylies Parenting Humor Gender Circumcision Boys At Home Dads David Copeland & Ron Louis Words Can Heal Independent Means Get It On K C Wilson Relationship On Healing About Kids Sexuality Gender Surprise Wuzup?! Questions Numbers Health Tips ! @ ? # & IMPORTANT WEB SITES World AIDS Day Mencare No Circumcision Prostate Cancer Testicular Cancer Where all think alike, nobody thinks very much. Walter Lippmann (1898-1974)  Fatherhood, like marriage, is a constant struggle against your limitations and self-interests. But the urge to be a perfect father is there, because your child is a perfect gift. --Kent Nerburn, from Letters to My Son Amnesia is the handmaiden of hypocrisy. -- Francis Wheen The life of man is like a game with dice; if you don’t get the throw you want, you must show your skill in making the best of the throw you get. -- Terence I am convinced that the world is not a mere bog in which men and women trample themselves and die. Something magnificent is taking place here amidst the cruelties and tragedies, and the supreme challenge to intelligence is that of making the noblest and best in our curious heritage prevail. -- C.A. Beard The next time you notice yourself 'giving in' to your woman, postponing your mission and denying your true purpose in order to spend time with her, stop. Tell your woman that you love her, but you cannot deny your heart's purpose. Tell her that you will spend 30 minutes (or some specific time) with her in absolute attention and total presence, but then you must return to carry on your mission. -- David Deida If the word has the potency to revive and make us free, it has also the power to blind, imprison, and destroy. - Ralph Ellison Character is an essential tendency. It can be covered up, it can be messed with, it can be screwed around with, but it can't be ultimately changed. It's like the structure of our bones, the blood that runs through our veins. - Sam Shepard The wedding march always reminds me of the music played when soldiers go into battle. - Heinrich Heine FATHERSTUFF FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week Mark Brandenburg - The Top 10 Ways to Keep Your Kids from Fighting Ted Braude - Boys Say It Like It Is Armin Brott - Your Ever-Changing Relationship with Your Child Neil Chethik - Should We Circumcise Our Son? Tim Hartnett - On Dad's and Love John Hershey - You've got to fight for your right to garden Patrick Houser - Chapter 4. Beginning the Journey - Pregnancy Independent Means - You Took Her to Work -- Now What? Eleven Ways to Make Your Daughter Money Smart Year 'Round Bruce Linton - When Men Become Fathers Linda Nielsen - Helping Daughters Embrace Their Relationships with Their Fathers Kathy Noll - What can Schools do to Help Stop Bullies & Violence? Mark Phillips - A Few Reasons to Stay Home David B. Smith - Boys will be Boys or 'why men love to Fight' Reena Sommer - Infidelity - Again! It Can Happen to You More Than Once Mary Lou St Lucas - Mother's Day HEALTHSTUFF FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week Ken Byers - The Prisoner Jed Diamond - The Irritable Male Syndrome: Same problem, different View Kim Garretson - Man's Gland Peril Health Tips - Be Ready with First Aid David Kuntz - Talking About It Bruce Van Horne - Financial Security Words Can Heal - Dealing with Children Who are Different MENSTUFF ISSUES FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week Peter Alsop - Kids Songs Reid Baer - Interview with Chief Mel Lone Hill Reid Baer - Poetry Molly Barrow - Going Raw Calendar of Events - May Ron DesMarais - Salads and Soups - Miso Horny Soup Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Meditation - Change Tool Number 1! Warren Farrell - Ch. 4, Why Do Men Die Sooner and Whose Health is Being Neglected? Wendy McElroy - Mother Sues Cops For Failing to Protect Kids Marty Nemko - Lessons I Learned From My Father, Lessons I'd Teach My Child Eli Newberger - Discipline and Punishment Numbers - Do You Refer to Your Mate by Any Special or Pet Name? Q&A - Whether the Baby's Bellybutton is an "Inny" or an "Outy" Depends on how the Doctor Cut the Umbilical Cord Carey Roberts - Bigotry and Contempt at Taxpayer Expense Glenn Sacks - Do Women Really Want a Male Birth Control Pill? George - Manifest Destiny—the Promised Land is Everywhere Surprise - Undoing the Damage of Male-Bashing, One Daughter at a Time Michael Taylor - I Know I Love My Wife! Stuart Wilde - Lucid Dreams - Author unknown K.C. Wilson - “Rule of Thumb” Is the Crime RELATIONSTUFF FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week The Advice Diva - Psycho or Jealous? Tom Blake - It's unanimous: Judie should not lie about where she lives Neil Chethik - Should We Circumcise Our Son? Otto & Susie Collins - U-Turns, Reverses and Opening to new possibilities David Copeland & Ron Louis - Asking Women Out and Meeting Women Online Layne & Paul Cutright - Designing for Trust DocLove - Did Ashton Have to Convince Demi to Forget Bruce? Irv Engel - Defining Real Relationships Nancy Fagan - Break the Pattern of Abusive Men Marty Friedman - “A”, “I” or “H” - What Kind of Marriage Do You Have? Lion Goodman - Technique #11: Show Up Dennis W. Neder - Should I Call to Confirm a Date? Judith Sherven & Jim Sniechowski - Challenges, Change, and New Life Andy Smith - The HHBrotherhood: A Complete Lack of Elegance Don Steele - There are few, if any, accidents. Freud Michael Webb - How to Find (or Keep) a Spouse SEXSTUFF FOR MAY Monthly; New this Week Sandra L. Caron - How do I get a larger penis? Leonard Felder - What to do When You're Tempted to Stray Paul Joannides - Watching Porn Joe Kort - Sexual Addiction Robert N. Minor - We All Have Histories and More David Steinberg - Looking Back over One Year: A Photographic Remembrance of San Francisco's Same-Sex Marriage Revolt Dr. Williams - Be your own Testosterone Factory - Part 1 CONTINUEING ACTIONS   Bimbo City delivers poor messages Bikini clad girl gives Timberlake a "suck-job" on the Super Bowl From the Kinky Folks Who Brought Us 'No Boundaries' Panties for Teen Girls Wal Mart tells junior girls to kick, hit, spray bug spray in boys' faces Albertsons' Thinks Violence is Funny Nordstrom Heeds Call Anheuser-Busch Wants to Spyke Up Your Life Wal Mart Continues to Encourage 'No Boundaries" msn.com Promotes False Circumcision Story! Dodge Glorifies Women Headbutting Men Raise your voice. Wear the tag The Trouble with Boys Dove Self-Esteem Fund Qantas Tags All Men as Potential Molesters PBS's Assault on Fathers Dior Markets 'Addict 2' Fragrance to Teen Girls New Orleans Times-Picayune Makes Fun of DV Home Depot makes Toxic Choices DishNetwork Promotes Violence Against Men People Magazine Makes a Pedophile a Star American Greeting Sticks it to Men Paris Hilton Washes Cars for Carl's Jr. Durex - Bravo for this Caped Crusader FedEx/Fox find a Kick in the Groin Funny Fred Meyer and the Stupid Factory MGA Promotes Blind-Date Play for 6-Year-Olds Television Networks Refuse Religious Commercial Verizon tells fathers to "Leave Your Daughter Alone" A & F is for Losers The Pill - A Woman's Only Issue? Watch Out - The New "Shell" Game can Cost You - Big Time Kidnapping Children May Become Legal in California New Potter Movie Condones Domestic Violence Fred Meyer Sells "Boys are Smelley" Products Child Supermodel Site is Questionable Wal-Mart Continues to Encourage "No Boundaries" for Young Girls" Commercial List Brokers Target Children Boys Are Stupid & Happy Bunny Campaigns COLUMNS BY AUTHOR Seventy-one columns. Monthly; Weekly The Advice Diva - The Advice Diva Peter Alsop - Songs Reid Baer - A Man Overboard Reid Baer - Poetry Molly Barrow - Shrink About This Peter Baylies - At Home Dads Tom Blake - Middle-Age Relationships Mark Brandenburg - Great Fathers Ted Braude - BoysWork Armin Brott - A Father's Guide Dan Bulf - Get Real Ken Byers - Transition Sandra L. Caron - Sex Talk Neil Chethik - Relationship Otto & Susie Collins - Susie and Otto David Copeland - How to Succeed with Women Layne & Paul Cutright - Powerful Partnerships Ron DesMarais - Cavemen in the Kitchen Jed Diamond - Irritable Male Syndrome Doc Love - Women Don't Lie, Man Don't Listen Barry Durdant-Hollamby - Creating Change Irv Engel - The Real Deal Nancy Fagan - Expert Dating Advice Warren Farrell - Does Feminism Discriminate Against Men? A Debate Leonard Felder - Wake Up or Break Up Marty Friedman - Strong Men, Strone Marriage Kim Garretson - MansGland Lion Goodman - How to get Women to Love You Liz Halliday - In a Man's World Tim Hartnett - Daddyman Speaks John Hershey - Blood, Phlegm & Bile: Parenting with Humor Gary Hoeber - Psychotherapy as Soul Work Patrick Houser - Fathers Make a World of Difference Paul Joannides - The Guide to Getting It On Jack Kahn - NOMAS Boston Joe Kort - Gaydar David Kundtz - David Kundtz Bruce Linton - Dr. Dad Ron Louis - How to Succeed with Women Wendy McElroy - Wendy McElroy Robert N. Minor - Minor Details Robert L. Moore - Man & Mythology Dennis W. Neder - Being a Man Marty Nemko - Worklife Eli Newberger - Eli Newberger Linda Nielsen - Embracing Your Father Kathy Noll - Bullies and Youth Violence Mark Phillips - Stay-at-Home-Dads Carey Roberts - Socialism & Feminism Perry Rose - Dating, Relationship, Sex Glenn Sacks - His Side Trudy Schuett - Domestic Violence Carl J. Schutt - Circumcision Hugo Schwyzer - A Pro-feminist's Response Judith Sherven - Judith & Jim Judith Sherven - The New Intimacy George Simons - Bellicose Veins Andy Smith - Hard Hat Brotherhood David B. Smith - Fighting Father Dave Jim Sniechowski. - Judith & Jim Jim Sniechowski. - The New Intimacy Reena Sommer - Custody R. Don Steele - Don Steele David Steinberg - Comes Naturally Mary Lou St Lucas - A Mother's Love Surprise - Surprise Author Steven Svoboda - Fatherhood, Activism and the Law Michael Taylor - A New Conversation with Men Bruce Van Horn - Yoga for Men Michael Webb - Secrets of Blissful Relationships Stuart Wilde - Spirituality Dr.Williams - Sex Health KC Wilson - On Gender Politics *     *     * It is most dangerous to lead as the head of the world if we don't use our heart. Gordon Clay Contact Us | Disclaimer | Privacy Statement Menstuff® Directory Menstuff® was developed and is maintained by Gordon Clay Menstuff®, Mencare®, Fatherstuff™, Healthstuff™, Kidstuff™, Men's Issues Relationstuff™ , Sexstuff™ , Teensstuff ™, Men At Risk™ and Let's Talk about Sex™ are registered trademarks of Gordon Clay ©1996-2023, Gordon Clay